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If we are together she always leaves the door open when she pees so I can listen . If we are on the phone she tells me she has to pee and takes the phone in the bathroom with her. She holds the phone between her legs as she pees so I can clearly hear her going. The last time she was particularly desperate because she let out a nice hot hiss, something she usually doesn't do.

I of course love it and sometimes a hard hearing her pee.

I have never shaved below my neck. I enjoy my pubic hair which has gotten much thinner, sparcer and shorter as I have aged .That is just nature, and nothing I can do about it. My body hair including my pubes has never been a wild mess though. I enjoy having a woman run her fingers through it.

When the weather turns cold which isn't for a while in my area I pee outside much less . It is fun though to  occasionally pee in my pants outside in the cold. My warm pee warms my legs and causes steam to rise up from my jeans.

I do move most of my fun inside but it continues nonetheless 

On 9/5/2024 at 11:39 PM, Darlene said:

It used to be a long steady stream before I got well into my twenties and then one day it began with a huge gush that goes everywhere for 20 seconds that ends up being spurts where I have to push down onto my bladder to empty myself completely, which takes a minute or two.

4 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

@Darlene Any idea what changed? It sounds like it changed suddenly. Did you bladder capacity change too?

If you had a habit of holding your pee for a long time frequently, your bladder can get stretched to the point it is difficult for it to return to normal size and fully empty.

My ex-wife who I talk to again used to hold her pee almost every day until she couldn't hold it anymore,  sometimes even at least partially wet her pants. Today it takes he a couple minutes to empty her bladder in a slow trickel,  start and stop. She has to push on her bladder  to fully empty.

There isn't anything more satisfying than a long, hard continuous pee. Anything over 30 seconds is great .45 seconds awesome a full minute I am in heaven. Wow.

I have measured my pee many times, always when unbearablely full or even leaking.

I didn't measure back in my teens and twenties but since I held it while painfully over full for hours ( pee shy) the numbers probably even  higher.

As I have  gotten older I cannot hold it like I used to. 1 liter is a real stretch that I can't always accomplish anymore,  but that is my current maximum. More like 800-900ml.  average most I can hold now. 

In the past my average maximum I could hold was an painful 1.25 liters. One time I did achieve 1.35 liters because I had to hold my pee longer because my son stopped in. That was excruciatingly painful, involving some leaking  in my briefs and even blood in my urine.  It was not fun I had to get up and pee every hour all night long. I'll never do that again

I love peeing into rain puddles, lakes and streams. I have even been walking in the woods and needed to pee urgently, but held it until I found some water to pee into. If it is flowing water, its effect added to my desperation, makes unzipping and pulling my dick out before my pee starts coming out a dicey situation, but one I enjoy as long as my pants don't get too wet .

It never used to be the case as I was very pee shy, in fact I usually held it as long as possible,  often until I got home. 

Now I have no problem announcing I have to pee, or saying so if someone asks where I am going when I stand up . I might even add I have been holding it. Either way it gives me a secret thrill for my friends to know I need to pee .

As a male I love listening to women pee, especially if the flow is strong with some hiss.My ears are always tuned in when I know a female is peeing .

I don't care about men peeing. It does not matter because most of us use a urinal, so there is nothing to hear.

On 8/24/2024 at 5:46 PM, Peeingtoohard said:

EDIT: OMG this came out so long, sorry guys! I hope it’s still a fun read. 

That is not a problem. I love long detailed stories of  trying to hold your pee as long as possible but ultimately wetting your pants. Thank  You. 

On 8/25/2024 at 2:06 PM, Mary Moon said:

I think it depends on the character: there are those who are practical and are not ashamed to confess their need, and those chose who are shy in their approach and are afraid of being considered a "child who can't hold back" by her/him

Back in my younger days I definitely would have held my pee as long as possible. In fact I don't recall excusing myself to pee during first few dates. I know there were times when I was extremely desperate , and in pain but I was not about to go unless I was about to pee my pants . My reason , as it was in non- date situations exactly what you said "those chose who are shy in their approach and are afraid of being considered a "child who can't hold back" by her/him ". There were times when I was so full it was probably obvious as I couldn't stand up straight. 

