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I remembered a time where I used to pee through fences. Growing up I had a next door neighbor who had kids my age. I would often go swimming in their pool. They would call to invite me over and I would go through a gate in the wooden fence that separated out back yards. When we were swimming their mom always told us to pee on the fence and not in the pool. We would often get out and pee big wet patches on the wooden fence. This basically made the fence line of the property totally acceptable for peeing. One day I was on my side of the fence and had to pee. I had noticed there was a knot in the

I've often seen a lack of consideration for what's on the other side of the fence both in terms of visibility and soiling things on the other side. At street festivals I've seen people pee through fences into fenced off entrances to residential courtyards or parking. The result is puddles left in areas where residents are undoubtedly going to walk and probably will have to wash. I was also at a street festival where a small area of a park had been fenced off. People were approaching the fence from all sides to pee through it so you could literally see people's privates 50ft away across the p

Does anyone else like to pee through fences? Or do you find it interesting that people choose to pee to fences through fences even when the are totally totally penetrable (like chain link, wire etc.)? They don't shield you from view and your pee just goes through and lands on the other side of the fence. You could just stand and pee on the ground without having a fence between you. It's an interesting psychological / cultural phenomenon that people feel more comfortable going up to a fence as if it were a wall or tree to pee on when their pee is going straight through. For example,

A no facility one. And it was daylight in the late afternoon.

I once witnessed something like this on an autobahn stop with a dutch female sports team. I had just finished going myself and was back in the car having some water, when a dutch buss parked in front of me. Then maybe 2 dozen girls in uniform get off the bus. They also seemed to be drinking. I assume celebrating post match. Paying little attention to me they squatted next to the bus on the sidewalk and grass. Some had their backs to the bus on the sidewalk, others were across from them on the grass. The continued talking and drinking the whole time. I got out of the car to get a closer look a

@Alfresco I'm also fascinated by decisions between privacy vs. soiling a public property that might inconvenience others. I've known women that go both ways. Despite what you might think from my earlier post my wife almost always opts for privacy. I can remember a time after clubbing when she peed in a garage with a slanted floor between two cars and left a large stream running under the cars that was almost unavoidable for anyone getting in the cars down the whole row. I had to step over it myself. I asked her why she did not pee in front of the car and she said, "someone might see me." She'

I've noticed much more openness to outdoor peeing in Covid times. This is interesting in a US context where people were previously much more reserved and puritan than EU or Asia unless they are partying and drunk. My wife and many of our friends have openly talked about avoiding toilets where the stagnant air could have lingering covid from previous people. Case in point, last year we were on a group hike with families from my kid's school. Before we started we were having a pick-nick at some tables by the park bathrooms. As we were getting ready to start the hike, one of the moms said "b

I mentioned in another thread, that years ago my wife (then fiancé) and I took scuba lessons to get certified for diving on our honeymoon. The first part of the lessons were taught in 4-6 hour classes in a large local pool. The instructor was a funny gay guy. When he was giving the introduction to the class we all had our gear on and we were standing in the pool. The instructor told us to drink plenty of water (we had bottles as the side of the pool) as we were doing lots of exercise and we needed to stay hydrated. He then told us if we had to pee we should just do it in the pool rather than t

Peeing in inappropriate places out of convenience is something I find really attractive in girls. I love that they would disregard public conventions or concerns of soiling a place to satisfy their own personal needs and desires. Their is a certain selfishness I find attractive. I’ve had multiple girlfriends that did this. I dated a girl who was rather selfish and indulged in many things for pleasure. When we were out partying she often peed in parking lots, garages or at house parties in yards, sinks, showers etc. We were once at a house party with an amazing modern house in the Hollywoo

This area definitely excites me. I’ve had relationships where I have role played with girlfriends explicitly asking for permission to pee and situations where I have pushed boundaries by peeing in front of girls I was flirting with. In terms of asking for permission. I had an ex who knew and played along with my pee fetish. She liked to take a dominant role sometimes so I would play along with that and ask her for permission to pee. This would often happen when we were out partying and she would direct me to a specific place to go as if I was a child. I remember one time we are in a big c