Arigalo’s “ask me anything” thread!

[arigalo 553]

Hey, everyone! I’ve been wanting to get more involved with the community here for quite some time and have been enjoying reading some of the other AMA threads here, so I figured I’d start my own! I’m excited to share more about myself and get to know others better in the process. 🙂 

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

7 minutes ago, arigalo said:

Hey, everyone! I’ve been wanting to get more involved with the community here for quite some time and have been enjoying reading some of the other AMA threads here, so I figured I’d start my own! I’m excited to share more about myself and get to know others better in the process. 🙂 

I'll start it off.

What part of peeing interests you the most and brings you to visit and interact on this website?

[arigalo 553]

2 hours ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I'll start it off.

What part of peeing interests you the most and brings you to visit and interact on this website?

I think when it comes to peeing, I’m most drawn to peeing outdoors, especially out of desperation. I haven’t necessarily done a deep dive into any deeper psychoanalytic reasoning behind a fascination with desperation, but it just draws me in! 

As for what draws me to the website, I love hearing stories from others who share the pee interest. I won’t pretend that there isn’t a sexual element to participating on the forum, but what I love the most about this site as opposed to others is that we can all discuss the various elements and nuances to our interests in a respectful and friendly way. I’ve been on other fetish websites where it feels like you can’t exist as a full person because the entire purpose is the fetish. This site feels like a community of people gathered around a mutual interest who can also interact about any number of topics. 

[gldenwetgoose 21,486]

5 hours ago, arigalo said:

I won’t pretend that there isn’t a sexual element to participating on the forum, but what I love the most about this site as opposed to others is that we can all discuss the various elements and nuances to our interests in a respectful and friendly way. I’ve been on other fetish websites where it feels like you can’t exist as a full person because the entire purpose is the fetish. This site feels like a community of people gathered around a mutual interest who can also interact about any number of topics. 

Thank you - perfectly summarised.     Unfortunately there are some who assume everything is sexual and posted for their gratification on this site too.  Usually they're the ones who can't even see anyone else would have a different perspective or reason for posting.

But usually our ethos of respect and politeness wins over.  We would always encourage anyone who feels uncomfortable about comments, posts or DMs to report to us and we will take them seriously.  It's not the Peefans way.  

[Kupar 13,339]

Thanks for starting the thread @arigalo - it takes some courage to open yourself up like that! I'll ask a non-pee-related question if i may. If you could live anywhere in the world and do any job, where would you be and what would you being doing?

[steamlover6 751]

13 hours ago, arigalo said:

think when it comes to peeing, I’m most drawn to peeing outdoors, especially out of desperation.

I am so with you in loving this scenario.

Do you go drinking in pubs/clubs/restaurants and leave there needing to pee but purposely avoiding using the toilets on the way out?

Are you carefree about where you choose to pee outdoors when you are desperate? 

i would love to know your thoughts on these points, and thank you for your really fascinating introduction here

[arigalo 553]

6 hours ago, Kupar said:

Thanks for starting the thread @arigalo - it takes some courage to open yourself up like that! I'll ask a non-pee-related question if i may. If you could live anywhere in the world and do any job, where would you be and what would you being doing?

Oooh, this is a bit of a tough one. I’m currently a PhD student with the goal of getting a university faculty job, and the job market for my discipline is notoriously awful. So for the past eight years or so, I’ve sort of resigned myself to not even really thinking too much about it since I knew I couldn’t just move anywhere and apply for jobs. I will say that I’m very much a city girl—I grew up in a major US city and even though I’m a little over ten years out from living at home and have lived in mostly college towns/small cities since then, I’ve never really adjusted to not being in a city. I’ve also been trying to get dual citizenship in Italy. 

For a job, I’d probably still like to be a professor. There are quite a few jobs I could see myself being happy in, though. Really anything that centers on research and writing, even if it’s not in the traditional academic sense. I love the teaching part of my job, too, but I definitely couldn’t hack it as a K-12 teacher. Especially in the US. 😂

 

19 minutes ago, steamlover6 said:

I am so with you in loving this scenario.

Do you go drinking in pubs/clubs/restaurants and leave there needing to pee but purposely avoiding using the toilets on the way out?

