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I do this all the time, I've posted here about it a lot. Happy to answer any questions. My wife has never suffered any ill effects from it (infections, etc.).

My sentiments exactly, I think this is a good approach, and I've had success with this approach. Because most people just look at pee as a bodily function rather than a fetish, sometimes it's the topic of a funny story, an embarrassing anecdote, etc. And then the delicate balancing act begins...

I was raised Catholic, but have distanced myself somewhat from the church as an adult due to the church's backward stance on things like LGBTQ+ rights, women's rights, and more. I am both religious and spiritual. My family and I still attend services semi-regularly, usually remotely (rather than attending in-person). It's a habit we got into during COVID, and it's now too convenient to do it remotely versus going back in person. The reason we still attend is that our local church has a priest we love, who is very progressive, and teaches that we should "Love thy neighbor" no matter

I'm currently reading the "Silo" series by Hugh Howie. It's three books - "Wool," "Shift," and "Dust." It's kind of a distopian sci-fi series, set in the not-too-distant future, where people live in an underground silo because the outside is unsafe. I'm currently about halfway through the third book, "Dust." The series is REALLY good - really compelling. The book series came out about 10 years ago, but has recently been made into a TV series, "Silo," on Apple TV. I'm looking forward to watching it when I finish the third book.

I haven't read the book, but just watched the movie ("A Man Called Otto"). Was really good!

That's next on my reading list! I have the audiobook queued up and ready to go as soon as I'm finished with what I'm reading now. Ken Follett is one of my favorite authors - I loved the Kingsbridge series.

Two relevant stories to share: 1.) My wife is a daily shower peer. It's part of her normal routine. One time I asked her where/when the habit began for her. She said "I guess I don't know exactly, but probably in college. The toilets were all the way on the other side of the bathroom. I think I just got up, and went to get in the shower line rather than making a separate stop for the toilet and losing my place in the shower line. I think this is what most people probably did." 2.) When I was in college, in my second year I shared an on-campus apartment with three male roommates. I do

My wife and I recently started watching the series "1923," which is a follow-on story to the series "Yellowstone." In the first episode, one of the main characters is introduced, Spencer, who is a WWI veteran working in Africa as a big game hunter. He is hired by a tourist group to hunt a leopard which has been stalking their camp. In one part he pees on the outside of his tent, to attract the leopard (so he can hunt it). Later in the episode, he is staked out at night, waiting for the leopard to make an appearance. A pretty, young blonde woman is shown exiting her tent, and she then pops

@Bacardi This sounds amazing. Was it pleasurable? Enough that you'd want to attempt it again? What you describe is similar to "squirting," which obviously generates a lot of discussion (and controversy) because there's always the debate of whether or not it's pee. So it sounds like you've successfully achieved it, at least that one time. I'm just always interested to learn more about it, especially from women who have experienced it first-hand.

I love this! Such an interesting / astute observation! This reminds me of a situation my wife was in, of which I told in my discussion thread to which I linked above. But I'll retell it briefly here. Several years ago my wife attended a hot tub party at her friend's house. It was all women, and drinks were free-flowing. The host asked everyone to please not pee in the hot tub. She said they could go in the house, or in the grass, but just not in the tub. But the hot tub was in the way back yard, a bit of a hike from the house. My wife said she didn't really notice anyone get o

I have a few items to add: When my wife was younger (newly out of college), she and some friends were on a road trip to Texas, and stopped at a rest stop somewhere in rural Arkansas. Apparently it was the WORST restroom she had ever seen, with disgusting toilets and cockroaches everywhere. I asked her "Ew, did you just pee on the floor?" She said "No, I just immediately left. I could hold it." But she added "I don't know what my friends did, they may have, but we didn't discuss the specifics". One time while I was in college, my rommates and I hosted a party at a small house we were

Since this topic has morphed somewhat from pools to hot tubs, here is a link to a similar topic I created (about hot tubs) that generated a lot of comments and activity: https://peefans.com/topic/21280-hot-tub-pee-etiquette/ Based on the comments, it doesn't seem unusual, especially among friends, for a host to say something like "please don't pee in the hot tub, here are some other options instead (grass, bushes, etc.)"

Something I've been thinking about recently is what it might have been like peeing in different situations in the old days. I listen to a lot of audiobooks, especially historical fiction, and the topic is occasionally explored. Authors talk about using a chamber pot, a privy, etc. I have a few specific examples in mind. One is the story about Versailles palace, and how it had no bathrooms. See example here: https://thisisversaillesmadame.blogspot.com/2014/04/the-lack-of-toilets.html?m=1 Some key excerpts: "There were hardly any toilets at Versailles and with a court co

@Tem1986 Thanks for the feedback and insight, I appreciate it. Based on your comment, I asked my wife if leaking afterward has been a problem. She said no, not really. She said once in a while she might notice a small (e.g. coin size) patch of wetness on her underwear the next morning or next day, but that's it. Most often when I pee inside her, most of it comes out there/then onto the towel. But the rest comes out into the toilet when she pees directly after sex. I don't know, maybe she sits there an extra minute to ensure her vagina is empty as well as her bladder.

