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@kitty and mimi Thank you for this contribution. It is very interesting. I shared this with my wife and she had heard the idiom but was not very familiar with it. She asked her mom, who laughed and asked where she heard that. She said it was meant to apply to women before / after child birth. But there it is not universal, just like some women are able to restore their figures after childbirth. She also mentioned the Chinese tradition of binding the women to restore their figures after childbirth and eating a special diet of congee, bone broths, herbs etc.. My wife confirmed a few things.

I first attended these parties over a decade ago with a group of friends. In that first year I broke off from the group and went looking for a place to pee. I went around a stack of deck chairs and encountered a stunningly beautiful brunette in the moonlight, with a really cool bright blue dress hiked up, squatted low and furiously peeing on the sand. She was watching her vigorous stream make a hole in the sand and puddle when she looked up and saw me. She said, "I think you've found the ladies," with a posh British accent. I said "oh, I thought this was the gents. That's a shame because I'm b

I often attend one of the world's premier art fairs and I love it because it's inspiring, creative and a mashup of people from all kinds of cultures. Durring the fair, there is a members club that hosts a series of parties, fundraisers galas and events that go late into the night. The party guest lists include the who's who of the art, fashion, music, modeling and entertainment industries. It goes with out saying that there are some very attractive and fashionably dressed people. The club is set in an old art deco beach hotel that also includes a beach club and tent on the sand. Hundreds

There is a famous bar in SF that still has one. I don't think anyone has used it recently, although it would be fun on a busy night. What makes me doubt their primary purpose being a urinal is that the tile does not go all the way up the front of the bar. The front of the bar where your pee would hit is wood. That would not work well. https://toilet-guru.com/barbary-coast.html

You'll find some of my previous party stories here: Here is one: In my 20s I used to party alot in LA. I dated a really attractive girl who was a minor actress. When we were out partying, she often peed outside clubs, in parking lots, garages or at house parties in yards, sinks, showers etc. We were once at a house party with an amazing mid-century modern house in the Hollywood hills that was very indoor/outdoor. The master bathroom was very large with a sunken tub the size of a hot tub and an indoor terrarium of rocks and plants next to it. Many people were in the bathroom waiting

I was just traveling and walking home from dinner in a fancy shopping district. There was a jovial, mixed gender group of 20-somethings in front of me. The group paused and one of the guys went over to the plate glass window of a fancy storefront. The others in the group (male and female) milled about and looked in another window. The area was so fancy and well kept that it did not even occur to me what he had stopped for a pee. I kept walking towards him and noticed that he had turned to the corner of the column and window and was peeing. It started to run across the wide sidewalk as I walke

One of my first memories of pee was staying with with my cousins on vacation and having nanny put diapers on us before bed. I can remember her, checking the fit of my cousins diaper and asking him if his "pipi was ok" and if I was going to be able to pipi in the diaper. I thought this was strange as I had never been unable to pee in a diaper or even thought about it. What could be wrong? Why would he not be able to pee in the diaper? She put a diaper on my female cousin and carefully adjusted it. She then did the same for me, put on the diaper, adjusted it and looked down the front asking if I

When they peed along the ride, would they pee right next to the horse or find some cover? Would they use tissue or toilet paper?

Interesting they would use the bushes vs. the barn stalls. I wonder why. Did you find puddles/piles in the bushes? Did you have any sightings or ever join them in the bushes?

I love the hiss. My wife does this and its super hot. I love when she blasts the toilet or the pavement when squatting with a strong stream. I associate it with a dominant woman and a forward stream. I have no idea if forward streams are associated with a hiss but somehow I have imagined it does.

@colette888 I am interested. Judging by other threads on "nonchalant" peeing in places other than toilets, many here are interested. The fact that it was totally normal and not intended to be sexual is interesting. Even explaining the context in which you came to understand this is normal is interesting. How did you first figure out this was normal? We would appreciate the share.

@Chris50p This site seems to be focused on wetting. Are there any french sites focused on peeing in public? Thanks.

@colette888 do you have any memories or peeing in barns, stables or horse trailers? When did you learn to do this? What was the culture and attitude towards peeing in the places you rode? How about any stories or friends doing this?

