Bacardi- Ask Me Anything

[Luvgolden 8]

9 minutes ago, steve25805 said:

Well I apologise. I have only just looked at your profile and learned that you are another lady. I assumed wrongly that you were a guy so sorry about that. I used to be a mod and we often got relatively new guys rocking up and immediately wanting private pervy conversations with the women. Women tend not to do that so my assumptions were all false. Sorry

Ok nice to no and dudes do be pervy thank you and have a nice day

Edited January 12, 2023 by Luvgolden

[Bacardi 10,083]

2 hours ago, steve25805 said:

If you could live in absolutely any city on the planet, which would you choose and why?

I think anyone who knows me knows exactly what this answer is lol. Anywhere in Italy is fine, but I think I'd choose wherever this photo was taken:

I got it from one of my Italian groups on fb and it's been my background photo on my phone for a while now. I LOVE the buildings. I LOVE the kitty. Where ever it is i would love to make a life for myself.

[Bacardi 10,083]

3 hours ago, Luvgolden said:

I wanted to know if I could get to know you. I read what you wrote on your profile and liked what you wrote 

If you give me a few days i will clear out some room and we can have a conversation 💕

[GenericUsername 1,105]

That might be an Italian city I visited when I was 10. Unless it's another city that's on a giant hill. The views are insane either way!

[FlyingthedreamUK 248]

I’m sorry @Luvgolden but @steve25805 was just trying to look out for the few female members we have on this site. We are all very close here and many of us have been around for years, as a result we all look out for each other. 

While I understand you were wanting to get to know @Bacardi further, your responses to @steve25805’s suggestion I found pretty rude. 

There are messages like yours daily here asking to get to know people and majority have ulterior motives!

[Bacardi 10,083]

If im being fair, im very thankful that @Luvgolden asked before messaging me as I state on my profile that I prefer. 

Getting random messages from people I don't know has not been fun for me in the past 🤪

[Sexismygod 1,782]

6 hours ago, Bacardi said:

If im being fair, im very thankful that @Luvgolden asked before messaging me as I state on my profile that I prefer. 

Getting random messages from people I don't know has not been fun for me in the past 🤪

I'd better stop sending you messages ... you don't know me from Adam 😂😛

Back on topic:  What's your favourite sport and are you/were you ever actively involved in sports?

[Bacardi 10,083]

3 hours ago, Sexismygod said:

I'd better stop sending you messages ... you don't know me from Adam 😂😛

Back on topic:  What's your favourite sport and are you/were you ever actively involved in sports?

Bruh. You and I have had a conversation since like 2018 lol. I don't think I've deleted it yet! You can message me whenever and I'll get to it when I can.

And I guess that goes for everyone too. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with my inbox and take a few days off to regroup, but I always try to get back and respond to everyone.

Sports: I was never actively involved in sports but as I've gotten older I've developed an interest in figure skating! I mentioned earlier in my Ama (that almost become an MMA 😬) that I was going to try this time last year but my classes were way too difficult, so I've made the decision that when I graduate I am gonna gift myself lessons for the first time in my life. By my calculations, at the rate I'm going ill be graduating in 2024 sometime, or early 2025. I'll be damn near 30 years old too but I'm trying not to let the words "I'm too old" stop me. Literally my mom said that to me when I told her I wanted to learn and I wanted to cry 😑 

[Kupar 13,309]

57 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

I'll be damn near 30 years old too but I'm trying not to let the words "I'm too old" stop me. Literally my mom said that to me when I told her I wanted to learn and I wanted to cry 😑 

Way to go Bacardi! I am trying to live by that belief (but it's a bit harder as I'm twice your age lol) ... stand-up paddleboarding for me this year maybe 🙂 

[Bacardi 10,083]

6 hours ago, Kupar said:

Way to go Bacardi! I am trying to live by that belief (but it's a bit harder as I'm twice your age lol) ... stand-up paddleboarding for me this year maybe 🙂 

So am I. Turning 30 is kinda bringing me down. Struck with "I should have been graduated by now" and "yeah, it's too late for you to skate. Just focus on something else" 😑 it's exhausting but I feel like once I can remember to take my medication those mindsets will change. Hopefully at least. 

