wettingman

No matter how quickly whatever you wet dries they will begin to smell after awhile. 

Please don't misunderstand, I not being a preachy old guy , but if possible you may want to consider doing your own laundry at least  if you are wetting.  It will go a long way towards you not getting caught . However, I know logistically it may not be possible without notice especially if you have siblings or people always around.

I faced that situation in my late teens. I had to try  putting first toilet paper , and later a wash cloth over my penis, just so I could enjoy the wetting sensation. The toilet paper, my first attempt, was too lame. So I started wrapping myself in a wash cloth, which I could easily rinse and drop  in the laundry basket. Not much , but it was a start and better than nothing. My parents would lose their mind if I wet my pants accidently let alone on purpose.

Damn I have to pee. I have not held my pee in ages. But after a medical test today I was told to drink lots of water. I have been sitting here for hours as the pressure in my bladder built. I mostly ignored it but now it is starting to hurt, and there are increasingly frequent waves of pressure at my pee hole like it is going to come out. Wonder what will happen when i stand and slowly walk to the bathroom. I can't hold it like I used to.

Update   45 minutes later:  I had to pee badly for about 2 hours. I had not intended to hold and post , until I realized  how full my bladder was. I have been unable to hold my pee like this for a long time.

 Anyway I wanted to see what would happen if I stood up. While the pressure at my pee hole increased significantly,  a sudden need to do the other thing meant I could not put off going to the toilet. I have been able to not pee when that happened in the past by leaving my dick outside the toilet and squeezing it if necessary. But this time doing so I lost a big strong spurt into my hand. I decided to pee and measure it.  850 ML while  well below what I used to do was satisfying nonetheless.  That is well within the point where I would be getting desperate and need to start externally helping myself hold. which other than some lite squirming I had not been doing. 

The it's going to come out soon urges were getting stronger sitting here, but now I wonder how much more I could have held if I stayed seated.

I don't pee on things that are difficult to clean up, or may retain a stain or odor.

I only pee on a hard floor covered by tile or similar.  I use a few towels to contain the puddle and use them to wipe it up easy pezy. Either that or I wet/ pee in the tub.

On 12/12/2020 at 9:35 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

From time to time I find myself answering a post with my 'in a parallel universe response', and this is one of these posts.  What I mean is, if we were all in a parallel universe, where I weren't in the same loving married relationship as I am, where natural nervousness at meeting a stranger weren't a sensible precaution, where imagination could become reality. In that universe I'd more than happily be that person for you to explore every aspect with.  If only...

Yes .  IF ONLY....

The pressure buildup and feeling my bladder filling is pleasant.  It self I can't quite explain.

But it leads to building pressure in my penis, which when I can't hold it any longer is sort of similar  to the sensation I experience just before I ejaculate .  During an orgasim ,the pleasant pain of holding my pee, is replaced by a hot tingling sensation and intense full body pleasure, but the pressure at my pee hole is the same.

I especially enjoy watching a desperate female. When I hold my pee I imagine she is enjoying watching me struggle not to pee, followed by wetting my pants.  This is what really arouses me . Sharing my pee desperation with an appreciative female, even if only in my imagination.

I have long hoped to see a bladder level sensor showing the wearer's level of need, from empty to about to burst. It could indicate how close they are to involentarly peeing, how long they have been in this painfully full state, and if and when they leak. This could be done via a phone app securely linked so just the desired   person(s) would know.

Yes I would wear one for an appreciative female who reciprocates .

For the most part adults who wear diapers are doing it because of an incontinence problem and not for fun. A female needing to do this because of an actual physical problem controlling her bladder is not itself sexual for me. Desperation and wetting by someone who intentionally just held it too long is.

 To each his/her own , but I want to see what is happening . The point of a diaper is the only the wearer knows she or he knows they are peeing . to paraphrase  a word in another context peeing in a diaper gives you a warm feeling but nobody notices. For me doing that is uninteresting and pointless. But no judgement for those who love it.

Would I still date her ? Yes I would, I mean it would not be a deal breaker. If she is doing it for fun I could accept that if she accepts what I prefer. If she is doing it because of true incontinence, I seriously doubt it would come up on a first date.

At my age (68) leakage becomes more common anyway, including me, due to an enlarged prostate, so it is part of life. I don't wear diapers yet , hope not to for a long time but I understand it may be preferable to an actual wetting accident on a date. 

Oh hell YES,  YES ,YES , I most enthusiastically love listening to a female pee. Especially exciting  is the  hiss produced by a high pressure  flow of urine over her labia, in addition to the tinkling into the water in the bowl.  I always  hope a female enjoys hearing me pee. In my younger days, especially when I was terribly pee shy I would aim my stream onto the porcelain away from the water so nobody could hear what I was doing , even though if anyone cared to notice, it was obvious. Now I always deliberately aim for the water  hoping a lady will hear me peeing, especially if I am desperate and my stream is long and forceful. 

