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For me, its the process of desperation and desperate peeing. I'm 50, been married to the same woman happily for a 30 years . She knows about my kinks,and sometimes indulges. She likes how her being desperate makes me want her, but her instincts are sometimes exactly opposite to mine. Her natural tendency is downplay and hide everything related to her need to pee, me wanting to hear her needing to pee. A good example was 2 weeks ago when we visited a concert. She visited toilet a 5pm, we arrived at the venue at 6 and during next 3 hours she consumed at least 1L of liquids. Around 9 i asked if she needs to pee before the main performer starts, she said no. We arrived home around midnight, i asked if she needs to pee badly, again the answer is "no, maybe a little". We go to bed and I feel her bladder, which might not be hyper-full, but at least 2/3. We have some sex and go to sleep, without her visiting the toilet. In the ideal world , i would like to hear whats going on. "I kinda have to pee" after first drinks, "i have to pee,but not enough to use the porta potties" before the band, "I really have to pee, but i'm not going here when we will be at home in 20minutes" with legs crossing and shifting, I need to go sooobad in the bed and when pushing her bladder. I'm waiting for an opportunity to bring this up again and try to convince her to be more vocal. About strangers and fetish- every attractive female brings the thought "what if she were really desperate". If I see her in supermarket, i imagine her whispering to her partner "lets go home quickly, i need to pee so bad" and they go home and she runs to the toilet and leaves the door open, allowing to observe the long hissy pee and look of satisfaction. Or running to the bushes in the concert so the partner could observe.. i would not be especially interested in looking just any pee - 5 sec trickle before long bus ride. I would be, if this is personally for me and comes with some other information, like the details of peeing with very tight dress or smth. I'm not a big event goer, but if a woman promises not to pee during the event and sips a drink, i could go with her to watch a paint dry. I even wouldn't need to be crazy desperate at the end, "i need to pee, but i can wait 1hour" would be good enough. -
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I was like you when I was younger, being very shy and private about bathroom issues and always wanting to do it behind a locked door, either at home or in a hotel room on vacation. I didn't even like the bathroom stalls in public bathrooms at school or other places and would usually try to hold it. I'm from the older generation, growing up in the 1970s and 1980s so I noticed that pretty much all the other boys my age where comfortable peeing in front of others in public bathrooms or outside (such as when camping). One clear memory was when I was nine and my father, my cousin and his father went camping in the mountains. My father never taught me how to pee outside so I was surprised when we parked at the trailhead and the three of them walked over to some trees at the edge, with not much cover, and started to pee. I was too embarrassed to join in so I tried to hold it as long as I could. I eventually had an accident on the trail, resulting in more embarrassment than if I'd just peed with the rest of them. The next morning when I had to pee again my dad told me to just go beyond the edge of the campsite out of sight, which I reluctantly did. About 30 seconds after I finished and got back to the campsite a whole troop of boy scouts marched into camp passing the exact spot where I had just peed. I was mortified! I came so close to being seen by all of them. It would have been so much easier for me if I had been less uptight and not cared who saw me pee and just did it when it was necessary, as long as the situation was appropriate, which it clearly was when camping. Unfortunately, that was a one off occurrence and I didn't loosen up about peeing until I got to college. My freshman year, about three months into the first semester my roommate commented in front of me and a whole group of guys from our floor in the dorm, "You know, I don't think I've ever seen [Niceguy1] use the urinal!" Again, I was mortified! I couldn't believe he called me out like that in front of all the guys. In our dorm, the two urinals had no dividers and everyone rounding the corner to the showers could clearly see you as you were peeing. But I knew well by that point in my life that it was expected that guys are comfortable peeing in front of others. It was simply considered unmanly to try and hide just to pee. So I knew then at that moment that I would have to make a change, and over the next few years I slowly forced myself to use urinals and get comfortable peeing around others. So I think that's what your mother is trying to gently communicate to you. She obviously loves you and realizes you didn't have many male role models showing you how it's done, so she's now trying to make up for that by letting you know it's not only OK to pee outside and in front of others, that it's really almost an unwritten rule that it's expected by other people in order for them to view you as a confident, well-adjusted guy. I would pay especially close attention to where she said that even girls expect you to be comfortable peeing around others. As you get older and go to college and go out to bars with your friends there will be occasions where everyone is together and decides to pee and you don't want to feel like the "odd man out" by holding back. For better or worse, it will be noticed by the others and it will make them perceive you as somehow weak or awkward. It's not fair, I definitely didn't like it as I was growing up and resisted as hard as I could, but it's the reality. So I'm encouraged that you've started to take your mother's advice and have expanded you "peeing horizons". It will definitely benefit you in the future and make you feel better about yourself. That's been the way with me anyway. You should be thankful that you have a relationship with your mother like you do. I unfortunately was never able to have conversations with my mother like that because of my extreme shyness at the time. There used to be an older woman who would post on here about issues like this. Her username was Beachmom and she had three sons of her own and raised them to be comfortable peeing around others like all the guys were when she was growing up in Eastern Europe in the 1970s. I would highly recommend that you read her old posts on this site because she has a lot of wisdom and experience and I think it would give you a lot of motivation and confidence to keep moving things forward with your own mom. Good luck with your journey! -
Great post. Thanks for sharing and I hope you will share more with us. I love how after the first evenings fun you drank lots and put on some bigger knickers for the next evening of watering. -
By MidoriLemonade85 · Posted
I have a 12 year old who prefers to pee in the garden and also pees in his school pants on washing day. He has autism…I think it is something that brings him joy but may have been inherited too.
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