Sex without pee

[Moore007 443]

Hi

Do you climax easy without involving - or thinking about pee when you have sex or satisfy yourself? I had sex with my partner and made her climax. I dint climax myself because there was no pee involved. I dint ask about pee because she wasn’t up for it in the middle of it. As a result I couldn’t stay hard and she became disappointed since she couldn’t make me climax. So she asked me if I wanted her to pee on me. So she peed on me and I climaxed immediately. What’s your experience of getting off from Sex without pee? 

[randomiser 143]

For me, sex and pee are two separate things ... my piss kink is mostly in the realm of naughty/public peeing, not pee sex.  That's probably because I've never been lucky enough to find a partner who was into it.

I'm sure adding pee play would enhance the sexual experience, but I've been getting off from sex without pee since my teens and it's never been an issue.

[JDG 866]

I agree with @randomiser, sex and pee are seperate things for me as well. I just like watching girls pee and that's it. Pee is more or less only involved in my "masturbation life" as I love to watch stuff like Galician. Also my gf did jerk me off/blow me a couple of times whilst sitting on the toilet having a pee and that was awesome, but that's really the limit for me when it comes to involving pee in my sexlife. The thought of more extreme stuff like drinking pee or getting peed on is more of a turn-off than a turn-on if I am being completely honest.

[Library_Lady 77]

10 hours ago, Moore007 said:

What’s your experience of getting off from Sex without pee? 

half of my sex doesn't include pee at the beginning but at the end and i always invite my partner to come and watch me expel pee and ejaculate.

[InOddPlaces 303]

Separate things for me. I can happily climax and have an enjoyable time without any pee being involved, it's just one of my kinks that I sometimes play with.

[Pooler 160]

While pee games (as I call them) can enhance the sexual experience, I don't need it in order to have sex and climax. I enjoy the feeling of touching each other, using hands , skin to skin, tongues and mouths all over each other, going inside each other. Using toys on each other. Teasing each other. Genital to genital contact, Helping each other cum in various ways. I find all this to be exciting.  

While pee games are fun, I find they have to be planned in order to contain the mess. I am not one to pee on my carpet, furniture, or bed (without protection), and neither is my wife.  So pee play takes away the spontaneity of sex. Also, it seems to me if one can only come in one manner, sex becomes one dimensional.  For me that is boring,

[on the porch 639]

For us the sex is over the top, drop dead fantastic . She is a sexual T-Rex.  Our pee play always end up with us screwing our brains out. Ruth  is my drug of choice ,I can't get enough of her 

[Kirby23 942]

Great question. I used to be in the "Sex and pee are two separate activities" camp, but recently I'm starting to want to combine them more.

Over the last two-ish years I've gone from including pee in my sexual activities maybe 1 out of every 4 or 5 times, to now it's almost every time.

I'm not at the point yet where I can't climax without it, but I definitely enjoy "wet" sex more than "dry."

Enabling it is the fact that my wife has become more-or-less apathetic about the activity (she doesn't seem to care either way). So I've essentially been given more and more freedom over that two-or-so year period.

Still, I don't want to be crazy about it, and sometimes we still have sex with no pee involved in any way. I don't think she really cares much either way, but I like to convince myself every now and then that it's not something I absolutely NEED.

 

[Library_Lady 77]

2 hours ago, Kirby23 said:

Great question. I used to be in the "Sex and pee are two separate activities" camp, but recently I'm starting to want to combine them more.

Over the last two-ish years I've gone from including pee in my sexual activities maybe 1 out of every 4 or 5 times, to now it's almost every time.

I'm not at the point yet where I can't climax without it, but I definitely enjoy "wet" sex more than "dry."

Enabling it is the fact that my wife has become more-or-less apathetic about the activity (she doesn't seem to care either way). So I've essentially been given more and more freedom over that two-or-so year period.

Still, I don't want to be crazy about it, and sometimes we still have sex with no pee involved in any way. I don't think she really cares much either way, but I like to convince myself every now and then that it's not something I absolutely NEED.

