Peeing infront of family members

[oliver2 4,418]

17 hours ago, FrozenPublicPeeing said:

This is also before I was made fun of at school for being circumcised.

Well, that sounds like a nasty experience. 
 

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just being free to go outside was frowned upon by both of my parents and I'd get in trouble. However, like everything in my life, my dad was allowed to freely pee outside any time he wanted.

... and that just sounds grossly unfair.

[FrozenPublicPeeing 34]

2 hours ago, oliver2 said:

Well, that sounds like a nasty experience. 
 

... and that just sounds grossly unfair.

I grew up in a fairly "hippy" rural area. almost all boys were uncircumcised. I was in the school washroom using the urinal and a boy saw. He started making fun of the fact that I didn't have the skin. Then the other boys joined in. Ever since then I've had a super shy bladder and struggled to use public washrooms. Peeing outside is actually easier for me. Also I'm super self conscious about being cut and I absolutely hate that I am.

Yeah. Like he'd whip it out anywhere on the property if he had to go. If I was caught doing that I was told it was disgusting and I should have gone inside.

[oliver2 4,418]

13 hours ago, FrozenPublicPeeing said:

I grew up in a fairly "hippy" rural area. almost all boys were uncircumcised. I was in the school washroom using the urinal and a boy saw. He started making fun of the fact that I didn't have the skin. Then the other boys joined in. Ever since then I've had a super shy bladder and struggled to use public washrooms. Peeing outside is actually easier for me. Also I'm super self conscious about being cut and I absolutely hate that I am.

Yeah. Like he'd whip it out anywhere on the property if he had to go. If I was caught doing that I was told it was disgusting and I should have gone inside.

I didn’t think being cut was that unusual in the US but it may have changed in recent years. Kids can be pretty merciless about anything that’s unusual about you.

From my experience hippies are usually pretty happy to piss outdoors, which makes your parents’ hard line on this stand out even more.

[FrozenPublicPeeing 34]

9 hours ago, oliver2 said:

I didn’t think being cut was that unusual in the US but it may have changed in recent years. Kids can be pretty merciless about anything that’s unusual about you.

From my experience hippies are usually pretty happy to piss outdoors, which makes your parents’ hard line on this stand out even more.

So some background... I was originally born in South Africa. Hence the old school parents. Getting cut wasn't the norm, but my dad wanted it, my mom didn't. It was the 80's in South Africa, so dad won that argument. When I was 8 I moved to Vancouver Island in British Columbia Canada. It's a weird place, very detached from the norm, even for BC. I lived in a farming community, so it was mostly kids of hippies, and farm boys. So for that particular area getting cut was unusual as well.

[Mitzdkat 62]

On 2/15/2021 at 12:30 PM, FrozenPublicPeeing said:

So some background... I was originally born in South Africa. Hence the old school parents. Getting cut wasn't the norm, but my dad wanted it, my mom didn't. It was the 80's in South Africa, so dad won that argument. When I was 8 I moved to Vancouver Island in British Columbia Canada. It's a weird place, very detached from the norm, even for BC. I lived in a farming community, so it was mostly kids of hippies, and farm boys. So for that particular area getting cut was unusual as well.

Sorry you experienced that... I have to say I’ve never even heard of someone being made fun of for being circumcised here in the states... maybe not being circumcised because it’s so common.   

[Mitzdkat 62]

So two takes on this... as a kid and as a parent

As a kid, my parents were divorced, and we lived with my mother and stepfather, he was very casual around us boys... traveling or whatever, we all used the bathroom together if it was possible.   Same went for my sister/stepsister and mother.  But my parents didn’t “mix”, girls got privacy with dad and boys with mom... but amongst each other, pretty casual, especially with five of us.  In my “biological” father’s house, it was a little more casual but pretty much the same.

As a parent, my daughter is way too casual, I’ll be in a meeting (online) and she’ll go pee with bathroom door open, causing me to yell for her to close it.  

[PissBoner 131]

On 1/16/2021 at 12:03 PM, oliver2 said:

You can brazenly whip out your dick and piss in front of me if you like.

Me too. I'd love to see it!

[oliver2 4,418]

40 minutes ago, PissBoner said:

Me too. I'd love to see it!

She’s shy, our @Ms. Tito

[beachmom 1,815]

On 2/22/2021 at 11:17 AM, oliver2 said:

She’s shy, our @Ms. Tito

Actually, many young men, or lets say people with dicks, are becoming more timid about peeing openly these days. While women have become much bolder about it, men are becoming more hesitant. What young guys don't seem to realize is that people expect men to take advantage of their physical abilities wherever possible and moms more so than anyone. No mom wants to look for a restroom for a person who doesn't need to use one.

