What embarrasses you the most?

[Mary Moon 1,980]

For example, i don't particularly embarrassed by nudity, unlike when i was a teenager when i was super modest. For example, my friends in the group have practically all seen my tits. However, it embarrasses me if someone sees my pussy. It happened when we went swimming naked at the spa at night once, and even though I was drunk, i was quite embarrassed, but it was also an exciting experience. One thing that really embarrasses me and mortifies me is if someone outside of my close acquaintances sees me with a pullup. I'm very embarrassed to pee myself in public, even if less than years ago, because i can't do much about it, as a teenager i burst into tears like a little girl, now i try to maintain a certain amount of dignity when it happens, luckily it hasn't happened for a while. The moment i was most embarrassed in my life was without a doubt when i peed myself in the gym in front of all my classmates and the teacher in middle school. When i think about it it still traumatizes me. The sense of shame and humiliation that of was so great that my brain almost shut down in self-defense, i barely remember the following moments.

[oliver2 4,418]

Swimming naked is wonderful. I wish I could do it more often (and also swimming naked is one thing, posing with your legs open and your usually-private parts on display is another)

I’m not very embarrassed by nudity but I can be embarrassed by embarrassing other people or underestimating how embarrassed they are/will be compared with me ngaf 😊

(Some aspects of talking about sex can also be ridiculously embarrassing depending on the situation - about ejaculation or failure to get/keep an erection when I want one… and now I say that it seems like sometimes the embarrassing things are also the hot things 😓)

Edited September 17 by oliver2

[Mary Moon 1,980]

3 hours ago, oliver2 said:

Swimming naked is wonderful. I wish I could do it more often (and also swimming naked is one thing, posing with your legs open and your usually-private parts on display is another)

I’m not very embarrassed by nudity but I can be embarrassed by embarrassing other people or underestimating how embarrassed they are/will be compared with me ngaf 😊

(Some aspects of talking about sex can also be ridiculously embarrassing depending on the situation - about ejaculation or failure to get/keep an erection when I want one… and now I say that it seems like sometimes the embarrassing things are also the hot things 😓)

Let's say that a man probably feels less embarrassed naked than a girl, especially if she is over 20 and good looking. For example, as a teenager I had a lot of complexes with my body because i always looked smaller than my age (even now i look a few years younger, having little curves and being petite). However, as i grew up started to be less modest and maybe even a little exhibitionist. For example, on vacation at the beach i was practically always topless, and i attracted some glances from boys even though i have very small breasts, and i didn't mind. Obviously i would be ashamed to show myself without the bottom of my swimsuit and expose my pussy. Let's say that breasts or even butt are one thing, while pussy is a completely different thing. Even if in the future i would like to have a nudist experience, i think it would be very exciting. Instead, the idea of being exposed with my pull-up or night diaper on makes me really ashamed, as I said. Years ago i woke up one Sunday morning with a wet diaper hanging down and i was walking out to go to the bathroom wearing just that and a t-shirt and I didn't realize my cousin was home and he had brought some of my aunt's stuff to give to mom. And if it hadn't been for my sister practically throwing me back into the room when she saw me walking out, i would have been completely exposed to him with my wet diaper. My sister basically made me dodge a bullet. I would have been completely exposed and humiliated in front of a teenage boy

[thanks1972 414]

4 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

Let's say that a man probably feels less embarrassed naked than a girl, especially if she is over 20 and good looking. For example, as a teenager I had a lot of complexes with my body because i always looked smaller than my age (even now i look a few years younger, having little curves and being petite). However, as i grew up started to be less modest and maybe even a little exhibitionist. For example, on vacation at the beach i was practically always topless, and i attracted some glances from boys even though i have very small breasts, and i didn't mind. Obviously i would be ashamed to show myself without the bottom of my swimsuit and expose my pussy. Let's say that breasts or even butt are one thing, while pussy is a completely different thing. Even if in the future i would like to have a nudist experience, i think it would be very exciting. Instead, the idea of being exposed with my pull-up or night diaper on makes me really ashamed, as I said. Years ago i woke up one Sunday morning with a wet diaper hanging down and i was walking out to go to the bathroom wearing just that and a t-shirt and I didn't realize my cousin was home and he had brought some of my aunt's stuff to give to mom. And if it hadn't been for my sister practically throwing me back into the room when she saw me walking out, i would have been completely exposed to him with my wet diaper. My sister basically made me dodge a bullet. I would have been completely exposed and humiliated in front of a teenage boy

It sounds like you have overcome a lot to be where you are now. If you don't mind my asking why are you so shy about your pussy?

