Kirby23

@Bacardi Thanks for sharing your story as well! I feel you about the love/hate relationship with the scale and the feeling of despair when the weight goes up a little. But that's when I come back to the idea of a "lifestyle change" vs. a "diet." A lifestyle change has to be sustainable. It has to be something I can realistically stick with for the rest of my life. So should I beat myself up over gaining a few pounds after going on vacation and eating out every night? Should I NEVER have a cheeseburger, or ice cream again? Of course not. For me that's neither realistic nor sustainable.

I can only comment as a hot tub owner, who is responsible for the upkeep. Short answer is that honestly, I don't think it is that bad. It's more the "ick" factor. Human urine has very little in it that would affect the general chemical balance of hot tub water. It's slightly acidic, has some salts, etc. None of that really affects hot tubs too much. Not to mention that hot tub water is also exposed to sweat, dead skin, deoderant, skin creams, perfumes, etc. It's more a matter of whether you want to "soak in your own pee" or others' pee. Especially because hot tubs don't get drained

I'm a male in my mid-40s. I'm in generally good health, but have struggled with being overweight most of my life. Last fall, I decided it was finally time to make some changes. I didn't look good, I didn't feel good, and I was setting myself up for trouble as I get older. Instead of "going on a diet," I decided I needed a full lifestyle change. Improving my diet, yes, but also more exercise, less alcohol, and just overall healthier choices in general. It was REALLY HARD at first. I LOVE food, so it has been like breaking up with an old friend. But once I made the change, the first 1

I have two stories along these lines, one mine, and one from a close friend. When I was in college, I dated a girl "R" for a summer. We hung out in my on-campus apartment, but also went on dates, on walks, etc., and to the lake. On one of our early dates, we were at the lake (at night). We were making out, and doing some gentle "petting." As a relatively young guy (19 maybe?), I was "up and down" that whole time, which can actually be exhausting (think "blue balls"). For me it was similar to the feeling of needing to pee. So I asked her "Do you care if I pee?" She said "No, I don't care."

Adding to my previous comment - my wife used to go to hot tub parties at a friend's house. They would host 10-15 women, and the wine (and other drinks) were free-flowing. At these parties the women would spend 2-3 hours in-and-around the hot tub. I asked my wife where do they all pee? Do they go in the house? In the tub? Over the side? And she said she suspected it's probably a combination of all of those things. I said "When you would go to these parties, where did you pee?" She said occasionally she'd use the toilet, but sometimes she would exit the hot tub, and just pee down her leg (

I have a small inflatable hot tub, and my wife and I go in it about once a week during the warmer months. I live in an area that gets cold winters, so we take the hot tub down each fall and store it for the winter. We usually are in it for 45 minutes to an hour. Given that, it's not often that either the wife or I need to pee while we're in it. We usually pee right beforehand, just before, or just after we put on our swimsuits. We do hydrate well, however, and occasionally the need does strike when I'm in the hot tub. If I'm close enough to being ready to get out anyway, I'll just h

During tailgating at a football game was when I had one of my first-ever female public pee sightings. I was about 12 at the time. I went into the woods to pee (probably on the recommendation of my dad?) and about 20 feet in front of me were two women squatting. My view of them was from behind, I could clearly see their naked butts. I don't remember specifically seeing streams, but I wasn't naive, I knew what they were doing. In retrospect, that early experience probably influenced my pee kink.

Male, married 15 years. Wife not super sexual in the first place, definitely not into pee. I've commented on all of this before, but I'll try to summarize here. I began introducing pee into our sex routine maybe 2-ish years ago. It began innocently enough. We were having "traditional" sex, and I had to pee. Not really wanting to stop (we were both close to O), I asked her if I could just pee a little inside her. She said "I guess I don't care?"... so I tried. It was actually harder at first than I thought it would be. But I managed to squeeze a little out, and then almost instantly came.

As a guy, I can say it's very possible for me. If I happen to jump in the shower with a full bladder, it's one of the quickest / easiest ways to masturbate for me. I usually let out a few spurts as I go, both for lube and just because it feels good. When I'm finished, I let the rest out. As for women, as best I can tell, experiences seem to vary. For exanple, this topic is discussed on Reddit a lot - on forums like r/sex and r/askredditafterdark. Women will post topics like "masturbating with a full bladder," or "sex with a full bladder feels better." Women seem to be split 50/50 bet

My kink has definitely evolved over the years. In my college days (20+ years ago), I had many opportunities to see girls pee, but I was a little shy, and was always trying to be a "gentleman," so I missed out on opportunities. There were numerous times at parties, hanging out with friends, etc., where girls peed pretty much right in front of me, and I would always look away to try and be polite. If given the same opportunities now, I might approach the situation differently. After college I got in a relationship with a woman who I refer to here as "my ex." She was very sexual, and probabl

This is hot! Thanks for sharing! I'm finding, through sites like Reddit and similar, that women peeing over the edge of the tub is actually pretty common? I find it hot... maybe because it's slightly "naughty"? After you're done peeing in the tub, I assume you wipe? Where do you put the paper? Do you rinse the pee away when you're done? One time, in college my roommates and I hosted a house party. Toward the end of the night the girls were going in the bathroom to pee in groups of 3-4. One would pee in the toilet, and the other 2-3 would pee in the tub. Hot.

