what if... it wasn't taboo?

[puddyls 26,294]

a recent DM/PM discussion i've had led to an interesting topic. if peeing wasn't stigmatized, or taboo, what would do? like would your mindset, feelings, or actions change? how? 

[Sophie 24,410]

I think if it wasn't taboo I wouldn't enjoy it nearly as much. Like how much of a thrill do you get from sitting on the toilet like a good girl? If peeing in public became accepted and normal it would probably feel like sitting on the toilet. I like peeing outside or wetting myself because it's different, it's naughty. 

[Eliminature 5,209]

Well I think I'd still be interested in it. If nothing else than because the mechanism of releasing urine uses the same muscles that are used during orgasm/ejaculation. The tensing and releasing of a full bladder feels good. 

[Remi 1,034]

It probably would have caused me to never become interested in it above a certain extent therefore never choosing this as my outlet. Because a great part of the fascination and fun i get out of it stems from the fact that it is considered naughty, dirty and taboo.

Edited March 25, 2022 by Remi

[steve25805 126,082]

Well I think a major aspect of the sexual interest in peeing is the naughtiness of it, due to the fact of so much being taboo.

For example, if it were perfectly normal for everyone to just pee on the nearest carpet or floor, and everyone did it, I probably would not be anywhere near as interested as I am in ladies pissing on floors and carpets. It is the very wrongness of it, the total abnegation and defiance of taboos about how and where to pee properly which makes it so erotic.

I think there is a similar imput into other aspects of our fetish besides naughty peeing as well. We are all told that pee is dirty, which can make being peed all over potentially so erotic since it too defies all taboos. 

If it was totally normal for everyone to pee wherever they liked it probably wouldn't seem like so much fun.

Edited March 25, 2022 by steve25805

[WetMart 1,128]

If peeing wasn’t taboo I wouldn’t find peeing outdoors as much fun, as it would be acceptable to pee anywhere. 

[Kupar 13,340]

3 hours ago, Sophie said:

I think if it wasn't taboo I wouldn't enjoy it nearly as much. Like how much of a thrill do you get from sitting on the toilet like a good girl? If peeing in public became accepted and normal it would probably feel like sitting on the toilet. I like peeing outside or wetting myself because it's different, it's naughty. 

I agree with you Sophie. Some aspects of pee that others might find exciting aren't to me because they've become commonplace. For instance K and I have seen each other peeing, with an open door bathroom policy at home, for over 30 years and simply being in the same room as K when she pees does very little for me, unless we make it different or special in some way. But for others where that familiarity doesn't exist it might feel different and fun or arousing 

[JesseP 1,277]

I enjoy pee fun because I enjoy the sensation, view, entertainment. If it became more mainstream that would give me more of an opportunity to enjoy it. Taboo has a little influence but is not a major factor in my enjoyment.

[Paulypeeps 5,287]

I would be wetting myself a lot more openly - no need to be discreet!

[Bacardi 10,134]

I think about this from time to time. One side of me says I would love it. I would love for myself and anyone else to be able to pee where they want, but I have to wonder when the fetish would turn itself off and it would just be normal. When would it just be an every day thing to watch someone pee in a corner or a clothing store and when would it turn me on? Or would I just be perpetually horny lol. 

The other side of me says it would not be fun because then the pees would never be naughty 🤣 I dunno. I would enjoy it for a while I'm sure! And I would definitely not think twice about peeing anywhere i want!

[glad1 2,832]

If it weren't a taboo, I'd still enjoy it. Certainly more often, although probably not as intensely.

10 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Well I think I'd still be interested in it. If nothing else than because the mechanism of releasing urine uses the same muscles that are used during orgasm/ejaculation. The tensing and releasing of a full bladder feels good. 

Eli make a very good point. Even if there wasn't the thrill of breaking the rules, a sense of pleasure would still be involved.

[CON2H4 650]

I fantasise about it becoming normal, so once that happens, there is no fantasy. 😕

[gldenwetgoose 21,494]

If it wasn’t taboo, I wonder where the boundaries would be set - would it be like smoking?

You can do it in the open air, in your own car or home but not inside offices, shops or on public transport?

If that were the case there could be still the fun desperation plus the bonus of seeing much more street peeing - not to mention the discussion of peeing and wetting being more open too. Maybe bars and restaurants would be less inclined to maintain toilet facilities because of course there’s a perfectly good alleyway just outside. 

If completely taking away the taboo means everyone just pees where they’re sitting or standing, then for me you just turn the world into a geriatric care home - no desperation, just wet patches everywhere. 

[oliver2 4,419]

58 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

If it wasn’t taboo, I wonder where the boundaries would be set - would it be like smoking?