I only remember once when we returned to her place and she excused herself to change. My bladder was screaming at me at being severely stretched , and I couldn't possibly enjoy anything because  I was in such pain. I took the opportunity to use her bathroom.

Now that i am much older and it is more common for us to need to go, and in general I no longer care about what people think regarding such matters,  I just excuse myself.

I know from a public hot tub the health inspectors are much more concerned about bacteria growing in a hot tub than a pool. They wanted it drained and cleaned at least once a week. They said hot tubs are a breeding ground for bacteria. 

I had a younger sister growing up.

Any pix or videos I post are from my waist down, so it is unlikely I would be IDed.

I often wish someone would find me, so I would have a IRL pee friend. However I am strictly straight and not interested in pee sharing with a male. IDK if I would have the nerve to say yea that's me to a woman

 But I like to think I would admit it to a female. Man or woman the look on my face would give it away anyway.  After all she was on a pee site so she is proably interested. I hope she would be discreet 

@Sarah_Hiker31 I enjoyed listening to you pee

 What were you peeing on that caused that sound?

I know pubic hair is not popular right now. Historically it has been considered attractive and the styles change and.it is the shaved or bald look people want. Right now that is what is preferred. 

I however,  love pubic hair.  I always enjoyed a full untrimmed pubic triangle.  More recently I have come to like a neatly trimmed bush , especially between the legs. I can see where her pee is coming out from that way.

I am a guy but I have never touched mine, but it has become much shorter and thinner with age.

One last comment about pubic hair color. Although black is the most common that is not always the case. I had a GF who was a natural blond ,including her pubic hair. Mine used to be a dark rich brown like the hair I used to have on my head. I have a special attraction to red heads with their strawberry colored pubes since they are rare.

Getting yourself to unlearn wetting your pants is wrong is the most difficult part. Have you tried peeing in the shower with your pants or even just your panties on .Minimal clean up and nobody will know.

My first time I held my pee until I leakedin my pants. Since my mind was in the this is wrong mode this took a long time and was very painful. 

Better if you get your bladder really full and get in the shower and relax . Think of yourself sitting on the toilet, run some water, relax and let it happen. Don't try to force it.

If you want encouragement post when you want to try it . You will find encouragement in live action.

Great descriptive story. I love stories of pee coming out forcefully creating a down hill stream. I appreciate a woman with pubic hair,  that is not often seen these days. Thanks for a vivid story.

On 8/12/2024 at 3:19 PM, Mary Moon said:

how is it for you guys when you are completely full, you have a longer urethra, for example i feel that the pee is right there on the edge of the hole that burns a little from the effort. Do you feel like the penis contracting or something or just pressure in the groin area? 

I feel my need to pee first with increasing pressure and fullness in my bladder. Then the pressure increases in my penis , especially near the tip. At first it is on the bottom of my shaft between the circumcision ring and the head of my penis.

When I start  getting desperate the head starts to ache. As I keep holding my pee , but nearing the end of my ability to hold it I feel a sharp stinging sensation right at my pee hole. It is like all that pent up pee is pressing against the end of my urethra trying to come out. It feels like my muscle at my pee hole is holding it in . When I feel that burning sensation at my pee hole my pee is about to come out. I will be squeezing my dick with my hand, pee dancing , crossing my legs onto my hands that are grabbing the tip of my penis  to hold it in a bit  longer........

Except I am not really stopping the flow. As with all males my sphincter is located at the base of my bladder and beginning of my urethra. While it is true our urethra a longer than a females , once urine leaks past the sphincter there is nothing in or around our urethra or penis including the tip to stop it from coming out. I know holding myself when I am about to pee myself desperate does psychologically help me hold it a bit longer. I have tried not holding myself when my pee feels like it is going to come out and I leaked.

