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Thanks @WantonLee - you’re spot on there. And reading back, seems I missed a key word - what I meant to write to @CalypsoIsland was “if other people don’t like what they see then they should scroll by…”. A small word and hopefully makes it much clearer.

Absolutely I wasn’t asking you to keep the peace - almost the opposite. I was trying to express that you should be treated with respect and a caring attitude here. You should absolutely not be made to feel awkward at all. Not all of our users speak English as a first language and sometimes translations can come across as blunt because they don’t have the subtleties of speech there. We accept that. I’m not saying that as an excuse though - if anyone was being critical, aggressive, unwelcoming or otherwise unaccepting to you then that is out of line. Our aim is to be equally open t

So... Would I ever pay someone for sex ? 'Ever' is by any definition a long, long time lol - and for that reason and the lack of a crystal ball, I can't hand on heart say no. But based on my life as it stands today, I can't see that I'd perform penetrative sexual intercourse with another person in direct exchange for cash. That's based on an expectation that my life, relationship status, health etc all remain reasonably stable going forwards. Would I ever pay for sexual experiences - whether it be a 'happy ending' to a Thai massage, paying to sit in the audience at an adult bar

Thanks for the clarification @CalypsoIsland - and makes perfect sense. Cis describes that you identity now is the same as your biological birth status, and has nothing to do with your attraction to others or sexual preferences. I'm reading a couple of things in what you've written ('...gotten comments from men on this site...' and 'This is supposed to be a safe place...') which worry me if they're actually talking about Peefans. There's a sense in what you've written that you've been treated rudely and disrespectfully - and that's completely against the ethos and culture of this site.

Today's the big day for @Maggie_555 @chieftaindan & @Pboy123 - Have a great birthday!

I forgot to mention in my welcome @CalypsoIsland - worth having a browse through our site rules here - we're very proud of our reputation as the friendliest and most tolerant forum (that's what people tell us at least). Most of the rules are common sense, but there are a few that may differ from other communities.

Well that’s one elephant in the room as it were that’s definitely not being ignored. And if nothing was said when you peed in the sink that’s perhaps almost more telling than your mum peeing on the floor (which could be considered as purely a desperate measure). If you pee at home just as a routine thing it in front of her could be awkward (?) if she sees it as ‘because I was bursting now she’s doing it to mock me / embarrass me / make me feel it’s ok’. But the idea of mopping up when she arrives maybe is a good one. And a conversation starter “like mother, like daughter I gues

Hi @CalypsoIsland and a huge welcome to the community. It’s worth mentioning that our day to day business takes place on the forum pages - not so much a case of trading one-to-one but enjoying the content that’s been contributed there, and if it floats your boat then to contribute too. But I’m sure you’ll find like minded friends here - and those of all persuasions. Welcome!!!

Hi and welcome to the forum. Look forward to seeing you becoming friends with the rest of us too. (You may wish to amend your terminology though in your ‘About Me’)

Similarly I can’t help with specific Wembley advice - but given it’s a final, if it’s an edge of the seat match is there an argument (excuse) that you were absolutely bursting because you couldn’t bear to miss a moment of the action (and I’m guessing given the size of the stadium it may be further than expected to reach the ladies’ ) ???

Fabulous - I have a sneaking suspicion maybe you weren’t the only one taking care of business behind closed doors after that meeting. Time will tell whether he makes a habit of stopping to chat more… watching with interest. As for the rush factor…. If it happens again and he stops to chat, would it be noticeable if you carried on slowly releasing ? There’s a strong argument for ‘do you ever feel so chilled and relaxed you just can’t be bothered moving, even when you need to tinkle’.

@bulge & @rutherfordbquincy - Your post has been merged in here - the perfect place for a perfect hold! Have a great one and enjoy the moment of relief.

