The psychology of naughty pissing

[steve25805 126,023]

Quite a few of the members here have an interest on so called naughty pissing or naughty peeing, essentially peeing in naughty places. I am certainly one who seriously gets off on the notion of girls peeing in naughty locations - all over the floor, on the table, on the furniture, on the bed, against the wall, in or over all kinds of things. It really floats my boat. I love pics or vids showing this, and true tales and fictional stories featuring this. @Sophie's true account of pissing on her kitchen floor, or @lesley's awesome fictional tales especially of carpet pissings are just two examples of the kinds of thing I like.

Yet why do I like this? Why do any of us like this sort of thing? Obviously it turns us on but why? What is the psychology behind it? I would welcome the input of others into this.

For me a big aspect is the very wrongness of it, the breaking of a taboo, especially if a girl is having a lot of fun doing it. This breaking of a taboo, the actual naughtiness and "wrongness" of the act, is a major part of the turn on for me. Though the very act of a lady peeing also on some level accentuates her femininity and therefore her eroticism, because females are built differently to us guys, and the source is of course an intimately erotic part of the body associated with sexuality.

But - just for example - the notion of Sophie doing something so naughty - so "wrong" according to all the rules we are raised by - as taking a piss all over her kitchen floor instead of using the toilet - quite deliberately and just for fun and getting a buzz out of it - really does it for me. The naughtiness, the wrongness, the taboo deliberately flouted for pleasure is on a psychological level obviously a big part of why it works for me. And it works in a sexual way because of the intimate connection of peeing with the genitalia and the exposure of sexual regions of the female body. The fact that it is something normally done in private is also I think an aspect of it for me, again because actually seeing a girl do it openly is also kind of breaking a taboo.

That's my attempt to get to the nub of it anyway.

[Alfresco 11,631]

A good question and one for which I have given some consideration at various times.   For me, there are several factors in participating in naughty pee myself and other factors for my appreciation of women peeing in naughty places.

For myself, I think it is partly the knowledge that my peeing will leave traces that will remain there for some time - often a long time after the actual puddle dries up.  Another factor is the potential for being caught - I don't want to be caught necessarily as sometimes it could be quite a negative consequence, but there is an adrenaline rush if I think there is a possibility of being caught.   I have several times been peeing in a stairwell and heard a door on the floor above or below me open and had to make a quick exit.   One time I got caught full stream by a woman - she came out of the door on the landing above me, started down the stairs, saw what I was doing and said something like "Really!" and then went back the way she had come - obviously preferring to find an alternative staircase.  Another factor is the primitive marking of territory and the freedom to release where I want to, without being restricted by toilets.  There is also the thought of being able to do something naughty without anyone realising.   One time I went to pee in a stairwell and saw that there was a workman working on the door at the base, so I went in the actual car park, peed by a car and then went back down the stairs and out the firedoor past the guy.  He said he was fitting a self closing door that couldn't be opened from outside because they were having a problem with people coming in from the street and peeing in the stairwell.  Little did he know, but he was talking to someone who had just peed in the car park and would have been peeing in the stairwell if he hadn't have been there!

In my appreciation of women, I think a lot of it is the appreciation of women being so desperate that they will pee somewhere naughty, or that they just don't care and actually enjoy peeing somewhere naughty.   It is a very complex equation as I like both situations.  I appreciate the fact that they leave their puddles, I like to see them exposed or if they talk about it then I like to imagine them.   Very difficult to come up with a straight answer.

 

[oliver2 4,418]

This quote is from Esther Perel, writing about marriage and fidelity, but it seems relevant:

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Monogamy may or may not be natural to human beings, but transgression surely is.
Every relationship, from the most stringent to the most lenient, has boundaries, and boundaries invite trespassers. Breaking the rules is thrilling and erotic—whether those rules are “one person for life” or “sex is okay but no falling in love” or “always use a condom” or “he can’t come inside you” or “you can fuck other people, but only when I’m watching.” Hence there is plenty of infidelity in open relationships, with all of the ensuing turmoil. If the desire to transgress is the driving force, opening the gate will not prevent adventurers from climbing the fence.

(Adventurers may also end up pissing on the fence, rather than climbing it).

 

[Bacardi 10,134]

Following. I dont know why I like naughty peeing so much I just do. I cant really get off to men doing it anymore, just women but I dont consider myself to be bisexual or a lesbian. Maybe I don't need a reason. I get off to what I get off to and that's that!

[Peefreak99 3,722]

Forbiddem=excitement add a fetish to that and you have the answer hope that makes sense 

[speedy3471 10,655]

2 hours ago, Peefreak99 said:

Forbiddem=excitement add a fetish to that and you have the answer hope that makes sense 

I totally agree with you. Something about naughty pissing that just turns me on hahaha 

[Brutus 2,206]

Here's how I've pieced this together in my head over the years. I think the admiration for anything a woman does in a naughty way, be it peeing or even dirty language, is a result of the perception of women being shattered for that moment. On a society wide level, women are seen as wholesome, clean, proper, gentle, cute, angelic and so on, while men are seen as smelly, foul-mouthed, aggressive, and reckless. We are even said to be toxic now and in need of being more feminine. Basically woman is good and man is bad, and that perception hasn't really changed much through human history in many regards.