[Mary Moon 1,980]

9 minutes ago, thanks1972 said:

It sounds like you have overcome a lot to be where you are now. If you don't mind my asking why are you so shy about your pussy?

it's not an aesthetic thing, I think my pussy is nice, i think it's normal to feel embarrassed to show her your private area. However sometimes it happened, some of my friends saw it when i bathed naked at the spa at night.

[thanks1972 414]

Just now, Mary Moon said:

it's not an aesthetic thing, I think my pussy is nice, i think it's normal to feel embarrassed to show her your private area. However sometimes it happened, some of my friends saw it when i bathed naked at the spa at night.

That's fair. I am not comfortable showing off my junk unless I am hard. To say that I am a grower not a shower is an understatement. 

[oliver2 4,418]

20 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

Let's say that a man probably feels less embarrassed naked than a girl, especially if she is over 20 and good looking. For example, as a teenager I had a lot of complexes with my body because i always looked smaller than my age (even now i look a few years younger, having little curves and being petite)

It’s different, imo, there is the whole thing with guys and flashers & unsolicited dick pics. I had a few years of being very self conscious as a teenager, then went back to ngaf again.

(I think you had a story on live chat about catching a male cousin (by marriage, no blood relation) peeking at you when you changed clothes…?)

[Moore007 454]

I’m get really embarrassed when people judge me. All my years in school I was judged by my teachers (Short haired ladies with big glasses) What effort I ever put into doing something good or being a good student it was never enough. I was very embarrassed of being turned on by piss during many years. I’ve been judged and shamed by some dates and girlfriends and was very embarrassed and felt ashamed. As I got more experienced if someone shame or judge me I just don’t care. 

 

[Kiwi Watcher 16]

The only thing that embarrasses me is that I have swelling in my right leg. Getting treated for it in NZ... Well you either go private and pay a fortune or sit on a public waiting list for years unless it becomes life threatening. I'm doing the second one because I don't have the money to go private. As a result I have no interest in finding a partner coz I don't want her seeing me naked

[chubbyjack 276]

20 minutes ago, Kiwi Watcher said:

The only thing that embarrasses me is that I have swelling in my right leg. Getting treated for it in NZ... Well you either go private and pay a fortune or sit on a public waiting list for years unless it becomes life threatening. I'm doing the second one because I don't have the money to go private. As a result I have no interest in finding a partner coz I don't want her seeing me naked

 

[chubbyjack 276]

Just now, chubbyjack said:

 

I sympathize.   I had swollen legs for many years.  I then got ulcers on the leg but I've been going to wound care for 2 years.  I also have a circaid for circulation and the swelling is gone.

    I am obese but don't mind being seen naked. If I saw someone with a swollen leg I would not be shocked or laugh 

[Kiwi Watcher 16]

On 9/28/2024 at 5:46 AM, chubbyjack said:

I sympathize.   I had swollen legs for many years.  I then got ulcers on the leg but I've been going to wound care for 2 years.  I also have a circaid for circulation and the swelling is gone.

    I am obese but don't mind being seen naked. If I saw someone with a swollen leg I would not be shocked or laugh 

What's a circaid?

[Kathleen 171]

My most memorable embarrassing experience would be when hubby and I just got married, a few weeks after anyway, I decided to just wear an apron, nothing else underneath and I totally forgot his brother flew in from Germany, (brain fart lol) and guess who walks in first? Wasn't my hubby 🫣

[Mary Moon 1,980]

6 minutes ago, Kathleen said:

My most memorable embarrassing experience would be when hubby and I just got married, a few weeks after anyway, I decided to just wear an apron, nothing else underneath and I totally forgot his brother flew in from Germany, (brain fart lol) and guess who walks in first? Wasn't my hubby 🫣

What did you do and what did he say?