There is a German forum called https://www.klogeschichten.net/ I posted a similar question in this thread. There have to be some forums we don't know about in other languages. I would assume other EU and Asian countries would have something. Japan seems into pee.

@alfresco I've witnessed similar things at outdoor / park birthdays without nearby toilets. Eventually the little ones need to go and I think that just blurs the boundaries for the adults. I was recently at a birthday in a park and we took the girls to the parking for a pee. After the kids had gone behind the car, my wife said "my turn" and squatted to make a damp patch of her own in the dirt behind the car. As we were walking back to the party another mom was heading to the parking. My wife asked if they were leaving and she commented no, they were just going for a "potty break" and my wife h

A few relevant links I found that suggest this is common https://horsesport.com/cuckson-report-1/ever-use-your-stalls-latrine-then-urine-trouble/ https://forums.horseandhound.co.uk/threads/part-livery-etiquette.638345/ https://www.bakersfielddressage.com/home/which-bathroom-to-use https://www.horseforum.com/threads/what-do-you-use-as-a-bathroom-in-your-barn.652809/ http://forums.barrelhorseworld.com/forum/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=465453&start=1 http://forums.barrelhorseworld.com/forum/forums/thread-view.asp?tid=455806&start=1

I caught the other girls peeing around the barn a few more times. Once my girlfriend and two of her riding friends and I all drove to the stables together. After everyone was finished riding we were going to leave and my girlfriend said she had to pee first. The other girls said "me too." They went in an empty stall while I paced around the isle trying to look uninterested. I could hear their streams hitting the floor. My girlfriend finished first and walked to the door which gave me the excuse to walk towards her and the stall. Out of the corner of my eye I could see the other girls fini

If you follow Chickfly on instagram, occasionally the will post a video or photo with a stream. No flesh, but a stream.

I would love to hear some more stories of where you peed together.

I'm glad you took your relief where it was convenient and comfortable to you. That's what you should do. I think these days people are too concerned and constrained in their personal comfort and peeing. You pointed out that different people's pee had different impact. I don't want to intrude but is it possible you are taking some medication that had some impact? Or, are you a smoker? Those factors could affect chemicals in your pee.

This week my wife brought up horse riding lessons. I immediately had a flashback to a college girlfriend who rode horses and created some unique pee memories. My then girlfriend, A, had grown up riding English style horses and competed in Jumpers. She was on the university riding team. I never really liked horses and always wanted to do something else when she went riding. Then one day she coerced me to come see her ride. It was a jumping practice with some of the other university girls. I quickly discovered why horses should be of interest. We drove about 35min in to the hills and I joi

@kitty and mimi it seems like the solution is to design bathrooms that have both squat and western toilets. I wonder when and why it is that the younger generation develops the preference for western toilets? It seems like girls in Asia (China, Vietnam etc.) still learn to squat to pee when they are young. From all my travels and talking with my wife it seems that girls squatting to pee outside still happens frequently on playgrounds, parks, street and even school yard. It seems similar to when the older generation was young. So how have they stopped wanting to squat?

@kitty and mimi This is unfortunate. It sounds like squatting may be going out of fashion with younger people in developed Asian countries. Its too bad this last area of natural squatting to pee is diminishing. I have a feeling this will also impact these women's practice in squatting to pee outdoors. It always felt like they were more willing to pee outdoors because they were already so used to squatting in the same position indoors.

@Dr.P Do you think your wife is more open squatting to pee / peeing outside because she is from China? It's a small sample, but my wife and previous girlfriends who spent time growing up in Asia have seemed more accustomed to squatting and peeing in various places.

@ChrisS Bay to Breakers used to be awesome. I have a thread on it here: Honestly, I never plan it out too much. I just go with the flow so to speak and improv. But reflecting, I usually make a comment to gauge people's reaction like "I really have to pee." Depending on the reactions, you can read whether others are engaging on the subject or looking to avoid it. I never push it on people looking to avoid it. Sometimes you will get lucky and someone will volunteer an idea of where to pee or say they also need to pee. You can then follow with the question; "I wonder where I (or