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An update. I exchanged messages with my hiking friend in the last hour. She wants to go again early in the week. While she didn't mention anything in particular about our hike, other that to say again she had fun, she asked if I could find another trail that's equally challenging. Maybe I'm reading a bit too much into that, and that she was talking more in terms of activity levels. Of course, my expectations were raised again when she said she'd try to come better prepared this time, whether that means bringing along a walking stick, different clothing or being more hydrated. I

I hope your job search goes well. 🤨

I'm a big fan of containers, too. I keep one beside my bed so I don't have to get up in the morning or I just want to sleep late. And, an empty wide-mouth water bottle, liter size or larger in my car, for those situations when I can't pull over to the side.

Wow, that must have been such an incredible situation you found yourself in! But, after I read your story, I had to look twice, first to see that it wasn't posted under Real Experiences and Encounters and then at the calendar to see it wasn't the first of April.

A nurse! 😁 I was in the hospital for a procedure that kept me overnight and I was required to stay in bad. They hadn't given me a urinal, so when I had to pee I rang for assistance. A nurse came in with a steel bedpan and sat me up. She then aimed me while I enjoyed my moment of much-needed relief. I'm sure it would have been a much bigger experience, probably for the both of us, if it wasn't for the fact I was only 7.

@Kupar I'm not sure she is one of "us." I know she appears to be very comfortable both with herself and the outdoors, as well as has a healthy sense of curiosity. Somehow, I sensed that from reading her first message to me. She texted me again last night to say how much she enjoyed our time and looked forward to us getting back together for another hike, but we didn't set a date. I don't think she's looking for a relationship nor doing anything kinky, but appears to be open to enjoying more fresh air and exercise. As I wrote, she seems happy and there doesn't seem to be much stress in h

I had a most interesting experience today (okay, yesterday now) that I thought I'd share. A few days back, I had posted I was planning on going on a walk this week with a women from a nature group I'd only recently joined. Well, this was the day. While I had high hopes, I wasn't sure what to expect. I'd only met her once before, on the group hike. But, she texted me Sunday evening, saying that she'd love to go for a longer hike this week. My heart skipped a beat. A few other places felt a little pumped up as well. So, I arrived at the parking lot about ten minutes early. I had barely

Sorry that I took another day to post my story. You might say I was a little preoccupied last night. 🤣 I've moved it to the Real Experiences section. Probably none of you will believe it played out like this, but sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.

You do know they're outstanding in their field? 🤣

I won't say I was ever a follower of tradition, but I always felt much more comfortable pulling over to the side. The thought of riding in wet shorts did nothing for me.

I guess that's why I'm no longer competing. I'm finding it much more enjoyable now introducing woman to long distance cycling.

Usually not true, at least at the major events where's there's a "sanitary break." Of course, not every rider wants to pee with a bunch of guys.

That explains so much why I love those trips on the backroads, stopping whenever the need exceeds the will to hold. You enjoying this moment together must make your friendship that much more special.

Welcome to our group, Ruth. I know it may be all new to you, but I want to reassure you there's nothing you can do that's better than just being yourself.

Don't you try to do that as much as you can, too? You do know I enjoy hiking for more than just the exercise?

Almost a certainty, unless they can hold for the entire race. Those pit stops aren't going to give them enough time to get out of the car, never mind drop trou. As a previous poster mentioned, there are such things as relief bags. And, did you know the first astronauts were actually told to wet themselves? For sure. I think we've all head about famous performers who have their own toilet just off-stage. Again, yes. I've heard a few interesting stories from women climbers who've told me all the steps involved. One more occupation I would add are foresters. I

Reading your post again, I have to give you kudos for having the courage to pull this off, especially in front of so many people. Despite being assigned male anatomy at birth and having had decades of urinal experience, I still sometimes feel hesitation in crowded places, like those troughs you'll sometime find. But, all in all, I much prefer using the individual, wall-mounted kind to the alternatives, save for peeing outdoors. In fact, so much that I made one for home and it seems to get plenty of use. Maybe you should get one, too, so you have plenty of practice before your next

Great to hear you had a most positive first encounter. I know for some born without a penis, their experience was awkward and they said they'd never do it again. (I actually feel a little sorry for them.) But, I've heard from several others how pleasurable it was, and what kept them from using one earlier. I'm so pleased your dream came true and looking forward to hear more stories about when you try again.

Got back just a short time ago from my hike. Guess my intuition was pretty much right, as I certainly wasn't disappointed. I might need a few hours to sort things out, but I'll try to post a story about our outing later tonight.

Thought you might like an update. I'm about to head of to meet up with my trail partner. I'll admit I'm a little excited. She sent me another message last that she's up for at least three, maybe four or five hours. Yes, I've brought along a couple extra water bottles.

A few weeks back I had a great conversation with a woman friend who for several years after college had worked as a forester. Being the curious sort, I inquired about what tasks she did, where she had worked, and what skills she had learned that were useful in her new career. At some point, I asked what was the favorite part of her job. Without a moment's hesitation she replied, "getting paid to pee outdoors."

Maybe you should just lay there and have your toilet come to you. 😆

Shall I read this as a challenge? 😁

I wonder about things like that, too. I'm not sure I can do any better.

I imagine you're better at holding now than when you were at 16.