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I wonder if peeing in pools is more prevalent in cultures that are more adverse to public peeing? Growing up summers in the EU we would always be encouraged to get out of the pool and pee right beside it in the grass, bushes etc.. In those cultures no one thinks anything of kids peeing outside. It's normal just like on playgrounds of the park. I wonder if pools in those cultures have less pee?

I always found frat parties great for peeing and spectating. Here are a couple of my stories:

@kitty and mimi thank you for the contribution. I agree the social science and anthropological approach to pee fetish. It’s so much more interesting looking at it that way. Do you have any memories of peeing when you lived in china? Do you remember peeing outside? Do you have any specific memories of others peeing in public?

I hardly ever have any luck seeing girls peeing outdoors in broad daylight in the US. Unless it’s a event like Bay to Breakers, a concert or party it’s a rare occurrence. I’ve been on a spring ski trip in Jackson Hole this week. Tonight after skiing I walked into town to meet an old friend for an early drinks/dinner. As I was walking towards the main town square I glanced to a parking lot off the street and flesh immediately caught my attention. There were only a few cars in the lot but a white Toyota pick up was parked next to another car. Between the truck and the cars were two girls in thei

Is there much partying in your college town? If so, it should be easy to get away with peeing in public. I found college campuses great for peeing when I was a student.

This appears to be Germany, Belgium or the Netherlands where this is very normal at autobahn/highway rest stops for everyone regardless of being a trucker or not. You can see many are men just driving normal cars and stopping to pee freely and in the open next to their cars. I miss being in the EU where you can do this. I can’t wait to get back. I actually wrote about it here I wish this video had both sexes as women do the same at these stops but perhaps that’s off topic for this forum.

I wrote this last weekend and never got around to posting. Really, I doubted posting it. I don't always act like this, but sometimes I do. ------------------------------ It's been a crazy week. I've said goodbye to some good friends. I've seen others s go from standing on the top the world to despair in days. Fortunes still hang in the balance. But its awards season, I'm in La La land and there are parties to attend. Despite my best persuasion, my wife had enough of the week and decided to stay in. A good friend, A, who has one of my favorite houses in the hills was throwing hi

@beachmom Thank you for this explanation. I did not realize the aspect of using it to control men. That's interesting. I suppose over time, if men are peeing outside that frequently it becomes part of the culture and it probably even lowers the inhibition for women eventually. I expected the "no one cares" attitude due to publicly owned housing and infrastructure. I think you see this same dynamic playing out in China as a result of communism. Fascinating.

@beachmom do you think this peeing was in the culture prior to communism or do you think it was in some way perpetuated by communism?

I agree with this. I use to fantasize about being able to squat and pee like a girl.

I assume you would take off your board? Or do you just pee forward clear of your board? Has anyone ever seen you?

I wonder why the opening in the benches went so far forward and down. It looks like a forward stream would end up on your pants/floor if you were not careful.

When you mentioned this, my first thought was being a kid. I remember often being told to do a just in case pee. Often before getting in the car or leaving some place. If we were not at home, I was often asked right before getting in the car and I could then pee in the parking lot, street etc. by the car. I also remember this happening with my cousins growing up in the EU. It would be group pee time wetting down the parking lot. The nannies would often have us do a just in case pee upon getting to or leaving the park. I remember once getting to the park and wanting to go play, but the na

I don't often look at the general chat section of the site but I'm very interested in history. I love understanding the history of where I live and where I travel. I tend to look at the built environment and cultural norms of a location as clues to that history. Sometimes this is more subtle in the US where everything is relatively new, compared to Europe where you can often walk around and see centuries of historical architecture, relics and city planning. I also love looking at old books, periodicals and media. History obviously has a big impact in regional attitudes towards peeing; pur

I did have maids sometimes. My extended family in the EU had a large staff with maids/nannies. One of my first pee memories was with one of them asking if I would be able to pee in my diaper. In potty training and when young they helped us pee all over; pretty much anywhere we needed outside regardless of how public or what we were peeing on. It was so nice that they were always attentive to my needs and put them above any concern of propriety or leaving a puddle. This was a stark contrast to the nannies in the US that would make me hold it or hide if I had to pee outside and then be up

@sd91 thanks for the detailed account including situation, outfit, stream, puddle and tissue. I love that you found an interesting place for your pee and dropped the tissue at your convenience.

The other thing that I think promotes peeing while skiing in the Alps in the amount of drinking. From my observation there is way more drinking in EU skiing than in North America.When I was young, people would often have shot glasses for schnapps that hung on a leather strap around their necks. There were bars you could ski up to on the hill and get a drink without taking off your skiis. They would fill your glass and you could keep skiing. I guess if you're not taking off your skis to drink, why do it to pee? These days there are full-on day parties with DJs, bottle service and dancing

@marking my territory I'm not from Switzerland. I grew up between the US and EU. Mainly I would go to school in the US but I had extended family in the EU so I would often be in EU for summers and sometimes over holiday break for skiing in the Alps. We were often in the French Alps in addition to Switzerland and Austria. I think many of my memories are from the French Alps which really seemed as tolerant of public urination as anywhere else in France. You can read a bit more about my upbringing in this thread (multiple posts): and here: and here:

@marking my territory What part of the world was this? Would the boys stop to pee on the hill or just wait for a lodge? I don't think it was about confidence for most I was with in the EU. I think there was just no sense of embarrassment because most grew up peeing outside in other contexts (park, beach etc.). It was normal.

A friend shared this video on Instagram recently and it reminded me of skiing and peeing in the Alps growing up. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpS8J9upzJs/ When I was growing up we often went skiing in the Alps with my extended family. I’ve recounted before that we were very free to pee anywhere outside we needed growing up in the EU. This extended to the winter. I can remember going to ski school and when we someone had to pee it was just common practice to go to the side of the run. Often when one of us had to go others would follow male and female. We would all make yellow

On a somewhat related question, would you consider helping your boss/his family with pee outside in the yard and around town? I always enjoyed this growing up when the maids would help me take a potty break wherever I was outside or I would accompany maids to the farmers market and errands around town and they would help me have a pee and make a puddle on a wall, sidewalk etc.. It was great that they prioritized my needs over any concerns of dirtying the space. Good memories.

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@arigalo I would love to hear about some of these times and places.

Following the chemistry room we talked a lot, flirted and messed around and ended up frequently hooking up. I was unfortunately too immature to fully grasp and embrace the concept of dating. As I’ve mentioned before I spent time growing up in both the US and Europe. The US was mostly a bore compared to Europe. However, there was an exception. The US has a phenomenon of “Keggers”— parties where young people get a few kegs of beer and assemble in an outdoor area to drink. This of course results in outdoor peeing. Where I grew up the Keggers often took place after sporting events and were o

One thing I forgot to mention earlier was that Natasha had spent time in Scandinavia growing up and in the summers so perhaps that’s why she was open to peeing—unfortunately it was never a topic I discussed with her. I remember years earlier on a school trip she had described peeing in the shower and separately masturbating very openly and she was surprised that her friends found this talk shocking. She also mentioned convincing her brother to practice kissing so I think she was just very open and experimental. I would later learn that she really liked sex.