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That sounds an awful lot like some of my most favorite hikes. There seems to be no better reason for women to get out out on the trail.

I'm not the Admin or a moderator, so I can't offer any behind the scenes help. But, what I might suggest you do is start new conversations to those you talked with. I know for some this might be considered "forward", but most on here should understand.

A warm wet welcome, Beautifulhiss. Don't worry, your secret is safe with us. Most all of us do at least one of the things you mentioned, and the rest seem to enjoying seeing it. I look forward to you joining our community and don't hesitate to ask us to show you around.

Obviously, hiking, biking and certainly sailing. In fact, any activity that takes place on a small boat. Isn't that why it's called watersports?

Isn't that the purpose of these activities?

The shower is pretty much my "go to" place when I'm indoors. I'll often stand at one end and see how far up I can splash on the back wall, especially first thing in the morning. Although in recent weeks. I don't do that nearly as much since I've installed a urinal.

Not that I'd ever think of tempting you , but I can assure you that your naked gardening wouldn't be overlooked. 😏

No reason to apologize. Everything I saw as well as what I imagined looked far too lovely to ever be obscene.

Pictures like that put a smiley face on me, too.

If I'm paying attention to little more than what I'm feeling in my bladder, I can usually pee again in 10 minutes or less. But, typically life gets in the way and I'm distracted, which probably is a good thing or I'd never get anything done. In fact, most all the time my bladder keeps filling unnoticed by me until it reaches the point where it demands attention, either by clamping down on my sphincter or just letting things flow.

What do you do when you feel seriously naughty? 😁

Given a choice, I prefer a strong stream to weaker dribble, even though the latter might be a good bit longer. But, more than anything it depends upon the circumstances. If I'm out with someone and they're desperate, whatever they're about to do is probably going to be exciting.

If you don't want everyone traveling the interstate to see you, maybe you should take back roads for at least part of the way. When I'm on I-95 and I-75 for long road trips, I'll usually get off onto a two-lane for my pee breaks. Perhaps I could recommend to you some of my favorites.

Amazing story, Hayley! No reason why peeing in the snow should just be enjoyed by us guys. 😁 When I was living in the Upper Midwest, the best part of winter was making yellow snow.

Vanessa, I'm pretty sure I know where you have your best conversations. 😄

Hopefully, your time around us pervs (and I mean that in the nicest sense 😁) will encourage you to break that filthy habit.

On a trail this afternoon. I went out half full and held until I felt the first drops were about to escape. Pulled my shorts leg opening aside just about in time. Heard a sound, so I hurried a bit at the end. At least my shorts were black and quick-dry.

Were these out of necessity or because you wanted to have fun? And, anywhere interesting? Don't spare us any details. 😁

I have a homemade urinal in my shower, and have a post on how you can make your own. I've since added a hose to the bottom, so it drains to the shower floor. I suppose I could just pee in the shower, but this does a good job of keeping the splashing in one place.

Without being too revealing, can you be more specific with what aspect of the humanities you're working in? I'm pretty sure we can find something that would check the boxes for being both academic and therapeutic.

I think what you need to do is seek out conferences that take a holistic approach and combine the humanities with the physical sciences.

Any chance you can combine a beach vacation with academic research? I know in my line of work, I can make studies of the ocean an almost never-ending project. 🤣

I've led group dayhikes and have often found women showing up in clothing very difficult to pull down, out of the way or remove. When you plan to be outdoors for some time, do you pay extra attention to what you wear?

Sarah, I'd be curious if you found squat toilets to be less restricting when you're desperate and you don't need to hold back your rate of flow?

Okay, when we go for a hike, I'll make a point of bringing it up first. 😄