Who's into desperation?

[jmatthews1995 3,654]

Hey all. I notice that this forum is mostly about peeing, and peeing in fun and naughty places. I love that sort of stuff, but I also love desperation.

From my point of view I love holding it, I love forcing my bladder to hold until the very end, the quivering muscles as I tense and try to hold back the flood. I also love watching videos of girls extremely desperate. The thought of her cute little pussy trying to stay clamped tight shut as the first little leaks spray into their panties! Adorable to see and so hot!

Are there others here that are into the desperation side of this fetish? Specially leading upto a full blown wetting?

Joe 😄

[wannawatchuwiggle 131]

Definitely ! A woman desperately holding it is one of the most arousing sights imho !!

[Chris50p 74]

I love to holding until i, m very desperate. I hold until the very last minute then try to run for the toilet. It’s even better for me if someone is watching.

[Transpeerant 346]

I’m definitely also into it. I like to hold and then masturbate when my bladder is feeling full. It makes the orgasm feel even better and I secretly hope at some point that my floodgates will open as I’m playing but it hasn’t quite happened yet lol. 
I do also like watching videos of others being desperate but in the shorter form. The videos that are like 10 minutes long of the “pee dance” just for 30 seconds of release kind of annoy me so I just skip to the last minute or two or find shorter videos. But those are my favorite to touch myself to and try to time my cumming with their release and kind of put it in my head that I’m the one letting that bursting pee out if that makes sense haha. It just makes it feel so much better to me!

[DoeHaze 483]

Absolutely yes, the desperation and then needing to find somewhere to piss NOW is a huge thing for me.

 

I'm into all genders desperation, I may have a pussy but also I'm a dude and it's fun to just hold til I cannot anymore and yank down my undies to piss somewhere, even if it's outside or not a toilet!

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

Definitely into desperation here.  I enjoy the feeling of an aching full bladder, just to the point of being painful.  I am not personally into wetting, so at that point, I quickly pull by cock out and let the powerful stream loose to make a huge puddle or fill whatever container is handy.

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

Oh yes, love desperation. Especially when a woman is covering her pussy with her hands like she's trying to stop herself leaking. It's even better when she can't and lets that lovely warm piss flow between her fingers and down her thighs......oh dear, I'm kinda getting exciting just typing this lol

[BGSB86 847]

The desperation is my favorite part! I love the aching pain of a full bladder, feeling like I could burst any second. Peeing while trying to undo my pants is a huge plus too

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

@Girllikespee you would have loved me yesterday, out on my bike in my usual tight lycra and having to hold as long as I could as I couldn't find anywhere to stop so I thought sod it, I'm already soaking from the rain so I just let myself go as I as pedalling along. The relief to finally let it all go felt soooo good I was moaning as I was going. The warm wet piss felt amazing as it filled my crouch and ran down my thigh, I wish I could have stopped right there and had a wank

[GenericUsername 1,110]

I’m sort of getting into a nightly routine of masturbating with a full bladder. It’s fun, but I wish I could pee in my room too.

[pee01 1,522]

I love holding it and I love desperation too. Feeling of holding it I like and I love felling of letting it go. I also love seeing and hearing women desperation to pee. 

The sounds when people finally pee are hot and I love hearing it.

[NotNowBob 52]

Desperation and accidents are my kink. Someone peeing themselves on purpose does very little for me and public peeing/golden showers, naughty peeing, etc. does literally nothing for me. To each their own, if that's their thing, but it's not what does it for me. 

You're right, this site leans towards the non-wetting side of the kink. Not entirely, but it absolutely leans that way. It's a very supportive and friendly space though.

With apologies for linking the competition, if you are looking for a board that leans the other way -- mostly wetting with a little of the rest -- try OmoOrg out: https://www.omorashi.org/

Taken together the two sites compliment each other very well.

[gldenwetgoose 21,500]

1 hour ago, NotNowBob said:

You're right, this site leans towards the non-wetting side of the kink. Not entirely, but it absolutely leans that way. It's a very supportive and friendly space though.

Glad you're finding it supportive and friendly - and worth noting that if the site does lean on particular way it's because that's the type of content people are posting.  No issues at all with more wetting being posted.

[weequeen 1,990]

I love the desperation side too, for both others and myself. When watching videos of others i'm not so much into seeing someone bounce around for 10 minutes (because way too long and also the amount is not that much and anti-climatic), but when it's obvious they are bursting and so so in need of a pee. for myself i like holding it until it aches and i can't help the spurts that are released. when my bladder is that full i also like to masturbate, it feels incredible

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

@weequeen I like to masterbate when I'm full too, I really like the feeling that I don't know whether I want too cum or piss when I'm full, it's a great feeling

[Bladderlad 824]

I love desperation, both my own and seeing other guys in that situation 😀

[Schmitty20 313]

Carissa is a good choice for favorite pee model in one of her videos she actually tells a true account where she totally peed in her pants by accident in her car because she couldn’t make it home in time. I would have loved to have been there to see that.

