Penis size

[hold_on 134]

1 minute ago, Loller said:

I think 5 inches is not that small. And it's pretty common to be small when flaccid, it's called being a grower. As long as you got enough length to get a good hold on it to pee standing up, it's good. Flaccid cock isn't really used for much else, haha.

It sucks that some women insult a man's size when they get into an argument or when they break up from a partner. I think those kinds of women will do it regardless of your actual size because it's such an easy target.

Very true!

Yeah, she tended to do that kind of stuff when drunk 😂  But like I said, I ended up kind of liking it.

As far as the length when peeing - sometimes I do have to stretch it out a bit first to get a better  hold 😂

[gldenwetgoose 21,525]

I wasn’t going to respond - but after seeing all the lengthy / extensive / broad responses, I decide I should extend my experience. 

I’ve had the tape measure and the micrometer out and I’ve got a result to report. In absolute scientific terms, the size of my penis is officially <drum roll>….  Unspecified. 

That’s right - I haven’t taken a measurement.  

And to be honest the results if I did would differ quite drastically as to whether I’d been out in the cold, or summer warmth, whether I’d just had a warm bath. And of course then the additional stimulus of morning wood or seeing the amazing content on this site. Hell, even seeing certain usernames can make a change to size (in either direction). 

And to be totally honest, I congratulate you gentlemen with a potential careers in the circus, but I’m really not bothered whether I’m average, above or below.  Nobody complains about my performances (and there’s plenty of ways I can think to deliver satisfaction even if I kept my pants on).

Sorry to detract from the debate - sometimes I guess I’m just a bit of a dick. 

[Bacardi 10,142]

10 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Hell, even seeing certain usernames can make a change to size (in either direction).

Calm yourself down, Goose! I don't need this savagery first thing in the morning 🤣

[Loller 399]

1 hour ago, hold_on said:

Yeah, she tended to do that kind of stuff when drunk 😂  But like I said, I ended up kind of liking it.

As far as the length when peeing - sometimes I do have to stretch it out a bit first to get a better  hold 😂

No worries. I occasionally have to give my willy a good stretch too. Especially if I'm out jogging and my member shrinks to a miniscule flaccid size because all the blood is going elsewhere in the body.

Edited May 12, 2022 by Loller

[Kupar 13,353]

5 minutes ago, Loller said:

if I'm out jogging and my member shrinks to a miniscule flaccid size because all the blood is going elsewhere in the body.

Yes - I hear you!

[Sophie 24,434]

I don't think size matters. I have only slept with one guy but my friends have frequently told me the best sex they have ever had hasn't necessarily been with the biggest guy. 

It's not about the ship, but the motion of the ocean. 

[steve25805 126,481]

Is there any truth to the common assumption that the largeness of a man's car engine is directly related to the smallness of his penis?

[TMN_Femboi 1,074]

1 hour ago, Loller said:

No worries. I occasionally have to give my willy a good stretch too. Especially if I'm out jogging and my member shrinks to a miniscule flaccid size because all the blood is going elsewhere in the body.

That unironically sounds like a hot sight in it's own way

[LovesToWet 3,807]

2 hours ago, Kupar said:

Yes - I hear you!

Snap. I've got off my bike before and thought I'd turned into a woman, poor thing had nearly disappeared lol

[DoctorDoctor 1,409]

Wow, all this talk and I had to break out the ruler (in inches, sorry not cm ruler available).  So, I am clearly a "grower" being only 3.5" limp and 6.75" hard.  I think some on here are exagerating their girth.  My girth when hard and the soldier is standing up at attention is a solid 6" (thicker than a toilet paper cardboard tube (in the US)) and I haven't see too many that thick, even in porn videos.

I have to say, It is not a blessing.  I've been rejected for too big (I'm assuming girth) and had two failed relationships, because they just couldn't fit it.  Never tried giving anal.  Don't think that would end well.

[MaxWasTaken 522]

Had to measure as well because this is one of the few topics were i get uncomfortable with. Not really but let me explain. 

Im apparently around 13.5 cm (google says its around 5,3 inches) which is probably okay. BUT all of my male friends are well above average and all of my female friends had either only one experience with one penis (which is rather large in their cases) or they have a history of partners which are all huge. Oh by the way we are close friends, so i tend to talk a lot about intimate stuff with them. Back on topic. So my female friends either tell me that they are happy with what they got or they say stuff like "Even a small penis is completely fine. My last one was only 17 cm (around 6.7 inch) and we managed perfectly fine." Which is a bit worrying. 

So yeah even tho i am not a very self conscious person i tend to worry about this topic. Additionally there is the fact that i never had a sexual relationship with someone. (This is not due to self esteem or whatever. I just don't meet a lot of new people and i am told that i have a horrible taste in partners. And then this small group of a small group tends to fall in love with someone else, while im dating them. Back on topic:) So many of my worries come from the fact that i don't know if im able to satisfy a partner. I mean i totally now know that penetration is not everything (as many of you have stated) but i do want to be able to be feature complete xD. 

