How to tell someone you enjoy peeing outside?

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

[vaad 47]

Beat him to the punch. The next time you're out together, just casually announce that you have to pee and before he has a chance to find you a restroom, run off and pee in the bushes. Once you do it a couple times, he'll figure out that his help isn't needed.

Either that or, the next time he says something about finding you a restroom, just tell him straight up that it's not necessary and you'd rather just squat somewhere because it's less trouble. Everyone can appreciate laziness as a motivation.

I wish I had a friend like you!

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

I was thinking that, just kind of do it. Just tell him I need to pee and am going to sneak behind a bush or the golf cart or wherever we are. And then just pee.

[glad1 2,783]

14 minutes ago, vaad said:

Beat him to the punch. The next time you're out together, just casually announce that you have to pee and before he has a chance to find you a restroom, run off and pee in the bushes. Once you do it a couple times, he'll figure out that his help isn't needed.

Either that or, the next time he says something about finding you a restroom, just tell him straight up that it's not necessary and you'd rather just squat somewhere because it's less trouble. Everyone can appreciate laziness as a motivation.

I wish I had a friend like you!

I agree with vaad. I'd lead by example. I'd probably not even run off into the bushes.

I suppose it's easier because I'm male. But, I've lost count of the number of women who make the point of letting me know they don't need proper facilities.

[Ms. Tito 2,180]

Sometimes I just flat out say it and my friends agree. 

[vaad 47]

49 minutes ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I was thinking that, just kind of do it. Just tell him I need to pee and am going to sneak behind a bush or the golf cart or wherever we are. And then just pee.

Yup, I think that's the way to do it! Let us know how it goes!

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

19 minutes ago, vaad said:

Yup, I think that's the way to do it! Let us know how it goes!

Should I try to hide everything or do it more in front of him?

[wettingman 515]

1 hour ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

A group  of friends of mine camp together on weekends all summer. All the guys, including me pee outside around back of one of our RVs.   Two of the three women go inside to pee because they can't do it without  getting it on them. There is one though that pees out back also.  She says As everyone say I have to pee. She is offered the toilet inside. She says nope I like to pee outside. Nobody thinks anything of it. 

Of course peeing is a bit more complicated than it is for men and you are greater risk of being seen if not careful.

[longbastard 214]

2 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

He already pees outside.

How openly does he do it?

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

Just now, longbastard said:

How openly does he do it?

He pees quite openly, on the golf cart tires, beside picnic tables, beside the car, I’ve even seen him pee on his front porch facing the house against the siding.

[longbastard 214]

Just now, NaughtyTinkle said:

He pees quite openly

Once you start pissing openly too, you should start daring him to piss in ruder and riskier locations. Be exhibitionist about it yourself.

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

Just now, longbastard said:

Once you start pissing openly too, you should start daring him to piss in ruder and riskier locations. Be exhibitionist about it yourself.

I think I wanna start by peeing next to the car when we pull up somewhere, then try his backyard, and when I go in the backyard I won’t try too hard to hide it. Then invite him over to my place and maybe I’ll piss in a potted plant indoors and surprise him lol

[longbastard 214]

You should piss on the floor of the golf cart while he’s driving it 

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

3 minutes ago, longbastard said:

You should piss on the floor of the golf cart while he’s driving it 

I will have to build up to that unless I’m very intoxicated then who knows 😂

[nenTyp 622]

Additionally to lazyness, most people are quite receptive to the point that it feels freeing and peaceful when peing in nature at least.

[Kupar 13,171]

One of my female friends did this when we met her in a car park at the start of a walk in the countryside. She just said "I'm just going for a wild wee before we set off" and headed for the bushes 🙂. So I'd just go for it.

[oliver2 4,231]

2 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

Sometimes I just flat out say it and my friends agree. 

You don’t have to have a piss kink to enjoy peeing outdoors any more than you need a foot fetish to enjoy walking barefoot on the beach

[Takashi96 1,020]

5 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

I spend a lot of time outdoors with a friend of mine and they often go out of their way to find me a restroom. They’re a male friend who is trying to be respectful. But when we are out golfing, or at the park, or at picnics, I’d much rather squat and pee outside. He already pees outside. I don’t know how to bring it up?

Don't tell him. Show him. Next time you have to pee just go squat somewhere within sight or ear shot of him. After you've finished say something like, "Ah, I love peeing outside!"

Or if he goes off to pee and you have to pee too then go squat near him. 

 

 

[vaad 47]

5 hours ago, NaughtyTinkle said:

He pees quite openly, on the golf cart tires, beside picnic tables, beside the car, I’ve even seen him pee on his front porch facing the house against the siding.

Oh man, I think you've answered your own question! If he pees that openly in front of you, it wouldn't be at all weird for you to go in the same places as him. Like you said, just hop out of the car and pee right there!

[morty98 254]

Looking forward to reading your experiences once you have carried out your plan 🙂

[NaughtyTinkle 719]

We met up to go fishing early this morning. Near the shore there were several large boulders. I needed to pee so I just set my pole down, walked over to one and pulled my jeans down and squatted. You could see my head but not my lower half. I sighed and said “it feels so good peeing by the water” and he said “I know what you mean it’s very freeing”

[DoctorDoctor 1,259]

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

 

[Takashi96 1,020]

4 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

 

That's always been a good indicator for me. There was a period when I was younger (and drank more) where women often took that as a sign that I wasn't uptight about peeing. Therefore, if they had to go they felt safe joining me, and I would respond as if they were just another guy at the urinal. I miss those days.

[glad1 2,783]

5 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I usually jusr pee semi-publically nearby to see what their reaction is. I have had a few women follow my lead and pee after me, and one even nearby me, while I was peeing. Unfortunately, none of these "hints" resulted in further interaction.

On a hike, I always try to set a good example. Quite a few women seem to follow my lead. Often there's further interaction, even if it's only at the next stop down the trail.

 

 

[gldenwetgoose 20,977]

Great result @NaughtyTinkle - sounds like it solved that ongoing problem and you've got free reign now to enjoy peeing freely on future outings with that friend.

I wonder if the whole 'going out of the way' to find a restroom, but them peeing freely was their way to suggest you just free-pee ???   Like a kind of 'we'll go all the way over there even though it's out of the way so you can pee, or you could just follow my example...'  

Sometimes I find that by trying to hide my kink, I'm less open about 'I'll just pee here' than people where it's an entirely innocent pee - if that makes sense ???   But sounds like the same sort of situation.