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@Alfresco Same! My wife does this almost every day, has done it as long as I've known her. To her it's just normal, part if the routine. She doesn't usually let me watch - to her shower time, especially when peeing is involved - is private time, and she doesn't like to be on display. But on the odd occasion when she does allow me to watch, that makes it all the more enjoyable.

Here's another one. The last few describe accidents more than "just go" moments, but still illustrate that most people don't tjink it's a big deal.

I want to resurrect this topic again in order to share that I think this is at least somewhat common, even among "normal" people (without a pee kink). I often use Reddit r/sex as my barometer for what is "normal," among a representative cross-section of "average" people. I've pasted in some screenshots below that illustrate my point.

As I read everyone's stories here, I often think about missed opportunities I've had in my life. They're mostly situations where I could have seen female peeing, (or in one case taken part in pee play), but instead I either get embarrassed, or I try to be a gentleman and "do the right thing." The main situation I think of was one time with my ex-wife. We were swimming together at night, and out of nowhere she says "Do you want me to pee on you?" I was totally taken aback, and muttered something like "umm... no." Then "Why???" She said "I saw pee porn on your computer and just wondere

@wetnutt Coincidentally, that's the age/stage she's coming up to. No changes in libido yet, but maybe it'll be as you say. A man can hope!

@MommyImWettingMyself Thanks for the feedback. I wouldn't characterize it as a NEED as much as a strong desire. I also wouldn't characterize her feelings as complete revulsion. I think that might've been accurate at first, but it has lessened over the years to something more akin to tolerance now. Albeit grudging tolerance at times perhaps? Yes, I'd agree that our sex drives don't align, in that I have one and she doesn't. But we've more-or-less settled into a compromise that generally works for both of us in terms of frequency.

@wetnutt Thank you, insightful and appreciated. Since my wife isn't particularly into sex very much in the first place, there's not really any potential for a quid-pro-quo of sexual fantasies or kinks or whatever. I do try to be as giving as I can, trying to emphasize her pleasure as much as I can. I appreciate your comment about thanking her in other (non-sexual) ways. Makes sense.

Aw, thanks. My wife is not "into" pee, but she tolerates it. It's essentially a neutral experience for her. It doesn't add to her pleasure or sensation, and it doesn't detract from it. As you can discern from this thread, it has been a long time building to get to this point of relative confort with it for both of us. From her being comfortable/ok with it to me even being able to physically do ot. She is a medical professional, and through her professional life has come into contact with many bodily fluids, so she was never affected by the "ick" factor. To her "it's just pee."

I have another new update/experience to report. For the past several months my wife and I had been "out of sync" sexually. It had been a while since she had orgasmed. Nothing was working for her. She was going through a lot of emotional stuff, which can be a killer in the bedroom. So I decided to give the pee stuff a rest and focus on her instead. Over many weeks there were many massages, I took my time, and focused only on her needs. After one massage session, she was lying on her stomach, I was gently caressing her outer vaginal area, and I encouraged her to rub herself from

Someone who I'm close with is a Nurse Practitioner who worked for 25 years in women's health (OB/GYN). One time, fairly recently, I asked her about this, and she said more than half, probably closer to 60-70% of the women she sees are completely bare (shaved, waxed, lasered, etc.). She said most of the rest were natural, and a few here and there were trimmed. I asked, and there isn't really a trend (according to her). A 50+ year-old is just as likely to be bald as a teen. Some of it was cultural - white women tend to be bald more often than minorities / other cultures. In fact, one o

@jorel2012 Interesting! Thanks for sharing! Kind of a risky gambit, but I'm glad it paid off for you.

Absolutely! I couldn't agree more.

Ok, thanks. I assumed it was new because I've just started seeing the commercials. All of a sudden they're being heavily marketed.

