My Husband Made me Hold it

[Bacardi 9,130]

Morning friends! I have an exciting update for my pee sex life 😅

So like most couples we celebrated valentines day yesterday. Hubby took me out to my favorite Chinese restaurant and then after the kids went to bed we had a lot of fun in the bedroom--if you know what i mean lol.

To appease him we did more than what we normally do, which made him really happy. However, I was so busy getting everyone ready for bed that I forgot to pee before we got down and dirty 😬 

So we were like 45 minutes in, and we were in doggy style (my favorite position) when my need to pee hit me. I must have been feeling adventurous tho, because instead of just holding it silently I decided to speak up. 

"Hey, can we pause for a minute? I need to go." Were my exact words. At the time I wasn't thinking in fetish terms cause I choose to keep it a secret. Must have just been a warning really cause I wasn't sure how long we were gonna be lol. But it didn't matter cause my husband said no 😪

"No baby, hold it. I'm so close and don't wanna stop" is what he said, and it felt like a light switch went off in my brain. I went from vanilla sex to pee sex in my brain lol. I brought it up again, hinting to him I really needed to go and that I couldn't hold it and he kept telling me to hold it, no matter which position ☺️ eventually I did cum, way earlier than expected and there was such a mess. We had to shower together right after word 🤣

All this to say: if my husband didn't think I had a pee fetish, he probably does now!!

[Kupar 12,393]

Oh wow! This is amazing @Bacardi! I really hope he enjoyed it all as much as you did, and that as well as being wonderful last night, it's the start of something for the future 🙂

Thanks for telling us about it 

xxxx

[Bacardi 9,130]

19 minutes ago, Kupar said:

Oh wow! This is amazing @Bacardi! I really hope he enjoyed it all as much as you did, and that as well as being wonderful last night, it's the start of something for the future 🙂

Thanks for telling us about it 

xxxx

Who knows. Maybe the forum has just finally broken me out of my shell and I'll finally tell him.

I honestly haven't decided yet 😅

[Remi 949]

Awesome, congrats on that. This mentioning of pee during the act worked a bit like dirty talk: it fueled the fire. Sound pretty hot, what a nice kick due to the additional spice!

This would be a good situation to actually hint something in that direction to him..."hey yesterday while we were at it....after i mentioned that etc..... it was [somehow very suprisingly 😅] such a turn on for me"

 

[WantonLee 823]

1 hour ago, Remi said:

Awesome, congrats on that. This mentioning of pee during the act worked a bit like dirty talk: it fueled the fire. Sound pretty hot, what a nice kick due to the additional spice!

This would be a good situation to actually hint something in that direction to him..."hey yesterday while we were at it....after i mentioned that etc..... it was [somehow very suprisingly 😅] such a turn on for me"

 

Was kinda thinking the same.
I do not know how to word it, though; I might word it like "that was more exiting then it should have been", or something like that.

Well, YOU know your husband best, Bacardi. 😉
Tease him at your own risk; he might like it, he might not.

Unless you are to blunt about it, the only thing you can loose is the uncertainty about your hubbies position on it.
(Which can be a downer, if he actually dislikes it your ego might take it personally a la "if you don't like my favorite thing you don't like me, too", which is nonsense of course, but name me ONE person who's ego isn't like this. ^^)
 

Oh, something that might be worth mentioning:
for me as a male, when urine passes through the urethra, the feeling (in the urethra) can be remarkably similar to the relaxing feeling when climaxing.
Whether this - formulated as a question - can be a bridge when discussing this topic or not I can not say.
I never was in that position to even start this discussion.

But I thought I just mention it, because I am an avid fan of "talking with one another" when it comes to relationships

 

Best wishes! 😄

 

[Alfresco 11,002]

@Bacardi That is great news and an exciting development for you.   I hope you can use it in some way to let your husband know how you enjoyed it.   Maybe you can have a discussion about the fact that sex was great that night and that thinking back it was either because you had a full bladder or because he was controlling your bladder.  Depending on his reaction, you could drop hints about other things related to pee over the next few weeks and see how he reacts.

 

[Bacardi 9,130]

20 minutes ago, Alfresco said:

because he was controlling your bladder

If I had to guess I'd say it was this! My bladder wasn't even overly full. Just full enough for me to feel. But being denied the time to pee turns me on a whooooole lot lol.

[Alfresco 11,002]

7 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

If I had to guess I'd say it was this! My bladder wasn't even overly full. Just full enough for me to feel. But being denied the time to pee turns me on a whooooole lot lol.

Definitely tell him something about this then.   He will hopefully at least oblige you again in the future even if he doesn't appreciate it himself.   That's how I started to get progress with Mrs A.   She doesn't appreciate the peeing for herself but I've told her how much it does for me, starting with little things and when I realised that she was OK with it, even if she didn't appreciate it, then I told her more.   Now she still thinks I'm mad, but from time to time she will pee outside and let me watch or pee on me or let me drink her pee.

[Kirby23 777]

4 hours ago, Bacardi said:

...I did cum, way earlier than expected and there was such a mess. We had to shower together right after word

A couple follow-up questions - when you say "there was such a mess" - when you came, did you pee? If so, how did your husband react to that? That might help you better guage how he'd react to the concept of pee as part of sex in a more general sense. 

Or, if not as part of the act, did you pee once you got in the shower with him? And if so, how did he react to that? 

I guess what I'm asking is that you mentioned that you had to pee during the act. When did the much-needed pee actually eventually occur? If part of the act, or part of the intimacy directly afterward, would be interesting to see how he reacted as a way to guage his reaction in a more general sense.