Absolutely nothing wrong with saying 'I'd love the see the pictures' as you did @GWash17 - that's fine on it's own, it's a statement of your own enjoyment of the subject. And personal opinion. It's just after @Havelock has explained why it's not going to happen that should have been the end of the matter.

Have an awesomely great day @thisguy20 @Ivan72

Likewise and welcome. If you hover a mouse over the username it will tell you when they last signed in here.

Now guys, let's get back to our normal respectful principles here - @Havelock has recounted a wonderful experience and now he's gettign harrassed with comments to post the pictures, blur out the faces... These are his friends and people who are respected. Even if faces were blurred, once a picture is on the net it's probably there forever. From this site they could easily be shared onwards, could even become one of those images we see everywhere. And then all it takes is a friend of a friend to see it, and word to get around. Instantly a complete betrayal of trust is exposed. Face blu

You're very welcome! It is a bit of a passion. If you have access to the lighting equipment, then I can't recommend enough to practise, practise, practise - whether you do that with fully clothed friends, family, a shop dummy or a bowl of fruit. Lighting modifiers are addictive too - a white umbrella with silvered reflector is one of the cheapest accessories and can give three different softnesses of light... Also taking inspiration from other people's work is good too. There's a UK photographer who's instagram often has portraits with sketches of the setup - often a simple light

After my outdoor industrial pee, I got back in my car to head home. As I reached start of the motorway it was obvious there was a problem - two lanes of stationary traffic onto the roundabout fortunately warning me, so I was able to take a slower A road route home. As I was driving home, my wife phoned to let me know she was heading in the opposite direction to visit her dad. That meant I'd be returning home to an empty house for a few hours. As I arrived home I was conscious of my bladder filling nicely again. Rather than using the bathroom though, I instead poured a pint glass o

It's a while since I posted, so I guess I may as well. On Sunday morning I was doing some work in my favourite city - about an hour drive from home, and needed to be there fairly early. I had a mug of coffee and left the house about 8:30am, getting on the motorway and then the roads into the city. On the way I picked up a McDonald's breakfast (don't judge lol) and then parked up at the venue, a docklands industrial building converted to music rehearsal rooms, just on time to meet the friends I was working with. They had the room booked 10am-12pm and all went well, we did a few more

@kiann - It's great to see you being so welcoming - although some of the posts you're commenting on are from members who haven't used the forum in six months or more.

As someone who lives in a rural community (albeit on the other side of some hills) I can confirm a very warm welcome to anyone who wants to stop for a moment of relief in my community.

Crowdfunding is underway... only another $400 to go @Bacardi

Well @Peewee123 - I can't speak for all men, and in fact with my obvious bias I'm not sure I or any of us can speak for the typical man. Even among the most vanilla of guys, I'm convinced we are programmed with a fundamental primitive urge to want to mate. Clearly mostly in polite civilised society we control the urge to just go at it like wild animals, but still at the back of our minds it's there. So for the average CIS guy what I guess that means is we're drawn to the opposite sex. Add to that the concept of 'private parts' which coincidentally is where the anatomy differs, and

Final post (you'll be glad to know)... They say that the eyes are the window to the soul - and I'm a firm believer that a photo can be made or broken by the look in the subjects eyes. If they're comfortable it shows and if they feel awkward or ill at ease then it can easily show. And the more comfortable you are with what you're doing with your camera and lighting is going to help the model feel at ease and relaxed - and it will show. If it's someone who knows you well then fine, but maybe a few clothed sessions first, then progress onwards...? Any more and I'm sure I'll be te

Now moving on to answer your questions about camera settings and lights... I'm going to assume you are using a DSLR type camera with off-camera studio lights. And also I'll assume you're ok with understanding the terms ISO, aperture and shutter speed. Now with studio lights, I work with either mains powered flash heads or portable flash guns and either are good. Both types need a trigger to fire when you click the shutter and these days that's usually a little radio trigger (cheap off Ebay or Amazon). They produce a very short burst of flash, so would freeze a splash of pee into dr