Is this site really for you?

[JMY 54]

Having only recently joined here,i feel im a bit straight-laced compared to others.

Im not into drinking pee,peeing in cupboards on carpets etc.I just like watching women pee. 

It is a fun site of course but i think its too extreme for me.

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

The site offers a wide ranging an very supportive community.  Wide ranging in that yes it caters for all manner of aspects to the kink - and supportive in that when you take time to get to know people there are a lot of genuine, warm friendly people on board who can become great friends. Friends who met through a common interest, but have so much more.

One thing we are insistent on, like every civilised society we have a framework of rules.  Some aspects of the kink are too extreme - and there are specifically rules against being judgemental and derogatory against other members.

You should read the message I took the trouble to write, explaining all of this.

Whether you choose to carry on getting to know us all better is of course your choice.  We don't want to lose you.

[MiaDarling 700]

Hi...👋

So... I understand where you are coming from. As a girl in pampers among people who do not like that at all, a lot of times I feel like I don't belong here either. All I can say from my experience is I am not into what most people here are into, and most people here probably think my way of life is pathetic.. but I have made a small group of friends from the chat, ( love you all!! You know who you are 😘 )  and even tho the vast majority of the members here probably feel I should take my posts elsewhere, my group of friends makes this site great for me! 

That's my long, boring way of saying, start or keep chatting with people and you will find a group that share the same interests as you. Hope this helps.

Stay wet,

Mia 🤗😘💓💕

[Kupar 13,341]

I'd second all the comments from the people above. There's so much here, and I would be surprised if you couldn't find content to enjoy and other members to interact with. One thing that might help is to create a specific "activity stream" to follow. That way you can just track the things from people and threads you enjoy. But the key thing here I think is to be non-judgemental about others' interests. The forum is very broad and it's really not expected that everyone will like everything 🙂 

 

 

[speedy3471 10,655]

@JMY

I can see how you feel this way, but as mentioned by some of the wonderful members this place caters to everyone. 

Be patient and you will make great friends here, I sure have🙂. When I first joined my interests were 'mild' if you want to call it lol. Over time and after meeting new people here my interests expanded(maybe they were always within me and it took this great place to release it). Be patient, get to know people and you will find similar minded people here 

[steve25805 126,156]

6 hours ago, MiaDarling said:

...the vast majority of the members here probably feel I should take my posts elsewhere, my group of friends makes this site great for me! 

Am glad you have found good friends here who make you feel welcome.

We are a live and let live site with rules against judgementalism designed to foster that ethos. Your particular interests might not be everyone's. Mine aren't either. Many of us have niche interests within the fetish, but all are welcome. Most of us here are live and let live and unlikely to want you to go elsewhere. All aspects of the fetish including yours are welcome here.

And if ever you feel that someone is being down on you for your interests, report it to us and we will have your back.

[MiaDarling 700]

15 minutes ago, steve25805 said:

Am glad you have found good friends here who make you feel welcome.

We are a live and let live site with rules against judgementalism designed to foster that ethos. Your particular interests might not be everyone's. Mine aren't either. Many of us have niche interests within the fetish, but all are welcome. Most of us here are live and let live and unlikely to want you to go elsewhere. All aspects of the fetish including yours are welcome here.

And if ever you feel that someone is being down on you for your interests, report it to us and we will have your back.

Thank you Steve! ( I think you were saying that to me? ) Glad I'm not tinkling on everyone's parade 😘

[Alfresco 11,639]

Hi @JMY,  Pleased that you have aired your concerns, but I can assure you that there are plenty of people on this site that enjoy watching women pee.   Yes, some will have additional or more specific areas that they are also interested in, but a quick look at the Video Links and photos section will let you see that there is plenty of subject matter that is simply women peeing; some just sat on the toilet with absolutely nothing showing, some using a toilet but with you seeing what's happening, some peeing outside in a natural situation.  Yes there are also plenty of posts that relate to specific aspects of the interests like naughty peeing, golden showers, drinking etc. etc., but most of the forum subject headings give enough information to allow you to pick and choose which ones to look at.  