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

I am into desperation and holding, but likely because I get to enjoy a huge, relieving pee at the end.  I don't think I would be into it so much if that wasn't the case.  The only time I don't like it is in public situations.  Of course anything is better with a partner doing it along with me.

[M.Vixen 773]

Yes, online I definitely love it! Both men and women. Hard to explain exactly why though, but I’m like @Transpeerant I guess, I don’t like to see the whole 10 or maybe even 30 minutes leading up to the eventual relief. Mostly just the peeing part. It usually has a bit of an orgasm-vibe to it when someone had to go really bad and finally gets to go (I actually once told a guy I was dating that I like pee, and after thinking about it for a few seconds he replied with ‘oh.. allright, so…. you just like everything that comes out of a cock, basically? 🙂 ’  - never thought of it like that but yeah.. well.. he wasn’t wrong 🤷‍♀️😚). And me also being into the ‘naughty’ side, I really like it too when desperation leads to peeing in places other than a toilet/urinal 😈

Irl it very much depends on the circumstances. I have a bit of a desperation trauma/anxiety myself from when I was a kid so in general I almost always feel bad for the other person, especially if they are shy about it. Then again if the person is desperate but clearly doesn’t care much themselves.. 😌

 

[jmatthews1995 3,654]

1 hour ago, M.Vixen said:

Yes, online I definitely love it! Both men and women. Hard to explain exactly why though, but I’m like @Transpeerant I guess, I don’t like to see the whole 10 or maybe even 30 minutes leading up to the eventual relief. Mostly just the peeing part. It usually has a bit of an orgasm-vibe to it when someone had to go really bad and finally gets to go (I actually once told a guy I was dating that I like pee, and after thinking about it for a few seconds he replied with ‘oh.. allright, so…. you just like everything that comes out of a cock, basically? 🙂 ’  - never thought of it like that but yeah.. well.. he wasn’t wrong 🤷‍♀️😚). And me also being into the ‘naughty’ side, I really like it too when desperation leads to peeing in places other than a toilet/urinal.

I know what you mean. It often just feels like a really naughty lead up to something quite fun at the end! 😄 

1 hour ago, M.Vixen said:

Irl it very much depends on the circumstances. I have a bit of a desperation trauma/anxiety myself from when I was a kid so in general I almost always feel bad for the other person, especially if they are shy about it. Then again if the person is desperate but clearly doesn’t care much themselves.

 

This is also very true and I agree. Most girls I know I'd be really more concerned than excited when they are desperate as I know they are 100% not enjoying themselves. However, I do also have a couple of friends who are girls that are much more vocal about when they need to pee. I've sat and played xbox with a girl in the past while she put off and put off going to pee. I was thoroughly enjoying it and I'm sure she was too! She was laughing and joking about how bad she had to go but was dead focussed on keeping up her winning streak that she just sat cross legged and occasionally even put her hand between her legs for a second or two. I have to admit, I was seriously distracted! 🤣

[Purple_minion 56]

Desperation is what got me interested in this whole world. I enjoy pushing myself to the point that I just can’t hold it, the feeling of pure pleasure as all that pressure gets released is intoxicating. It’s of course made more fun by the correct context. Is less fun when it’s waiting in line at the amusement park or something although I do keep my eyes open at those moments to try and catch a glimpse of someone who might be a bit desperate. I’ve become found of holding with a partner. Giving each other challenges etc till someone finally caves. 

[hold_on 133]

I am - I have kind of an overactive bladder so it's a challenge for me to hold it very long.

[Peewee123 1,125]

I like to hold and build up a full bladder but it’s more so I can have longer fun releasing it more than the holding / desperation. However when it happens naturally, the relief to finally go is nearly orgasmic lol

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

1 hour ago, Peewee123 said:

I like to hold and build up a full bladder but it’s more so I can have longer fun releasing it more than the holding / desperation. However when it happens naturally, the relief to finally go is nearly orgasmic lol

I totally agree with the releaase is better than the holding.  Do you hold until the release is involuntary when you can't hold any more, or what do you mean by "naturally"?

Do you reach your limit with pain or urgency first?

I personally only hold until I feel a spasm or the pain is more than an mildly uncomfortble ache.

 

I intended this question to be for everyone.  @Peewee123's comment just inspired my questions about desperation.

Edited May 10, 2022 by DoctorDoctor
Forgot to ask everyone.

[Peewee123 1,125]

@DoctorDoctor when I said naturally I meant when I’m busy and haven’t been to the toilet and have “naturally” held rather than planning it. Then when the urge suddenly hits and you go, the release is such a relief it can feel amazing. 
I can’t go involuntarily, even when I’ve held to the point I can’t move or it’s agony, I don’t leak a drop. I think I’d cause damage before I had an accident, I just can’t see how an accident could happen (for me). 
i usually go when I feel the need to go, so urgency I guess. I’ve only got to the painful stage when seeing how much I can hold or when I’ve really not been able to get to a toilet and had to wait longer than wanted. Not something I have done often