How to tell someone you enjoy peeing outside?

[vaad 54]

Beat him to the punch. The next time you're out together, just casually announce that you have to pee and before he has a chance to find you a restroom, run off and pee in the bushes. Once you do it a couple times, he'll figure out that his help isn't needed.

Either that or, the next time he says something about finding you a restroom, just tell him straight up that it's not necessary and you'd rather just squat somewhere because it's less trouble. Everyone can appreciate laziness as a motivation.

I wish I had a friend like you!

[glad1 2,829]

14 minutes ago, vaad said:

Beat him to the punch. The next time you're out together, just casually announce that you have to pee and before he has a chance to find you a restroom, run off and pee in the bushes. Once you do it a couple times, he'll figure out that his help isn't needed.

Either that or, the next time he says something about finding you a restroom, just tell him straight up that it's not necessary and you'd rather just squat somewhere because it's less trouble. Everyone can appreciate laziness as a motivation.

I wish I had a friend like you!

I agree with vaad. I'd lead by example. I'd probably not even run off into the bushes.

I suppose it's easier because I'm male. But, I've lost count of the number of women who make the point of letting me know they don't need proper facilities.

[Ms. Tito 2,373]

Sometimes I just flat out say it and my friends agree. 

[vaad 54]

49 minutes ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I was thinking that, just kind of do it. Just tell him I need to pee and am going to sneak behind a bush or the golf cart or wherever we are. And then just pee.

Yup, I think that's the way to do it! Let us know how it goes!

[wettingman 567]

1 hour ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

A group  of friends of mine camp together on weekends all summer. All the guys, including me pee outside around back of one of our RVs.   Two of the three women go inside to pee because they can't do it without  getting it on them. There is one though that pees out back also.  She says As everyone say I have to pee. She is offered the toilet inside. She says nope I like to pee outside. Nobody thinks anything of it. 

Of course peeing is a bit more complicated than it is for men and you are greater risk of being seen if not careful.

[longbastard 233]

2 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

He already pees outside.

How openly does he do it?

[longbastard 233]

Just now, NaughtyTinkle said:

He pees quite openly

Once you start pissing openly too, you should start daring him to piss in ruder and riskier locations. Be exhibitionist about it yourself.

[longbastard 233]

You should piss on the floor of the golf cart while he’s driving it 

[nenTyp 654]

Additionally to lazyness, most people are quite receptive to the point that it feels freeing and peaceful when peing in nature at least.

[Kupar 13,315]

One of my female friends did this when we met her in a car park at the start of a walk in the countryside. She just said "I'm just going for a wild wee before we set off" and headed for the bushes 🙂. So I'd just go for it.

[oliver2 4,396]

2 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

Sometimes I just flat out say it and my friends agree. 

You don’t have to have a piss kink to enjoy peeing outdoors any more than you need a foot fetish to enjoy walking barefoot on the beach

[Takashi96 1,064]

5 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

Don't tell him. Show him. Next time you have to pee just go squat somewhere within sight or ear shot of him. After you've finished say something like, "Ah, I love peeing outside!"

Or if he goes off to pee and you have to pee too then go squat near him. 

 

 

[vaad 54]

5 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

He pees quite openly, on the golf cart tires, beside picnic tables, beside the car, I’ve even seen him pee on his front porch facing the house against the siding.

Oh man, I think you've answered your own question! If he pees that openly in front of you, it wouldn't be at all weird for you to go in the same places as him. Like you said, just hop out of the car and pee right there!

[morty98 261]

Looking forward to reading your experiences once you have carried out your plan 🙂

[DoctorDoctor 1,351]

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

 

[Takashi96 1,064]

4 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

 

That's always been a good indicator for me. There was a period when I was younger (and drank more) where women often took that as a sign that I wasn't uptight about peeing. Therefore, if they had to go they felt safe joining me, and I would respond as if they were just another guy at the urinal. I miss those days.

[glad1 2,829]

5 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

On a hike, I always try to set a good example. Quite a few women seem to follow my lead. Often there's further interaction, even if it's only at the next stop down the trail.

 

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,416]

Great result @NaughtyTinkle - sounds like it solved that ongoing problem and you've got free reign now to enjoy peeing freely on future outings with that friend.

I wonder if the whole 'going out of the way' to find a restroom, but them peeing freely was their way to suggest you just free-pee ???   Like a kind of 'we'll go all the way over there even though it's out of the way so you can pee, or you could just follow my example...'  

Sometimes I find that by trying to hide my kink, I'm less open about 'I'll just pee here' than people where it's an entirely innocent pee - if that makes sense ???   But sounds like the same sort of situation.

[Takashi96 1,064]

On 8/18/2024 at 3:12 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

Great result @NaughtyTinkle - sounds like it solved that ongoing problem and you've got free reign now to enjoy peeing freely on future outings with that friend.

I wonder if the whole 'going out of the way' to find a restroom, but them peeing freely was their way to suggest you just free-pee ???   Like a kind of 'we'll go all the way over there even though it's out of the way so you can pee, or you could just follow my example...'  

Sometimes I find that by trying to hide my kink, I'm less open about 'I'll just pee here' than people where it's an entirely innocent pee - if that makes sense ???   But sounds like the same sort of situation.

Yes, that absolutely makes sense! I do that as well. I feel self conscious if I'm too casual. I start overanalyzing myself. It's like 'if I pee TOO casually on this tree then I may appear to be putting on a show. Because that's my thing. I'm an exhibitionist!'

I remember another user last year saying she can't pee with other people for fear she'll accidentally reveal her pee fetish. Like maybe there was some involuntary indicator of her arousal that she wasn't aware of. Something that other people might pick up on. Nevertheless, even if it was all in her mind it sounded like a perfectly reasonable paranoia to me. 

 

[FlashFloodWarning 42]

You could always say you find public bathrooms disgusting or simply that you don't mind doing "what the guys do" and think there should be more pee equity in that regard.  He's probably just doing the polite/gentlemanly thing because he assumes that's what you want.  Bet he'd LOVE if you said, "Thanks but I'd prefer just to go behind this bush.  BRB."  

Or a less subtle method.  🤭

Edited September 4 by FlashFloodWarning