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I agree that gender stereotypes may mean that a lady, already in a vulnerable and exposed position may feel more uncomfortable at a male stranger walking up to them rather than the opposite. Plus a lady in that situation is very likely to be a lot more exposed and a lot less able to move than a guy with just his zipper open. But in a festival scenario people are possibly a lot more laid back and there’s probably the opportunity to try and disarm any fear - as said asking if it’s ok to also pee there, making it obvious you’re not trying to watch them, facing the other way if that’s f

Hi @Draco36 - Hope you don’t mind, your two posts looked very similar and so I’ve merged them together.

The way I read it was that @The99Club has, as other people have done, offered their understanding and empathy for the situation. I know that in the forefront of my thoughts when I personally answered was my view that it's difficult to express everything about the actual situation in a few words, so it's difficult for us to know the whole picture. In my mind a marriage is a huge undertaking in every sense and my personal belief is that @ShyPeeMan alone can make any decisions on that. We offered our positions, we emphasised our care and empathy to them without 'leading the witness' in a parti

@Kevvvv @KinsleyKisses & @Pee_Jeans - Come on down and collect your Birthday Gifts

And very glad you did stumble in... pull up a chair and relax. Hopefully you'll find yourself very quickly at home. Do shout up with any questions of course.

Great song @Kupar - always liked it, and saw a documentary on songs with hidden meanings a little while ago- including Turning Japanese.

Have a great day @WarmWetting and the very same to you @cplhiggins

@ShyPeeMan - You'll see I've joined your post with this existing content, so obviously you're not alone. You may also be interested in the following if you haven't already seen them: https://peefans.com/topic/18454-desperate-and-peeing-during-sports/?do=findComment&comment=254511 https://peefans.com/topic/17458-the-peefans-sports-club/?do=findComment&comment=243374

Lovely, lovely imagery there @Bacardi - thanks for sharing (and brightening my day if nobody else's). The locker room I guess you 'could' have made some excuse if caught... mummy-bladder, suddenly got hit by the need to pee RIGHT NOW, that sort of thing, and maybe then the laundry room is actually naughtier. "Mommy, what are you doing....?" Love both scenarios though.

Happy Birthday @lillnisse & @Sandi4lezurn

The romantics had the idea of the moral battle between following your head and your heart. Us guys all know it's not the heart driving us down the road of fulfilling our fantasy, and it's not just that erection that's hard to get rid of.

@ShyPeeMan - I can completely relate to what you're saying there and completely sympathise - it's a well know situation. The unfortunate fact is that the 'kink' can become stronger with time. Perhaps we become desensitised, so the online material becomes more familiar and we need something stronger. Perhaps we become more comfortable in our minds about the normality of our kink, knowing now how widespread it is and aspects lose their thrill. Whatever it is, you are right - the temptation to enter into something deeper is so strong. Ultimately only you can answer the question thoug

Hi and a huge welcome to the community. I'll be totally honest with you... it doesn't matter on your age, on your gender or sexual preferences - welcome to the community irrespective. The only thing that matters is that you're a peefan, and you're in the right place to talk, find pictures, video and get that feedback. You're right in that we as a community are real people, ladies, guys and those who prefer not to relate so firmly. The most effective way to get to know us and for us to get to know you is exactly what you've done here - browse and post in the forums. It's a lot mor

Happy Birthday today to: @JQKER @jamesjustice @URinTrouble

Love it - and thanks for sharing. Here's to more long (but definitely not boring) meetings.

Your mission then @Lennys_wet_now.... should you choose to accept it..... is suggest an alternative. Best name wins - well, I don't know what it would win but worth a go.

Sloshing slash-tank?

Hi John and a big welcome to the site. I'm over 27, and sorry I'm not a woman. Hopefully you will find lots of people to talk desperation with, in the forums here it's exactly what we're about after all (well one of the aspects of peeing anyway). I notice you've changed the title of the post though - and I should mention that we don't encourage meeting up in person. For one thing our membership is worldwide, and the chances of someone local to you, with the right interests and age / gender are limited... But how would you know actually who you were really meeting up with. I could

No problem at all @Northern_pee - and your comment to wetboy was much appreciated. I was commenting more from the point of view to Wetboy1983 and Peeguy8844 that both of them had created a new, very similar threads and that actually there's a wealth of content already on the site for their enjoyment. Also to let them know I'd moved the topic from Questions to Experiences since that's what it's all about.

You’re welcome Carla. Please can make sure all posts and comments are made in English though. It’s the site language.

Folks - I've merged these two nearly identical threads and relocated them into Real Pee Encounters & Experiences. Now, at the top of your screen is a little search icon. It's pretty good, worth using to search out posts like these: https://peefans.com/topic/3162-pee-beside-on-the-car/?do=findComment&comment=32578 https://peefans.com/topic/14021-desperate-parking-pee/?do=findComment&comment=202355 https://peefans.com/topic/21834-roadside-pee/?do=findComment&comment=299474 https://peefans.com/topic/21669-gas-station/?do=findComment&comment=295920

Have a great day @beergut64 @peebus10 @TheArizonaSolution @Quirky 🎂 🥂 🎉

Hi and a huge welcome to the community.

When I'm on here I make no secret of the fact that in the rest of my life this is a whole big secret. And based on my situation, I'm reading into your initial post that the weight of holding the secret is a heavy one. Yes there's all of us here, all with our own subtle twists and preferences, who you can share with. But at the same time wouldn't it be wonderful to just be able to be open and honest with the real people around us. I guess our biggest problem is people are unpredictable and likely to hear what they choose to hear. In a perfect world they could accept all and take th