Yesterday, taking advantage of a hot sunny day, my girlfriend and i decided to go to the lake. We spent a nice day, we sunbathed, we had lunch in a restaurant. Unfortunately, however, due to the excitement of spending such a beautiful afternoon with her, and the fact that, as sometimes happens, i overestimate my small bladder because the signals it sends are not always clear about my actual state of need, i didn't thinking a bathroom break before leaving the restaurant when i should have taken one even though i didn't feel the need. During the afternoon i had a slight urge, but i wasn't worried about it, because lately I seem to have a little more resistance, a sign that my bladder is slowly growing and in fact i can resist a little longer than a few years ago. Unfortunately, however, evidently not enough. So while we were walking by the lake, i felt a bit uneasy and I looked around to see if there was a public bathroom or a secluded place, but not even a sign of public bathrooms in that spot and then there was there were a lot of people, including many families with children. I told my girlfriend about the problem and she suggested we go back to the parking lot or go back to the restaurant and ask to use the bathroom, so we went. The problem is that we had walked a lot and it would have taken us at least 20 minutes to get back. From experience i feared what was about to happen, and in fact after a few minutes my body behaved as i had expected, and as often happens to me if i neglect visits to the bathroom i go from a manageable need to an almost unbearable desperation in the space of a few seconds. At that point i was in a panic, because the risk of getting wet in front of all those people was very high and i cursed myself for not having used the bathroom at the restaurant or for not having worn a pull-up (i had them in my backpack but obviously at that point i couldn't undress and put them on). As i went on my need became more and more unbearable, so I said to my girlfriend "love, i don't think i can do it, i have to find a place" and she looked around "there are too many people, darling, try to resist " and i nodded, but i knew from experience that i would soon have an accident if I didn't find a place to relieve myself within a matter of minutes. Since the parking lot was closer and it was quite secluded we decided to go there, but unfortunately my muscles couldn't contain the pee anymore and i started leaking. When i felt the heat in my pants i panicked, there was a trickle running down my thigh and a wet spot on my crotch, i took off my backpack and put it in front. I started crying and my girlfriend said it wasn't my fault, and that it was nothing. When we got to the car, my bladder gave out and i flooded my pants before i could get them down. There was a family with two children who saw the scene. I wanted to sink in shame, the two children stared at me in amazement before their mother dragged them away. My girlfriend picked me up and took me to the car, grabbing a towel and putting her on the seat of my Smart. I was crying like a little girl and she consoled me and she helped me put on the spare panties and pants i had in my backpack after i dried myself quickly with the wipes. I spent the entire trip home apologizing for ruining the trip, with my girlfriend trying to console me. When we got home she ordered me to go take a shower and then she helped me wash myself, i obeyed and let her take care of me like i was a child. Which made me feel better and then we laid in bed and watched Netflix, with her caressing me while i had my head resting on her shoulder. 

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I almost posted last night, and didn't - but here are my thoughts and this is very much me speaking as a person and not a staff opinion. The entire site is open to everyone, both to browse and to support discussions.  In my opinion there shouldn't be any areas that are off limits to anyone - that could create division, whereas we as 'peefans vs the vanilla world' need to be united in sharing our interest and supporting each other. Now, having said that we be united, there's a lot of different interests across the site - those who just enjoy pee and those who enjoy it sexually.  Those who enjoy seeing the opposite gender peeing, those that enjoy the same gender.  Those that enjoy just browsing, and those that enjoy posting images of themselves. Then, bring in the fact that men on the site greatly outnumber ladies - maybe 4:1 or even 5:1 and also a huge number of guys are only really into ladies peeing, and the nudity that can go with it.   Partly that's porn culture, it's largely produced for those who are into girls and (IMHO) the majority of it's consumers are guys.   Same as here. There are a proportion of guys who enjoy posting pictures of themselves peeing and that gives the opportunity for all to enjoy.    But because of the 4:1 ratio of membership, and because of the number of guys who are totally disinterested or even offended at seeing (shock horror) someone else's dick, a specific area where has been created for those who do enjoy seeing guys peeing so they can find the stuff they like.   It's not a matter of excluding anyone, it's just a matter of an area that's easy to find.   In that sense just like having separate sections for Sex & Porn, General Discussion etc. Convenient ways to find what you want to see.   Coming back to the question of an area for ladies - there's two simple things that would help here (and I'm speaking as one of the guilty ones)  - If guys would shut up and listen occasionally.  And if guys would stop thinking they know best and mansplaining to the ladies. Take a look at any post who's title is clearly a question directed to the ladies - usually it's blindingly obvious from the title and the first few words of the post.   And the first couple of responses are from ladies, before (some) guys wade in there with posts about what they think, what their ex-partner did, why the female anatomy works the way it does...     And then it's just turned into yet another post by blokes.  And maybe that's why the ladies get pissed off.  Maybe that's why they feel the desire to have a 'safe space' free from that effect. It doesn't have to be that way.   Two ears, two eyes, one mouth.   And one brain. We have a very small proportion of active ladies on the site - maybe in the 10s, probably not 100s.   Rather than having an area that's closed off to everyone else, let's just treat them with enough respect to not talk over them, take over posts and thing we know all there is to know. 

Looks like you've pissed there a few times before! I've had a similar piss corner that looked like that 🙂

My ideal pee partner has a huge bladder and is super confident about using it however she wants. She has no inhibitions about talking about pee (SUCH a turn-on for me), and knows how to control me with her piss and get whatever she wants out of me (for example, actually pissing tends to make me more submissive, whereas deliberately withholding or teasing me with pee tends to make me more dominant, etc). Most importantly, she'll hydrate before/during sex to keep the good stuff coming 😎