Would there be a peeing area in a swimming pool? 🙃

[Kupar 13,340]

1 hour ago, gldenwetgoose said:

you just turn the world into a geriatric care home

Have you been to the Isle of Wight?

[Adyguy6970 877]

On 3/25/2022 at 6:07 PM, Sophie said:

I think if it wasn't taboo I wouldn't enjoy it nearly as much. Like how much of a thrill do you get from sitting on the toilet like a good girl? If peeing in public became accepted and normal it would probably feel like sitting on the toilet. I like peeing outside or wetting myself because it's different, it's naughty. 

I agree with Sophie.  The 'taboo' aspect of peeing certainly contributes to its enjoyability.  At the same time I think we have to be aware of the dividing line between fantasy and reality.  If people were allowed to simply let loose where and when they fancied, would it actually be all that enjoyable?  There would be no rule about using the toilet to kick against  and, with nothing to kick against, where would we be?  

[sodapop0474 33]

On 3/25/2022 at 12:03 PM, puddyls said:

a recent DM/PM discussion i've had led to an interesting topic. if peeing wasn't stigmatized, or taboo, what would do? like would your mindset, feelings, or actions change? how? 

I think for me it's so much more about the feeling of not running to a bathroom and just letting go. Or that fact that it's natural and such a relief. Also yhe sexual attraction of watching a woman pee. Not sure I would loose interest if it was considered normal.

[Hidengo 277]

I feel like for it to not be completely taboo, there would have to be some loosening of the existing nudity taboo as well— otherwise most people would still think to hide when they go so others don’t see whatever bits they may or may not be packing. In such case, there would still be some element of naughty to it.

That being said, my interest in peeing mostly comes from my own pee shyness when I was younger— it was still a taboo in my own mind, whether I was somewhere “appropriate” or not, so I might still be the way I am, just… less so. 

[Sexismygod 1,782]

It's a plus/minus situation for me

• I enjoy a naughty pee.  If it's not naughty any more, then it would be less fun.  That said, I can't imagine a "pee wherever you like" level of acceptance.  There will still be naughty opportunities but, as often happens in these circumstances, it could actually make it much riskier.  A little acceptance often hardens to definition of unacceptable.  This is an overall minus for the naughty pee enthusiast.
• On the flip side, increased acceptance of peeing activity could make it easier to find a partner willing to experiment.  Pee sex could be viewed more like oral or anal sex.  Just something to try.  That would be a plus, since I've yet to find a partner willing to play that particular game.
• Lastly, there are legitimate reasons not to allow people to just piss wherever they feel like, so a certain level of taboo is actually a good thing.  We just need to be reasonable and practical so that @puddyls can enjoy herself more openly for our shared benefit. 😎

[Kupar 13,340]

34 minutes ago, Sexismygod said:

We just need to be reasonable and practical so that @puddyls can enjoy herself more openly for our shared benefit.

Amen to that!

[oliver2 4,419]

It wouldn’t lose all its appeal.

Walking barefoot on a sandy beach isn’t illegal or taboo, but has a similar earthy quality to spraying piss over a tree or a wall. We don’t stop gazing into a loved one’s eyes because eyes aren’t taboo. I find it hard to imagine nudity being less taboo would detract from much, either.

Would I appreciate @puddyls’s avatar less, were breasts less taboo? Gazing straight at the camera with one eye, the other hidden by a swish of hair like a wink, one nipple half-visible… 🥰 Um. What was I saying? I lost my train of thought there…

[oliver2 4,419]

On 3/26/2022 at 10:35 AM, Kupar said:

Have you been to the Isle of Wight?

Been to it? I’ve pissed on it! (And off it, into the sea, I mean, as opposed to saying I’ve pissed somewhere that wasn’t the Isle of Wight)

[puddyls 26,294]

On 3/26/2022 at 1:59 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

If it wasn’t taboo, I wonder where the boundaries would be set - would it be like smoking?

interesting point. and yes. this is a good analogy of what i meant by this topic. there are a wide variety of opinions on smoking. like not everyone does, nor does everybody enjoy being around smokers, but generally no one makes a big deal over it occurring. 

[Peepeethesailor 9]

Defo wouldnt have the same appeal, its the feeling of being naughty that is half of the appeal

[glad1 2,832]

On 3/26/2022 at 8:51 AM, Simpfan said:

Riding the Harley usually makes me want to pee afterwards, so I wouldn't need to be near a bathroom when I dismount from the bike. 

I would think riding the Harley would make you want to pee during the ride. At least, it always seemed that way for me. I can probably count on one hand the times I dismounted the bike without leaving a puddle.