When was the first time you told someone about your kink and how did it go?

[mickymoist 3,513]

The only people who know are on here, don't have a partner and have never told anyone about my interest 😃

[WaterboyUk 677]

The only people who really know are the folks on here, I've always kept it a secret even from my other half.  I just feel other people wouldn't understand and even judge me as if I'm some kind of freak. So no,  I've never said anything to anyone. 

[WaterboyUk 677]

42 minutes ago, Jfhchr said:

That's very relatable for me. Never really dared saying it to a significant other 

I suspect you feel the same as me, that your other half wouldn't accept your kink. Although I have seen my wife  pee outside when we were out walking and she really needed to go. I'm convinced she wouldn't be happy with my liking for naughty pissing.

[Juular_92 33]

I used to be fairly quiet about anything on the pee kink front, so it was only a couple of years ago it came up in a drunken conversation, but I've been a lot more open about it recently and getting more involved in the kink scene

[Lennys_wet_now 383]

It's not something I could discuss with my partner, but occasionally when being given a hand job, a few times I have released a small amount of piss out to see if it's a problem. It just gets ignored while for me the sight is a turn on. Trying to break the ice. 

I do have a cycling buddy who has noticed I always piss in the same location followed by the comment of,  "do you enjoy getting your cock out here or something", my simple answer is always, "just needed that". 

Edited March 20, 2022 by Lennys_wet_now

[JDG 870]

I only told my current partner. And I didn't mean to tell it, but I accidentally blurted it out. We were in the sea, she was sitting in my lap (facing me) and we were cuddling. Suddenly I felt it getting very warm, obviously she was peeing. I blurted out "damn that was sexy" and my girlfriend replied "sorry, I suddenly had to pee badly, wait, WHAT?!?!". 

I explained that I get aroused by watching a girl pee, she asked if my kink went that far that I wanted to include pee in our sexlife. I replied that my link is quite mild and I just like to watch girls, but nothing more (which is the truth, I am not into pee drinking or peeing during sex or anything). She said that she wouldn't want to incorporate pee into our sexlife either, so she was relieved and promised to let me watch her pee more often than she had let me until now. So in the end all was good, but she's still the only one who knows. 

I was very close to telling my ex, but decided not to do it as it didn't feel good enough. 

[TMN_Femboi 1,074]

My first (and last, jeeezzzzzzz, that was a mistake) gf peed in front of me regularly for years, so I tried mentioning my attraction to such to her, yet she never responded positively to it. I tried both trying to convince her to pee in public places and trying to get her to show affection to my dick while peeing, but she always seemed weirded out. Eventually I stopped trying to make any advances in that regard and we broke up shortly after, because she had found a 'better guy'....

It didn't exactly deter me from cautiously mentioning it to my next two partners (both guys), but only the second one actually seemed interested. It was an online relationship tho and we broke up before we could ever meet, so I didn't experience anything with him either.

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

First time I mentioned it to people was on here and it went well, I think lol

None of my family or friends know

[Transpeerant 346]

Told the person that I first had a pee experience with, told my ex- though I hadn’t wanted to, only did to clear up a misunderstanding from something else, and everyone else has been anonymous I’m pretty sure whether on here or elsewhere 

[Eliminature 5,209]

I never told him, but my husband guessed. He just knows me so well. In the same way that he can tell when I am anxious or despairing, he just knew. 

[Peewee123 1,124]

I’ve never told anyone until I joined here last year. To be honest I dont think i realised it was a thing, I had an urge to pee myself, googled something, found this site and have learnt a lot since! It explains a lot. 
however my ex watched a lot of porn and liked experimenting and he asked for a golden shower and to experiment with them a bit. So I have peed in front of hun, peed on him in the shower a couple of times, peed while he had his hand between my legs and he felt me up, and peed during sex a few times. But he thought that was all for him 😉

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

4 minutes ago, Peewee123 said:

But he thought that was all for him 😉

Did you tell him that you enjoyed it?  Or initiate any pee fun with him, or was it only at his request.  Maybe he thought you weren't into it.

[Peewee123 1,124]

4 minutes ago, DoctorDoctor said:

Did you tell him that you enjoyed it?  Or initiate any pee fun with him, or was it only at his request.  Maybe he thought you weren't into it.

Only at his request but I never put up a fight. Actually think I might have let out some spurts of pee during sex without him asking as I did enjoy it, he never mentioned it! 

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

1 minute ago, Peewee123 said:

Only at his request but I never put up a fight. Actually think I might have let out some spurts of pee during sex without him asking as I did enjoy it, he never mentioned it! 

Wow, if I could only be so lucky!  I would surely have initiated a conversation to dig a little deeper and let them know I enjoyed the spurts and activities, if I had a partner who showed any interest.  Sounds like you gave a lot of subtle hints to him.

[Peewee123 1,124]

2 minutes ago, DoctorDoctor said:

Wow, if I could only be so lucky!  I would surely have initiated a conversation to dig a little deeper and let them know I enjoyed the spurts and activities, if I had a partner who showed any interest.  Sounds like you gave a lot of subtle hints to him.

As I said I’m not sure I knew it was a kink or that I enjoyed it at the time. I think I would do it a lot more now or push for more or show my enjoyment more but at the time I was pretty shy so did what he asked without complaining but didn’t push it too much. But looking back I think you’re right that it was quite obvious. 

[Peewee123 1,124]

I peed in the woods near him a few times too and took sneaky peeks when he did it 😉

[Bacardi 10,132]

The first and last person I ever told was my ex boyfriend straight out of high school and it was the most miserable experience of my life. It was my first time exploring sex and obviously pee is my kink and I thought I could trust him with it. He took it and made it into a joke. He laughed at me for weeks and asked if wetting my pants as a kid is what brought it on. I was so hurt and didn't think about pee in a sexual wah for years after it.