Its .. how should i put it. I worry a lot that im a tool box which misses a crucial tool. Its not about aesthetics or self confidence its about not knowing if i can do what others want me to do. +

That being said: 

• I know that there are many who are smaller than me who live in happy relationships.
• I know that my bad taste in partners will probably result in me never finding out if my worries are unfounded or not.
• I know that skill (which i don't have xD) and other options are a way to make anything work. 

I posted this mainly to explain why i worry about this stuff. For me it is not about the fact who has the biggest dick. In fact i do like the fact that i am a grower because i like to wear stuff like leggings and i don't want to show a huge package all the time xD. But it's about the "fear" of not being feature complete. But i guess this fear only goes away with experience. (And i think that i would have those worries no matter my size. I feel like its just a part of growing up. And im not very fast or good at growing up. xD)

Edited May 13, 2022 by MaxWasTaken

[Kupar 13,353]

1 hour ago, MaxWasTaken said:

I know that my bad taste in partners will probably result in me never finding out if my worries are unfounded or not.

1 hour ago, MaxWasTaken said:

But i guess this fear only goes away with experience. (And i think that i would have those worries no matter my size.

It'll happen and it'll be fine, I'm sure. You're a great guy, and though they might not know it yet, the right person or people are out there and you'll find them.  Sending hugs in the mean time.

Edited May 13, 2022 by Kupar
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[Loller 399]

2 hours ago, MaxWasTaken said:

Had to measure as well because this is one of the few topics were i get uncomfortable with. Not really but let me explain. 

Im apparently around 13.5 cm (google says its around 5,3 inches) which is probably okay. BUT all of my male friends are well above average and all of my female friends had either only one experience with one penis (which is rather large in their cases) or they have a history of partners which are all huge. Oh by the way we are close friends, so i tend to talk a lot about intimate stuff with them. Back on topic. So my female friends either tell me that they are happy with what they got or they say stuff like "Even a small penis is completely fine. My last one was only 17 cm (around 6.7 inch) and we managed perfectly fine." Which is a bit worrying. 

So yeah even tho i am not a very self conscious person i tend to worry about this topic. Additionally there is the fact that i never had a sexual relationship with someone. (This is not due to self esteem or whatever. I just don't meet a lot of new people and i am told that i have a horrible taste in partners. And then this small group of a small group tends to fall in love with someone else, while im dating them. Back on topic:) So many of my worries come from the fact that i don't know if im able to satisfy a partner. I mean i totally now know that penetration is not everything (as many of you have stated) but i do want to be able to be feature complete xD. 

Its .. how should i put it. I worry a lot that im a tool box which misses a crucial tool. Its not about aesthetics or self confidence its about not knowing if i can do what others want me to do. +

That being said: 

• I know that there are many who are smaller than me who live in happy relationships.
• I know that my bad taste in partners will probably result in me never finding out if my worries are unfounded or not.
• I know that skill (which i don't have xD) and other options are a way to make anything work. 

I posted this mainly to explain why i worry about this stuff. For me it is not about the fact who has the biggest dick. In fact i do like the fact that i am a grower because i like to wear stuff like leggings and i don't want to show a huge package all the time xD. But it's about the "fear" of not being feature complete. But i guess this fear only goes away with experience. (And i think that i would have those worries no matter my size. I feel like its just a part of growing up. And im not very fast or good at growing up. xD)

I myself have noticed that younger women tend to have an unrealistic view of how big the average penis is. Like, they seem to be expecting an 8 incher and think anything under that is small.

Is your length measurement bone-pressed? If not, there can be an inch or so of length hidden under the fat pad (everyone has atleast a little bit of fat on their pubic area). Penises should always be measured bone-pressed as different guys have different size fat pads.

Edited May 13, 2022 by Loller

[Golden_shower 18]

Mine is on the smaller side when flaccid, except when I need to pee. It then seems to be a decent size, anyone else find that? When I'm erect its close to 7" long but I've never measured the girth. It seems in proportion with the length so looks fine. I've had girls say it's big and some just accept it as it is. I don't know how these pornstars get banged doggy style with huge dicks, I've never been able to do that, girls say it's uncomfortable going hard and deep in that position. 

[Loller 399]

3 minutes ago, Golden_shower said:

Mine is on the smaller side when flaccid, except when I need to pee. It then seems to be a decent size, anyone else find that? When I'm erect its close to 7" long but I've never measured the girth. It seems in proportion with the length so looks fine. I've had girls say it's big and some just accept it as it is. I don't know how these pornstars get banged doggy style with huge dicks, I've never been able to do that, girls say it's uncomfortable going hard and deep in that position. 