I've been seeing TV commercials recently for the "PureWick Urine Collection System": https://www.healthproductsforyou.com/p-purewick-urine-collection-system-starter-set-with-battery.html "PureWick Catheter System works outside the body to draw urine away, helping keep skin dry and allowing for simple, non-invasive urine output management in female patients. It uses low-pressure wall suction, the PureWick Female External Catheter wicks urine away from the patient and into a designated collection canister." Based on the commercials, it seems to be marketed primarily for use among

A few days ago my wife, aching from her day's work, commented that she wishes we had a soaking tub or jacuzzi, so she could soak and relax "for hours." She said she'd just lay there, drink wine, and relax. I (naturally) asked wouldn't you eventually have to pee? Would you eventually get out, or just let it flow? She said "I don't know, I guess it would depend on how relaxed I was and whether I was ready to get out anyway." I said "So if you were feeling relaxed, and weren't ready to get out yet, you'd probably just let it flow?" She said "I don't know, maybe."

@W1ll_B Thank you for the kind words and empathy. I can particularly relate to several of the things you mentioned, especially the ones I included in the quote. My wife and I do occasionally talk about pee-related things, and that's a nice consolation.

@gldenwetgoose Thank you so much for the kind, heartfelt response. It meant a lot to me.

Thank you for the kind words and advice. Believe me, I've tried. Unfortunately, she's just not a particularly sexual person, and doesn't have any sexual interests or fantasies. There's no potential for a "quid pro quo". Just doing it once a week (for my enjoyment, not hers) is all she can muster. She has said on numerous occasions that she could go the rest of her life eithout having sex, and she would be fine with it.

Like the title says, this post is about the general ups and downs of life with a partner (in my case wife) who does not share the kink. We've been together a long time (15+ years), and have a strong marriage, decent sex life, and very solid foundation. I love my wife very much, but often lament the fact that she does not share my kink in the least. Although we have sex fairly regularly (about once a week), the sex is generally very "vanilla". I enjoy it in the moment, but often wish there was something more. She knows about my kink, and allows certain indulgences from time to ti

Two other data points: When I first installed my hot tub at home, I had a quick conversation with a female coworker (Amy) about it. I had a spot picked out, but sort of mentioned off-hand that it's a long way to go back inside if one of us needs to pee. Without missing a beat, she said "Just go in the grass." I said "That's fine if it's just my wife and me, but what about if we have other people there?" She said "I don't know, when I have people over to use the hot tub, if someone needs to pee, they just go in the grass." I asked "just women? Or guys and girls both?"

As for me, I definitely pee in public hot tubs, no second thoughts. Even if I don't necessarily have to go, I try to squeeze out at least a little because I enjoy the feeling. I've done it in my own hot tub a little, but not a whole bladder's worth, just a squirt or two to feel the sensation. As I mentioned above, my wife is a little more discreet about it, but has attended enough hot tub parties that she has her "tried and true" methods. She said the easiest is to do a "pee walk" - get out of the hot tub, and walk in the grass, for example, to the cooler and back. While doing this, she'

My wife is an everyday shower pe'er, and she occasionally pees in a public shower if the need arises. A few times I can think of were around public pools. She usually showers before she gets in the pool, and will generally just pee through her swimsuit while she's showering. She says it's just easier than making a separate toilet trip, and no one can see anyway. One time when we were at a hotel pool, it was just us (me, wife, kids). She was finished swimming, got out of the pool, and showered in the public shower right next to the pool. I looked close, and thought I noticed her peein

My ex wife never wore underwear. I don't think she even owned a pair. So whether she wore jeans, leggings or dress/skirt, she was always commando underneath. Contrary to my wife, my ex wife peed outside often. She wasn't usually super obvious about it, but also didn't really care if someone saw her. If she was wearing pants (jeans, leggings, etc.), she would generally pull them to her knees and pop a quick squat. If she was wearing a skirt, sometimes she would stand.

I'm male, but can answer this on behalf of my wife. She's not really an avid outdoor pisser, but will occasionally pop a squat during a hike if the need arises. For that type of activity, she generally wears leggings (with underwear). She pulls them down, squats, does her thing, does a light shake, and quickly pulls them back up.

For me personally, I don't have much experience with straight-up golden showers, but I do have some semi-related experience. About five years ago I had a nasty case of athlete's foot. Nothing helped it - I tried all the creams, etc. Finally, lacking any other ideas, I asked my wife to pee on it, as I had heard that can sometimes work. I had also heard that it was an old wives tale, but I wasn't about to tell her that 😉. So for a few consecutive mornings, she agreed to pee on my foot in the shower stall. It wasn't really sexual... a little weird if anything. On one hand, it was kind