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

28 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

The first and last person I ever told was my ex boyfriend straight out of high school and it was the most miserable experience of my life. It was my first time exploring sex and obviously pee is my kink and I thought I could trust him with it. He took it and made it into a joke. He laughed at me for weeks and asked if wetting my pants as a kid is what brought it on. I was so hurt and didn't think about pee in a sexual wah for years after it.

This is why I don't want to tell my partner. We're not having a good time at the mo so don't really want them to shame me as well. Hope you're ok now hun

[Guest ShyPeeMan]

5 hours ago, Peewee123 said:

I’ve never told anyone until I joined here last year. To be honest I dont think i realised it was a thing, I had an urge to pee myself, googled something, found this site and have learnt a lot since! It explains a lot.  😉

Same here, this site has been a great help with understanding what I enjoy

[WaterboyUk 677]

1 hour ago, Bacardi said:

The first and last person I ever told was my ex boyfriend straight out of high school and it was the most miserable experience of my life. It was my first time exploring sex and obviously pee is my kink and I thought I could trust him with it. He took it and made it into a joke. He laughed at me for weeks and asked if wetting my pants as a kid is what brought it on. I was so hurt and didn't think about pee in a sexual wah for years after it.

Some people, regardless of age can be so cruel and for that reason I keep my kink to myself. I  feel for you,  it must have been so humiliating for you and of course that feeling of the loss of trust in someone you cared for. Like so many of us, particularly those of us here you learned from your mistake and it's made you a stronger person.

[JDG 870]

11 hours ago, Jfhchr said:

@JDGI've been in multiple situations with my ex where I could've been in that same boat too. Im glad to hear you've found a way to talk it through and come to an understanding though! 

 

We also just some other naughty things in that sea, so me still being a little horny from that definately helped to blurt this out 😇

But yeah, I'm happy, even though not much has changed as she peed outside a lot before I told her as well.

[Paulypeeps 5,287]

One of my friends was interested in the fiction that I was writing, and she soon cottoned on that it was written as my experience. I had to admit that it was mostly, and had only been a little bit enhanced. She was very inquisitive of what I did and why I did it, and was just completely accepting of it and did not judge at all. Of course she shared this information with several other friends, but in her open minded way that they had to accept that it was O.K. too. It is nice that I can wet myself openly around my friends now. They still find it a constant source of amusement - but still accept it as O.K.

[Kupar 13,339]

7 hours ago, Paulypeeps said:

One of my friends was interested in the fiction that I was writing, and she soon cottoned on that it was written as my experience. I had to admit that it was mostly, and had only been a little bit enhanced. She was very inquisitive of what I did and why I did it, and was just completely accepting of it and did not judge at all. Of course she shared this information with several other friends, but in her open minded way that they had to accept that it was O.K. too. It is nice that I can wet myself openly around my friends now. They still find it a constant source of amusement - but still accept it as O.K.

You have good friends Pauly

[Mr_Slash 99]

I've been very lucky with both my previous g/fs and I think that what helped a lot is that in both cases our relationships started online and quite early on sex was often a topic of conversation.
It seems to me that pretty much everyone who enjoys sex has their kink/s and I've found this is a good way of steering the conversation when talking about what turns each of us on. So for me, it's usually worked quite well during these conversations by asking a g/f in a lighthearted way 'Come on then, what things especially turn you on? I reckon everyone has their kinks. I know i certainly do. I think it's really important to know what really turns each other on.. better than having secrets and ending up frustrated'.  This has usually led to some really open and honest conversation and made it easy for me to be totally honest. For example, my last g/f then told me that she loved to be dominated and she also loved to have her hair pulled while being taken from behind. She then admitted she'd never told anyone that before so that helped me to respond with 'Well to be honest, it quite turns me if a woman lets me watch her piss. I hope that doesn't sound too weird but i do think quite of lot of people secretly to enjoy it'.  This conversation led to us both admitting we'd be happy to do these things for each other.  Sure enough, we soon started to wanted to satisfy each other's desires and for me that meant that my g/f was always happy to piss for me in various ways because she knew it turned me on and that I would happily indulge in her kinks too. In fact it got to the stage where she admitted that she was enjoying my kink too; that was one night when things got very dirty... but thats another story! 

[Kupar 13,339]

1 hour ago, Mr_Slash said:

I've been very lucky with both my previous g/fs and I think that what helped a lot is that in both cases our relationships started online and quite early on sex was often a topic of conversation.
It seems to me that pretty much everyone who enjoys sex has their kink/s and I've found this is a good way of steering the conversation when talking about what turns each of us on. So for me, it's usually worked quite well during these conversations by asking a g/f in a lighthearted way 'Come on then, what things especially turn you on? I reckon everyone has their kinks. I know i certainly do. I think it's really important to know what really turns each other on.. better than having secrets and ending up frustrated'.  This has usually led to some really open and honest conversation and made it easy for me to be totally honest. For example, my last g/f then told me that she loved to be dominated and she also loved to have her hair pulled while being taken from behind. She then admitted she'd never told anyone that before so that helped me to respond with 'Well to be honest, it quite turns me if a woman lets me watch her piss. I hope that doesn't sound too weird but i do think quite of lot of people secretly to enjoy it'.  This conversation led to us both admitting we'd be happy to do these things for each other.  Sure enough, we soon started to wanted to satisfy each other's desires and for me that meant that my g/f was always happy to piss for me in various ways because she knew it turned me on and that I would happily indulge in her kinks too. In fact it got to the stage where she admitted that she was enjoying my kink too; that was one night when things got very dirty... but thats another story! 

That's a great description of how it should work - and you've been lucky 🙂  I am looking forward to hearing the other story ... if you want to tell it of course!