One nice thing about living alone is technically I can pee when and wherever I choose. However I answered limited to certain areas, because I must clean up, and I don't want to deal with urine soaked furniture or carpets. Therefore, if I am doing a naughty pee or wetting myself, I limit myself to areas with tiled floors, the kitchen and bathroom. Of course the tub means zero cleanups.

The exception is if I am peeing into something that will contain it , or out the window. And yes , I have peed in my yard with neighbors very close by both in my pants, and exposed ( after dark).

I feel pressure  and fullness gradually increasing in my bladder.  In the past the pressure also began in my penis, throughout the shaft but focused at the tip more than the base.  My bladder would become painfully distended, and my penis would throb from the pressure . At is't extreme the tip of my penis felt like it could pop off . But as I have gotten older ( I am 68) the pressure behind my pee hole becomes intense much more quickly.  Generally my bladder only can become moderately uncomfortable before a leak threatens or occurs.    It feels like my dick is full of pee . This is odd because I know my sphincter is located at the base of my penis, not further down. Once urine passes my sphincter and enters the shaft there is no stopping it, it is coming out no matter what. Squeezing the tip to staunch the flow seems to help, but only psychologically . Once the pee  actually passes the sphincter a  guy squeezing his dick to stop it from coming out is not only guaranteed to be successful it is extremely painful.  Excruciatingly Painful enough that you will release your hands grip reflexively at once. .

I don't know about a female's urethra being larger. I think they are about the same in width. However, they are much shorter, just a short direct drop from her bladder.

I just discovered this conversation , so I  apologize if you have answered this before. Your pee stream is amazing for a female peeing while standing. How do you keep from getting your pants wet , especially as your flow is weak as it's just starting and ending ?

My longest measured pee was 1:15 of constant forcefull peeing. My bladder was painfully stretched and overfull and the release felt awesome.  But due to my bladder being so distended it was not empty when I released all I could at first.

About 10 minutes later I need to pee strongly again . I did a "normal" pee of about 15 seconds. I felt more empty but my bladder was still sore. I even had a bit of blood in my urine.

That's a total of 1:30 in two close together pees.Total urine 1.35 liters , the most ever.

My bladder was sore for the next day. I didn't get much sleep that night, waking up every hour or so to pee. I think that means I pushed my bladder as far as I could.

I have crossed pee streams with a girlfriend as well as my ex-wife. The experience with my ex- wife was particularly enjoyable as it was a result of us both having had to hold it all day, and were both I am about to wet myself desperate. 

Thank you for the memory greedyneedygirl and looking at your pix I think your experience was even hotter.

As a side note although there was nothing even remotely sexual about it, to save time our parents ,when we were young prepubescent boys, made me and my brother pee together. We would play sword fights with our streams.

Actually I already posted this two years ago.

a+) * Edit  How could I forget this it was epic. It was at work. I peed both in my pants and naked. Brief synopsis of story: I was on overnight shift alone. I wanted to hold my pee until desperate then pee off a high place -off top of walk in cooler to a drain trench below, which I opened. I was enjoying the hold so much I kept holding past when I should  have gone ,when I  couldn't hold it anymore. I started leaking in my pants but kept holding........ Eventually with my jeans getting really wet I climbed onto the cooler and peed a very long and hard pee... I hoped my pants would dry by morning.Could post story in its own thread if interested

I think it is awesome that you want to learn about your husbands pee fetish and want to indulge him, and perhaps find you enjoy pee play yourself.

As you probably by now from previous comments, why he  enjoys this is not the right question. It is difficult to answer. Not many can answer that. There have many discussions on line about that topic, both here and other pee sites. I now realize that my first interest in female desperation came at the pre-sex age of six, seeing a girl desperate.  I talked her into holding it a bit longer; she soon wet her pants .It grew exponentially when I reached puberty, and even more when I discovered the internet. I am now sixty-eight , still enjoy it, and I accept that. I can say it seems to stem from the fact that my own desperation, and feeling I am about to pee is similar to the pressure I feel when I am about to cum . Of course ejaculating if hot and tingly too rather than bladder and penis pressure. Why am I wired this way? I don't know, so I just embrace it.

The correct question what specifically turns him on. You could get some insight by the things discussed in the chats you discovered. There is a wide range of what we enjoy about peeing. Some things I find gross but I accept the preferences of others that accept mine. You could ask him if he wants you to hold your pee for him, and what would arouse him when you finally peed.

Personally, as my screen name  suggests I LOVE female desperation and pants wetting, when she can no longer hold it in anymore. I also enjoy her  to like watching me do the same. It is extra special if we can both be desperate and wet our pants together ( to keep it real not necessarily simultaneously). A true she almost made it with just wet underwear is also fun. If wanting to avoid wet pants a second choice is naked peeing somewhere other than the bathroom after her being desperate and about to wet her pants . I have just one rule, don't leave a mess for others to clean up or damage their property. 