For myself, I absolutely love seeing women pee.  My favourite is women peeing outside as you can see from some of my posts saying what I've seen in cities on Friday and Saturday evenings, but I also enjoy seeing women pee in toilets and yes I'll admit that I enjoy seeing the videos of women peeing on carpets etc as well.    The point is that I think that there is something for everyone with a pee interest here and the best bit is that we are a very accepting community and understand that people have different interests within the larger community.   

If you  look up some of the threads that relate to the areas of peeing in which you are interested, you will see the same names cropping up again and again and see who posts on subjects that you like most.  Then you can start to engage with those posts and those people, soon you will find like minded people with whom you can share pics and enjoy discussions.

I don't engage with or even read all the forums here - there are two many for me to have the time anyway, so I I just look at the ones that look to be of interest to me.  

I hope that you can enjoy looking around and finding the content that you like and hopefully also starting your own threads for discussions or for sharing pictures that you may already have.  

@MiaDarling I think you do yourself an injustice.   I doubt very much that anyone here considers your way of peeing "pathetic" as you put it.   We respect your choices and you enjoy what you do.   A good number here also enjoy reading about it!   Yes, many wouldn't join you in using pampers on a daily basis, but you make your own choices and most people are either supportive - even if they are not interested in trying it for themselves.   

[MiaDarling 700]

22 minutes ago, Alfresco said:

Hi @JMY,  Pleased that you have aired your concerns, but I can assure you that there are plenty of people on this site that enjoy watching women pee.   Yes, some will have additional or more specific areas that they are also interested in, but a quick look at the Video Links and photos section will let you see that there is plenty of subject matter that is simply women peeing; some just sat on the toilet with absolutely nothing showing, some using a toilet but with you seeing what's happening, some peeing outside in a natural situation.  Yes there are also plenty of posts that relate to specific aspects of the interests like naughty peeing, golden showers, drinking etc. etc., but most of the forum subject headings give enough information to allow you to pick and choose which ones to look at.  

For myself, I absolutely love seeing women pee.  My favourite is women peeing outside as you can see from some of my posts saying what I've seen in cities on Friday and Saturday evenings, but I also enjoy seeing women pee in toilets and yes I'll admit that I enjoy seeing the videos of women peeing on carpets etc as well.    The point is that I think that there is something for everyone with a pee interest here and the best bit is that we are a very accepting community and understand that people have different interests within the larger community.   

If you  look up some of the threads that relate to the areas of peeing in which you are interested, you will see the same names cropping up again and again and see who posts on subjects that you like most.  Then you can start to engage with those posts and those people, soon you will find like minded people with whom you can share pics and enjoy discussions.

I don't engage with or even read all the forums here - there are two many for me to have the time anyway, so I I just look at the ones that look to be of interest to me.  

I hope that you can enjoy looking around and finding the content that you like and hopefully also starting your own threads for discussions or for sharing pictures that you may already have.  

@MiaDarling I think you do yourself an injustice.   I doubt very much that anyone here considers your way of peeing "pathetic" as you put it.   We respect your choices and you enjoy what you do.   A good number here also enjoy reading about it!   Yes, many wouldn't join you in using pampers on a daily basis, but you make your own choices and most people are either supportive - even if they are not interested in trying it for themselves.   

Thank you Alfresco! 😘

[willinglywet 242]

I can only speak for myself about this and personally i am really interest of seeing girls holding their pee and end up wetting themselwes finally, and i like to hold myself quite a bit too. For myself i dont enjoy as much of just peeing in public or pissing on the cup,carpet or anything like that but it doesnt bother me a bit. We are all different you know, but anyways i think that the variety is a good thing. Probably here would have a lot less people and action if this was tightly narrowed about desperation and wettings for example.

[JDG 870]

I can understand OP. Personally, my interests are very mild. I am not into desperation, I am not into wetting, I am not into pee play during sex... I just find Girls who pee very sexy, that's it. And the more natural the pee, the better. I don't like those clips where Girls take out their tits etc before peeing. If I want to see tits, I'll Just watch "regular" porn. Peewise, that Galician Gotta series (if anyone knows that) is my holy grail. 