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

22 hours ago, beachmom said:

Actually, many young men, or lets say people with dicks, are becoming more timid about peeing openly these days. While women have become much bolder about it, men are becoming more hesitant. What young guys don't seem to realize is that people expect men to take advantage of their physical abilities wherever possible and moms more so than anyone. No mom wants to look for a restroom for a person who doesn't need to use one.

If I wasn't so shy I'd just pee wherever I wanted to. Social norms be damned.

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

On 2/15/2021 at 2:48 AM, oliver2 said:

I didn’t think being cut was that unusual in the US but it may have changed in recent years. Kids can be pretty merciless about anything that’s unusual about you.

From my experience hippies are usually pretty happy to piss outdoors, which makes your parents’ hard line on this stand out even more.

Like John Mulaney said, 13 year olds are the meanest people on earth.

[gldenwetgoose 21,486]

I'm an only child, so don't really have a valid contribution in that sense.  But time and time again, people tell how they can relate their present fetish back to a childhood sighting or experience - so it makes total sense that the siblings you spend all your childhood with have a high chance of being at the start of that experience.

[Alfresco 11,629]

Yes, I did.   There was nothing sexual about it at all, but my sister and I used to create a House/Den in either one of our bedrooms, which would have rooms such as a Bedroom area which was naturally on the bed, a Living area which consisted of a couple of beanbags, a kitchen which consisted of a couple of units set out as preparation sides and a bathroom which was the space between the end of the bed and the wall.  We would get snacks and drinks from downstairs and stock the "Kitchen" then would prepare and eat them in the "kitchen" before relaxing in the "Living area".  When we needed to pee, we would go to the "Bathroom", which basically meant that we went in the gap between the bed and the wall and peed on the carpet.

We also had no qualms about peeing in front of each other when we were out walking or playing with friends.  That went for the friends too - I saw a few girls peeing outside and also in a small brick built barn that was in the corner of a field that we used to play in.  We made a joint decision that the barn would be the toilets - usually boys and girls went separately and the boys peed on the walls and there were often puddles on the concrete floors as evidence of where the girls had peed.  Sometimes it would happen that either a couple of boys went in whilst girls were already peeing or vice-versa.  Nobody minded and I got to see quite a few puddles being created but didn't really think much of it at the time other than the usual fascination about the differences between boys and girls.  However, it does make me wonder if these experiences started me down this route.

 

[Wolfpee 329]

Not at all, I just enjoy watching/going and I just find it fascinating also the adrenaline rush of being caught. 
 

I have two sisters and we all use to camp a lot when we’re young. And play and hang out with other family’s kids, and we all pee in front of each other just kids being kids and cos we didn’t want to go back to use the block. 

Edited May 13, 2021 by Wolfpee

[Gotah 2,381]

10 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

people tell how they can relate their present fetish back to a childhood sighting or experience

This is probably how it started for me. I have a younger brother but we never really had memorable pee experiences together.

However, I do have an aunt with whom I spend a lot of time during my early years (I was 2 - 3 years old). She always took me with her on small walks into the forest and ocasionally she had to pee. At some point she noticed my (already present) interest towards a urinating woman and she would then take me with her behind the bush and let me watch. 

On some days I also followed her on the toilet to look at her taking a piss. My aunt was never bothered by it. In fact she even hovered over the bowl so that I could have a better sight from underneath of how her pee was pouring out.

Strange times, but I'm sure I wouldn't be here if it weren't for her.

[Dr.P 1,473]

I have posted in detail on this general subject several times, in June and July of 2019, so I won't repeat those posts. But the recent post of Gotah piques my interest.

Yes, my sister and I formed a pact in which we watched each other pee, for a brief time, when I was around 11 years old, and she was 5 years younger. I had also changed her diapers (nappies) when she was a baby. Our motivation was primarily curiosity about how the opposite sex peed, since we were too young for it to be overtly sexual. She opened her legs for me, unlike my mother, and let me watch it come out, to my heart's content. I let her hold my cock and aim my stream into the toilet. My parents discovered our pact, and put a stop to our fun, after a couple of months. But I learned a lot about how girls peed, during that time.

I envy the experience of Gotah, whose aunt voluntarily cooperated in satisfying his curiosity about her peeing, by hovering over the toilet.

My first pee memory was literally at my mother's knee, when I was 2 or 3 years old. For the first 5 years of my life, I was an only child, until my sister was born. During that early time, my mother never closed the bathroom door, when she peed. So as a little boy, I followed her into the bathroom, and watched as much as I could.

But I couldn't see much. She sat all the way down on the toilet, never hovering, even in public facilities, and always kept her thighs pressed tightly together, so her bare white thighs, above her stocking tops, were all that I could see. She never opened her legs, even to wipe, which she accomplished by simply rocking to one side, and wiping from the rear, with her legs still together, blocking my view.

