Impromptu masturbation.

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1 hour ago, Kupar said:

It's interesting - people have different views on this, and of course we are all different. But I love it when I find out K has rubbed out an orgasm alone, and I love it even more if I get to be there when she does it (especially if I can see what she's doing_. And while it's not likely to happen, if she were to sneakily rub herself while we were both somewhere public it would be a *massive* turn-on. And she doesn't mind if I sort myself out, even if she's lying in bed next tom me. But as I say, we're all different, and you know your partner best!

Masturbation is perfectly normal and fine, I just feel differently about the "right next to me" part. If one would ask first and the other says "sorry, I don't want to do anything, but sort your self out if you want", then it's been approved and therefor is ok. Same if you've talked about it and know you have different needs or find it a turn on etc, then you've set up the premisses for it. Like. Bad example on this forum, but like in the beginning of a relationship in a one bathroom household and you are PANICED for a pee. You knock on the door when they are showering asking if they are done soon and explain your predicament. Only when the one in the shower says "oh, go ahead, I don't mind" is it ok to go in and do your business. Does that make any sense?

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4 hours ago, this is interesting said:

So if he did caught you masturbating the way you have been doing, it would be a really bad situation?

Masturbating no, but if he saw the porn I don't know what I'd do. So I hide it.

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44 minutes ago, swekiss said:

Masturbation is perfectly normal and fine, I just feel differently about the "right next to me" part. If one would ask first and the other says "sorry, I don't want to do anything, but sort your self out if you want", then it's been approved and therefor is ok. Same if you've talked about it and know you have different needs or find it a turn on etc, then you've set up the premisses for it. Like. Bad example on this forum, but like in the beginning of a relationship in a one bathroom household and you are PANICED for a pee. You knock on the door when they are showering asking if they are done soon and explain your predicament. Only when the one in the shower says "oh, go ahead, I don't mind" is it ok to go in and do your business. Does that make any sense?

Sure - that makes sense, and I understand now, thanks 🙂. The pee analogy is a good one.

K and I have gone through the discussion about masturbating together, on our own etc quite a while ago (we've been together a long time!) - I guess that gives me a somewhat different perspective.

Oh ... and this thread is fun if you haven't found it: 

 

Edited April 8 by Kupar

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5 hours ago, swekiss said:

Masturbating no, but if he saw the porn I don't know what I'd do. So I hide it.

See now this is getting me horny. LOL what was the porn you were watching?

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1 hour ago, this is interesting said:

See now this is getting me horny. LOL what was the porn you were watching?

Peeing in naughty places. Always.

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2 minutes ago, swekiss said:

Peeing in naughty places. Always.

What were the places where you watching them pee in

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4 minutes ago, this is interesting said:

What were the places where you watching them pee in

I Think train seat or cinema, possibly just messy pee in a train bathroom. Don't remember which it was when I came 😅

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I just sent you a message

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5 minutes ago, swekiss said:

I Think train seat or cinema, possibly just messy pee in a train bathroom. Don't remember which it was when I came 😅

See now I'm just curious. Did it remind you of something you have done or was it just a hot thing to look at?:-)

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Currently jerking off. Just edged, got really close and stopped. I might cum I might not. Trying to be quiet. Wife is sleeping in the other room.

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Playing again 

anyone want to join?

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