I am also quite conservative in pee spots. I never ever would pee on my or someone else's property for instance. If my girlfriend would piss all over the carpet of a hotel room, or on the rug in my living room or something similar, I would probably be grossed out rather then turned on. I am not at all into pee vandalism so to speak. So all in all, I am not extreme at all and in that sense exactly the same as OP I presume. 

Having said that however, I ended up on this forum regularly during my, um, private time. There are many great contributions on here for me as well and have been lurking here for years already. I actually found this forum so good that I decided to start contributing myself, so I guess OP will have enough fun here as well. 

Edited January 15, 2021 by JDG

[Eliminature 5,209]

Just echoing what the others have said, really. ☺ 

I'm not into drinking pee, wearing diapers, desperation or wetting. I'm not even really into naughty peeing - though I'm not against exploring that. A lot of the time, people on this website (all males as far as I can tell) have tried to engage me in chat about their favourite aspects or requested me to do things that they like. I daresay that I came across as a bit unfriendly to some when I refused their advances - as it were. I actually had to state that I don't give private chats to anyone except the admins, now. 

What I am into is peeing standing as a woman (surprisingly niche), peeing outside, peeing in sinks baths inside, watching others (male and female), being watched by others and peeing with others. When I was suddenly confronted with requests to hold, wet or talk about golden showers, I admit that I was a bit scared. I almost didn't stay. However, I'm so glad I did. The voyeur in me loves seeing and reading about others peeing and the exhibitionist in me loves sharing images of me. It's perfectly fine and acceptable for you to side step anything that doesn't appeal to you. As Alfresco says, there isn't enough time to read every last message on the site, anyway. 

Using Gldnwetgoose's analogy, imagine this website like a pre-lockdown pub. Don't bother with the drinks that don't appeal to you. If you prefer a nice Scotch on the rocks instead of a pint of ale, go for it. If you'd rather play snooker instead of darts, that's fine. The live music might be your thing, but if not, don't worry a wide range of bands get booked. I love pubs, can you tell? 😆

If you enjoy watching ladies peeing, this sounds like just the site for you. ☺ Don't be put off by other things that appeal to others. 

[oliver2 4,421]

49 minutes ago, Eliminature said:

I'm not even really into naughty peeing -

Your avatar icon is Sophy Rickett pissing all over a London landmark.

Have you considered squatting to pee? (#joking)

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Using Gldnwetgoose's analogy, imagine this website like a pre-lockdown pub

I got barred when they caught me pissing in the beer garden. And obvious a nice Scotch on the rocks is a travesty 🙃

[glad1 2,834]

57 minutes ago, Eliminature said:

What I am into is peeing standing as a woman (surprisingly niche), peeing outside, peeing in sinks baths inside, watching others (male and female), being watched by others and peeing with others.

I'm into these as well. Maybe not the sinks so much, but I've used one in a pinch. 

Maybe women peeing standing is still a niche, but I've seemed to run across quite a few who do. At least half the women I've hiked with have done so occasionally, and many do nearly all the time. Of course, they are the outdoorsy sort and seldom shy. On a good day we'd get to watch each other a few times.

As for those other activities that don't quite float our boat, I say to each their own.

[Eliminature 5,209]

6 minutes ago, oliver2 said:

Your avatar icon is Sophy Rickett pissing all over a London landmark.

I guess it depends on what you consider to be naughty. To me, that's just peeing outside! 😉

[Alfresco 11,639]

16 hours ago, JDG said:

If I want to see tits, I'll Just watch "regular" porn. Peewise, that Galician Gotta series (if anyone knows that) is my holy grail. 

Totally agree on this.   I have hours of Galician Gotta series and other similar videos of girls peeing at concerts and public events.   I don't need it to be graphic details or ridiculous settings, I just like seeing girls pee in public because they need to pee and either they don't care about peeing outdoors or they are so desperate that they have no choice.  Staged ones where they spend half the time flashing and playing up to the camera are not for me.   I do also really like things that are caught on CCTV or even some of the YouTube ones where you can't see much at all but you can tell that someone is peeing in a lift/carpark/entrance hall or a delivery driver squatting behind her van.

