Arranging Meet-Ups

[Rich7 467]

On 3/9/2018 at 1:26 AM, Peeme95 said:

This would be awesome. I'd be up for it.

Is that date above any use. If not let's keep in touch about it anyway please 

[Peeme95 56]

On 25/03/2018 at 11:30 AM, Rich7 said:

Is that date above any use. If not let's keep in touch about it anyway please 

That date should be ok, but i'd like some female company if possible.

[Rich7 467]

I see, not any as yet. but maybe some reading this would like to come along 

[Rich7 467]

Am pretty sure  i am going, there may be other pee lovers already there ?

[norfie654321 69]

I may be interested in coming along to this but it depends on the times and whether any ladies decide to attend. I'm not interested in guys pee.

[Rich7 467]

Hope you can make it. Ladies coming, I hope so, but all I can do is suggest meet up and then it is sort out of my hands really, worth checking on this thread I guess 

[Rich7 467]

Cost of entry, couples and single ladies free, single men £15. Who says there is no discrimination he he 

[Adyguy6970 878]

52 minutes ago, Rich7 said:

Cost of entry, couples and single ladies free, single men £15. Who says there is no discrimination he he 

I'd say that was pretty blatant discrimination!

[norfie654321 69]

15 hours ago, Rich7 said:

Hope you can make it. Ladies coming, I hope so, but all I can do is suggest meet up and then it is sort out of my hands really, worth checking on this thread I guess 

Any chance you could check with the club/ event host what the male to female ratio is as a whole? I would hate to hear that it's a predominantly Male event with very little female attendance. Obviously couples will attend that place but not all females will want to openly play without prior interaction.

[Rich7 467]

It is open to all genders, but important to be honest with you, most going are men or trans, women now and again, but not many. I went today, pee play is encouraged and is done in the shower area. The manager, Judith can be asked about private arrangements with her, it is her speciality. But in life some things are not free if you get my gist. I do intend to be there about 12.30 on Thursday 5th, and will notify here if anything crops up to prevent me.

[Sophie 24,412]

I won't be attending myself but I wish you all the best of luck, and I hope some women turn up! 

[Rich7 467]

14 hours ago, Sophie said:

I won't be attending myself but I wish you all the best of luck, and I hope some women turn up! 

Thanks Sophie. For any women, or men, worried about things being done to them or being forced to do things they do not want, that is not going to happen. Judith who manages the club has strict rues on that, which are enforced. If we all (hopefully not just me !!) stay on the main floor, any problems shout out and she will hear and deal with them. But club is not like that, friendly, non threatening, people do as much or as little as they wish, all consensual  

Edited March 30, 2018 by Rich7

[Rich7 467]

Will be there tomorrow, Thursday 5th April 2018, about 12.30 in the afternoon. Just let Judith (manager, usually at desk) know if you are from Pee Fans, and she will introduce us.  

[norfie654321 69]

I wont be now. Other things have cropped up unexpectedly. Do tell us all how it goes though.

[Rich7 467]

Thanks for letting me know, and yes will do

[Rich7 467]

Only me there from this site. Am disappointed, but I do understand how difficult it can be to get to a meeting place. May try again, but am rather busy in the near future

[Sophie 24,412]

I don't like meet ups in genera, especially with people I've hardly spoken to at all, l so that counted me out from the very beginning. And I really dislike the idea of being the only female there, or there being very few females. 

It wasn't the travel that was the problem. It was everything else.

There's a very small amount of people from this site and other pee sites I would meet in person, less than 5, and those I've known for nearly a decade.

[norfie654321 69]

Perhaps we should follow the kink community a bit here and start off with a 'Peefans UK Social' that can even be rolled out globally in different parts of the world. Often 'munches' are social events in well known pubs so people can have a drink and relax into getting to know one another. We do all share the same kink so it wouldnt really be any different to a kink munch. In our case however, it'd have to be a centralised location to the UK which is quite literally in the middle of the country (perhaps another big city a bit further North than Birmingham to make things easy). Depending on its success we could make it a monthly social, so that way we all get to know each other and can EVENTUALLY lead into a central play event together perhaps. There are plenty of clubs across the country that cater for pee play and theres even an event in London specifically designed for it, but ive never been as im at the other end of the country. Obviously theres nothing stopping each of you from the UK attending your own Cities/Counties kink events (sites like Fetlife are awesome to find out what's going on) but if people from here really do want to meet up then that's the only way i can see it viably happening in the short term.

Feel free to leave thoughts and opinions on this idea!

[sathuta 1,773]

This may impossible for me. I am from overseas. Anyway I am very keen to know what is happening and how it is going on.

[F.W 5,734]

I think it would be great to meet up.Its a pity we cant organise a big convention.Wouldnt have to be sexual but it would be maybe some would let others watch them pee..

 

[Rich7 467]

Nervousness re meet up which has been strongly put on here is understandable, especially for women if with a group of men. Totally see the point, that is why I suggested a location that was "managed" professionally so nobody would be vulnerable. Idea of a social meet first also a way to deal with the issue,  Sadly health wise I am not up for a meet at the moment, but let's sort of not give up on it. Thanks   

[steamlover6 751]

I have always wanted to meet up in a group of like minded enthusiasts, but I think now to get started in conversation or even participate in naughty action in the first meet or two would not work because of peoples inhibitions, which would not ease in a group.

Personally I believe if we want to meet someone nice and really indulge in our mutual pleasure it really is best on a one with one basis. The conversation can be intensely personal, steered, backtracked and ideally advanced immediately as one senses reactions, and it will be much easier for a lady to feel at ease and release her own desires to talk about (taboo) subjects in an exciting, friendly and really sexy conversation with someone she is developing trust in.

I speak from experience and using the technique have almost always achieved what I was looking for, generating huge interest and excitement in the subject as we truly warm to each other in close and private conversation.

If any of you ladies want to come with me on that experience sometime just message me, you won't be disappointed I assure you!   

 

[Sexismygod 1,782]

Haven't seen any discussions here for a while.  Still up for a pint but my manic schedule means it'll probably be a last minute thing.  I'm just south of oxford but have my own transport.  I'm willing to meet one to one as long as everyone is clear that it's a pint and a chat ... not a date, not solely about pee, just a pint and a chat.

[Sexismygod 1,782]

On 4/6/2018 at 7:55 PM, Sophie said:

I don't like meet ups in genera, especially with people I've hardly spoken to at all, l so that counted me out from the very beginning. And I really dislike the idea of being the only female there, or there being very few females. 

It wasn't the travel that was the problem. It was everything else.

There's a very small amount of people from this site and other pee sites I would meet in person, less than 5, and those I've known for nearly a decade.

I need to get to know you better so I can join that august company.  😎

[Mkbigboy 181]

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