 

Sometimes we indulge in the shower prior to getting down on the bed, other times I'll lose my pee when I orgasm and other times the sex just happens spontaneously without any urine at all.  It's all good but the pee adds a special touch of naughty to the thrill.

[swekiss 1,018]

For me it's a 100% must. Not physically, but mentally. I don't think I've orgasmed without thinking about something pee-related.. Like.. Hmmm.. Maybe never actually.

[Pisfetish 53]

I second that, @swekiss 💦

[nutinfancy 516]

For Me and my wife it seems like we have added more and more pee play during sex.

If I eat her pussy and she orgasams she squirts sometimes more than others. And if we're having intercource if things get a little dry one of us pees to get things slippery!! Lot easier than stopping and getting lube!

Though I will say I think her piss is more slippery than mine!! But I do like being able to piss inside her pussy. Not only does it lubricate but when it leaks out it feels good too. And we've quit working about the mess so much.

[Hightower 605]

19 hours ago, swekiss said:

For me it's a 100% must. Not physically, but mentally. I don't think I've orgasmed without thinking about something pee-related.. Like.. Hmmm.. Maybe never actually.

It's not a must for me, but if I'm eating a girl out I can maintain a rock solid boner the whole time if I imagine she's pissing

[wettingman 566]

For years after my divorce I was alone for years, and I satisfied my sexual needs by masterbating to pee stories. In fact for about 8 years there was no internet to find pee material on so I reverted back to my ex-wife's many pee stories. Once I discovered pee sites online I had plenty of scenarios to pleasure myself to..

Then I met another woman . She was sweet but not that good in bed. Also my body was used to the sensation of using my hand. We both got frustrated at my inability to cum. Then I tried something that worked. While we screwed my mind went elsewhere into the world of pee holding, desperation and wetting. Although she wondered why I got so quiet she was pleased she made me ejaculate. She never knew how, but she likely suspected something . She did know about my pee fetish. 

Now, alone again any sex and orgasim is 100% pee related. 

[Moore007 443]

22 hours ago, swekiss said:

For me it's a 100% must. Not physically, but mentally. I don't think I've orgasmed without thinking about something pee-related.. Like.. Hmmm.. Maybe never actually.

So is your partner into pee? How do you manage your thought and what makes you climax? Do you ever ask about pee?

For me I really have to focus on the physical feeling if I’m going to climax without pee. With pee it’s all different. I can climax just from being peed on, feeling the smell of a sex-partners pee, seeing a partner peeing and so on. It’s all in the head 😂

[jocake 308]

Pee without sex sounds better than sex without pee ☺️

[swekiss 1,018]

4 hours ago, Moore007 said:

So is your partner into pee? How do you manage your thought and what makes you climax? Do you ever ask about pee?

For me I really have to focus on the physical feeling if I’m going to climax without pee. With pee it’s all different. I can climax just from being peed on, feeling the smell of a sex-partners pee, seeing a partner peeing and so on. It’s all in the head 😂

He is not. He doesn't know I am either. I just think about something that makes me turned on while he uses his fingers or tongue. It can be a random fantasy that pops up, something I watched earlier as porn or even something I read on here that stuck in my mind. But if I don't think about some kind of pee-related scenario he can basically be the best he's ever been and I won't go over the edge. 

[Kiwi Watcher 15]

I don't need to be pissed on or anything like that to cum but I'm usually thinking about a girl pissing in some kind of naughty place when I do cum 

[Moore007 443]

On 9/26/2024 at 11:37 PM, swekiss said:

He is not. He doesn't know I am either. I just think about something that makes me turned on while he uses his fingers or tongue. It can be a random fantasy that pops up, something I watched earlier as porn or even something I read on here that stuck in my mind. But if I don't think about some kind of pee-related scenario he can basically be the best he's ever been and I won't go over the edge. 

