Partners that piss too

[selfpissinglad 206]

For me now i have realised i need someone who is not just reluctantly partaking in my kink but actually into piss etc. My ex wife and I ended it 7 months ago and while there were a whole host of reasons for that I think a lack of sexual similarities played a big part in it.

This could be a little too deep for this normally light hearted forum but...does your partner have a piss kink? If so, fantastic. If not, are you happy with your partner although they do not want to do the naughty things you do?

Be honest. We are all anonymous after all.

[Bacardi 10,133]

No he doesn't. I don't think he has any kinks at all. We've been together for 8 years, own a home together and have kids. We are happy and I have no plans on leaving him anytime soon (and hopefully he feels the same 🤣). It doesn't bother me that he is not into pee. I'm perfectly happy doing pee stuff on my own. It's how I explored the kink when I first found out I had it at such a young age, so it's no big deal to do it now. 

[Kirby23 954]

Very happily married 15 years to a wonderful woman who does not share my kink. We have a decent, mostly satisfactory sex life. She's not a very sexual person, and usually could take it or leave it. She does not have any kinks. 

She used to kink shame me about pee, but really doesn't anymore. As far as pee stuff, she allows me to pee inside her during PIV if I want to. I do this when I feel like it, but not every time we have sex. 

She regularly pees in the shower, and once in a while she'll allow me to watch. I don't always ask, because this is when she sometimes kink shames, for example, she'll say that me wanting to watch her pee is creepy. 

We don't really camp much anymore, but when we used to camp, she would allow me to watch her pee (outside the tent, etc.). She probably still would if we camped more often.

I've occasionally asked her to pee during sex, but she has said that she never will, and I need to stop asking.

She doesn't like talking about pee-related things, and has asked me to stop bringing it up. I mostly have, but may still mention it occasionally, if it is topical - like if it's mentioned on the news, or a TV show we're watching, etc.

Is a non-shared kink a strain on our relationship? Maybe once in a while, but not really for the most part. Like @Bacardi mentioned, I have other outlets for it, including this forum (which she definitely does not know about).

Do I wish she shared my kink? Of course. But it's worked for 15 years, definitely not going to change anything now. 

[Pifam 394]

Both women in my life do it for me. In all kinds of pissing. (there is evidence here 🙂 ) Whether they like it - I don't know, and I don't ask. 🙂 I'll enjoy it while I can.

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

Me and my gf may have irony poisoned each other into each other's kinks. 

[oliver2 4,418]

8 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

Me and my gf may have irony poisoned each other into each other's kinks. 

… are you just gonna leave the details to our imaginations? Dangerous, you know what our imaginations are like round here

[Kupar 13,339]

I am incredibly lucky to have found my wife. She's not really into the kink for her own sake but she gives me so much, and we have fun wet times. If she wasn't as tolerant with the kink it wouldn't be a marriage ending issue. We have had serious wobbles that brought us to the brink, in which sexual compatibility was significant, but with external help we worked through this and are happier than ever sexually.

I really hope you you find what you need

x

Edited July 1, 2023 by Kupar
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[Dante_Heart 131]

My boyfriend considers himself neutral to pee, though when he's drunk or horny, he'll always mention how much he'd love to piss on me, which is fun. He'll pee for me and let me go on him and in return, I let him tie me up sometimes, which I'm not particularly into but I'll do for him. 

[Sonnenschein 742]

Early on in our relationship, I told my boyfriend about my kink. He does not share it, unfortunately. He has peed on me twice in the shower, but rather reluctantly, which in turn made me feel a bit bad. Our sex life is not horribly active. Being a very practical person, I actually suggested a while back that we alternate: every other time we have vanilla sex and every other time we include my kink (probably just him pissing on me in the shower, nothing more extreme). He did not agree to this, so now we just have pretty infrequent vanilla sex.

I would really love to have a partner who enjoyed peeing on me or other aspects of the kink. I have had sex partners who have done that, but a relationship is different, because many things need to line up. 

Then again, there is a small part of me that wonders if I would be able to lead a normal life at all if my partner shared this kink, or would we just spend all hours engaging in piss-related fun.

[Overlord 451]

On 5/25/2023 at 10:40 AM, selfpissinglad said:

For me now i have realised i need someone who is not just reluctantly partaking in my kink but actually into piss etc. My ex wife and I ended it 7 months ago and while there were a whole host of reasons for that I think a lack of sexual similarities played a big part in it.

This could be a little too deep for this normally light hearted forum but...does your partner have a piss kink? If so, fantastic. If not, are you happy with your partner although they do not want to do the naughty things you do?

Be honest. We are all anonymous after all.

I'm single and I think I reached a point in my life where I'm old enough to know what works and what doesn't. I had some relationships in my life, most didn't share my piss kink. Actually I had only one girl who was really into it and it was fantastic. But I was young, careless and dumb enough to throw her away like a hot potato. And i deeply regret it till this day, because I've never found a girl again who was into my kink and shared a lot of my interests, not only sexual, like she was.

Relationships I've had without my kink never really worked out for me. I've tried believe me. My last relationship was over 2 years long, but the sex was after a few month just boring to me. So I did not perform or only very reluctant. And it almost became an A-sexual, "best friend" relation. So we ended it.

So I'm on the same page as @MonsterKane46. I don't think that i want to start another relationship with someone who isn't into pissing. It's just wasted time and emotions.

[MidoriLemonade85 2,366]

Great question. 
In regards to pee, I have a very small handful of people I have connected with here on PeeFans who I love truly, dearly, madly.
I share everything with them and they know me inside and out. We are there for each other through ups and downs, horny times and lack of mojo. We inspire and support each other and learn from each other. I speak to them nearly every day. I see them as relationships….just separated by a screen. Those people are very, very special to me. 
With these people we share sexy times through stories, videos, photos, and chat. The connection, the understanding, the feelings and the orgasms ….are real. 
IRL, I have a sensible, good-looking, clever, hard-working husband. We have sex, which I try and make more passionate. He has health issues that slow him down. He does not share my kinks. 
But…I plan to introduce kinks over time, gently as part of Date Nights. 
He is aware of my pee kink but chooses to ignore it. He jokes about pee though. He has pissed on me in the shower, once naked. Once on my tee shirt. That was nice. He is not aware of PeeFans. 
A relationship can’t be based on a kink though. Has to have a stronger foundation than that. 
But if I was single…I have a few PeeFans I would love to have a cup of tea with….
 

[Bacardi 10,133]

4 hours ago, MidoriLemonade85 said:

But if I was single…I have a few PeeFans I would love to have a cup of tea with….

Yea. Me too. The peefans world tour where we stop in every country and spend time with all of our peefans friends 🫂

[Ilovepeestains 482]

On 5/25/2023 at 1:40 AM, selfpissinglad said:

For me now i have realised i need someone who is not just reluctantly partaking in my kink but actually into piss etc. My ex wife and I ended it 7 months ago and while there were a whole host of reasons for that I think a lack of sexual similarities played a big part in it.

This could be a little too deep for this normally light hearted forum but...does your partner have a piss kink? If so, fantastic. If not, are you happy with your partner although they do not want to do the naughty things you do?

Be honest. We are all anonymous after all.

I've always dreamed of being partners with a girl into piss like me. But it's very unlikely to ever happen. My wife tolerates my habits to some extent. And she occasionally pees on me during sex.