My now ex-wife said pee play did nothing for her, but she was willing to indulge me. It helped me to open up to her when I realized , she often held her pee until the last minute. We were a couple since we were seventeen.  She also enjoyed sex with a full bladder. So after a evening at a club and drinking without peeing we would get busy as soon as we got home. It drove me nuts when I asked her how she felt and she replied , her pee feels like it is going to come out, but it feels to good to stop. She said if it did start coming out she would not stop the sex, so the bed would get wet. For the record I only remember once feeling one quick spurt on my dick .

On 6/13/2014 at 6:45 PM, CrissyP said:

2. On stage. I was a stripper at one time. The owner said it was ok, if I cleaned it up. I had multiple orgasms while doing it.

That is so hot, I would have given you a big tip if I had the pleasure of seeing this !!!

On 6/4/2014 at 11:26 PM, pornbird2000 said:

• how do you prefer to pee naked or dressed
• where is the most public place you peed naked
• where is the most public place you peed dressed
• what is the smallest thing you have peed in like a coke can or whatever
• would you ever sell your pee in a bottle if some one payed you for it
• what do you like beast about pee

 1 )For the most part I pee with my dick out , so that part is naked. For fun I much prefer to be clothed. As my screen name implies I enjoy getting desperate  and wetting my pants. Sometimes I do enjoy getting desperate and peeing while showering though, ( last night).

2) I have peed in a pool while swimming naked with people around.

3) I have peed in my pants , while intentionally holding it, walking to the mailbox ( it was raining) .

3a+) * Edit  How could I forget this it was epic. It was at work. I peed both in my pants and naked. Brief synopsis of story: I was on overnight shift alone. I wanted to hold my pee until desperate then pee off a high place -off top of walk in cooler to a drain trench below, which I opened. I was enjoying the hold so much I kept holding past when I should  have gone ,when I  couldn't hold it anymore. I started leaking in my pants but kept holding........ Eventually with my jeans getting really wet I climbed onto the cooler and peed a very long and hard pee... I hoped my pants would dry by morning.Could post story in its own thread if interested

4) I peed into a small tea cup. Like whenever I pee for fun , my pee has to come out because I can't stop it . So, I had a lot of pee left and it overflowed onto the floor, creating a big puddle.

5) I don't see myself selling my pee, because  that violates numerous health laws. Also, they may want it for some nefarious reason . If I knew the person well however, I would let them have some.

6) ?? I am assuming you mean best , not beast ( a wild animal). I enjoy to warm wetness and the light smell of fresh pee.

I frequently pee behind a bush or tree when out in nature I also love peeing into a stream or pond, preferably from a high point.  I will not  damage other peoples property or deliberately make a mess for somebody to clean up. I fell this is just plain wrong. Nor do I want to offend anybody or risk arrest.  So, I try to hold it until I find an appropriate place to go, or hold it and hope to make it home. In the latter, I often make it to my door and start peeing, involentarly. Sometimes it just a few leaks, in my briefs ,but occasionally I can't stop and just wet my pants.

I particularly enjoy seeing a female peeing while standing because it is not their "natural" position and may be because she couldn't hold it any longer. 

But most of all it makes it much easier to see exactly where her pee is coming out. This is a particulary strong interest for me. I can't see nearly as well if she is sitting or squatting. 

For me it isn't even close. I love to see a woman (or she me) struggle to hold her pee and eventual leaking , still trying to hold it, and eventual  wetting. I mean my name is wettingman.😄

On 1/14/2014 at 2:30 PM, wetmanjf said:

It took me a few minutes to find my girlfriend...who was out a ways in the water. "So I heard she did it" she told me. I asked her if she was mad and she said of course not...I told you I didn't care. We sat talked for a few minutes and she told me that she would try again another time to see if she could break her shyness. We decided it was time to leave so we started to get out of the water...suddenly my girlfriend stopped....she looked down towards the water and mouthed "I'm peeing" She then promised me again...One day I'll do it on you.

But that's another story.

So did she ever pee on you ? Hopefully someone did.

I didn't think the stats for people with a pee fetish were even this high. This is encouraging then. Perhaps men are more open about their unusual sexual preferences. There are many more men on the pee sites I am a member of, but the female presence is much more appreciated. I really  welcome females that enjoy male pee stories ( such as my own) , but this is much less common.

Can't really say if that means male actually having the fetish is much more prevalent. I hope not.

I always has been a big part of my sex life since I hit puberty. The very first time I masterbated ( I didn't know what I was doing, only that it felt awesome) I was thinking of something pee related. Although, we enjoyed plenty of great regular sex without pee, it was frequently a part of my girlfriends/wife's sex, as an enhancement. . She would tell me pee stories while rubbing me off when we couldn't or she didn't want sex.

I have been divorced and alone now for a long time. Pee is 100% my entire sex life now. It has been for so long I don't know if I can get aroused without it.

Reading outstanding , well written, long richly detailed, but realistic if not true  pee stories or videos is all  I masterbate to.

I am glad she introduced you to the fun of peeing, it not just a biologically necessary function. I look forward to reading about your adventures.