But if just a tiny amount of urine seeps into my urethra I can hold it in with my hand as long as it is not under pressure. However , if I feel it is safe to stop squeezing my dick any urine that is in the tube will leak out. Once I truly at the point I can't hold it any longer and my bladder spasm forces out a bigger spurt of urine to try to keep in in by squeezing myself causes excruciating agony, like my penis is about to rip open, I am forced to reflexively stop squeezing , and I start peeing my pants uncontrollably.  Even if i try to be tough and ignore the pain the pressure will just keep increasing until no matter how tough I am the strong pressure will force its way out. I have tried relaxing my grip for a second to let the immediate pressure relief and I pee a little, but within seconds the sever pain is back and I can't continue holding my pee any longer.

I don't know why I feel desperation at my pee hole like my pee is pressing against it, but I looked it up and learned it is true, the sphincter at the bottom of my bladder at the base of my penis is where the pee's increasing pressure really is. Still unsure I held my pee until it felt like it was going to come out. I then spread my pee hole open wide with my fingers and looked. There was nothing there and pee didn't come out. I even took a  close up picture of it.

In any event I like it the way it is because the sensation my pee is going to come out is similar to what I feel just before I ejaculate. The pain is just replaced by a hot tingling highly pleasurable  feeling .

At a urinal I stand close as I can for privacy and to not get any pee on the floor.

  I only use the toilet to pee if there is no urinal, like a single non gender bathroom 

I never touch the toilet seat, no matter if is up or down. If it is down, out of consideration for someone needing to sit, I stand directly over the toilet and pee straight down, so I don't get pee on the seat. If I do sprinkle on the seat I use some toilet paper to wipe it up.

1 hour ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

A group  of friends of mine camp together on weekends all summer. All the guys, including me pee outside around back of one of our RVs.   Two of the three women go inside to pee because they can't do it without  getting it on them. There is one though that pees out back also.  She says As everyone say I have to pee. She is offered the toilet inside. She says nope I like to pee outside. Nobody thinks anything of it. 

Of course peeing is a bit more complicated than it is for men and you are greater risk of being seen if not careful.

 I would have to consider my options to see which is the least bad

. I could either pull out my dick and cover it with the diaper and pee into it. The downside I probably will get pee on .my pants anyway since I am trying to do this seated in a car with people next to me. Although I would try to be discreet someone might be offended and disgusted if the glimpse my dick. This would be the most obvious to others what I was doing.

I could take my pants off but leave my boxer briefs on, so I don't expose myself. I could the slip the diaper on and pee into it. That way there would be no visible wetness. Downside I would have to wear my wet underwear and the diaper.  I would pull my pants back up.

Knowing myself in real life I would probably hold my pee until the last second before deciding what to do. I would keep hoping traffic would clear. The downside if I wait too long to decide,,  I might wet my pants.. This exact  thing happened a couple of times  when I was young .  In fact since if I have been holding my pee until I can't  I probably would start going as I changed This would be the worst beyond embarrassing because not only would I get my pants wet ,a full bladder is a lot of urine so I would get the seat wet and likely the clothes of the people seated near me. That I would avoid at all costs.

Best option take pants off leave underwear on put diaper on , pull pants back on and pee. I mean l since my briefs will be wet anyway  I moight as well let it all out..

One positive thing no matter how bad I have had to pee I have never in my life peed while in the car. As.soon as I got out is another matter

I remember one time I was in such pain I tried to let a little out in my pants as I drove I couldn't do it.

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I enjoy holding my pee until my rather large bladder is about to burst.  Then I make a  pile with my dirty laundry and release my pee Into it . It feels great to just pee anywhere that way and the clothes absorb all of it.

I immediately throw the peed on laundry in the washer. 

Oops !Busted ! LOL  I am sure you weren't the first.

2 hours ago, glad1 said:

Have you ever had a conversation with someone on a beach where they pulled their swimsuit aside and peed in the sand?

Only if I dreamt it. That would be 🔥 hot.