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@nenTyp is her art published or shown anywhere?

Yes, yes and yes.

It’s very typical in analyzing fiction to try to understand the cultural context. From high school through post graduate education it would not be unusual to have a dialogue around such topics. I have always considered Peefans more thoughtful and intellectual than other fetish sites. I really appreciate the thought and depth of topics on the site. I don’t understand the harm and I am genuinely curious if anyone with more expertise knows and could put context as to whether the competition described in the fiction is common or more fanciful and imaginative.

Interesting, this novel shows another form or discussion/admiration for forward streams. Do you think peeing contests are common in Chinese culture or more common than the west? I wonder if its common for girls to have a peeing contest since outdoor squatting and peeing is more common in China. It says they went behind the stone chair. Do you know what that means? Is that outside or were they peeing behind a stone Shari inside?

The Galician series really captures the Spanish attitude towards peeing anywhere. The girls are just doing what they were taught growing up. Why would they stop?

This is so true. In some cultures and households public peeing is not in any way considered "naughty peeing." Its simply the most efficient and normal thing to do. Growing up in Spain I was encouraged and allowed to pee in many places that were blatantly public and/or would wet or leave a puddle and I don't think anyone considered it naughty. Yet in a US/UK context it might. I don't think much has changed in Spain. I was recently visiting and saw many instances of blatant public peeing that did not seem to phase anyone. Multiple times I saw children and adults peeing in public when there w

@overcaffeinated You also had this experience growing up? Where did you grow up?

I just meant that there seems to be significantly more video like this from Russia. In that case its CCTV vs. Ring doorbells. Perhaps there is no CCTV in those building in NYC.

I’ve never asked anyone to mind my stream but I was once out partying with girls in Hollywood and had to tell one to essentially mind the others stream. We’re were transitioning from one club to another and the girls stopped to pee in a parking lot between cars. One of them set her purse on the ground behind her and started to squat between cars. The other one started peeing in front of the car but the slope of the ground took her pee under the car and straight towards the purse. I saw it and called it out. I also gave me the perfect excuse to approach a bit close to try to help her with the p

Wow, looks like the videos of Russian apartment complex peeing. I had no idea it happened so much in NYC projects. You would think there would be more video if it was so common.

I love it when girls choose leaving a puddle out of convenience vs. trying to go somewhere not to leave a mess. It reminds me of my youth in Spain. There was very little concern about leaving a mess. My cousins and I were often guided to leave puddles between cars, pee on buildings, the sidewalk etc.. It was also totally accepted to wipe with a tissue and just drop it. It’s jut the culture that its accepted. As we grew up they would find it no big deal to squat wherever outside and leave a puddle. All the girls would usually also carry tissue and just drop it.

What do you mean move your hips? Do you mean you were standing outside in a diaper or you were standing outside with no pants?

@Maggie_555 I totally relate to this. Growing up in Spain/EU I was often told I was a "good boy" when peeing on things outside. I was directed to pee publicly whenever I had the need and on things like walls, sidewalks, car tires etc. This was odd because I then later realized from a US perspective this would not be considered a good boy to pee in public and on things. Its funny the impact that culture and upbringing norms have. I now crave that feeling of being a good boy and peeing on things.

@Maggie_555 were you encouraged to pee through your swimsuit inside or outside the pool? I was always just encouraged to pee freely beside the pool in the grass, bushes, on a fence, wall etc.. The public display was not a big deal as long as the pee did not go in the water.

@ABBYPEEGODDESS Do you have memories you can share of your cousins peeing on your aunt’s van? It sounds like your aunt encouraged you and your cousins to pee outside? Why did you pee on the grill? Would it not have just been easier to squat beside the van?

@kitty and mimi Wow. We have previously talked of the Chinese associations and preferences for forward streams. It's interesting to see written evidence of this in a Chinese novel. Thank you for the contribution. Where did you find a copy of the novel? How did you find it?

I’m curious to hear any responses as I lived there before all its current problems. Peeing in the parks seemed frequent and Bay to Breakers was always an amazing event for peeing as I have posted about in the past.

My nannies also did this growing up. Less often for my girl cousins but sometimes they held them with their feet towards a buiding wall or in a garage. Did she ever hold you to pee on anything other than the car wheels?

@Albionis that’s crazy that they approached peeing in the pool as something totally socially acceptable and something to teach their kid, yet they treated you like the weird one. No one every taught me to pee in the pool growing up. Instead I was reminded to get out and free to take a pee right next to the pool or anywhere out of the pool regardless of who saw.

Suggest she just use a bush for that too…. You’ll definitely have to ask her how it went when she gets back.

Was this also true growing up? In some places (like Europe) peeing in public in places that can be seen is accepted if you are young. Is it accepted up to a certain age?

Welcome Zoe! Do you remember how you got started peeing standing? Do you like to pee on or against things when you pee standing?

@zoe468 Did you pee back there because you liked to pee outside or just out of convenience? Did others pee back there also? Did people know what you were doing? One of the interesting things about the soccer practices/games I experienced was that everyone knew that people were peeing around the school. It was just accepted practice. Do you usually use tissue when peeing outside?

I have heard that peeing in public is common in the Philippines, is it similar or different in Indonesia?

Do you mind if I ask what part of the world you grew up in? What types of places was your mom ok with you peeing when you were older? I would love to hear more memories of you / your mom peeing.