When was the last time you had sex?

[Kupar 13,339]

19 minutes ago, Sophie said:

I had sex last night. I hadn't had an orgasm in two weeks and it was safe to say I was just a little sexually frustrated!

Last night I finally had some privacy and me time. My husband and I had an early night because I had work in the morning and I got undressed like I usually would, there was no show or anything. As soon as I climbed into bed next to him we immediately started kissing. It wasn't planned but we both knew we wanted it. One thing quickly led to another and it wasn't long before I climbed on top of him, still kissing as I slowly rocked my hips with his arms around me holding me tight. It was the slow, loving sex I enjoy so much and after a short while we climaxed within seconds of each other, getting the releases we so badly wanted. 

Oh ... lovely! I'm so glad you both got what you must both have wanted so badly! That slow, 'ordinary', loving sex can be just perfect can't it? Looking forward to some for myself soon!

[peemike63 177]

March 5th. March 6th my wife travelled to China after years of waiting for stupid Covid restrictions to lift she finally gave up and accepted 3 weeks of quarantine to be able to visit her father. 
We video call every day and every now and then she asks to see her pet (my cock) and sometimes tells me to wank it and cum while we are talking. It’s not as good as sex but I’ve found it actually to be really quite exciting to just wank off with her watching on the phone. 
She’ll be back middle of May. I’m figuring the sex when she gets back will be fantastic!

[Kupar 13,339]

1 minute ago, peemike63 said:

really quite exciting to just wank off with her watching on the phone. 

It really is, isn't it? K and I have done it and it's way more effective than you think it's going to be 🙂 

[peemike63 177]

Do you think the much touted meta verse is just going to be a load of people all anonymously wanking of with each other! 🤣

[Kupar 13,339]

3 minutes ago, peemike63 said:

Do you think the much touted meta verse is just going to be a load of people all anonymously wanking of with each other! 🤣

Well that's a distinct possibility at first, until we work out what else we can do with it lol. And I'd be all for it 🙂

[MysteryMan 100]

On 4/19/2022 at 11:11 AM, peemike63 said:

Do you think the much touted meta verse is just going to be a load of people all anonymously wanking of with each other! 🤣

Pretty much any new technology gets used for porn/sex almost immediately if possible, so I'm gonna say yeah, probably.

[Kupar 13,339]

Last night! K had been away for a difficult week at her parents and had been pretty exhausted for a couple of days after she got back. But last night I was on a promise … we both needed some physical intimacy. Actually, we both urgently needed a shag.

We had jokingly talked about how I might find her when I got home from my choir practice at about 9:45. Maybe she would be crawling up the stairs wearing just heels and hold-ups and wiggling her backside in the air. So I was a little disappointed to discover all was in darkness with no sign of her when I opened the front door into the hall – about ten minutes later than I thought I would be home.

But then there was a little voice from upstairs: “Come and find me!” And there she was, sitting on the carpet in the spare room, leaning back against the sofa, knees drawn up and apart, and wearing nothing except a pair of knee-high socks and a short, black, clingy wet-look vest. Oh – and there was a vibrator on the floor beside her and a very naughty smile on her face.

“Where have you been? I’ve had to have one orgasm already! Four minutes, start to finish!” she said, waving the vibrator in the air. It was, err, glistening somewhat. I commented about the state of the vibe, and she admitted that this was her ‘go to’ location and position for enjoying some ‘alone time’ when I wasn’t in the house, and that before now she has sometimes found herself making a small puddle (not pee – she doesn’t do that – something a bit stickier) on the carpet in front of her. For a post-menopausal woman she doesn’t generally suffer the dryness that is known to be an issue! (Other menopause symptoms are available … message me for details ☹.)

That was pretty much the only encouragement I needed to lead her to our bedroom, strip quickly out of my clothes, lie back and wait for her to climb on top. It’s our favourite place to start (and often to finish). Maybe it appeals to the latent domme in her (it certainly appeals to the sub in me), but like last night, when she’s straddling and humping my thigh as she bends forward to bite my nipples, reaching under herself to grab my cock, I reckon I’m the happiest person alive.

Then she turned round, knees still folded under her, and sat her beautiful backside on my hips. If she gets the position right, she can pretend my cock is really hers and can play with it while I fondle her fantastic arse cheeks (did I ever tell you that it was her bum that first attracted me to her all those years ago?) or I can reach up and round her to play gently with her boobs.

