Member Updates Sad News

[steve25805 126,021]

@Admin has given the go ahead for this thread.

Although it has not yet been fully or officially confirmed, we have been looking into the absence of our mod, @wetmanjf. @2prnot2p in particular has been making use of his contacts, and it is looking likely at this point that Wetman may have passed away in January.

I invite 2prnot2p to make all he knows public, but it isn't looking good. Someone who looks very much like he could have been Wetman passed away in January.

If he is gone he will be missed.

[2prnot2p 1,066]

To @Admin , @steve25805 , and all Pee Fans:

I did my best to obtain all the information I could.  The end result was that I unintentionally angered someone at The Pool.  It's a long story, but here's what I found out.

A Mod at the Pool with the nickname jcz1 died in early January.  His sister emailed another Mod there to give him/her the news.  This person named jcz1 had the following in common with Wetman:

Name: John

Age: 59

Location: USA

Also, TVGuy told me that he seemed to recall that someone told him long ago that Wetman was a Mod at The Pool and used the nickname jcz1.  In addition, they both went missing at the same time, not answering emails, etc., from people that they normally kept in touch with.  His website disappearing was another red flag as he had his site for many years.  It didn't seem like he would just let it expire. 

With all the similarities, it's quite safe to assume that these two people, Wetman and jcz1, are the same person.  I feel very sad as I knew Wetman casually since about 2004.

He will be missed.  I absolutely hate being the messenger of such sad news.  I really do.

Edited April 23, 2019 by 2prnot2p

[speedy3471 10,655]

This is very sad indeed. I didn't know him that well, I wish knew him better. Very sad news indeed, he will be missed 

[spywareonya 37,961]

@Admin

@steve25805

@speedy3471

@2prnot2p

 

I am answering it since in the beginning I couldn't believe what I read

Deep inside I felt something strange but chose to ignore it

 

Wetman was an impossibly great human being

We have been PM heavily for a time, and he talked to me about a lot of great things

I don't feel like saying too much but he was into heart-touching stuff in his private life

 

 

I cannot adfirm I "knew" him but there was something extremely manly and almost dark in the intensity and stern-ness by which he faced life, there was this "Yes it sucks but how should it lead to quit? Life doesn't have the quit button" attitude in him, something that led me in worship of his moral strenght

 

I will miss hm for sure

He Leaves a silent, deep, but not because of this easy to hide, black void inside my heart

The only thing I can do is honouring his memory

I even thought about creating a serious thread for fallen Brothers, like Kevin (another 1-out-of-a-billion human) and Wetman, but I thought it could have been somehow gloomy

Yet, I will forever treasure in my heart all he was and all we shared

Edited April 23, 2019 by spywareonya

[2prnot2p 1,066]

Wetman's site disappeared recently, but you can still see it at the link below, thanks to the Way Back Machine.  In the Guestbook, you'll see where @David North and I both signed it as he reviewed our sites.  He did mine back in 2009.  He had a really cool site and you might enjoy browsing it.

Wetman's Place

Edited April 23, 2019 by 2prnot2p

[F.W 5,734]

Oh dear me no.

[steve25805 126,021]

7 hours ago, spywareonya said:

Wetman was an impossibly great human being

We have been PM heavily for a time, and he talked to me about a lot of great things

I don't feel like saying too much but he was into heart-touching stuff in his private life

Wetman and I for a time exchanged private communications and he was indeed a sensitive soul with a deep well of caring and compassion.

I shall never forget how - when Kevin died - he put tremendous effort into ensuring that he wasn't just forgotten, and trawled the internet trying to find out as much as possible because he cared so deeply for his memory. He communicated with me often at that time about this. Wetman was genuinely troubled that there was no mention of Kevin's passing on any other sites he frequented, and he made sure that Kevin got a mention and was remembered here.

I personally am deeply grateful for @2prnot2p, for doing the same thing for Wetman himself.

Wetman also shared some personal stuff with me and I feel honoured to have been so trusted. Even with him gone, I will never betray his trust. Whatever he has told me privately remains private for ever more.

Now I feel that it is incumbent upon me and upon all of us who in any way knew him, not to forget him and to carry his memory in our hearts.

[steve25805 126,021]

3 hours ago, F.W said:

Oh dear me no.

Yes, it is not looking good. Sad news indeed, as such news always is.

A sad fact of life is that as we travel along it's path we have to say goodbye to so many good people along the way, until finally it is our turn to go and we are the ones wished a hopefully fond farewell.

[Admin 14,788]

Extremely sad news. Whilst we don't have 'official' confirmation at this point, it is almost certainly the case. 

A genuinely kind person who will be greatly missed by many, myself included. 

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,487]

Very sad news.  Again it brings it home what a community we have here - when one hurts, many hurt and when one grieves many feel the grief too.  RIP Wetman

[mickymoist 3,513]

Being a newbie here I didn't know Wetman, but anyone who has touched so many of the good people here must have been a fine man indeed. RIP

[Scot_Lover 1,876]

RIP Wetman, Maigh and I will miss you, your input, your time as a mod, your solid presence.

Take care wherever you are, and thank you for being who you were.

 

Scot_Lover and Maigh.

[UnauthorisedGuy 510]

Sad news about Wetman :(  He was also a member of PeeSearch (http://www.peesearch.net/), and his last log on there was in July 2018. In 2014, he met up with Miss Piss, and posted an account of their meeting on PeeSearch.  Well worth a read, if you haven't seen it already. 

[GottaGoPee 124]

On 4/20/2019 at 3:28 PM, steve25805 said:

@Admin has given the go ahead for this thread.

Although it has not yet been fully or officially confirmed, we have been looking into the absence of our mod, @wetmanjf. @2prnot2p in particular has been making use of his contacts, and it is looking likely at this point that Wetman may have passed away in January.

I invite 2prnot2p to make all he knows public, but it isn't looking good. Someone who looks very much like he could have been Wetman passed away in January.

If he is gone he will be missed.

This is sad news. 

I will miss him as well.

[2prnot2p 1,066]

I just thought this thread should be bumped to the top again.  After all, it is important.  Thanks!

[Riley 13,064]

While I didn't know Wetman very well he affected many people and made many people smile. He was a very big influence on peefans and made many people smile. Im sorry, I really want to write more but I didn't know him very well. Rest In Peace Wetman, you are greatly missed.

[Rich7 467]

Sorry to hear about this x

[lovestoseepee 297]

This is really sad as I have had communication with him as well in private even had the odd Skype conversation with him back in the day. He was truely a legend and whilst he might still be alive the signs are there that all might not be well. I do hope that wherever he maybe he is in a better place. I hope that this isn't the case. He was quite famous in the pee world having met up with some pee models etc.

[bpb 788]

I had totally missed the news that Wetman had probably passed away.
I am very sorry to hear this.  I had CrissyP tell about some interaction with him.  He was into collecting things, which he discussed with CrissyP.
As you might well know CrissyP would converse with almost anyone who would converse with her in a decant manner.
Wetman and I exchanged information about CrissyP after she vanished from the forum.

Edited June 17, 2019 by bpb

[gottapee87 71]

I knew Wetman/JCZ for a long time in the Pool chat room -- I've been a member there since 2006 and he was there when I arrived. He was an extremely nice guy and always willing to help when I had a problem. I will definitely miss him.