[Kathleen 171]

I backed up slowly until I made it around the corner, I was utterly shocked lol, hubbys bro was a bit shocked but not as much as I was! Hubby tried to make things less awkward by making things awkward. The first 2 days was weird! Very weird....funny now but not at that point in time!

[Kirby23 954]

There's very little that embarrasses me personally. I'm a pretty secure person, generally always have been. I don't really experience body shame, I generally take an approach similar to "This is me, this is the way God made me," so with a lot of things (swimming, peeing in front of people, etc.) I don't really give a F.

That said, I do experience embarrassment vicariously, especially with regard to my loved ones. If my wife or one of my kids gets embarrassed, for example, I definitely experience feelings of embarrassment on their behalf.

Interestingly though, they generally have a pretty similar mindset as me - not too many Fs given. 

 

[on the porch 709]

Ruth ,

Putting up a photo of me here . I was scared to death and so embarrassed  I hid in the bedroom all day. Then stupid me  I was as hoping no one saw it .  

[randomiser 152]

I don't have many hang-ups with nudity, etc.  Weirdly, I get really embarrassed when someone compliments me.  This is especially true at work.  I hate getting that kind of attention.  As I see it, I'm just doing my job ... if I do it well, give me a raise, don't make a big song-and-dance about it.

I remember one time during a group meeting (about 10 people) when my boss picked that moment to tell everyone that a customer had specifically called to say thank you for some work I'd done.  He hadn't told me ahead of time and I couldn't think of another time when he said anything like it.  I think my genius response was "Oh, um, great" or something similar.  I felt like he was telling everyone that I was better than them, which was incredibly awkward.  I should have felt honoured and appreciated but I just wanted to hide. 

[awkwood 41]

Well, I just finished confessing about embarrassment about genital size in another thread so I'm, not going to repeat it here.

 

Since I'm not female I cannot relate to a girl being embarrassed about showing her pussy.  There's no judgement of size involved, nor does anything about her pussy undermine her femininity like genital size does with males.  It must come from conditioning as a child by society (and parents) to always hide your genitalia.  The pussy is such a lovely, beautiful part of a woman.  If I were female, I would be opening up my legs proudly displaying all the time (obviously within societal and legal constraints).  <--- (note that this opinion comes from a dumb ass man (me) who can't relate to it as a woman might)

 

I am wondering why a woman might feel embarrassed about her pussy being seen, more so than her tits?  What's the underlying reason for this?  I need a woman's point of view of this, not conjecture from a man. 

[Kathleen 171]

When hubby wants to go on group dates with his friends. Everyone is around his age which is 37 and I'm 22. What a cradle robber 😕

[on the porch 709]

On 10/24/2024 at 10:41 PM, awkwood said:

Well, I just finished confessing about embarrassment about genital size in another thread so I'm, not going to repeat it here.

 

Since I'm not female I cannot relate to a girl being embarrassed about showing her pussy.  There's no judgement of size involved, nor does anything about her pussy undermine her femininity like genital size does with males.  It must come from conditioning as a child by society (and parents) to always hide your genitalia.  The pussy is such a lovely, beautiful part of a woman.  If I were female, I would be opening up my legs proudly displaying all the time (obviously within societal and legal constraints).  <--- (note that this opinion comes from a dumb ass man (me) who can't relate to it as a woman might)

 

I am wondering why a woman might feel embarrassed about her pussy being seen, more so than her tits?  What's the underlying reason for this?  I need a woman's point of view of this, not conjecture from a man. 

Ruth here .

For me it was upbringing , anything connected with sex was forbidden , sex was for reproduction only , body functions were done behind closed doors .  It was never talked about or discussed.  It wasn't until I met Wayne that I could remove all them chains or repression .  With him I can give my self freely , any way he wants me is my pleasure . I showed one photo and it was so embarrassing I hid in the bed room all day .He was laughing so hard for that . here ? I try ,I really want to show my body to people here .If it has to show ,down there .OK ,I want to .I just can't bring my self to . Wayne understands my situation and stands behind me 100%