We’ve done this *so many* times, and yet it never fails to give us both huge pleasure – the feel of a very familiar body with all its curves, its firm parts, its soft parts, its wet parts. Married couple sex can be comforting and exciting all at the same time – and though there was an urgency about it last night, there is always time for expressions of love: the gazing into each other’s eyes, the smiles, the laughter, the “ooh that’s good”, the “no! that’s too sensitive tonight”, the “bite it harder! … now lick it better” that accompanies the physical fun.

Turning round again, K still on top in cowgirl position (“are you happy to stay like this?” “yes – that would be lovely”) she lowered herself on to my cock and with her leaning forward slightly so I could reach to rub her clit, we bounced and rubbed, rubbed and bounced until we were a happy, sticky mess of a couple – and a very happy, loving couple. I don’t know whether everyone else does this, but we always thank each other after sex. It’s only polite 😊

And that was it. Nothing kinky at all last night, but very much needed, and very, very enjoyable.

Edited April 21, 2022 by Kupar
Clarity

[Sophie 24,410]

3 hours ago, Kupar said:

Last night! K had been away for a difficult week at her parents and had been pretty exhausted for a couple of days after she got back. But last night I was on a promise … we both needed some physical intimacy. Actually, we both urgently needed a shag.

We had jokingly talked about how I might find her when I got home from my choir practice at about 9:45. Maybe she would be crawling up the stairs wearing just heels and hold-ups and wiggling her backside in the air. So I was a little disappointed to discover all was in darkness with no sign of her when I opened the front door into the hall – about ten minutes later than I thought I would be home.

But then there was a little voice from upstairs: “Come and find me!” And there she was, sitting on the carpet in the spare room, leaning back against the sofa, knees drawn up and apart, and wearing nothing except a pair of knee-high socks and a short, black, clingy wet-look vest. Oh – and there was a vibrator on the floor beside her and a very naughty smile on her face.

“Where have you been? I’ve had to have one orgasm already! Four minutes, start to finish!” she said, waving the vibrator in the air. It was, err, glistening somewhat. I commented about the state of the vibe, and she admitted that this was her ‘go to’ location and position for enjoying some ‘alone time’ when I wasn’t in the house, and that before now she has sometimes found herself making a small puddle (not pee – she doesn’t do that – something a bit stickier) on the carpet in front of her. For a post-menopausal woman she doesn’t generally suffer the dryness that is known to be an issue! (Other menopause symptoms are available … message me for details ☹.)

That was pretty much the only encouragement I needed to lead her to our bedroom, strip quickly out of my clothes, lie back and wait for her to climb on top. It’s our favourite place to start (and often to finish). Maybe it appeals to the latent domme in her (it certainly appeals to the sub in me), but like last night, when she’s straddling and humping my thigh as she bends forward to bite my nipples, reaching under herself to grab my cock, I reckon I’m the happiest person alive.

Then she turned round, knees still folded under her, and sat her beautiful backside on my hips. If she gets the position right, she can pretend my cock is really hers and can play with it while I fondle her fantastic arse cheeks (did I ever tell you that it was her bum that first attracted me to her all those years ago?) or I can reach up and round her to play gently with her boobs.

We’ve done this *so many* times, and yet it never fails to give us both huge pleasure – the feel of a very familiar body with all its curves, its firm parts, its soft parts, its wet parts. Married couple sex can be comforting and exciting all at the same time – and though there was an urgency about it last night, there is always time for expressions of love: the gazing into each other’s eyes, the smiles, the laughter, the “ooh that’s good”, the “no! that’s too sensitive tonight”, the “bite it harder! … now lick it better” that accompanies the physical fun.

Turning round again, K still on top in cowgirl position (“are you happy to stay like this?” “yes – that would be lovely”) she lowered herself on to my cock and with her leaning forward slightly so I could reach to rub her clit, we bounced and rubbed, rubbed and bounced until we were a happy, sticky mess of a couple – and a very happy, loving couple. I don’t know whether everyone else does this, but we always thank each other after sex. It’s only polite 😊

And that was it. Nothing kinky at all last night, but very much needed, and very, very enjoyable.

Wow that was seriously hot! Thank you for sharing. 

[LovesToWet 3,800]

It's been a while, mainly have to use my hand as my wife health isn't too good so we don't have sex very often anymore. Shame, but her health comes first

[Kupar 13,339]

10 minutes ago, LovesToWet said:

It's been a while, mainly have to use my hand as my wife health isn't too good so we don't have sex very often anymore. Shame, but her health comes first

Sorry to hear that, but yes - you're right. Sending hugs to you both.