Are you carefree about where you choose to pee outdoors when you are desperate? 

i would love to know your thoughts on these points, and thank you for your really fascinating introduction here

I will sometimes leave purposely without using the toilet! It depends on where I’m walking from, what I know is happening around my neighborhood, or my general mood. I love the idea of peeing outside, but I can get very shy about it if I am worried that there’s a possibility of getting caught. I’m also at a bit of a disadvantage because of the neighborhood I live in. It’s about a 20 minute walk from my university’s campus, and it’s basically right at the edge of where you start to get more into long-term residential housing rather than student housing. Because of that, a lot of homeowners have cameras around their houses—the students here can be absolute menaces when they’re out and about and drinking. I’ve successfully pulled it off a few times, but it’s a bit more of a challenge to find safe cover that isn’t being filmed. 

When I’m absolutely desperate, I can be a bit more carefree, but even then, I’m mostly cautious. I’ll go for safety and cover over convenience any day, even if it means a close call when I’m desperate. I’ve been trying to get more bold though! 

[oliver2 4,418]

Would you rather have a piss in a field with one horse-sized horse, or in a lake with ten duck-size ducks?

[Kupar 13,339]

18 minutes ago, arigalo said:

I’ve also been trying to get dual citizenship in Italy. 

Oooh! I know someone @Bacardi who would be very jealous if you succeeded! 

19 minutes ago, arigalo said:

For a job, I’d probably still like to be a professor.

That's great! I know many people (myself and my daughter among them) for whom the dream of academia died sometime around getting our bachelors / masters. I'm pleased for you that you have the determination to continue with your academic work xx

Thanks so much for answering my questions!

[arigalo 553]

13 minutes ago, oliver2 said:

Would you rather have a piss in a field with one horse-sized horse, or in a lake with ten duck-size ducks?

Hmmm. I’d probably go for the field, mostly because peeing in water doesn’t quite hit the same for me. When I’m in the water, it’s always a challenge to get started. And if I’m peeing into the water, it reminds me a bit too much of peeing into a toilet because of the noise. 

[glad1 2,832]

14 hours ago, arigalo said:

I think when it comes to peeing, I’m most drawn to peeing outdoors, especially out of desperation. I haven’t necessarily done a deep dive into any deeper psychoanalytic reasoning behind a fascination with desperation, but it just draws me in! 

Always good to meet a fellow lover of peeing outdoors, especially one who enjoys intellectual pursuits as well. I've gone on a lot of day hikes with trail partners where we've shared some deep and meaningful conversations, often not interrupted while we answered the call of nature.

If you're caught outside absolutely desperate, would prefer to be alone  or with the company of a friend (it doesn't have to be sexual) who could keep watch while you relieved yourself? And would you hope they had to pee at least as badly as you?

 

 

[arigalo 553]

17 minutes ago, glad1 said:

Always good to meet a fellow lover of peeing outdoors, especially one who enjoys intellectual pursuits as well. I've gone on a lot of day hikes with trail partners where we've shared some deep and meaningful conversations, often not interrupted while we answered the call of nature.

If you're caught outside absolutely desperate, would prefer to be alone  or with the company of a friend (it doesn't have to be sexual) who could keep watch while you relieved yourself? And would you hope they had to pee at least as badly as you?

 

 

That’s amazing! I’ve hiked before, but haven’t had the pleasure of peeing with someone else while hiking. Usually if I’m peeing outdoors, it’s alone. And I guess that folds into my next answer—I think I’d prefer to be alone, because most of the time I’m shy about being the person to suggest having a pee outdoors. If someone else suggests it, I don’t mind in the slightest, but for whatever reason I get skittish if I have to be the one to bring it up. 

That being said, if I was in a highly populated area and desperate, I’d prefer to be with a friend to keep watch and provide some cover. I basically draw the line at wetting myself, so if it got to that point, I’d find a way to work through the shyness about bringing it up. 

[glad1 2,832]

11 minutes ago, arigalo said:

That’s amazing! I’ve hiked before, but haven’t had the pleasure of peeing with someone else while hiking. Usually if I’m peeing outdoors, it’s alone. And I guess that folds into my next answer—I think I’d prefer to be alone, because most of the time I’m shy about being the person to suggest having a pee outdoors. If someone else suggests it, I don’t mind in the slightest, but for whatever reason I get skittish if I have to be the one to bring it up. 