Yeah, I think the pressure from the bladder somehow enhances bloodflow in the genitalia, causing a larger flaccid size.

[MaxWasTaken 522]

31 minutes ago, Kupar said:

It'll happen and it'll be fine, I'm sure. You're a great guy, and though they might not know it yet, the right person or people are out there and you'll find them.  Sending hugs in the mean time.

Yeah i don't know about that. I take the compliment tho :D. I definitely need to meet a lot more people if i ever want a chance to succeed. Love is weird and complicated and i don't make it easier for myself. But hey the easy way is never an option for me xD. 

8 minutes ago, Loller said:

I myself have noticed that younger women tend to have an unrealistic view of how big the average penis is. Like, they seem to be expecting an 8 incher and think anything under that is small.

Is your length measurement bone-pressed? If not, there can be an inch or so of length hidden under the fat pad (everyone has atleast a little bit of fat on their pubic area). Penises should always be measured bone-pressed as different guys have different size fat pads.

No i didn't but i don't need to be to scientific to know that im way smaller than anyone else in the friend group. And i also know that im well below everything my female friends are used to. But as i said before i think my biggest issue is the feeling of not being able to fulfill a partners wishes. But im sure that i will overcome this with time and experience. It was important to me to show that you can worry about this stuff even if you don't care about the "prestige" of having the biggest dick.

3 minutes ago, Golden_shower said:

Mine is on the smaller side when flaccid, except when I need to pee. It then seems to be a decent size, anyone else find that? When I'm erect its close to 7" long but I've never measured the girth. It seems in proportion with the length so looks fine. I've had girls say it's big and some just accept it as it is. I don't know how these pornstars get banged doggy style with huge dicks, I've never been able to do that, girls say it's uncomfortable going hard and deep in that position. 

Do you mean when you are holding your pee ? Then yes. Its not really an erection but its erect enough to make it harder for pee to flow. I think its just your body tightening the valve xD. 

People are in to all sorts of stuff which means that some may like this feeling. There is also lube which numbs the pain and then there are "porn stars" who don't enjoy their job. Thinking about porn for to long gets uncomfortable really fast. 
You can also get used to a lot of stuff. Maybe you get desensitised after a while. Similar to how you have to "train" to enjoy anal. 

[TMN_Femboi 1,074]

Something to ease 'little pp' worries, but it's kinda messed up:

My last boyfriend had a badly healed scar on his dick, because he willingly cut himself there once (he had... issues). That is something that definitely ... lets say 'goes against the stereotypical ideals of display of virility' to put it lightly, it really wasn't pretty. But: I didn't mind at that time because it wasn't a health risk and because that dick was attached to him and I liked him. And compared to that, dick size is a rather small issue (no pun intended) which any decent partner shouldn't care about.

Again, dick size doesn't really mean much to me, but even those who do like them bigger should prefer a smol dick on a nice guy to a horsecock on somebody not so nice, simply because sharing some nude actual quality time together feels better than anything a dick of any size could ever achieve. And those who don't think like that aren't worth your time anyways, those should just stick to dildos if that's all that matters to them.

 

 

[Loller 399]

2 hours ago, MaxWasTaken said:

Yeah i don't know about that. I take the compliment tho :D. I definitely need to meet a lot more people if i ever want a chance to succeed. Love is weird and complicated and i don't make it easier for myself. But hey the easy way is never an option for me xD. 

No i didn't but i don't need to be to scientific to know that im way smaller than anyone else in the friend group. And i also know that im well below everything my female friends are used to. But as i said before i think my biggest issue is the feeling of not being able to fulfill a partners wishes. But im sure that i will overcome this with time and experience. It was important to me to show that you can worry about this stuff even if you don't care about the "prestige" of having the biggest dick.

Do you mean when you are holding your pee ? Then yes. Its not really an erection but its erect enough to make it harder for pee to flow. I think its just your body tightening the valve xD. 

People are in to all sorts of stuff which means that some may like this feeling. There is also lube which numbs the pain and then there are "porn stars" who don't enjoy their job. Thinking about porn for to long gets uncomfortable really fast. 
You can also get used to a lot of stuff. Maybe you get desensitised after a while. Similar to how you have to "train" to enjoy anal. 

Have you actually seen your friend's penises erect? A lot of guys exaggerate their size when talking about it, some just a little and some drastically.

[MaxWasTaken 522]

2 minutes ago, Loller said:

Have you actually seen your friend's penises erect? A lot of guys exaggerate their size when talking about it, some just a little and some drastically.