[Sophie 24,410]

Last night with my very gorgeous French friend. I have missed her so much and it was nice to catch up 😉 

[Kupar 13,339]

2 hours ago, pguy2981 said:

It's been quite a few months and my gf is sitting right here. She blames me for not trying but she's denied my advances because she thinks she's "disgusting, gross and fat". Also the sex hurts her 8/10 times that I try due to her anxiety. I've  simply stopped trying with her and now it's somehow my fault. I've resorted to masturbating as I absolutely hate trying to read her wants and rejection. 

That sounds like a bad situation for you both, and I wonder whether you would consider getting professional help. My heart goes out to you x

[Kupar 13,339]

4 hours ago, pguy2981 said:

Decided to end the dry streak last night. All it took was some foreplay but it's sucks how weird sex has gotten for us over the 10 years we've known each other. Usually we jump right into it and now it's gotta be a whole thing.

I'm pleased it happened for you 🙂. In our dark days, K and I went through the whole relationship counsellor thing with 'sensate focus' where we gradually got to rediscover our bodies. It took time, but we both came to appreciate our bodies, and relearned what turns us on. In the end I'm glad we did it.

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,487]

I guess there's whole library shelves devoted to the stereotypical differences in approaches between guys and girls when it comes to sex and fulfilment -  and I can't profess to be an expert by any stretch of the imagination.  Nor can I presume to suggest that it's possible to generalise.

Without betraying any personal confidences, I'll just say that it doesn't seem uncommon for self-doubt, self-confidence and particularly body-confidence to have a huge effect on people's willingness to be intimate.  

[JDG 870]

Just this morning. My girlfriend and I woke up around the same time, so we started cuddling. The cuddling became kissing, the kissing became more intimate and eventually we started undressing. We always do a lot for foreplay, so I started sucking on her nipples while she was wanking me off. My hands slowly went downstairs and one finger went into her vagina. I started slowly playing with her clit and also put a second finger inside her pussy. Like always, we played around with each other for over an hour like this, getting more and more intense. Eventually I started fingering her furiously, which ended in her having a squiterting orgasm.

Squirting turns us both on massively so we weren't done here. She turned onto her belly and lifted her butt up. That allowed me to penetrate her pussy from behind. Being turned on because of her squirting, having played with each other for so long already AND doggy being my favorite position, I didn't need much. Within a few minutes I also came and shot her pussy full of cum. I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks and hadn't masturbated for more than a week, so there was a lot! 

My gf still wasn't statisfied though, so I started playing with her clit again. She gets turned on a lot by her pussy being extra wet due to my cum and she loves cumming with my cum inside her. So it didn't take long for her to cum again, this time via her clit so without squirting. 

As always after sex, she went to clean up herself in the toilet and went for a pee. I joined her and while sitting on the toilet, she starting wanking me off again. When she started peeing and I heard her stream hit the bowl, I came immediately. It was a nice finish to a lovely morning! 

[Paulp73 336]

55 minutes ago, JDG said:

Just this morning. My girlfriend and I woke up around the same time, so we started cuddling. The cuddling became kissing, the kissing became more intimate and eventually we started undressing. We always do a lot for foreplay, so I started sucking on her nipples while she was wanking me off. My hands slowly went downstairs and one finger went into her vagina. I started slowly playing with her clit and also put a second finger inside her pussy. Like always, we played around with each other for over an hour like this, getting more and more intense. Eventually I started fingering her furiously, which ended in her having a squiterting orgasm.

Squirting turns us both on massively so we weren't done here. She turned onto her belly and lifted her butt up. That allowed me to penetrate her pussy from behind. Being turned on because of her squirting, having played with each other for so long already AND doggy being my favorite position, I didn't need much. Within a few minutes I also came and shot her pussy full of cum. I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks and hadn't masturbated for more than a week, so there was a lot! 

My gf still wasn't statisfied though, so I started playing with her clit again. She gets turned on a lot by her pussy being extra wet due to my cum and she loves cumming with my cum inside her. So it didn't take long for her to cum again, this time via her clit so without squirting. 

As always after sex, she went to clean up herself in the toilet and went for a pee. I joined her and while sitting on the toilet, she starting wanking me off again. When she started peeing and I heard her stream hit the bowl, I came immediately. It was a nice finish to a lovely morning! 

You are one lucky guy..thanks for sharing

[Sophie 24,410]

Does this count? I'm going to say it counts. 

I went to bed last night with my husband and we undressed like we normally would before climbing under the covers. We just cuddled together for a while, facing each other and quietly talking and after a short while the talking turned to soft kissing, it was really nice and loving. 