Like others have said, you obviously know your husband best, but this new experience gives you a little additional insight.

[Bacardi 9,130]

4 minutes ago, Kirby23 said:

A couple follow-up questions - when you say "there was such a mess" - when you came, did you pee?

Sorry. I meant there was a lot of cum lol. More than what I consider normal for myself. If I'm cumming and not watching piss porn there's not as much, but last night there was a lot 😁

5 minutes ago, Kirby23 said:

I guess what I'm asking is that you mentioned that you had to pee during the act. When did the much-needed pee actually eventually occur?

I peed in the shower with him. I couldn't pee right after we were done cause after I cum it takes a while for me to pee if I need to go before the orgasm. 

I have been doing well with drinking lots of water recently so my pee is very dilute. I don't think husband noticed that I peed in the shower with him lmao. Or maybe he did cause I didn't go when we were done. Who knows. 

[gldenwetgoose 20,250]

1 minute ago, Bacardi said:

 

I peed in the shower with him. I couldn't pee right after we were done cause after I cum it takes a while for me to pee if I need to go before the orgasm. 

I have been doing well with drinking lots of water recently so my pee is very dilute. I don't think husband noticed that I peed in the shower with him lmao. Or maybe he did cause I didn't go when we were done. Who knows. 

Perfect...    It's possible he assumed that the position and his stimulation were making you feel like you needed to pee.   But 1000% kudos to you for letting go in the shower.

 

[Kirby23 777]

32 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

I peed in the shower with him. I couldn't pee right after we were done cause after I cum it takes a while for me to pee if I need to go before the orgasm. 

I have been doing well with drinking lots of water recently so my pee is very dilute. I don't think husband noticed that I peed in the shower with him lmao. Or maybe he did cause I didn't go when we were done. Who knows. 

Nice! My guess is that he probably didn't notice. It's hard for me to see it when my wife pees in the shower, even when I'm specifically looking for it.

[DoctorDoctor 1,069]

11 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I went from vanilla sex to pee sex in my brain lol. I brought it up again, hinting to him I really needed to go and that I couldn't hold it and he kept telling me to hold it, no matter which position ☺️ eventually I did cum, way earlier than expected and there was such a mess. We had to shower together right after word 🤣

 

From my experience, full bladders seem to really speed up orgasms during sex or masturbation.

How many others have had that experience?

Edited February 16 by DoctorDoctor
Added question.

[Alfresco 11,002]

11 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I have been doing well with drinking lots of water recently so my pee is very dilute. I don't think husband noticed that I peed in the shower with him lmao. Or maybe he did cause I didn't go when we were done. Who knows. 

He might not have noticed you actually peeing, but you had previously said you really needed to pee, then twice he asked you to hold it, then you didn’t use the toilet, so even if he didn’t notice the point at which you peed, I am sure he would have deduced that you peed in the shower.   He would know that a full bladder plus running water in a shower would lead to release - especially when you didn’t use the toilet before or after the shower.

[MRJH22 135]

@Bacardi. Wow what an experience. Thanks for sharing and it sure sounds like you had a lot of fun.

It was good you mentioned your need to pee more than once to build your other halves awareness of the situation. He may not have wanted to stop purely for the reasons mentioned I.e in the heat of the moment it felt too good to stop. Even if this is the case and there is nothing more to it than that on his part, it’s still something for you to work with. Perhaps even mentioning how hot you found the experience and how hard it made you cum might be worth while. It’s up to you f course how you feel it best to proceed. 

[gg111 57]

On 2/15/2024 at 7:57 AM, Bacardi said:

Morning friends! I have an exciting update for my pee sex life 😅

So like most couples we celebrated valentines day yesterday. Hubby took me out to my favorite Chinese restaurant and then after the kids went to bed we had a lot of fun in the bedroom--if you know what i mean lol.

To appease him we did more than what we normally do, which made him really happy. However, I was so busy getting everyone ready for bed that I forgot to pee before we got down and dirty 😬 

So we were like 45 minutes in, and we were in doggy style (my favorite position) when my need to pee hit me. I must have been feeling adventurous tho, because instead of just holding it silently I decided to speak up. 

"Hey, can we pause for a minute? I need to go." Were my exact words. At the time I wasn't thinking in fetish terms cause I choose to keep it a secret. Must have just been a warning really cause I wasn't sure how long we were gonna be lol. But it didn't matter cause my husband said no 😪

"No baby, hold it. I'm so close and don't wanna stop" is what he said, and it felt like a light switch went off in my brain. I went from vanilla sex to pee sex in my brain lol. I brought it up again, hinting to him I really needed to go and that I couldn't hold it and he kept telling me to hold it, no matter which position ☺️ eventually I did cum, way earlier than expected and there was such a mess. We had to shower together right after word 🤣

All this to say: if my husband didn't think I had a pee fetish, he probably does now!!

That’s such a hot story. Thanks for sharing.

If I were having sex with a woman doggy style and she kept telling me how bad she had to pee (if I knew she was into holding) I would play along and tell her to hold it in…and then I’d probably come five seconds later!

[Maclir 941]

Wonderful story...   makes a person slightly jealous....

[Bacardi 9,130]

2 hours ago, Maclir said:

Wonderful story...   makes a person slightly jealous....

Now now. Plenty of Bacardi to go around lol.

 

[on the porch 323]

Ruth here. Miss Bacardi . Why not be coy about it all , let your husband be in charge of your fun life , but in the shower , take his hand and put it up against your vagina and hold it there and pee in his hand ,  don't let him remove his hand just keep in in place .

Wayne goes crazy when I do this to him , of course he showed me first how to do this