Just to get the ball rolling: I've been married 15 years. My wife and I have sex regularly, on average about once a week. There are a handful of activities we do: I pee in her vagina during sex sometimes (maybe between 1/4 - 1/2 of the times we have sex). I sometimes pee on her vulva and/or butthole to lube things up if things are dry. I sometimes pee in her vagina to "clean things out" if we want to have sex during her period (once every other month?). Once in a while she lets me lick her after she has peed on the toilet (maybe once/month?). Once in a while she l

I'm curious to know - for those of you in a relationship, what kinds of Pee Play / Pee Sex / Watersports to you regularly partake in with your significant other? How often do you partake in these activities? Is it fairly often, or only on "special occasions"? How did it begin? Is your partner into it? What is their tolerance for it? Are some things ok and some things off-limits? What is your "favorite" activity that you regularly partake in? What do you wish your partner would do? Or do more often?

I started a topic about this here:

I LOVE the smell when my wife pees in the shower. She hardly ever lets me watch, but she'll pee in the shower if the curtain is closed and I'm hanging out in the bathroom with her. It usually smells like warm buttered popcorn.

My biggest pee-related fantasies involve the mixture of nonchalant peeing and sex. For example, when in the midst of good sex, the woman announces "I have to pee," and their partner, not wanting to stop, says "Just go." This happened to me a few times with my ex, but I'd love for it to happen with my wife. I've seen it in a few videos here and there, but it's rare. I've seen it discussed on Reddit too, for example in the r/sex forum. Apparently it's not all that uncommon. One woman said something like (paraphrasing) "I have a weak bladder, and if I'm too focused on it during s

This reminds me of a recent experience of mine. A few weeks ago my family and I went camping. We were in two tents - my wife and I in one, and my kids in another. Our site was pretty secluded - no other campers nearby. The toilet/shower building was a few hundred yards away. Not super far, but just far enough to be inconvenient. Over the course of the weekend my wife peed at the campsite at least 5-6 times. When it was still light out she peed behind the kids' tent, which was against a fence, at the back of the site, completely out of view. After it got dark, and we were going to bed

One additional experience to add - one time while on a weekend getaway my wife and I had sex in the shower. It was something I had wanted to try forever, and she finally allowed it. As I recall, I finished rather quickly because of the excitement, and she probably didn't orgasm. Not long after I finished, she was rinsing her hair, back and butt, with her back toward the showerhead and her front toward me. Next thing i knew, a big arc of pee shot out, and slightly forward, landing about 12" in front of her, near my feet. As I recall, her eyes were closed at that moment, so I don't even kn

I am a male, but answering only from my personal experience with my wife (and my ex), I would say yes, it is difficult for them to pee when aroused. In my wife's case, if she has orgasmed during sex, if definitely can take her an extra minute or two to pee afterward. On the occasions I've asked her about it, she says it's because everything is "clenched up" down there. My ex could pee pretty much anywhere / anytime, so for her I would say it was not difficult, even when aroused.

Being that I am a man, and have no training or particular qualifications to comment on women's bodies and health practices, I am in no position to comment on that. As for my own experience, after we are finished, my wife pees, and I would assume that most of my pee trickles/drips out as she's sitting there on the toilet. She doesn't shower afterward, we just go to bed.

This is a topic that's discussed here fairly regularly. I've commented on it several times in the recent past. Generally speaking, it is safe. But every woman is different, and results can vary. I have been doing this with my wife fairly regularly for about two years, and she has had no ill effects. We've done everything from a little squirt here and there to a full bladder release. She has not had any problems with UTIs or vaginal infections as a result. The only complaint she has had is that she doesn't really enjoy the "full" feeling of when her vagina fills like a water ba

I am married, and happily committed. So in considering a "hot stranger," it's difficult to assess, because I have no plans to cheat on my wife. But if we're talking purely hypothetically, yes, I would be turned on by partaking in pee acts with a stranger. Yes, my fetish definitely affects my sex life. Even though I don't incorporate pee into every sexual encounter with my wife, I am usually thinking about it in at least some regard.

As with some of the other commenters, my wife pees with the door open usually, so it's pretty much a daily thing. We have a bathroom adjoining our bedroom, so we pee before bed, while the other is there. Watching my wife pee on the toilet doesn't really do anything for me though - to me it's not much different than watching her brush her teeth. I'm aware that it's occurring, but I don't pay much attention to it. But when my wife pees somewhere other than the toilet, I pay attention. This past weekend we went camping, and she peed outside several times. Behind the tent, etc. That was

I've been in this situation numerous times where my wife has had to pee and there hasn't been an opportunity to do so. Usually she holds it, but once in a great while she'll pee in the woods on a hike, side of road, etc. Similar situations with my ex. But if we're talking about platonic situations, not a significant other, they've been fewer and farther between for me. For example a few instances in college, usually involving drinking.

There were 1K+ comments, so I didn't sit and read them all. Among the ones I read, I don't recall if there were any specific recommendations.