I don't think its that important but sure. I have seen a couple of them with flaccid penises that are bigger than mine when it is erect. For some of them i know the number they told me matches the number their girlfriends gave me prior. In 2 cases i was present when they orderd custom condoms made for their size (Apparently this is a cool thing you can do. You send your measurements and they send you better fitting condoms in return.) So i think my "data" is pretty accurate xD.

[Ilovepeestains 483]

7 hours ago, MaxWasTaken said:

Had to measure as well because this is one of the few topics were i get uncomfortable with. Not really but let me explain. 

Im apparently around 13.5 cm (google says its around 5,3 inches) which is probably okay. BUT all of my male friends are well above average and all of my female friends had either only one experience with one penis (which is rather large in their cases) or they have a history of partners which are all huge. Oh by the way we are close friends, so i tend to talk a lot about intimate stuff with them. Back on topic. So my female friends either tell me that they are happy with what they got or they say stuff like "Even a small penis is completely fine. My last one was only 17 cm (around 6.7 inch) and we managed perfectly fine." Which is a bit worrying. 

So yeah even tho i am not a very self conscious person i tend to worry about this topic. Additionally there is the fact that i never had a sexual relationship with someone. (This is not due to self esteem or whatever. I just don't meet a lot of new people and i am told that i have a horrible taste in partners. And then this small group of a small group tends to fall in love with someone else, while im dating them. Back on topic:) So many of my worries come from the fact that i don't know if im able to satisfy a partner. I mean i totally now know that penetration is not everything (as many of you have stated) but i do want to be able to be feature complete xD. 

Its .. how should i put it. I worry a lot that im a tool box which misses a crucial tool. Its not about aesthetics or self confidence its about not knowing if i can do what others want me to do. +

That being said: 

• I know that there are many who are smaller than me who live in happy relationships.
• I know that my bad taste in partners will probably result in me never finding out if my worries are unfounded or not.
• I know that skill (which i don't have xD) and other options are a way to make anything work. 

I posted this mainly to explain why i worry about this stuff. For me it is not about the fact who has the biggest dick. In fact i do like the fact that i am a grower because i like to wear stuff like leggings and i don't want to show a huge package all the time xD. But it's about the "fear" of not being feature complete. But i guess this fear only goes away with experience. (And i think that i would have those worries no matter my size. I feel like its just a part of growing up. And im not very fast or good at growing up. xD)

I’m not large either, and I’ve had over twenty years of a very active and happy sex life. Not many women can cum with straight sex, but my first girlfriend came multiple times on my dick in any position, and she was a large woman (much taller than me). My current wife cannot cum without manual clitoral stimulation. Anyway, point is, size is not as important as other factors. If you really want to please a woman, lick her.

Edited May 13, 2022 by Ilovepeestains

[MaxWasTaken 522]

5 minutes ago, Ilovepeestains said:

I’m not large either, and I’ve had over twenty years of a very active and happy sex life. Not many women can cum with straight sex, but my first girlfriend came multiple times on my dick in any position, and she was a large woman (much taller than me). My current wife cannot cum without manual clitoral stimulation. Anyway, point is, size is not as important as other factors. If you really want to please a woman, lick her.

Yes sir ! xD

[Loller 399]

On 5/13/2022 at 3:10 PM, MaxWasTaken said:

I don't think its that important but sure. I have seen a couple of them with flaccid penises that are bigger than mine when it is erect. For some of them i know the number they told me matches the number their girlfriends gave me prior. In 2 cases i was present when they orderd custom condoms made for their size (Apparently this is a cool thing you can do. You send your measurements and they send you better fitting condoms in return.) So i think my "data" is pretty accurate xD.

Hmm. It could be that they have told their girlfriends that their penises are 8 inches or so and that's why the numbers matched between them. Very few women actually measure their partners. Also, ordering big condoms doesn't really prove anything. I could go out and buy XXL condoms even if they won't fit me. Also, the friends you have seen flaccid could be extreme showers, meaning that their cock is large flaccid and basically doesn't grow at all erect, only gets hard.

I honestly think you should not worry so much about your size. It is within the average range.

Edited May 16, 2022 by Loller

[GWash17 388]

On 5/12/2022 at 6:43 AM, Bacardi said:

My ex had a ten inch penis and it did absolutely nothing for me lol. Just hurt me going in and coming out because he wasn't all that good at sex and insisted he couldn't use lube or condoms. 

Current partner is about 9 in. It's okay. I'm not really one to enjoy traditional penis-in-vagina sex so I put up with it when he wants it and just wait for the next time he wants to use his mouth 😝 

Are they circumcised or uncut?

[Bacardi 10,142]

5 hours ago, GWash17 said:

Are they circumcised or uncut?

Both are cut unfortunately.

[Maclir 1,061]

All this talk of 9 inch length and 6 inch girth has left me rather disappointed.   5.25 length, girth...  not sure, but a few inches.   Sorry, ladies