 

[oliver2 4,421]

2 hours ago, Eliminature said:

I guess it depends on what you consider to be naughty. To me, that's just peeing outside! 😉

That's what I said to the pub landlord but he barred me anyway

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

Just for info - as great a thread as this is - and it is great to read all the positivity and encouragement, our friend JMY will not be joining us to read the responses.  JMY is no longer a member of this fine establishment.

[Alfresco 11,639]

On 1/15/2021 at 9:39 PM, gldenwetgoose said:

Just for info - as great a thread as this is - and it is great to read all the positivity and encouragement, our friend JMY will not be joining us to read the responses.  JMY is no longer a member of this fine establishment.

Oh dear.   I don't know whether that was his choice or by virtue of his actions, but it looks like he never reviewed the comments provided and he wasn't particularly happy anyway.  Always a shame when people can't enjoy the forums for what they are, but they won't be right for everyone.

[Eliminature 5,209]

On 1/15/2021 at 9:39 PM, gldenwetgoose said:

Just for info - as great a thread as this is - and it is great to read all the positivity and encouragement, our friend JMY will not be joining us to read the responses.  JMY is no longer a member of this fine establishment.

That's a huge shame. 

[Admin 14,791]

The reason JMY won't be joining us is that he was banned. 

Or more specifically, he was already banned for repeatedly breaking the rules many months ago. 

This was his attempt at making a brand new account to try and circumvent his original ban.

I think he was just trying to stir up some trouble here. If he didn't think this site was for him, I doubt he'd have gone to all that trouble of creating a new email account just so he could re-register to the site for a second time.

However, this thread is useful for anyone who genuinely does wonder if this site is for them, and I just want to say thanks for all the great comments here! 

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

@Admin beat me to it, whilst I was thinking of a similar (less detailed) response.

It is indeed a shame, a real shame that he couldn't adopt the live and let live, peace and love attitude that oozes through the community.  There's always likely to be members more into one aspect than another - heterosexuals of both sexes for example, both into seeing the opposite gender rather than their own - and people into one aspect of our kink but not other aspects.

The key is though that (almost) everyone is mature enough to step over the things they're less in favour of.  Just ignore and move on. Unfortunately when a member cannot tolerate views other than their own and expects the site content to be governed by their one-sided view, that is when they fall foul of site rules.

Meanwhile - peace and harmony continue. 

[Alfresco 11,639]

I suspected as much - always a problem when people stir up trouble, but we are very fortunate that we have a generally very supportive community and @Admin and the team of moderators do a grand job of keeping it that way.   Thank you all.

[Kupar 13,341]

10 minutes ago, Admin said:

The reason JMY won't be joining us is that he was banned. 

Or more specifically, he was already banned for repeatedly breaking the rules many months ago. 

This was his attempt at making a brand new account to try and circumvent his original ban.

I think he was just trying to stir up some trouble here. If he didn't think this site was for him, I doubt he'd have gone to all that trouble of creating a new email account just so he could re-register to the site for a second time.

However, this thread is useful for anyone who genuinely does wonder if this site is for them, and I just want to say thanks for all the great comments here! 

Ah. OK. Thanks for the clarification @Admin. Perhaps the sentiments in the comments could be distilled into part of the guidance to users somewhere. Don't know where. Just musing really.

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

1 minute ago, Kupar said:

Ah. OK. Thanks for the clarification @Admin. Perhaps the sentiments in the comments could be distilled into part of the guidance to users somewhere. Don't know where. Just musing really.

It's one of those catch-22 situations, the people prone to unacceptable behaviours are often those least receptive and least likely to go searching for guidance.

The typical problem behaviours which we saw were in elements of several of the rules - ie Rule 3 on insulting others, Rule 4 on racism or homophobia, Rule 9 on criticising experiences, fantasies and content and then Rule 12 on arguing with other members.  Often it's subtle, but over time a pattern builds and where the member can't be encouraged to adapt their behaviour then action sometimes is needed.