as a female friend of mine from past years, I can tell you the two things are closely related
men who are really trained got a different attitude in life, and only strong women can be their girlfriends, and if they are not, they almost unvoluntarily become such, by unconsciously absorbing their men's fearless attitude in life
I consider you really manly to openly praise her man's virility, only powerful men are not bothered by other men's power