Some boys don't like it if a woman sees their penis at rest

[Rikki Bare 120]

Sorry I don't know what happened there it should be a quote as below. Rikki

As another nudist I can totally agree with you Wettingman. I have had many days at nude beaches without an arousal issue. And yes I am a grower not a shower.

I find it sad that boys get embarrassed because their penis looks small. Similarly girls of all forms are beautiful. Big breasts, small breasts all attractive. Buns and genitals too. Nudity is the right way to go, lets move arousal to behaviour instead of appearance.

[Kirby23 954]

Just to offer a slightly different perspective here - I don't mind at all, but my wife doesn't really like seeing my flaccid penis. I think she thinks it's "icky" or whatever. So of course I tease her with it. I'll touch her with it, flap it around, etc.

I know, very mature 😉

[Mary Moon 1,978]

On 10/13/2024 at 11:55 PM, Rikki Bare said:

Sorry I don't know what happened there it should be a quote as below. Rikki

As another nudist I can totally agree with you Wettingman. I have had many days at nude beaches without an arousal issue. And yes I am a grower not a shower.

I find it sad that boys get embarrassed because their penis looks small. Similarly girls of all forms are beautiful. Big breasts, small breasts all attractive. Buns and genitals too. Nudity is the right way to go, lets move arousal to behaviour instead of appearance.

they are social phobias, i too have always had the small breast complex, this summer on vacation i was almost always topless to exorcise it

[Rikki Bare 120]

Well done. We all have social phobias and we are lucky when we can exorcise them.

[Mary Moon 1,978]

1 hour ago, Rikki Bare said:

Well done. We all have social phobias and we are lucky when we can exorcise them.

I said to myself "fuck it I'll do it". Of course i asked my girlfriend's permission first in case it bothered her, but she did it too so ok. My sister was just a little annoyed by it, because she didn't like me having my breasts exposed, my sister is sometimes more jealous than my girlfriend, incredible ahah 😄 

Edited October 17 by Mary Moon

[wettingman 571]

3 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

I said to myself "fuck it I'll do it". Of course i asked my girlfriend's permission first in case it bothered her, but she did it too so ok. My sister was just a little annoyed by it, because she didn't like me having my breasts exposed, my sister is sometimes more jealous than my girlfriend, incredible ahah 😄 

I am a breast man, but they need not be super  big. I much prefer small and natural than big and perfectly shaped but fake . Anymore than a mouthful is a waste.

It's the same for a guy with a big long penis. It may look nice to a woman, but the vergina isn't long enough to make use of it.

 

[Alfresco 11,627]

I have never minded my wife seeing me flaccid.   To be honest, I really couldn’t be bothered with the faff that it would involve to avoid that situation and it would seem totally unnatural to try and hide it all the time.   We don’t sit around the house naked but we have never hidden ourselves either.  We don’t close the door when using the shower or toilet and if we often walk around naked when getting up in the morning or getting ready for bed.   We get changed in front of each other and of course we are naked in the lead up to sex.  I think we would both find it very difficult, unnatural and awkward to try and hide the flaccid penis.

As to exposure to other people, well it is not something I generally do anyway, but I don’t care if someone (male or female) spots me having a pee outside and I would be flaccid then.   I also used to be in a kayaking club and whilst people generally tried not to be exhibitionists, there were times when getting changed around other people that others (male and female) may well have caught sight of me.   I was general respectful and discrete but I didn’t make too much of an effort to keep everything fully covered at all times.  Again, I couldn’t see the point in trying to do the dance of holding towels tightly around me whilst peeling a wetsuit from underneath, so yes, things got visible sometimes and it never bothered me.  I am sure my cock was at its smallest when just out of freezing cold river water.   These days I have a changing robe which makes things more discrete, but I am sure I have still flashed people from time to time.

 

[Mary Moon 1,978]

5 hours ago, wettingman said:

I am a breast man, but they need not be super  big. I much prefer small and natural than big and perfectly shaped but fake . Anymore than a mouthful is a waste.

It's the same for a guy with a big long penis. It may look nice to a woman, but the vergina isn't long enough to make use of it.

 

I'll tell you a secret: 90% of women don't care about size, in fact they prefer average length, in the penis the width counts more, but even there there must be a limit, otherwise the relationship is unpleasant. I like to see very large penises in videos or photos, obviously, but I would never want a guy with a penis that is too big, maybe it can be fun for oral or to play with, but certainly not for intercourse. However, in my case, more than size, i like the shape, if a penis is even small but has a nice smooth shape, without veins, with uniform colors, for me it is much more attractive than one that is maybe bigger but curved and veiny.  Obviously i'm speaking theoretically, because I've never had sex with a boy, but only with my girlfriend, and probably if our story were to continue in the long term as, since we love each other very much, i might never have a relationship with a man. But as i said, it doesn't weigh on me at all, given how much I love my girlfriend

[Hamster245 590]

From my own point of view, I've never been that bothered if I'm seen flaccid or erect. 

