Sexismygod

Great thread ... love hearing about your adventures @peegirl99 and can't wait for future installments.  Hope there are more pictures, too.

Big high 5 for peeing on the client's patio.  Now just pray for rain.  LOL

Ah, the good old days ... being an old geezer, I got to see Queen live (would have been about '86 ... the Live Killers tour).  That show remains one of the best concerts I've ever seen.

Question:  When you sit down to read, what kind of book do you like and what's the best book you ever read?

I've had a few conversations lately that included questions about how much I peed and whether I'd ever measured the volume.  Until today, the answer was no, but I was feeling a little frisky and thought I'd have a go.

I'd been holding for a while, at least a couple of hours past the initial urges, but wasn't massively desperate as yet.  I was at my desk (and actually logged into PF at the time) and had just finished a glass of water.  The water had been in a pint glass and I thought that was as good a measure as any.

I put the glass on the edge of the desk, stood up, unzipped, and put my penis into the glass.  Then I just let it go.  It started slowly but soon there was a strong flow and it sounded like I'd open a tap into the glass.  I was a bit worried that the glass wouldn't be big enough, but the flow seemed to slow and stop as if my body knew how big the container was.  I had filled the glass right to the top, so a full pint or more, about 570 ml.  Not bad since I wasn't absolutely screaming for the loo.  I got rid of the evidence and got back to browsing.  About 5 minutes later, I realised I needed to pee again.  Clearly, it was a subconscious effort to not overflow the glass the first time and I wasn't done yet.  I put the glass back in place and repeated the process ... and filled the glass a second time, though not quite as full and I was definitely empty now.

Since I was on the site already, I thought I'd post this note.  So, apparently, when I'm moderately desperate and need to pee, I can pee about a litre.  In case anyone is even remotely interested.  😎

Have to agree with so much of what's already been said.  The godawful fakeness of most porn is almost too much to bear.

The other item that hasn't been mentioned is that quick check to the camera that we see so often.  I mean, come on.  This is especially true for the hidden camera/voyeur category of videos.  If the camera is hidden, why is she looking at it and adjusting her position accordingly?  That little glance at the camera is a serious moment killer for me.

As @Bacardi says, if a girl would just pee somewhere interesting with no direction, no fake expressions, no camera checks, no unnecessary genital fondling ... and then just leave, I'm good.

2 hours ago, Bacardi said:

Nowhere on the forum publicly lol.

Does that mean they ARE on the forum privately?  Oh my ... I'm all  tizzy now.  Deep breaths, relax ... 😛

2 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

I think there has in general been a huge shift towards publicising mens’ mental health issues.

Across society, I see groups on social media arranging men’s’ coffee morning type events, social groups focused on mens’ welfare. I see a vastly increased extent of media awareness and advertising for issues that can cause mental trauma amongst men - like PTSD awareness, testicular and prostate cancer.

What I sort of think is that this is occurring as part of ‘levelling up’, where a lot of traits experienced by both sexes are being balanced and eliminated.   It’s a slow and steady process, removing stereotypes around work and home roles, removing gender pay gaps, empowering women and opening awareness of both men’s and women’s issues.

Overall you could call that a culture change, but what you talk about here are individual people changing their ingrained values and hence the behaviours they demonstrate.

Sadly that doesn’t follow the same pace of change - women still get wolf whistles and sexist behaviours from some, and men still are expected to ‘man up’ by some.

Not everyone is open to accept and adopt changing cultures - depending on their own cultural background, their local environment and fitting in with their friends and families.

Typically the first reaction any of us have to change is to be fearful, to question and deny the need for change.

Every small step forwards helps though. Don’t be disheartened by those that can’t see past their fears - lead by example. 

You make some good points, Goose, and I certainly hope we are "levelling up", as you put it.  I think the stereotypical stoic male figure is as mythical as the mother goddess female.  Everyone, male and female, has both traits (and all the other male/female stereotypes) in some unique combination. 

The sooner we realise that we're not "men" and "women", as if they were two different species, the better.  We're all just people, and people have strengths, weaknesses, good & bad sides, etc.  We've got to stop defining behaviour or thought patterns as masculine or feminine.  It's always been a false measure and just creates expectations that no one can achieve.

They say it takes 4 generations for a change to become part of the culture.  Sadly, racism, sexism, and a few other damaging mindsets seem to be taking a lot longer than that.  It doesn't help that some cultural stereotypes (present in all countries ... not talking about any specific society) are still preached in spite of the inherent contradiction.  For example, how can a woman be so sacred that she needs to be hidden/protected from the world but still be treated as the property of a man?  This contradictory position is found in most major religions and has always given me a headache.

In the end, it is up to the individual to choose how they express themselves.  Sadly, all too many people take the lazy path and just do what the people around them do.  Hell, some of them even use toilets every time they take a pee.  😞

5 hours ago, PepsiMan said:

Yeah it is, shes just been visiting me a lot so she hasn't been able to use it lately. But don't worry I'll keep updating 😉

I hope she's found a personal pee spot at your place, too.  After all, you want to feel at home when she's with you.  😉

1 hour ago, Let_It_Go said:

Thanks again, everyone 💓

Although confident in myself in the "usual" sexual arenas, I honestly didn't expect to be able to discover, embrace and share this side of myself so readily after a lifetime of secrecy. I can well imagine this forum becoming very important to me. 

Sam x

I think that's a very familiar sentiment for many (maybe most) of the people here.  I can certainly relate.  All my life, pee has been a private kink ... finding people who understand and accept this side of me was a revelation. 

I hope we can help you feel more comfortable with your fetish and allow you to explore it in new ways.  And I hope you'll share whatever you're comfortable sharing.

