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@Darlene Any idea what changed? It sounds like it changed suddenly. Did you bladder capacity change too?

I am an all the way to the feet guy, while seated.

Which situation gets which posture?

Beautiful, @swekiss thank you for sharing!

Let us know how it goes.

Nice, thick stream!

For me, wanting to pee means I can hold it a considerable time longer - 30 minutes to an hour if needed. (It is more of a nagging feeling in my bladder). Needing to pee means that I probably have less than 20 minutes before peeing becomes involuntary. @M.Vixen How much longer do you feel you can hold it when it becomes a "need"?

What is one body language gives you away when you are starting to get desperate to pee?

I believe the key is "have", not could (or may). There are still societal pressures - many of these are enforced by other women more than men. For example, women being topless. It has "supposedly" been legal in New York State, USA since 1992, but I have never witnessed a regular woman swimming or sunbathing topless, except at specialty nude beaches or a very few on the street going for a shock factor.

I am not sure how many mother (or fathers) are on this forum, but I read on some other non-fetish forums that (mostly) mothers have used their children's spare diapers or toilet training minature "potty" in desperate full bladder situations (such as being stuck in traffic, unavailable toilets, or to avoid waking sleeping children while traveling). When I read this, I thought it sounded pretty ingenius. Anyone know if this is a common thing or have any experiences they would like to share?

Being totally seasick for hours on a charter fishing boat full of guys while trying to stand upright and stop dry heaving long enough to pee over the rail.

I would be thinking about all of that water making its way to her bladder and needing out.

Interesting analysis. I do disagree with one observation you discussed - heterosexual men who pee in front of other men (or the same with heterosexual women) are not engaging in homosexual behavior. Even if it is a competition between the men. It is just men being competitive. We don't call women modeling sexy clothes in front of another woman homosexual.

Yes, we discussed. She always says she is not interested right then. So, I try again later in the week. Maybe I try to initiate once or twice a week. She never gives a good excuse. Either she truly isn't interested in sex or she has got a guy on the side. I just cannot see how anyone has no interest in sex, even if I am offering her oral. She NEVER initiates any activity. I may get a handjob once a month. As I said, if we split, she could try to get 1/2 my property and I am back in the dating world, I may be not even getting the handjob. LOL

I am just revisiting this thread to read any new responses. Nothing has improved in my sex life (or getting my needs met.) I am lucky to get any contact once per month. So my options are to move on from my present long-term GF or have a GF on the side. Neither are good options. (And, being shorter than average, far from large cities, and not great looking sure isn't good for online dating). Open to any suggestions from those of you who seem to have figured this out.