[Kupar 13,309]

21 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

So am I. Turning 30 is kinda bringing me down. Struck with "I should have been graduated by now" and "yeah, it's too late for you to skate. Just focus on something else" 😑 it's exhausting but I feel like once I can remember to take my medication those mindsets will change. Hopefully at least. 

I'm sending bigs hugs @Bacardi. Thinking of you gorgeous ❤️

[steve25805 125,442]

40 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

So am I. Turning 30 is kinda bringing me down. Struck with "I should have been graduated by now" and "yeah, it's too late for you to skate. Just focus on something else" 😑 it's exhausting but I feel like once I can remember to take my medication those mindsets will change. Hopefully at least. 

You're still young. Dont tell yourself anything different. And it is never too late to skate. It is never too late for anything. I never passed my driving test until I was 46. 

And I myself struggle with anxiety and insecurity issues for which I have meds and sometimes ruminating over negative thoughts does not help. You still have most of your adult life ahead of you. There is plenty of time for new things.

I do hope the meds help.

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,386]

Exactly what @steve25805 said there @Bacardi -  You can do ANYTHING, and you're definitely still plenty young enough.

Go for it, even if it's next year or the year after.

[Tony89 1,492]

21 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I think anyone who knows me knows exactly what this answer is lol. Anywhere in Italy is fine, but I think I'd choose wherever this photo was taken:

I got it from one of my Italian groups on fb and it's been my background photo on my phone for a while now. I LOVE the buildings. I LOVE the kitty. Where ever it is i would love to make a life for myself.

This is slightly off topic, but the village that can be seen in the background is Riomaggiore. 😉 My friend has been there and I have seen amazing pictures. I am planning my own trip to Italy this summer. I'm probably going to to Rome 🤔  I want to see the remaining buildings and monuments from the time of the Roman Empire.

Edited January 13, 2023 by Tony89
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[Bacardi 10,083]

17 minutes ago, Tony89 said:

This is slightly off topic, but the village that can be seen in the background is Riomaggiore. 😉 My friend has been there and I have seen amazing pictures. I am planning my own trip to Italy this summer. I'm probably going to to Rome 🤔  I want to see the remaining buildings and monuments from the time of the Roman Empire.

Awesome. Is there room for me too on your trip 👀

[Tony89 1,492]

8 hours ago, Bacardi said:

Awesome. Is there room for me too on your trip 👀

Yes, there would be room for you too. 😉

[Sexismygod 1,782]

18 hours ago, Bacardi said:

So am I. Turning 30 is kinda bringing me down. Struck with "I should have been graduated by now" and "yeah, it's too late for you to skate. Just focus on something else" 😑 it's exhausting but I feel like once I can remember to take my medication those mindsets will change. Hopefully at least. 

Ah, 30.  A birthday now lost in the mists of time.  I no longer even remember my 30th birthday.  @Bacardi you have all the time you need to do and be anything you want.

On that note, if you could have any job in the world, what would be your dream job?  (assume all necessary training and knowledge comes with the job)

[Bacardi 10,083]

28 minutes ago, Sexismygod said:

Ah, 30.  A birthday now lost in the mists of time.  I no longer even remember my 30th birthday.  @Bacardi you have all the time you need to do and be anything you want.

On that note, if you could have any job in the world, what would be your dream job?  (assume all necessary training and knowledge comes with the job)

Okay. You will be the first person to receive pictures of my first pee on the ice when I skate lol.

My secret dream job is to do motion capture for movies and video games 😛 even if I didn't get paid for it I'd love to be dressed up in the tight fitting suits with capture nodules or whatever they are, and the headgear that captures your facial movment. The technology that we've been blessed with for movie and gaming production is just so unbelievably interesting to me. 