I'm not particularly impressive when soft, but grow well in girth and length when hard. 

When I came to except I was bi-cur, I found I was more excited by limp penises in pictures, than hard. I mean hard and ready is good but on the few occasions I've played with a guy, taking his soft penis in my hands and begining by kissing it and sucking and teasing results in the reward of feeling it grow in excitement ready to go to work properly. 

I also find the period after hot, once he's cum and his penis is pulsing but the erection is fading away.

[Mary Moon 1,978]

1 minute ago, Hamster245 said:

From my own point of view, I've never been that bothered if I'm seen flaccid or erect. 

I'm not particularly impressive when soft, but grow well in girth and length when hard. 

When I came to except I was bi-cur, I found I was more excited by limp penises in pictures, than hard. I mean hard and ready is good but on the few occasions I've played with a guy, taking his soft penis in my hands and begining by kissing it and sucking and teasing results in the reward of feeling it grow in excitement ready to go to work properly. 

I also find the period after hot, once he's cum and his penis is pulsing but the erection is fading away.

you're right the penis that just came that pulsates and slowly goes limp is damn sexy. I once saw a video where there was a girl who was masturbating a boy, who after he came continued to masturbate him sadistically and he whimpered and twitched begging her to stop, that video turned me on to no end ahah

[Hamster245 590]

4 minutes ago, Mary Moon said:

you're right the penis that just came that pulsates and slowly goes limp is damn sexy. I once saw a video where there was a girl who was masturbating a boy, who after he came continued to masturbate him sadistically and he whimpered and twitched begging her to stop, that video turned me on to no end ahah

Yeah, the nerves in the glans go very very sensitive after ejaculation, much like some girls can't take pressure on the clitoris after orgasm. 

But yes, the fact it's still pulsing and ejaculating as it begins to go soft really does it for me. It's one of the things porn doesn't quite right, because the shots always show the guy with a hard on after. Amature stuff definitely reflects this better.

[Mary Moon 1,978]

2 minutes ago, Hamster245 said:

Yeah, the nerves in the glans go very very sensitive after ejaculation, much like some girls can't take pressure on the clitoris after orgasm. 

But yes, the fact it's still pulsing and ejaculating as it begins to go soft really does it for me. It's one of the things porn doesn't quite right, because the shots always show the guy with a hard on after. Amature stuff definitely reflects this better.

It depends for example, if i apply a certain amount of pressure to the upper internal wall of the vagina, immediately after an orgasm there is a serious possibility that i could squirt, but i never do it, because it is too intense a sensation and makes me dizzy

[wettingman 571]

Here is another fun fact about an overly long flacid  penis that some  women my find arousing to look at. If a penis is really long like 10- 12 inches flacid it does not recieve adequate blood flow to achieve and maintain a full erection . They also tend to shrink with age.

 

[awkwood 41]

I have a smaller than average penis and my balls are small too.  My last girlfriend said I had "tight balls".  Only occasionally when I'm warm and totally relaxed can my balls even be defined separately in my scrotum.   My penis is 5.5" erect and under the most flaccid conditions (cold and nervous) it retracts like a frightened turtle and is barely visible.  So, yes, I used to be very self-conscious about being seen by anyone naked, male or female.

 

I've gotten over the embarrassment of girls seeing my genitalia because they've never been judgemental about my size.  However, I know how guys can be judgemental and consider an under endowed man to be less of a man. basically undermining my own sense of masculinity.  For that reason, I'm not comfortable being nude in front of other men, and avoid situations at all costs where that can happen. 

 

I'm also uncircumcised.  As a young boy in school gym class I was very self-conscious about not looking like the overwhelming majority of others.  However, now I consider myself the lucky one being intact with a foreskin and all of the original nerve endings I was born with.  I'm now proudly uncut.  The embarrassment I went through then seems trivial now.  I'm glad my parents didn't subject me to genital mutilation just for the benefit of visual conformity.   Besides, to look like "the others", all I have to do now is fully retract my foreskin and my glans is fully exposed, and it will stay like that until I go flaccid or I manually return it forward.  It's like having a 'convertible'.

 

 

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[LovesToWet 3,800]

Only because you would need a magnifying glass which is rather embarrassing lol

[Kupar 13,335]

17 minutes ago, LovesToWet said:

Only because you would need a magnifying glass which is rather embarrassing lol

You are doing yourself down!

[Carb0nBased 647]

With someone I'm in a relationship with I'd feel comfortable with her seeing my penis in whatever state she wants to see.

[Loller 399]

1 hour ago, Carb0nBased said:

With someone I'm in a relationship with I'd feel comfortable with her seeing my penis in whatever state she wants to see.

Yeah. My GF has seen it countless times flaccid. But then again, I'm probably more of a shower than a grower (usually).