We kissed for a few minutes with his hand gently caressing my side and I rolled over onto my back, still kissing. He continued caressing my side and hips, moving to my lower thigh. His hand moved to my tummy, tickling me slightly as he went lower, slipping his hand between my legs. He kept his hand there for a while, just resting against my pussy, teasing me while we kept kissing. Eventually I got the touch I had been craving as he began rubbing my clit with little circles, drawing a quiet sigh from my lips. My body tingled as I felt him. We kissed the whole time he pleasured me with his fingers, neither of us in any rush. We only broke the kiss when my orgasm rolled in, looking him in the eyes as my body let go, quiet moans filling the room as I twitched underneath him. 

We kissed while I enjoyed the post orgasmic bliss and then I returned the favour. I rolled us over so he was on his back with me above him and kissed as my hand went south, gently caressing him just like he had done for me. My hand eventually found his hard shaft and I started stroking him, kissing him deeply, absolutely loving having my man in my hand. I took my time, enjoying the moment, slowly stroking him with a slight twisting motion. It was amazing and I could have happily done it all night long. After a short while he warned me that he was getting close so I whispered with a smile "Cum for me" and kissed him again, still stroking him at the same pace. A minute later he came, quietly groaning mid kiss as he coated my hand with cum, spurt after spurt running over my fingers. We kissed for a little longer and I took a wet wipe to clean up before cuddling him tight and falling asleep together. 

I went to bed feeling a little upset and sorry for myself, I fell asleep feeling content and loved. 

[Kupar 13,339]

1 hour ago, Sophie said:

I went to bed feeling a little upset and sorry for myself, I fell asleep feeling content and loved. 

This makes me very happy ❤️. Thanks so much for sharing this beautiful moment with us @Sophie. Wonderfully described with such tenderness xx

[will57 14]

Never.

It's not that great though amirite

😔

[Peenicks 864]

April or May if I recall. Had to part with a gal I met in college amicably and I haven't done it since.

And to answer your question @will57, no it's not all that great. Maybe I'm just outing myself as bad at sex but even if I and my partner/partners were the absolute best at it, it doesn't really rank all that high in terms of fulfilling life experiences and I think the undue weight put on it by a lot of people (myself included a lot of the time) leads to a lot of problems for people mentally and develops weird hang-ups and unrealistic expectations for many (again, including me)

[Bacardi 10,132]

8 hours ago, Peenicks said:

April or May if I recall. Had to part with a gal I met in college amicably and I haven't done it since.

And to answer your question @will57, no it's not all that great. Maybe I'm just outing myself as bad at sex but even if I and my partner/partners were the absolute best at it, it doesn't really rank all that high in terms of fulfilling life experiences and I think the undue weight put on it by a lot of people (myself included a lot of the time) leads to a lot of problems for people mentally and develops weird hang-ups and unrealistic expectations for many (again, including me)

Yeah girl same. Traditional penis in vagina sex isn't really my favorite thing in the world. There are just so many things I can think of to better spend my time. But I still put up with it when my husband wants it, which was a few nights ago. 

I remember my friends (mostly male) hyping sex up so much in high school and when I finally tried it (with a boy who insisted he couldn't use condoms or lube; guess who got pregnant before she was 20?) I was really disappointed lol. It was like that for all of my sexual partners. I thought I was broken, but I guess I am just asexual af. 

I could go the rest of my life without sex and probably still be just as happy as I am now 😁

[AWN_84 1,443]

1 hour ago, Bacardi said:

Yeah girl same. Traditional penis in vagina sex isn't really my favorite thing in the world. There are just so many things I can think of to better spend my time. But I still put up with it when my husband wants it, which was a few nights ago. 

I remember my friends (mostly male) hyping sex up so much in high school and when I finally tried it (with a boy who insisted he couldn't use condoms or lube; guess who got pregnant before she was 20?) I was really disappointed lol. It was like that for all of my sexual partners. I thought I was broken, but I guess I am just asexual af. 

I could go the rest of my life without sex and probably still be just as happy as I am now 😁

I totally understand you! First time i had sex was because of peer pressure, went on and and was very dissapointing. Over the years i got more experience and had better partners, wich made me enjoy sex again.

[Kupar 13,339]

There's so much more to enjoy than PiV of course 🙂 A whole world of fun if you have the opportunity, the imagination and the right partner(s). I think everyone probably gets better at it with practice ... same with pretty much everything 🙂  

[LovesToWet 3,800]

Last month I think, can't really remember 

[likesToLick 10,216]

On 10/20/2022 at 9:29 PM, Bacardi said:

I was really disappointed lol. It was like that for all of my sexual partners. I thought I was broken, but I guess I am just asexual af. 

Very sorry to hear it is like that for you.