@Mitch11 I think what you're describing here is essentially what's generally accepted as "squirting." There's obviously a lot of debate as to whether squirting is really peeing, but the general consensus these days seems to be that squirting is an involuntary expulsion of urine at the time of (or directly preceding) orgasm. I have not been with a partner who "squirts," but occasionally my wife gets really wet when orgasming, and I suspect that some of it could possibly be a little urine leaking out. I'm not sure though - it has never squirted out, even when she has intense orgasmic

I have a lot of experience trying to mix pee and sex (and orgasm). I've written about a lot of it here: https://peefans.com/topic/24247-new-sexual-experience-peed-during-intercourse/ @likewetting - I have a lot of similar experiences and feelings as you. As a male it can be really difficult to mix these sensations. To summarize it succinctly, my body sometimes gets "confused". I like to occasionally pee inside my wife during PIV. This is now fairly normal for us, and she lets me do it whenever I want. I don't do it every time, only maybe 1-in-3 times we have sex. I've been

I like reading Reddit for pee-related content. Especially r/Sex. It's interesting to me because the posters to r/Sex are usually not pee-fetishists, just "regular" people who occasionally post about pee-related things. Some topics commonly discussed are things like "Who has tried golden showers?" or "My boyfriend has a pee fetish and I'm not sure what to do." But by far the most common pee-related topic is "Is squirting pee?" It has sparked endless debate, and there's no general consensus (among commenters) as to the answer. But to me, the best, most entertaining (and sometimes

I would be curious as to what specific acts you and she are regularly pergorming that you feel may be causing this? "Pee sex" is a very broad spectrum, and can cover a lot of activities. Generally speaking, urine is not dangerous when it comes into contact with skin, even in sensitive areas. Urine is 95% water, and the 5% that is not water comprises body waste, such as excess minerals, nutrients, etc. The most common cause of UTIs in women is when dirt or foreign matter is introduced into the urethral opening. So, for example, if you were to finger her anus, then place that same fi

Unfortunately I think that's a no-go. She allows me a few occasional indulgences because she knows how much I enjoy it, but it definitely doesn't do anything for her. In fact it grosses her out and any time I "lick her clean" she has trouble masking her disgust. She's not a very sexual person in the first place - she wouldn't care at all if we never had sex. So the fact that she's not really interested in sex in the first place, coupled with a more specific activity that actively grosses her out definitely doesn't do anything for her.

My wife is not into the pee kink/fetish, but indulges me from time to time. One of the ways she indulges me is that if we're in the midst of foreplay, and she has to pee, she'll occasionally allow me to lick her afterwards. She will pee in the toilet, and I'll ask "Can you not wipe, so I can lick you?" She'll roll her eyes, and sort of "waddle" back to the bed, and then I'll go down on her. During our most recent encounter, she actually allowed me to lick her directly at the toilet. I followed her into the bathroom, she peed, I asked, and she stood there in a high squat position, an

My wife is usually pretty quiet during sex (our kids are just down the hall). But I can almost always tell when she's getting close, for all the reasons mentioned above. It's definitely a build-up, and when she finally comes, she might say "Ok" as a sort of release. I usually do announce when I'm coming, just out of habit, I guess. Sometimes if I'm trying to "synch up" so my wife and I both come at the same time, I might ask her "are you close?" But usually I try to keep the talking to a minimum because if I talk too much, she might lose it.

I found out through a friend that a friend-of-a-friend's wife does amateur porn (probably onlyfans or similar?) as a side hustle. I looked the friend-of-a-friend up on Facebook, and his wife is indeed attractive. I definitely would've looked up her porn, but I wouldn't even know where to start. For example, I know her name in real life, but not her online name/persona. So I just kind of gave up.

Ladies who have had a man pee inside your vagina - have you experienced discomfort from being "filled up" too much? Here's the background / story: My wife does not share my pee kink, but she puts up with a lot for my happiness. One of the things is me sometimes peeing inside her during sex. It started a little more than a year ago. I wrote about the first experience, along with subsequent experiences in the "Real Pee Encounters" section: So after a year, and me peeing inside her many times, this has become a somewhat normal part of our sex repertoire. I do it maybe 25% of

This is one of my all-time favorite pee scenarios. This happened for me a few times with my ex. I've told stories here before, but I'll provide a quick recap. My ex-wife was a heavy drinker (the main reason why she's my ex). Because she was a heavy drinker, she always had to pee. Early in our relationship, as we started having sex, she warned me she gets really wet during sex. So we always put down a puppy pad, or towel. Sometimes during sex, I would notice things felt really wet down there. We never really discussed it much, just chalked it up to her anatomy. I was also pretty inexperien

Aww, I'm sorry, but I don't remember anything more about it than what I posted above. It was months ago, and I didn't save it or anything. All I remember was that the thread was something like "Weirdest places you've peed," or "Most desperate you've been to pee," or similar. As I recall, it wasn't in a pee-related forum, it was in a more general one, like "Askreddit," or "Askwomen," or something like that. Sorry I can't be of more help.