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Kupar

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  1. It's really hard to give advice. You know your wife better than any of us. You've had a bad patch and come through it. She's said she'll do something for you. I'd say you've both done amazing things already. (I speak from the perspective of a long-married man whose relationship has also been through really tough times, by the way and come through them - though we still have our ups and downs like any long-term partners.)

    I did wonder if the first time she tries wetting her panties in the shower you should suggest she does it behind closed doors then tells you about it afterwards. I know you won't take as much from the experience that way, but sometimes what's a block is the whole being watched thing. Little steps - if she's comfortable with that, a next step would be to have you watch, but passively. She may sense how happy it makes you to see her do this, and she may really enjoy this aspect of it. But she might not. There may come a point at which you both know there's a line that will be difficult or impossible to cross. Then you'll know what you can both get out of the kink, and what you can't.

    If you want to read about my line-drawing experience, it's here: 

     

  2. 33 minutes ago, Theo said:

    Interesting topic and associated thoughts- however also somewhat disconcerting. First, inline with the thread topic, I'm a male whose first pee fetish/kink experience occurred because it was a female who initiated it. That suggests to me that there are more females at least interested in pee activities than I or many of us males care to believe.

    What's bothersome to me, however, is this chronic yet consistent, as evidenced by previous female responses, complaint from the ladies that some guys (enough of them in fact) harass them enough to the point that it inhibits the gals from contributing (pics or conversation). From a selfish standpoint, that takes away great FEMALE content (again pics and conversation) from me.  I wish I had the solution...

    I think we can perhaps best just lead by example, and trust in, and support, the moderators, who do a fantastic job.

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  3. 1 hour ago, gldenwetgoose said:

    Group 1 - For some I know it's a personal enjoyment / excitement around personally performing the act - whatever that act may be - holding, releasing, wetting, peeing in unconventional or naughty places...   In those cases I can completely understand that it may not even be sexual - perhaps a personal comfort thing, a feeling of warmth and security maybe.

    Group 2 - For others of course is extremely sexual - maybe only practiced during sex, or always leading to arousal. It could be the case that the individual has no desire to participate themselves, but very much is aroused by seeing, fantasising about or participating with another of their chosen sexual preference.

    I reckon you've got it right, @gldenwetgoose. Though as many of us have commented in various places, one of the amazing things about this kink is its variety, and that probably extends to motivations. One could probably cut the members into other groups too, but yours seem to be a *helpful* way to look at things, and that's important. Thanks for doing the thinking 🙂 

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  4. Thanks for flagging this Steve. I hope I haven't been guilty of precipitating this change and if I have I am very sorry. I have recently posted a few animated gifs that made full use of the previous file size limit, simply because I thought that people respond well to animated gifs in posts. I am aware that they are very large files and inefficient for what is essentially short video content. If I promise not to do it again, could the file size limit be put back up as @steve25805 and @gldenwetgoose suggest? 

  5. On 2/22/2021 at 4:31 AM, weequeen said:

    one of my favorite things is when they're wearing underwear or thin pants and flood them and you can see the outline of their penis. awesome. love it.

     

    On 2/22/2021 at 5:59 AM, Bladderlad said:

    Agree with you there- not enough Male underwear peeing vids on here!!

    Here you go then - one from me: 

     

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  6. On 2/22/2021 at 4:31 AM, weequeen said:

    i view this forum! i like male solo postings and the rare m/m things and individuals with a penis. one of my favorite things is when they're wearing underwear or thin pants and flood them and you can see the outline of their penis. awesome. love it.

    for me, the only time pee fetish is degrading to women is when the porn seems rapey - but that's just porn in general to me.

    I'll see what I can do 🙂 I like making thin underwear see through. Not sure I've posted a video like that here. I'll dig one or two out if I can find them. My profile pic is a still from one such video 🙂

  7. 12 minutes ago, MyPee said:

    I am a woman who loves seeing men pissing. I come to this forum all the time to perve. I love watching men pissing on things: trees, furniture, walls, people, themselves, anything. When I see a cock, I want to hold it, and put it in my mouth, and when I see it pissing, that desire gets so strong I wet myself a bit (or a lot)! So those men who want to post videos, please don’t hold back.
    🍆💦 👀💋

    Thank you! Thank you! I'll carry on making some more then. I have a pile of cardboard boxes. Maybe they'll get soggy later today 🙂

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  8. It's not as simple as it sounds. And I absolutely agree with Pauly that a full bladder can be counterproductive. But when you get it right it is absolutely wonderful to pee when walking or running: incredibly liberating and satisfying. Forget about trying to photograph or video the experience though. Pretty much impossible!

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  9. I didn't think I had many unusual habits and quirks, but I made the mistake of mentioning this to the family, who promptly came up with a few for me.

    Apparently I use daft words for things: when I am going to pay a cheque in I will always say "I am going to pay a chicken". Or if I am late for something, I will say "I'm all moo" (as in "I'm all behind, like a cow's tail", which has become shortened to "moo"). 

    And I go out to talk often to the little birds that come into the garden, as if they were family members.

    And I regularly get a long way ahead in preparing a meal - such as half cooking the evening meal straight after breakfast, including doing all the washing up, drying up and putting away of the pots and pans.

    Nothing too serious I think. I'd like to think these are all endearing quirks, but apparently they're not.

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