Guys, we need to talk...

[Sophie 23,032]

Just now, dodges said:

LOL!  Then I'll lose LOTS OF SLEEP while I just switch VPN to another Ip address/email address.  Let's have fun and piss without wiping it!

Fine, have it your way. 

[Eliminature 5,107]

Again, thank you. 

[gldenwetgoose 20,243]

4 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Again, thank you. 

Our friend 'dodges' is a recurring visitor - for very, very brief periods.  He spends a while creating a VPN address, then an email address, then thinks up a new name to register on the site, spends a while typing out some vile comment.  Then we click two buttons and he's banned again.  I know who I consider to be the winner.  

All in a day's moderation...

[Eliminature 5,107]

Sorry, but that's more funny than anything! 😂

I can't thank you mods enough for being friendly and supportive, though. 👍🏻

[JesseP 1,265]

23 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Sorry, but that's more funny than anything! 😂

I can't thank you mods enough for being friendly and supportive, though. 👍🏻

Yes well done guys and ladies, would I want to be a mod? No but thank you for giving up your time and patience to keep an eye on things

[Eliminature 5,107]

Uh oh! Eliminature is annoyed. Apologies, but I need to vent my spleen a bit.

I'm freshly back from a hiatus (again, I'm sorry for that, but because of lockdown and cold winter, my mental wellbeing and libido was on the floor) and one of the first things that I find is what appears to be a recurring theme. A male newbie who expresses a preference for what I am known for - women peeing standing - all well and good. However, he then proceeds to give me a list of his predilections and tell me that I "definitely have to" try them, that he wants to see live action videos and asking me am I ready to "take it to the ultimate peeing level?"

This is bad manners at best and somewhat sexist at worst. A man I've never met before telling me how to perform my art to suit his preferences? I've been doing this for most of my life, certainly all of my adult life. I know what will work and what won't. I don't need a stranger telling me how to do it. "Take it to the ultimate peeing level?" How dare you?? Frankly, if I was willing to fulfil the, often unworkable, requests that I sometimes get, I'd be on Only Fans earning money for it. I certainly wouldn't do it for free.

Why do male newbies do this? Long standing male pee fans don't do it, female newbies don't do it. It's solely from male newbies. And each time they do, they will be going straight onto my block list.

Rant over. It is lovely to be back. I've missed the long standing members - both male and female. Now that lockdown has eased a little and we can go out drinking again, I hope to get back to easing my full bladder in nature and having Mr Eliminature photograph me in the act. ❤

[Pissmarker1 98]

I'd like to just add on to the complaint here with one other thing:

 

The people who just talk about wanting something done to them in places like Video threads just derail the thread for several days, preventing any good content from getting to us.

[gldenwetgoose 20,243]

Well - it's about two years since I created this post - and I have to say now, 'Guys - I think we need to have a serious man to man talk again. At least some of us'.

The thing is, unfortunately that's literally what some of the ladies of the forum are asking for.  And frankly I fully see their point.   Just a few of you have got a few people pissed off to the point of leaving our community. And that is frankly, completely unacceptable.

At a rough guess, the regular users of this site are in the hundreds of people.  Not a massive amount, and we know that of those regular users, those who actually actively contribute is in the small numbers.  Another thing we know is that ladies make up about 1 in 5 of the membership.  Any way you look at it makes the ladies of this community a rare commodity.

Now the problem is, that given that very small group of ladies, there is also a small subset of guys here who are making arses of themselves and are literally scaring the ladies away.  Making them reluctant to post. Making them unwilling to visit the site.  Causing them to leave.  And that is not acceptable. Period. Full stop. The end.   

 

You see - the vast majority of these ladies were born with a uterus and vagina, with labia and clitoris, and a urethra just below it. They've had twenty, thirty, forty or however many years experience filling a bladder and then expelling that bladder through that urethra.  Years of experience of knowing what it feels like, how it works and all those things.

So guys.  Just a couple of you guys.  The ladies of this forum DO NOT need you as a man explaining why their stream is messy, straight, hissy, long, short.  They certainly do not need us deciding if they're skinny or fat based on how they describe themselves.  I'm going to hazard a guess none of us have a doctorate in gynaecology or any other branch of medicine.  So why try and talk down to a member like they don't know their own body.  That's how it is coming across.  That is real. 

And whilst I'm on a rant - not everybody is obsessed with pissing into a measuring jug.  I'd guess there may be some of our lady members who never really watch themselves actually pee, let alone measure.  So why do we have to have these endless questions over the volume?  What makes you think people enjoy answering over, and over and over again?

Now - I've only tackled really two issues here.  I haven't mentioned the unsolicited pictures.  The guys sending propositions.  The requests to send pictures back. Again I'm probably only really addressing a very small couple of people there too.

 

Start treating ALL the members of this site with some respect.  I'm not singling out a gender group there - because we're all members of this community.  So stop treating people like they need basic biology explaining.  Especially when you've learned it all watching porn.

Stop assuming everyone has the same singular obsessions as yourself.   Start understanding there are a million and one different subtleties that people enjoy and reasons they're here.  Respect and enjoy their contributions without turning everything into an attempt to show your superior intellect.

Understood ?

