NotNowBob

I've often thought about this! I'm pretty simple and my desire is for videos that are authentic or at least appear to be. So, what I would do is I would create a holding contest among real amateurs. I would recruit them by offering significant prize money for the winner. I think I would offer $1,000 for taking part and $5,000 for winning. Two women would consume a significant amount of fluid and then would need to travel somewhere in the city with someone filming them in a gonzo fashion (to make it look like candid capture). The contest would go until one girl gives up or pees herself. I

Ashamed. That's the core feeling at the time of the wetting, but that shame turns into excitement shortly after. I had bladder issues as a kid (still do, but they are much better managed now). I had accidents pretty regularly until I was about 8 and occasionally (maybe once a year) until I was about 12. So, my childhood was tough and those memories are all tied into the kink today still

Desperation and accidents are my kink. Someone peeing themselves on purpose does very little for me and public peeing/golden showers, naughty peeing, etc. does literally nothing for me. To each their own, if that's their thing, but it's not what does it for me. You're right, this site leans towards the non-wetting side of the kink. Not entirely, but it absolutely leans that way. It's a very supportive and friendly space though. With apologies for linking the competition, if you are looking for a board that leans the other way -- mostly wetting with a little of the rest -- try OmoOrg

I've written before about my experience with OAB in my life, but as a quick summary I've had occasions as an adult where I have lost control. I also sometimes engage in holding/staged accidents as fantasy. So, I have a somewhat unique perspective from most, I think. What I'll say is that a long, slow hold feels different than when I'm experiencing legitimate desperation. My understanding of that is that desperation is caused by a spasm in the bladder, which causes a sudden, intense need to go. With me, that doesn't happen all the time -- often enough, but not every time. So, if I'm just

Too much information? You just posted this to a forum called Pee Fans Dot Com. You're fine. Probably don't share it at the Marketing meeting tomorrow though. And, in three years when you are deciding whether you should piss yourself on the packed, public bus at 5pm you'll think back to this post and chuckle. We would all benefit from taking a step back and laughing at the absurdity of our kink from time to time, while also accepting that as long as we're not hurting anyone it's perfectly fine. I'm glad you enjoyed your virgin pants pissing experience, Durian. Seriously, I am. I may s

I know there are a lot of people that think that men will just whip it out whenever they need to in this scenario. I'm here to tell you that, for me anyway, that's not true. I'm going to try and hold it until it becomes a go-now-or-time-to-change situation, but even then I'm going as deep into the bushes as I can get. I've been in some uncomfortable situations over the years...

I first connected wetting and sex when I was about 12. I had a lot of accidents as a kid (like 1-2 a year up until Middle School. and it was creating conflicting emotions even younger than that. I remember purposely doing it one day around that time and feeling strange after. I was embarrassed to have to tell my mother but I also started to realize it also made me feel good too. In the seventh grade I was lying in bed while my parents were entertaining a couple I didn't know. I woke up from the noise and realized that I needed to pee fairly badly. Not it's going to come out now bad, but it was

I had a girlfriend that found out the same way. To her credit, she didn't shame me over it when she brought it up a few days later and even offered to try and accommodate me in the bedroom. What I said -- and this is literally the only time I've ever admitted it to another person in my life -- was that "This is a private part of me that I don't fully understand and that at least partially makes me feel ashamed. Thank you for not being judgmental, but I'd appreciate it if we dropped this now and never brought it up again." It was clear to me at that moment that I wanted to keep it private

Fear of kink shaming is a legitimate thing, especially if your kink includes wetting yourself. I'm sorry that happened to you.. I find that there is a resistance in this space to those of us that keep it secret. Those that successfully share the kink with partners are celebrated and the message is always "just be honest," and "it will make everything better." It's not that simple. This kink is not universally accepted. No one should feel that they need to be any more open than they are comfortable with.

About 5x a week. I often try to resist ejaculation in an attempt to teach myself how to have multiple orgasms. Been successful a few times, but it's a challenge!

I have never shared it with partners. There are a lot of people that do and it works for them, but I don't think that you should feel that you have to do that. I think, for some of us, this kink is something that works better for us if it's private. In my case, my turn on is accidental wetting so I don't feel there is much that would be added to my sex life if I shared it. I'd probably be moderately turned on the first time she peed herself for me, but it would eventually become something that became less and less interesting. I'd also worry that if the relationship went bad that she mig

I trace my kink origin back to a legit accident I had on a school bus in Middle School. I don't share the details beyond that due to the site rules, but what I'll add here is that it wasn't my only school accident. What it was, however, was the only accident that other people knew about. On two other occasions when I was younger I had an accident in class that the teacher covered up for me. I actually think it's more common than we realize because a) kids are pretty self-involved and don't notice what other's are doing and b) teachers are motivated to help you cover it up because it looks bad

It's entirely and fully this -- whether it's me losing control, or another person. This kink is a very broad spectrum, but I would guess that the "real accident" folks are the narrowest among us in terms of what excites them. I welcome being told I'm wrong, but I suspect that if your kink is about seeing or imagining true accidents, you probably aren't interested in anything other than that -- it's the embarrassment and shame that turns you on... I'm not always happy with myself about this, but I recognize that it's what this is about.