In addition to watching her, I loved other intimate aspects of being with her in the bathroom. I loved listening to her tinkle, and an occasional hiss, when she had to go bad, and I loved the warm smell of her pee (pheromones affecting my pre-sexual sense of smell?) as it wafted up, between her compressed thighs. I even buried my face in her bare thighs, above her stockings, more than once. She eventually stopped me from doing that, telling me that I might get wet. I wondered how that could happen, since I had never seen her thighs get wet, or seen her wipe them. I thought that what she really wanted was to make sure that I couldn't see her pee come out, since she must have known that I was intensely curious about that, and she didn't want me to see it. That curiosity has driven me, for the rest of my life!

I also accompanied my mom into public Ladies rooms, on occasion, at this age, and shared a stall with her. But she did it exactly as she did it at home, after covering the seat with t.p., so I learned nothing new

The fun part of these trips, for me, was being outside her stall, in the space between the stalls and the sinks, in large public bathrooms, where I could easily look under the stall barriers, at my short height, and see how other women peed, some with their legs apart, so I could see their streams! (None of them hovered, in my view, unfortunately.) Most of their streams were single and straight, not spraying much. My mom soon caught on to what I was doing, told me "It wasn't very nice," and banished me from public Ladies rooms. I have spent the rest of my life trying to get back in!

Dr.P

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

@beachmom

[LoveTheTinkle 110]

I had baths with my sister (4 years older) until I was probably 4 or 5.  I had several older sisters and never saw a thing.  I heard them on the other side of that damn door.  I didn't see anything on the topic until I got the internet c. 1990.  One of the first things I looked up was "women peeing" and after viewing those grainy pictures I was hooked for life.

[Guest UnabashedUser]

Had an aunt who'd babysit at her house for me as a kid, early age, and she'd take me to the toilet to pee and hold my penis and aim it as I tended to piss anywhere even then. I was probably 3 or 4 at the time, and as I grew older she stopped doing it as I tended to get hard in her hand even then. I would also listen to her piss outside the door but she always kept it closed even though I longer to see what was going on in there.

Had a girl child sandbox companion who would let me watch her in the corner of the box from time to time too.

[Summerm 1]

I had a girlfriend when I was around 5 who I used to love to go pee with outside 

[dltq 121]

When I was 5 or 6, I remember when my mom took my sister and I out on a walk at night and my sister had to pee, and I remembered her just squatting by a tree and relieving herself. This ismay very well be how I discovered my fetish.

Edited May 24, 2021 by dltq

[Burnzie 149]

My cousins and I would find places to go when they would visit. Sneak behind the couch and make a puddle. Or go outside in our fort. Was definitely a mutual curiosity as we watched each other.

[weequeen 1,987]

i don't have siblings, but i did have non-sexual experiences with a (male) cousin growing up. first was interest with how the other one peed and what our parts looked like, and having some fun "using the bathroom" outside. he had a treehouse and there was a corner where we would pee. sometimes we'd "help" each other, i'd hold his penis as he peed and then he would part my folds as i peed. we'd find other sneaky places to pee in his backyard. we'd hold it and then "mark" each tree, lol. i remember the fascination of how it was so different for us. we never got caught, but i guess grew out of it because we eventually stopped when we got into our pre-teens.

i've posted before also had a close friend as a kid and we would freely pee with each other in the bathroom. when either of us had to pee we would bring the other and strip naked and sit on the toilet and pee while the other watched. our families would go on vacations and i'd look forward to it because it meant lots of times to pee together. i also had another friend and her and i did a lot of non-sexual pee activities together (i'll elaborate if anyone is interested). but all these i've talked about i wouldn't say are sexual but i believe they started my interest as pee as a fetish for sure.

[wettingman 571]

Yes , I did, but we were too young to know about sex, and had no idea why we thought this was interesting or even exciting somehow, other than curiosity how the other peed.  We never play any games like Ill show you mine if you show me yours.

On several occasions my sister who is three years younger than me would jump out of our little pool when she had to pee , squat and let go, peeing through her bathing suit. She would grin and say can you see it ? Can you see my pee coming out? I was very interested and wanted to see but with the pool water running off her it was impossible to tell what was water and what was  pee. I told her this and she said she would show me how she peed better, but that never happened.

Meanwhile , at some point knowing I would be going pee just before dinner ( house rule) she hid behind the shower curtain and popped out laughing as I was about to start going. I was shocked and immediately froze and put myself away. Since she was behind me and I had not started going she didn't see or hear anything. I told my parents.   I later consented to let her watch me go, in the woods. I had never done that and somebody came along and I chickened out.

Jumping a generation my daughter frequently announces when she has to pee really bad. Her husband once said he holds it because we can think better on a very full bladder.

All this makes me wonder if the pee fetish , a fascination with pee, is partly genetic. It starts at a very young age way before it becomes sexual

 

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

On 2/13/2021 at 4:13 AM, oliver2 said:

My mum occasionally referred to enjoying peeing outside, so, maybe? But, yeah, same - I don’t want or need my parents seeing me pee

Enjoying?