So when we see/hear a woman do something sexually naughty, it's a shock to our subconscious. To heterosexual males, that shock combined with our love and admiration of women, paints the behavior in a whole new way into an intense admiration for that naughty behavior. So peeing on objects is bad according to the social contract, but seeing a woman ignore that rule governing her behavior is supremely arousing especially since it involves her genitals. I'm thinking it may even be a show of genetic dominance, since alphas usually buck against norms. A woman pissing on whatever she wants is certainly an alpha behavior. 

[Hidengo 277]

For me, it seems to be some kind of primal territory marking thing that my lizard brain gets some kind of arousal from. I've grown up following various rules and regulations (mostly on what shows I was allowed to watch) and have always just ranted to claim a space for myself.

 

[mickymoist 3,513]

I definitely think is the combination of the pleasurable feeling of peeing, the deliberate flouting of taboo and the risk of getting caught for me, and the same for watching others pee. Watching someone in real distress doesn't do it for me whether faked or genuine, I like the naughty mischievous deliberate wetting or peeing  best. 

Edited June 24, 2019 by mickymoist

[spywareonya 37,961]

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@Alfresco

 

 

Transgression is a good thing but is NOT inborn, it is a SECUNDARY pleasure, the REBUILD of freedom from limits. Without limits there is no transgression. Which is why sometimes I am perceived more as free than not actually trasngressive, for I simply ignore the laws and morals society built and obey the Gods only.

 

Pee fetishism is simply linked to the communication through hormons, pee contains waste products but is NOT a waste product, is primarily a marker.

 

Every action performed by piss is thus sexy, kinky and arousing.

ALL the reasons we can come up with why we love girls (in my case, both them and boys) pissing around, start from the simple fact that all done through it, is linked to sex.

I am not saying that the reasons you guys summed up are not real, I am just saying that nobody asks himself why he loves porn, why he loves to see girls getting cumblasted on their faces or asses. Because we KNOW it is normal to be aroused by it.

For piss fetishism, it's the same. Absolutely the same. Everything else is true just as much but it comes AFTER, like why I for example love creampie and other my love cumblasts on tits and Others on asses.

[oliver2 4,418]

On 6/30/2019 at 10:36 PM, spywareonya said:

Pee fetishism is simply linked to the communication through hormons, pee contains waste products but is NOT a waste product, is primarily a marker.

Every action performed by piss is thus sexy, kinky and arousing.

It sounds like we might be asking the question backwards. The question isn’t “why are we turned on by pee?”, it’s “why isn’t everyone turned on by pee”? This “fetish” is not something you get, but something you don’t lose?

[spywareonya 37,961]

6 hours ago, oliver2 said:

It sounds like we might be asking the question backwards. The question isn’t “why are we turned on by pee?”, it’s “why isn’t everyone turned on by pee”? This “fetish” is not something you get, but something you don’t lose?

This is too an answer I can answer scientifically

 

A mild form of censorship is given by society. It is considered filthy.

But the truth is deeper and it relies on ancient nerulogical path in our brain. To piss on something is an act so charged with meanings, either of love or aggression, that it engender the contact with the portion of our psyche which operates those levels of emotional depths.

Now, such a level (the Deep Unconscious) is also the place where, accidentally, we repress everything that traumatizes us. So anything that connect us to that portion of our brain, we feel as "wrong".

Piss fethists are simply people who did not let this stop them from reconquering purity and sincerity with themselves

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

On 6/20/2019 at 9:56 PM, Brutus said:

Here's how I've pieced this together in my head over the years. I think the admiration for anything a woman does in a naughty way, be it peeing or even dirty language, is a result of the perception of women being shattered for that moment. On a society wide level, women are seen as wholesome, clean, proper, gentle, cute, angelic and so on, while men are seen as smelly, foul-mouthed, aggressive, and reckless. We are even said to be toxic now and in need of being more feminine. Basically woman is good and man is bad, and that perception hasn't really changed much through human history in many regards.

So when we see/hear a woman do something sexually naughty, it's a shock to our subconscious. To heterosexual males, that shock combined with our love and admiration of women, paints the behavior in a whole new way into an intense admiration for that naughty behavior. So peeing on objects is bad according to the social contract, but seeing a woman ignore that rule governing her behavior is supremely arousing especially since it involves her genitals. I'm thinking it may even be a show of genetic dominance, since alphas usually buck against norms. A woman pissing on whatever she wants is certainly an alpha behavior. 

Guess I'm the alpha then.