Golden showers - 1 Pissing in naughty indoor locations. - 1 Pissing outdoors or in public - 1 Wetting - 5 Watching someone pee - 3 Drinking someone's pee - 0 Desperation - 5

1.) Residential region (approximate, e.g. federal state or "South, North, West, East Germany) Canada's largest city 2.) Which gender best describes you & how old are you? Male, 44 3.) Which 5 words come up spontaneously on the topic Do you pee without thinking twice about it? I don't fully understand what you're asking...but, no, I do not play pee games without thinking about it, if that is what it is. 4.) Where have you peeed anywhere except on a toilet? (Make a list and explain uncommon places.) This year? Behind a church, in a bo

I want to be controlled by a woman, or a couple. Ideally there would be another person (preferably female, but I can....be flexible) that was not aware of my desperation kink involved as well. They would deny me and torture me for hours along with the other person. I would become desperate to pee. I would hold it as hard and long as I could. Eventually, it would be at the brink. I would beg them to let me go to the bathroom. They would deny. I would tell them I couldn't wait. I would see the other person (unaware of the kink) judging me. I would lose control and I would wet my pants in front

Can I be the contrarian here? I mean...I'm not opposed to this. It wouldn't stop me. However, I kind of separate my kink sexuality from my, for lack of a better way to put it, vanilla sexuality. So, I'm not necessarily overwhelmed by this idea. God speed if you do -- we all have our own thing -- but, I'm not turned on by the literal act of peeing. So, with that in mind, I'd prefer it to be clean when I go down. Bluntly, it will taste better. To me, anyway. As I said, to each their own, but I am someone that doesn't need this kink to be part of all aspects of my sexuality. In fact, I

In a word: naturally. If you try and force a conversation to peeing you're probably going to come off as a bit weird, to be honest. And, they won't be interested in sharing. Although this fetish is still a bit underground, it's not unknown. So, if you're too pushy about it they might figure out that you're asking because it turns you on and that's probably not going to result in you getting the stories you want. So, if things are loose and fun and you're having a good conversation you can probably point the conversation to this by sharing a story about yourself. Something like: "Oh my God

Welcome. So, you just let loose naked, or do you wet yourself?

Thank you. You're right. It's very confusing and trying to understand this (which has never hurt my life in a way that I can't deal, but that has always been there -- truthfully, the frequency is more of an issue than the embarrassing issues I outlined. People are actually fairly understanding and reasonable about really embarrassing moments, but are less patient when you have to stop the car a second time on a 60 min drive...). I denied my feelings for years. But, I'm not anymore. Looking for the balance. If I can share things that others enjoy while doing so, all the better....

I promised a poster in another thread that I would share my story, so here we go. I have lived most of my life with OAB. I suspect that it's tied into my kink and it's something that I am ambivalent about to say the least. I have learned ways to keep it under control so that it doesn't impact my life that much, but it's still an annoying and embarrassing condition. Some here might think that it would be great to have legit bladder issues, but I can tell you that having the ability to separate your kink life fro your real life is something to celebrate. But, it's confusing since I'm also t

I don't purposely hold it very often, but I actually have OAB. So, I can tell you what triggers it (and what I have to avoid if I want to avoid issues). Alcohol, obviously, but the biggest trigger for me is tied into when I have the drink. If I have cold, carbonated drinks with caffeine in them on an empty stomach it will hit me like a ton of bricks within about 30 min. I make sure I'm within 5 min of a bathroom when I have a Coke on an empty stomach because I will be full on desperate 2-3 times within 90 min of having it. Pretty much every time I've had a leak over last 10 years or so ha

I've known of WetSet for years and lurked there for a while without out ever registering. My kink was a once every 2 months thing where I'd basically OD on content for 12 hours then go back to the real world. I wasn't really looking for answers. It was something closer to an addict getting a hit and going on a bender. When I decided that I needed to figure out a way to incorporate this part of me in a healthier and more consistent way I started looking around for a place where I could have more consistent interaction and where that interaction wasn't just spank bank stuff (I'm fine with

I essentially have joined and decided to participate in this forum for the very same reason. It has taken me years to get to the point where I have accepted that the kink is deeply rooted in my sexuality and is always going to be part of what excites me. But, fully accepting it to the point where I am totally at peace with it? No. That's a work in progress and it's going to probably be a while before I find what the right balance is. That's important because my kink is tied into humiliation and shame and I am equally turned on by that if it's happening to me or I'm seeing it happen to som

Thank you. I will share in detail soon. I'll tell you now that I have had what I would call a full accident three times as an adult. about 2-3 times a year I have close calls do to OAB and they sometimes involve small leaks before I get to the bathroom and, additionally, I have wet the bed occasionally (about once a year, on average, my whole life). In terms of the accidents before I was 18, I will avoid giving details because I was a minor.