Okay, when we go for a hike, I'll make a point of bringing it up first. 😄

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

When outdoors, would you rather pee smaller amounts more often or hold it until absolutely bursting and pee all at once?

[arigalo 553]

1 hour ago, DoctorDoctor said:

When outdoors, would you rather pee smaller amounts more often or hold it until absolutely bursting and pee all at once?

100% I’d rather hold until bursting! That’s always so exciting to me, and I love how nice it feels to have a really long pee. 

[Thiscouldbeanywhere 381]

I know you're more into girls then guys

Just wondering if you're into guys peeing at all, or just girls?

[arigalo 553]

58 minutes ago, Thiscouldbeanywhere said:

I know you're more into girls then guys

Just wondering if you're into guys peeing at all, or just girls?

I’m absolutely into guys peeing. In fact, I weirdly prefer seeing a guy pee to seeing a girl pee, even though that’s obviously a lot of fun for me too! 

[Thiscouldbeanywhere 381]

1 minute ago, arigalo said:

I’m absolutely into guys peeing. In fact, I weirdly prefer seeing a guy pee to seeing a girl pee, even though that’s obviously a lot of fun for me too! 

Do you get much chance to see guys peeing? Do you have a favorite place to watch a guy pull it out and release?

[arigalo 553]

3 minutes ago, Thiscouldbeanywhere said:

Do you get much chance to see guys peeing? Do you have a favorite place to watch a guy pull it out and release?

I live in a college town, so if I go out on a weekend night with the purpose of seeing guys peeing, it’ll for sure happen. As for a favorite place, anywhere outdoors! 

[Thiscouldbeanywhere 381]

Just now, arigalo said:

I live in a college town, so if I go out on a weekend night with the purpose of seeing guys peeing, it’ll for sure happen. As for a favorite place, anywhere outdoors! 

Lol do you ever join them?

Or too shy?

[arigalo 553]

11 hours ago, Thiscouldbeanywhere said:

Lol do you ever join them?

Or too shy?

I haven’t ever joined a stranger, but I’m not completely against it. I think it would depend on the context. I’d be a lot more inclined to join a stranger at a party or something where there’s really only one or two designated areas to pee so people are probably sharing space anyway. If I was walking and able to find a different space, I’d probably do so. But nothing is impossible, I guess! 

[Thiscouldbeanywhere 381]

Where's a place you've always wanted to piss but haven't?

[arigalo 553]

16 minutes ago, Thiscouldbeanywhere said:

Where's a place you've always wanted to piss but haven't?

That’s a good question! I have a few spots I’ve walked by and thought they might be a good spot to pee, but just haven’t had the chance yet. Here’s a few off the top of my head. I split my time between a few different places, so these are all over the place:

• There’s a tucked away area of the park by my house that’s actually pretty hard to find. It’s a “fairy garden” of sorts, and I know a few different people know about it/seek it out, but it’s really not a place that most people will accidentally stumble upon. (I know because even when I’m intentionally trying to find it, sometimes I can’t get there!). I’d love to pee there sometime. 
• There’s another park near my old apartment here that has a few spots I know would be fun to pee in. That park is notoriously less safe, though, so I haven’t really made it a point to wander around there alone.
• In the college town where I did my undergrad/master’s, there’s a few spots where you can get really close to a railroad that runs through town. I’d love to pee onto the railroad! 
• In the same town, there’s a bar that has two single-stall bathrooms—there’s technically one for each gender, but since they’re single-stall, no one bats an eye if you use the other gender’s bathroom while one is occupied. The men’s bathroom has a urinal in addition to the toilet. The next time I have to use the men’s room, I want to try peeing in the urinal! 

[Thiscouldbeanywhere 381]

3 minutes ago, arigalo said:

I want to try peeing in the urinal! 

That's hot!

I really love when girls pee in men's urinals

Is that something that interests you?

[arigalo 553]

2 minutes ago, Thiscouldbeanywhere said:

That's hot!

I really love when girls pee in men's urinals

Is that something that interests you?

Yes, although I’m not very skilled at peeing while standing. I definitely want to get more practice, though! I should probably work on my aim before I try a public urinal. 😂