I know exactly what you’re saying. My partner knows and she usually pees on me if I ask her. I however can’t share all my thoughts and desires about pee with her simply because she’s not curious enough to learn more about it. She can sometimes get very frustrated if I don’t get off just from sex. I get turned on by “normal” sex as well but if pee is involved it’s a different story,  I can climax just from being peed on or feeling the smell of pee. So have you ever secretly involved pee with Sex? Have you ever brought up pee for general discussion with your partner? 

 

[swekiss 1,018]

10 hours ago, Moore007 said:

So have you ever secretly involved pee with Sex? Have you ever brought up pee for general discussion with your partner? 

 

I'm not even sure how one could secretly involve pee in sex, but no. The closest is peeing in the hot tub with him in it. He is none the wiser and I would with anyone, so it's not even sexual to me.

I know we discussed something of the sorts like the second or third time we met, but from what he said I chose not to tell him that it's my fetish. So for me it's 100% percent secret and only in my mind.

[Moore007 443]

1 hour ago, swekiss said:

I'm not even sure how one could secretly involve pee in sex, but no. The closest is peeing in the hot tub with him in it. He is none the wiser and I would with anyone, so it's not even sexual to me.

I know we discussed something of the sorts like the second or third time we met, but from what he said I chose not to tell him that it's my fetish. So for me it's 100% percent secret and only in my mind.

I mean secretly involving pee like peeing a small amount during sex, not wiping after peeing and then having sex and so on. My partner has shamed me a few times for being into pee so I totally understand your silence. Some times I question my relationship because the lack of sexual  compatibility. I mean the pee-fetish is a big part of my sexuality and it doesn’t get as much space as I would like it to and it definitely won’t go away. I’m into receiving  more than giving unless I’m with some really into receiving. My partner won’t let me pee on her but she’ll pee on me. I don’t know if pee-play is considered sex since it possible to engage in it without touching each other so maybe it’s not cheating to pee on someone or being peed on by someone? 

[Alpian 684]

I totally relate with @SwePee's experience. I don't need wet sex or pee anywhere when being with my partner, but I've learned to mentally manage my orgasm and my mind will invariably fixate on a woman's naughty peeing when I'm ready to cum to bring me over the edge. I might be able to cum from the stimulation alone, but it would mean really letting myself float in the moment and my orgasm would likely precede that of my partner, so I've never tried.

[swekiss 1,018]

@Moore007 I wouldn't dream of doing that to someone who hasn't requested it specifically. No way. I prefer/expect my man to be clean and not smell, so it's only respectful to be for him too. 

I'm purely a giver and wouldn't mind being able to, but it's not a very big deal. My main thing is naughty peeing, so I can indulge in pee play alone and save the memory for later. Would it be exciting if he was in to me peeing in naughty places too? Of course. But I'm happy with what I got.

[Bacardi 10,086]

I absolutely cannot cum without at the least thinking about pee lol. 

Back in the day when I was younger and was oppressing my fetish I could maaaybee get by with a blow job video but once I fully embraced and accepted my fetish it became the only thing I could get off to. I don't think it's a problem as I know I have a healthy relationship with porn and sex (I'm asexual). I've come on the forum and watched porn while my husband went down on me before and when we have sex it's more for his pleasure so thinking about piss works for me too.

Masturbating is still my preferred way to orgasm and I'm always reading piss stories or watching piss porn lol. Wouldn't have it any other way!

[Moore007 443]

2 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I absolutely cannot cum without at the least thinking about pee lol. 

Back in the day when I was younger and was oppressing my fetish I could maaaybee get by with a blow job video but once I fully embraced and accepted my fetish it became the only thing I could get off to. I don't think it's a problem as I know I have a healthy relationship with porn and sex (I'm asexual). I've come on the forum and watched porn while my husband went down on me before and when we have sex it's more for his pleasure so thinking about piss works for me too.

Masturbating is still my preferred way to orgasm and I'm always reading piss stories or watching piss porn lol. Wouldn't have it any other way!

Did you ever discuss pee with your partner? Do you prefer to give or receive?