[Chrissy89 1,208]

21 hours ago, Bacardi said:

So am I. Turning 30 is kinda bringing me down. Struck with "I should have been graduated by now" and "yeah, it's too late for you to skate. Just focus on something else" 😑 it's exhausting but I feel like once I can remember to take my medication those mindsets will change. Hopefully at least. 

Hun, 30 isn’t too bad. I remember I was proper upset about turning 30. I hadn’t done so much that I wanted to do. I was a mother, I was overwhelmed with personal issues and I felt like nothing fun was gonna happen. 

turns out I was wrong 🥰 go and do as you please. 30’s actually a great age. 

don’t think I’ve asked you anything yet… have I? Can’t remember lol…  ah well… 

Do you have any tattoos? If you don’t would you ever get one? Xx

[Bacardi 10,083]

9 hours ago, Chrissy89 said:

Do you have any tattoos? If you don’t would you ever get one? Xx

No tattoos yet. I've had ideas for some I've just never had the money to have any done lol. And, tbh, I'm sort of afraid of the commitment. 

If I were to get a tattoo I'd want it to be somewhere I could easily see it, but be able to cover it up for work related reasons since my country still heavily discriminates against people with tattoos. I've had several ideas and most of them were tiny, Itty bitty tattoos relating to my favorite video games and Star Wars. I think I would love two little tattoos on my collar bones or on the front sides of my shoulders!

I think I do definitely want tattoos to represent my children too. Each child would get some art work pertaining to them. I have specifics in my mind but I've shared these ideas with my friends and family so I don't want to share them publicly on the forum haha. 

[Chrissy89 1,208]

7 hours ago, Bacardi said:

No tattoos yet. I've had ideas for some I've just never had the money to have any done lol. And, tbh, I'm sort of afraid of the commitment. 

If I were to get a tattoo I'd want it to be somewhere I could easily see it, but be able to cover it up for work related reasons since my country still heavily discriminates against people with tattoos. I've had several ideas and most of them were tiny, Itty bitty tattoos relating to my favorite video games and Star Wars. I think I would love two little tattoos on my collar bones or on the front sides of my shoulders!

I think I do definitely want tattoos to represent my children too. Each child would get some art work pertaining to them. I have specifics in my mind but I've shared these ideas with my friends and family so I don't want to share them publicly on the forum haha. 

I have two, one of which represents my E in the form of my favourite animal, and another one which is very very close to my heart. I’m happy to show you in a PM anytime 🙂 

the first one is the worst… you don’t know what you’re getting into but after that they get kinda addictive.  Oooh yeah I want one on my shoulder too. Both of mine are on my sleeves so I can cover up easily xx

Edited January 15, 2023 by Chrissy89

[PisSRL 72]

Hey,

Just curious as to the name Bacardi, is it due to the drink? or completly different?

Se yous are talking about Tats, i have three big ones 🙂 and yup they get so addictive! painful towards the end but literally forget the pain a few days later and crave another one!

[Bacardi 10,083]

3 hours ago, PisSRL said:

Just curious as to the name Bacardi, is it due to the drink? or completly different?

Bacardi is my favorite rum! I like it mixed with fruit punch. It's also not one of my typical usernames so I'm hoping my identity is quite hidden lol. 

I think I've decided I want my first tattoo this year. When I get my taxes back I'm gonna start shopping around for a shop and seeing what I can get done. I want it to represent my kiddos, and I want it done on my chest. That means no more boob pics for peefans 😅

I'm a baby when it comes to any kind of pain so I'm sure I'll be crying, but oh well. I think I'm ready.

[Sophie 24,354]

Do you have any piercings? Do you want any more?

[Bacardi 10,083]

6 minutes ago, Sophie said:

Do you have any piercings? Do you want any more?

My ears are pierced, but my mom had it done when I was an infant so I didn't get any real say. This really upsets me because I really hate them. And what's worse is I haven't worn earrings since I was like 13 but the holes are still there, which from what I understand means they're scarred now :( 

in the past I've thought about getting my dimples pierced, and recently I think I'd like to get a piercing on the very center of my bottom lip lol. But I probably won't.