[PissDude 470]

I’ve been on this site for a long time, off and on. I lurked here for a while, then had to register in about 2017. I don’t have time to post and read actively, but I check in from time to time. It’s a great community. 
 

I’ve seen a few things. I always conduct myself by “house rules” no matter which site I’m on. I may ask a woman who posts a picture or video how desperate she was, but leave it at that. I’ve followed a few, but most have left. 
 

I had a few times I commented on a video and had some guy ping me over DM about where to find the full video. I don’t know, and he has access to the same tools I do, so good luck. I rarely heard again, so I assume the poster got banned. 
 

I appreciate this community when I’m able to participate. Thanks you, mods, for your hard work. 

[Sophie 23,032]

5 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Well - it's about two years since I created this post - and I have to say now, 'Guys - I think we need to have a serious man to man talk again. At least some of us'.... 

 

Thank you... 

[Kupar 12,370]

Thank you for this @gldenwetgoose. It's such a shame you had to write it again. But I am glad you've laid it on the line.

Guys. Don't do those things. Don't be that person. 

[Barbieoxo 5,456]

Thank you @gldenwetgoose. You've got our back along with the rest of team and you've helped me out many a time 💚 

[jmatthews1995 3,465]

@gldenwetgoose @Barbieoxo

I hope I have never come across as too "vulgar" or over the top! If I ever do please let me know and I'll change and make sure it doesn't happen again. 

It's very easy to get excited seeing such good content sometimes! 

Thanks for keeping on top of it all as well.

[Styx 21]

+1 on this sentiment. Sorry to hear it's been happening. Even as a guy, I've had rude, pushy, boundary insensitive dbags' harrassment, as well as phishers and spammers. On other sites I've relied of blocking users, but I haven't notices (yet) that on this site... but I've no problem with reporting users.

[Kupar 12,370]

27 minutes ago, Styx said:

+1 on this sentiment. Sorry to hear it's been happening. Even as a guy, I've had rude, pushy, boundary insensitive dbags' harrassment, as well as phishers and spammers. On other sites I've relied of blocking users, but I haven't notices (yet) that on this site... but I've no problem with reporting users.

I believe it is possible to block users if you want to - wasn't sure if you knew that.

[gldenwetgoose 20,243]

Thanks all - as you can probably tell I was feeling a little annoyed and frustrated when I wrote last nights post, and you folks are all wonderful - you’ve restored my faith in you all. 

Just to add a couple of points:

- I’m only shouting at literally 1% or less of people. All the rest of you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Post with respect, treat people as friends and not objects and don’t presume to force your opinions - then you have nothing to worry about.  Flirting with friends isn’t outlawed either, but treat those you don’t know with respect.

- Anyone can report content - so it doesn’t matter who or what. If you think it crosses a line just click ‘Report’ and make sure you type a quick reason in the box.  It doesn’t always get anyone into trouble, it’s anonymous but it may stop someone getting hurt.  Keeping this place wonderful is open to everyone.

- it is possible to ‘Ignore’ so if there’s someone bugging you, then you can avoid seeing their content etc. - but if they’re bothering you then the chances are they are doing the same to others - remember that Report button instead. 

Finally - Thanks for being awesome people 😎

[radu 125]

I'll be good now.

[Alfresco 11,001]

It is a shame that it has to be said, as we should all naturally be looking out for each other.  It is a small enough community that we can't afford to be upsetting and losing people, especially the ladies who are kind enough to share their experiences and indeed sometimes pictures and videos.   It has to be about respect for each other and for the most part this community is very good at that.   I would emphasise that if anyone does feel threatened, embarrassed, harassed or otherwise mistreated, the Admin team here are really good at dealing with such problems, so do feel free to report it.   

One thing which I think follows on from what @gldenwetgoose says:  It is fine to have general chat and appreciation of what people contribute, but there does sometimes seem to be a few cases of people following on from that with unrealistic expectations and/or suggestion.    If someone writes and account and doesn't include pictures, that will either be because they don't have pictures or they choose not to share pictures.   There is little point asking for them as if they had wanted to share then they would have done and all the request does is serve to make the contributor feel vulnerable or pestered.   If someone describes that they had a great pee in a sheltered part of their garden, there is no point in saying that next time they should do it in the middle of a park or in a phone box unless of course they have asked for suggestions as to how they might make their peeing more adventurous.   

I guess what I'm saying is that if a contributor posts something, then we should appreciate the lengths to which they have gone, realise that it may have been a challenge to them to post it and share with the world, they probably don't want to suddenly increase their exposure or do something differently.   If their post is something that we enjoy then give it a like, love or hot reaction, add a positive and supportive comment by all means and show support for people who contribute as without contributions, the site would be pointless.  A few likes and positive reactions goes a long way to making a contributor feel that they are appreciated and they will be far more likely to continue to post.   If you don't like it, it isn't enough for you, or it just doesn't float your boat then move on to the next post.  

This isn't meant to be a complaint or a rant, but simply to help people realise that every single person who posts here is unique and their contribution, at whatever level they are comfortable to share, should be respected for that.   

[Schmitty20 255]

I agree all of us on here have some kind of pee fetish and it’s a great place to come and hear stories and see pictures and videos. I am a male but I don’t care if you are male or female I think we should all act like adults and most of all be very respectful to each other. Please especially guys don’t disrespect any women on here it’s not cool!