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Why do you enjoy watching porn?

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I love watching porn for both the visuals and I like to imagine I’m in the same room etc sharing the action 

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I think you’ve said it all for me - not much to add (although that normally doesn’t stop me). 

It’s very rare I’ll watch a guy peeing, even rarer I’ll watch a guy peeing on a girl. Occasionally a girl peeing on a guy - which definitely works for me. Generally for me it’s all about girls peeing. I’m never going to be a girl, never going to know how it feels to be desperately full, or to let myself lose it. Never going to know how it feels as a girl to experience those things and the subtle ways pee flows depending on angle, pressure, opening and individual anatomy. 

However watching a girl experience and demonstrate all of those things gives me a feel that I can by proxy - almost good enough. Even better when it’s a girl describing it all and drawing me in all the more. 

Hope that makes sense!
 

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.... and an afterthought, as you’ve summarised it there @Sophie - also explains how much ‘realism’ plays a role in the impact. 

Seeing Becky Le Sabre trying to put off releasing a desperately full bladder until she’s brought herself to a screaming orgasm gets me every single time, yet other videos (oh there’s someone in the toilet so I’ll take off all my clothes here) are take or leave moments. 

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For me it is very much about imagining myself taking part in the scene. If there is a male actor doing something I want to do, I imagine myself in his place.  If he is giving cunnilingus to a woman,  I also imagine the parts that video can't supply, such as the taste of her labia, their texture and her scent.  The feeling of her skin under my fingertips.  The little quivers in the muscles under her skin as she reacts to what I am doing.

If she is peeing on him I imagine the warm, slippery feeling of it on my skin, or on my lips and tongue.  I try to imagine the smell and taste of it.   I don't imagine myself in her place or experience her feelings directly,  it's more about having the feeling of me being close to her,  learning how her body responds and discovering what makes her feel good. I think I am what is called a "pleaser".  The thing that excites me about sex is the thought of giving pleasure to the woman, so the parts of pornography that excite me are those that concentrate on her enjoyment.

In the case of lesbian porn,  I am a sort of disembodied male presence in the room.  When one woman is actively pleasing the other,  I sometimes imagine myself taking her place at the pleasure giving.  When two women are peeing on each other I am wishing I could be kissing and tasting the wet parts of their skin.

When I see a solo woman peeing,  especially somewhere naughty, like on a sofa or in a public stairwell, or a car,  I enjoy it in multiple ways.  First I am thinking of her excitement. I imagine her heart racing and her breathless feeling at the illicit thing she is doing, and the feeling of sexual arousal that it gives her.  I also imagine how it would feel to kiss her vulva while she is in that excited, aroused state, completing her experience by bringing her to orgasm.  There is also the sensual delight of knowing that that place is going to retain the strong, feminine smell of her urine and imagining myself being there later and enjoying that intimate scent in the air.

There is a "behind the scenes" type video of an American porn actress who sits on a toilet but releases her pee all over the bathroom floor while bantering with the director and camera crew.  She is clearly aroused by it. The camera keeps running after she has finished and records her telling the crew that her legs are wet and inviting them to come to her and lick the pee off her thighs. (They don't do it, but I certainly imagined myself responding to her request.)

In the final analysis though, for me, porn is only a limited substitute for real life.  If I am having frequent sex I tend to lose interest in porn,  unless I am watching it with a female sex partner for our mutual enjoyment.

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I feel like I do watch a lot of porn but it is mainly because I have never had sex and it’s something I desperately want so bad. Haven’t really had that much relationship experience either so that’s touchy as well. I watch so that I can at least have some form of practice for the real thing.
 

As for the pee related porn, I just love describing what I’m seeing as I’m seeing it which makes me harder and makes me move faster. It’s because I have not really seen people in front of me do what they do in the videos so I wish I could see it happen live. I like the nude pissing because (and yes it’s still embarrassing), I have not seen a girl fully naked other than on the internet and in movies/tv. I’ve been with a girl and we did cool around and I got her almost naked but not quite. Idk, I feel embarrassed saying all this but at the same time I figure I’m not the only one with this kind of struggle so maybe someone here can offer some new insight and I can just let it out a bit (not urine unfortunately 😂)

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Honestly - I kind of don't. It's not a great habit and it's kind of empty. I made great strides to give it up (along with a lot of other bad habits) before the pandemic hit. Due to quarantine I've fallen back into some bad patterns. (Luckily, I have managed to keep some bad habits at bay.) The times that I'm most susceptible to watching porn are less about me being in the mood to watch porn and more about me being bored (especially with quarantine) or in a suboptimal mood. This, combined with the fact that my tastes are pretty niche and there is rarely new or interesting content, really makes porn an empty exercise for me. That said, I'd rather it be unsatisfying and empty than truly addicting - I'd be lost otherwise. (I have luckily never crossed the line of paying for porn; these days, I might be able to put limits on something like that - although I don't think I'd be able to control it well - but if I'd gotten into that habit ten years ago or something I'd have been completely lost.)

I guess what I look for is attractive women catering to my fetishes. I guess I like to imagine being able to witness the situations and sometimes share in something similar - sometimes with the woman in the video, sometimes just in general. I've also tried my hand at writing personal erotic fiction (which was actually great, but while it helped with some bad habits it introduced others) and I guess I just like the idea that women actually exist who share the same fetishes (or at least cater to them). I will say that there was a time that this realization depressed the fuck out of me - instead of feeling alone because there was nobody, I felt worse because there were opportunities that existed that I would never have, situations that happened that I missed and would never have a chance to witness, etc.

I guess what I'm saying is that porn kind of sucks. I dunno. I hope this doesn't offend. I still use it, but it isn't really fulfilling, and I intend to get away from it. Sorry if this was too honest.

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When I watch porn I enjoy the visuals, as is well known us blokes are a bit more into what we can see when it comes to arousal. I like to see the gorgeous uninhibited girls having fun. I like to mentally step into the role of the man in the scene and imagine it is me with the girl, or girls and that it is "my" cock sliding into her gorgeous pussy or deep into her lovely tight arse. Or it is me hosing them down with my hot piss etc.

I like all the intellectual pursuits and can happily sit through a Shakespeare play or watch an opera for hours. But I do love how in porn movies it tends to be uncomplicated and straight to the action. That's what I like about it.  Does what it says on the tin I guess. 😊

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I watch a little bit for the visuals but I find it don’t necessarily get turned on just by those. I like stuff to be a little bit raw and real, as if it’s really happening and not deliberate for the camera. 

I really enjoy seeing the reactions of people when something significant happens (eg, i watch her reaction when he cums and vice versa) or the moment he slides inside I tend to watch her face rather than him. 
 

it’s always nice to imagine I’m there too of course 😉

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On 10/19/2020 at 9:54 PM, cheekyfe11a said:

I like to see the gorgeous uninhibited girls having fun.

That's what does it for me - quite simple really. I'm a simple man.

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5 hours ago, Kupar said:

That's what does it for me - quite simple really. I'm a simple man.

Same here. The simple pleasures are the best 🙂

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