Member Updates Hello there...

[Sophie 24,371]

Hi everyone...

It has been three months since I have last officially posted, I have made a few messages in the staff room related to moderation matters but since July I haven't really been here. I have been struggling with my mental health quite badly for a number of reasons and I just haven't been myself at all, I have had no enjoyment of the things I used to love, no motivation to do anything, no motivation to visit this site. I would log in, check any messages and reports and log out again.

I want to apologise for my absence and just leaving without saying anything, causing you to worry about me. it was very wrong of me and for that I am sorry. I also want to say a massive thank you for all the messages I have received asking about me. It means a lot knowing you care.

I am going to slowly ease myself back into the forum, but I just wanted to let you know that I am okay.

Sophie.

[gldenwetgoose 21,470]

Sending you all love and hugs.   And thank you for your bravery in opening up to us on the challenges you're going through.  They say it's good to talk.

You know as much as any one of us how much love and genuine friendship this community has.

Hearing from you has made my weekend.

[mickymoist 3,512]

So glad to hear that you're starting to feel more like yourself Sophie

[on the porch 696]

Ruth here ,

Sophie ,

I know what your going through ,I was in a deep state of depression and could not get any help , the religious commune did not believe in doctors or pills ,  I had to suffer through it all for years ,  When I met Wayne he literally saved me life , took me away from that  miserable life and showed me a new world .I feel for you and I understand what your going through . it hurts and you feel so alone . All I can do is extend a hand in friendship and stand with you ... I'll pray for you

[Kupar 13,324]

It's beyond wonderful to see you back on the site. Sending much love from K and me. Take care of yourself, you special person.

💖

[MC Cumzy 1,638]

Glad to see you back, the site's not been the same without you.

I hope you start to feel more like yourself soon

[WetMart 1,125]

I’m glad you are feeling better Sophie, it certainly hasn’t been the same without you. Lots of hugs and take care. 

[Scot_Lover 1,875]

Hey Sophie, sorry you’re feeling this way, and very glad to see you back on board. 

[MidoriLemonade85 2,356]

I have been too shy to talk to you much, Princess Sophie but this site certainly has less sparkle when you’re not around. I hope you can rebalance and find your joy. Sending love. 💚

[Littledicky97 5]

Stay strong Sophie. You’ll get through it.

[likesToLick 10,216]

So sorry to hear you are feeling this way, dear Sophie.   I have been there in the past,  and know those dreadful feelings that nothing is worthwhile any more and that there is no more joy in life.   I promise you that you can find a way through this,  and it will pass.  

Never forget that there are people all over the world who care about you,   and tell yourself every day that a time will come when you feel good again.  You are a kind,  honest, loving, and thoroughly decent person,  and you absolutely deserve a life filled with happiness, delight, love and joy.

[puddyls 26,202]

@Sophie

it happens to the best of us. i know i have my own periods of grey when i become reclusive and my introspection spirals out of control. just know you are valuable and lovable. and even when there seems to be no end to the darkness, there are better times to come. thank you for sharing with us, but please do take care of yourself. much love sister.

💕puddyls

Edited November 7 by puddyls

[islandpilot182 69]

Sophie, I really havent talked to you at all or anybody else for that matter, but I do hang around and read all thats going on here, and believe me, this place isnt the same without you.  All of us care about you and wish you the best.  You were missed and just glad to see you back and doing OK.   Take Care please...

 

 

[kalle2020 925]

Hi Sophie,

just want to send you a big hug and tell you that I missed you. So glad to hear you're starting to see light again. Take your time, we're happy to know that you're among us, whether you're active on the site or not.

kalle

[Alfresco 11,615]

Hi Sophie, 

Bit late of me posting here, but I have only just seen it.   My wife went through depression and mental health issues so I know it is horrible.   Thank you for letting us know what is going on.   You need to concentrate on yourself but if it helps you to be here and talk with us then hopefully we can support you through it.   If you would prefer a complete break then that is also understandable.

Do whatever is right for you and we look forward to more of your excellent contributions when you are ready. Hugs and best wishes...