On 1/7/2023 at 3:29 PM, Squirtle01 said:

Mmm I love this too ♥️. If anyone wants to sign post us to some hot videos it would be appreciated haha

One place to start would be right here at PeeFans.  There's a whole section dedicated to the men with a great many pictures and video links available.

https://peefans.com/forum/35-men-peeing-pictures-videos-stories/

Hi Sam ... welcome to PeeFans

Looking forward to seeing your thoughts in the fora and learning about you, your personal kinks and your world view.

Love the avatar, btw.  I think you'll fit right in.  😈

@pissluva ... you're exactly the person I always hope will catch me peeing somewhere unusual.  But you give me hope that I may have been spotted and appreciated without my awareness.  That's a nice add on to the feeling of freedom and rebellion I get when "pissing around".

Pee rules have always been flexible and are primarily situational.  When outdoors and away from built up areas, I was told to just go pee.  In more public areas or busier situations, we would usually find a loo, though necessity resulted in the occasional puddle around a discreet corner.  Just whipping it out in front of others was not accepted and turning away from the crowd was considered the minimum of social etiquette.

Those rules still hold for me, but if my companion chose to come watch I'm sure I'd be more open with that person in the future.

1 hour ago, MonsterKane46 said:

can you prove it WASNT any of us? lol

A fundamental problem in secret societies ... it's all secret and nobody knows who anybody else is.  I hope, someday, to meet in person at least one other PF member, even if it's just to chat over coffee.

31 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

Can you Astral project into my husband next? Trying to work on getting him to let me go to Europe alone to have fun with my pee fans friends 😪

I'll see what I can do, but can't make any promises.

If wishes work the same as astral projection, I'm wishing as hard as I can.  😎

48 minutes ago, Chrissy89 said:

Aww. Thank you ☺️

Yeah I’m sure maybe one day I’ll get my PPL. 

If you want it, I'm sure you'll get it.

And I hope you do more with it than my brother.  He got his and then never flew again.  He just wanted to learn how to fly ... had no intention of actually flying places.  For the price, I can think of other priorities.  😂

I'd love to say it was me, but I'm not Asian or even on your continent.  Maybe it was my astral self trying to reach out to you ... and my astral self is, for unknown reasons, Asian.

Can anyone prove it wasn't me?  😎😛

What one word best sums up your personality and style?

15 hours ago, Johnboy777 said:

Peeing in a supermarket...I have already pissed on the outside wall of a major supermarket, in semi-public area, after watching a guy, who was walking his dog, pissing on the wall. I'd like to also try to pee near the entrance to the market.

This is the kind of high risk game I like.  I've managed a couple of dribbles inside a supermarket (trolleys provide good cover, but aisles are rarely empty).  Would love to leave a larger puddle or puddle trail.  Outside seems too easy but near the entrance would be interesting.  Let us know how you do.

19 hours ago, Justasailor said:

I have a lot of places where i still want to pee sometime, but haven't got the opportunity or courage to do it there. Here are a few of mine       - Peeing down from a really high building     -  naughty pee at a house party         - Pissing while sitting in theater      - Peeing in supermarket

My goal for this year is to pee in a lot of new places! It's always an amazingly naughty feeling when i finally pee in a place i never peed before.

 

But i'm really curious about everyone here! Do you have places where you have never peed but want to? Let me know!

I don't really think about it this way, but I love the idea of deliberately finding somewhere new to play.  I might have to adopt this resolution for myself.  😎

One interesting idea was provided by @Paulypeeps ... I've already peed on planes a couple of times, but never at the theatre (apart from cinemas).  This sounds like a great idea, though I have no idea how to achieve it.  I may have to adopt the black jeans approach and hope nobody notices.  Time to go to a play!

Another idea, already on my bucket list, was provided by @88mphArtist ... something naughty at a house party or other gathering.  I'd love to do it in front of everyone but maybe something sneakier will be easier to achieve.

I'll have to think about other "must do" locations.

*Rummaging through the "stock questions" box*

Ah, yes, here we go (sort of a 2-for-1):  What superpower would you like to have ... and what "superpower" do you already have?

I'm going to steal @Sophie's question:  Would you rather fight 100 duck-sized ponies or one pony-sized duck?

Hi Layla ... looks like you've developed quite a fan club already.  There's just something about a lady sharing pictures of herself peeing into a bottle that just brings us all out of hiding ... lol 😎

I can totally relate to your background, though peeing standing is obviously the norm for me.  But the desire to pee somewhere naughty has been with me from my youth and is still my biggest thrill.  And, like you, I've failed utterly to find a girl/lady to share with.  So here I am, sharing in an alternative way.  It's all good  

I'm sure you've realised by now that you're in the right place to indulge your pee urges.  I look forward to seeing your contributions to the many discussions and hearing about your adventures in pee-land.

1 hour ago, puddyls said:

was not as cold last night as it's been, just wet. but went out for a little stroll anyway. 🫦🤭

I'll never get tired of your lovely slit ... with or without your flowing nectar

That sounds like an adventure from my best fantasies.  You're a lucky man ... here's hoping for more next year (but don't be too surprised if this turns out to be a one-time only event).

I tend to write about my own experiences and/or adventures.  I always hope others will enjoy them, but my success rate is probably under 50% ... I still tell the stories (occasional, I admit) so I'm clearly not looking for fame.  Writing is a form of release/exhibitionism.  My sneaky adventures are carefully executed and no one would know about them if I didn't tell the story.

In reality, I think I write more to find out if there are others who think like me rather to excite or turn on the audience.  I have found likeminded individuals this way, and been able to communicate with them, and for that I'll be eternally thankful.  Not being alone is a gift beyond price.