Pass-on question about sex

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

43 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

Sorry to not play by the rules here, but I have something to say about this lol. 

I have a breeding kink and sort of get this, but the lactation kink is something I actively participated in virtually for someone way back when I was still breastfeeding. It was a one time thing, and it was so erotic to hear about how much he loved my milk and how good it would have tasted. But, it wasn't potent enough to stick around, especially since I had a real life baby to feed, shirts, pillows, and sheets that were stained with warm, sour milk every morning, and having to wake up every three hours to pump even tho baby was sleeping through the night. 

Who knows. Maybe next go around I'll find another guy into it and then I can come back and say I have yet another new kink 🤣

Thanks for sharing.  Just a comment.  I have seen lactating women on porn sites and it looks hot and like something to fun to take part in.  Don't believe I had a fetish, maybe as you called it, a kink.

[gldenwetgoose 21,500]

So...    Would I ever pay someone for sex ?

'Ever' is by any definition a long, long time lol - and for that reason and the lack of a crystal ball, I can't hand on heart say no.  But based on my life as it stands today, I can't see that I'd perform penetrative sexual intercourse with another person in direct exchange for cash.   That's based on an expectation that my life, relationship status, health etc all remain reasonably stable going forwards.

Would I ever pay for sexual experiences - whether it be a 'happy ending' to a Thai massage, paying to sit in the audience at an adult bar or something similar (but not full on sex) then based on past experiences I can't rule that level of paying for sex out of the equation.

 

And now my follow-on question....

Thinking about your attitude to sex, your preferences, the types you're drawn to, your views on what you would and wouldn't do (etc)  - what aspect of your thinking around sex has changed most in the last 5-10 years?

[JDG 871]

@Bacardi don't worry, there no such thing as strict rules, if you want to comment on someone's answer you're more than welcome! 

8 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

So...    Would I ever pay someone for sex ?

'Ever' is by any definition a long, long time lol - and for that reason and the lack of a crystal ball, I can't hand on heart say no.  But based on my life as it stands today, I can't see that I'd perform penetrative sexual intercourse with another person in direct exchange for cash.   That's based on an expectation that my life, relationship status, health etc all remain reasonably stable going forwards.

Would I ever pay for sexual experiences - whether it be a 'happy ending' to a Thai massage, paying to sit in the audience at an adult bar or something similar (but not full on sex) then based on past experiences I can't rule that level of paying for sex out of the equation.

 

And now my follow-on question....

Thinking about your attitude to sex, your preferences, the types you're drawn to, your views on what you would and wouldn't do (etc)  - what aspect of your thinking around sex has changed most in the last 5-10 years?

Fun question! Long answer coming in as well I think haha

Even though I'm "already" in my thirties, I hadn't lost my virginity yet 10 years ago. I lost it to my ex when I was 26 (she and my current gf are actually the only 2 bedpartners I have had, but that's another story). Back then I was thrilled that I finally managed to have sex with somebody I found attractive. 

Now that I look back on it and see how much I love the sex I have with my current gf, I realize how boring it was (even though my preferences are very, very vanilla). We only did it on the bed in missionary, I licked her pussy twice during our entire relationship, she gave me just 3 blowjobs and didn't even let me finish, she didn't like kissing.... Now I am having a much more satisfactionary sex life with all the things I missed but really liked.

As for the types I'm into, I love curvy girls. Both my ex and my current gf were busty girls that many people would consider too fat (especially my current gf who would most definately be considered a BBW) but that drives me crazy. My love for busty girls with big boobs and a big butt has always been there and never been different. I have never felt attraction to thin girls and I probably never will. 

What I would and wouldn't do is also still the same I guess. Even though my preferences are vanilla, I'm open to almost anything (except anal and stuff with feces, puke, blood and those kind of bodily fluids). Ofcourse, a lot of stuff I tried wasn't to my liking (SM is a good example, even the softer versions of it) but that doesn't mean it wasn't fun to try out! 

So long story short, I thought "any sex is good" 10 years ago but now I think "I'd rather have no sex at all than a boring sex life". All the other things you mentioned about the type of girls I like, what I would and wouldn't do etc hasn't changed at all. 

[JDG 871]

And I forgot to ask the next question in my own topic 😄

What's the biggest age difference you've had sex with? 

[James_erased 1,795]

On 5/19/2022 at 3:36 PM, JDG said:

And I forgot to ask the next question in my own topic 😄

What's the biggest age difference you've had sex with? 

When I was 25, I shagged a woman my mate worked with who was into younger guys, and she was 45/46 at the time. I’d heard these suggestions of older women being more experienced and so on, but sadly it was nothing to write home about. On a side note, I know a girl who had sex with a 59 yr old when she was 17 😳 I didn’t know whether to be turned on, disgusted, or both..!

Next question - what are three porn categories you frequent?

[UnauthorisedGuy 510]

On 5/26/2022 at 5:36 AM, James_erased said:

Next question - what are three porn categories you frequent?

Maybe it's a lost cause, but I thought I'd try to restart this thread. My three categories are pee, period and pregnant porn 😁 

Have you/would make a sex video with a partner, or make a solo video for your partner to watch? 

[Jonjet0208 691]

I’ve done both of these. I was in a long distance relationship and used to physically send VHS tapes of me masturbating! Haha. Later when we were together we made some videos together. 
 

Have you ever had ‘secret’ sex? Like in a cinema, a busy party, a concert etc where you’ve done it but no one with plenty of people nearby but nobody has noticed?

[Bacardi 10,135]

26 minutes ago, Jonjet0208 said:

Have you ever had ‘secret’ sex? Like in a cinema, a busy party, a concert etc where you’ve done it but no one with plenty of people nearby but nobody has noticed?

I once gave a hand job and blow job to my ex in a movie theater.

Top three favorite positions?

[Kupar 13,341]

1. Cowgirl 

2. From behind over a table 

3. Doggy 

What is the most memorable sex you've had in a dream?

[thisguy20 937]

Trying to keep this tread going...

Most memorable sex in a dream: anal with a woman who looked like a black version of Pam Andersen (before she got the implants) in the back of an early 1950's Cadillac Series 75.  I have never been so disappointed upon waking up.

Have you ever had sex with someone you really shouldn't have (think relative, someone who is married to someone close to you, etc)?

[UnauthorisedGuy 510]

On 8/31/2022 at 6:03 AM, thisguy20 said:

Have you ever had sex with someone you really shouldn't have (think relative, someone who is married to someone close to you, etc)?

I had sex with a married woman who was also a work colleague, so I guess that's two reasons why we shouldn't have been having sex.  

Has someone tried to pick you up, but you didn't realise it at the time?

[janny-ammerson 66]

I only started having sex after my 18th birthday and I had like 5–6 sexual partners and they’re all people around me, they’re all friends and the people that I trust. Most of them are just a one times thing only.

[Peenicks 864]

23 hours ago, UnauthorisedGuy said:

Has someone tried to pick you up, but you didn't realise it at the time?

I think a good chunk of my friends in middle school thought I was trying to date em' because I have a tendency to talk overly-familiarly with just about everyone. At least one or two of my friends reciprocated this affection and tried to date me, I wasn't interested tho. In one particularly confusing instance I was asked by a girl for a break-up from a relationship I didn't even know I was in.

What's your kinkiest sexual experience (pee-involved or otherwise)?