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Question: Partners / SOs Peeing Together in Non-Sexual Situations


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We often talk about peeing as part of sexual acts. But I am curious what others' experiences have been with regard to peeing together with your partner or significant other in a non-sexual situation. 

For example, my wife and I pee in front of each other at home with no second thoughts. We've peed together outdoors when camping, hiking, and similar.

She pees regularly in the shower, and back when we used to shower together, she would still pee in the shower, even if I was in there with her.

My ex was similar, we would pee together anytime the need arose. 

So for those of you with any relationship experience, past or present - have you peed / do you pee together with your partner?

What are common situations where it occurs?

Was it casual / nonchalant?

Was it still arousing, even thought the peeing itself was non-sexual in nature?

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I don't have relationship experience, well not more than a month and a half or so. I do also have just a few experiences with friends I was close enough to to get naked and even pee together. So people with more experience can surely provide better answers.

However, it's likely that the answer depends on whether the fetish is specifically for naughty peeing or pee sex, or for peeing in general (watching, being watched, etc.). In the former case, just peeing together in the bathroom is unlikely to be particularly sexy in any case. For people who like peeing in general, peeing itself is inherently "sexual in nature" when done by a person of the sex they are attracted to. It's almost like seeing someone naked.

And just LIKE seeing someone naked, I imagine the main factor is how familiar and desensitized two people have become to each other. When dating or fresh in the relationship, every pee together is likely to be exciting. But if you're together for years, after a while you're likely so used to the other person's nudity--and similarly how he or she pees, that some pees are likely to just feel "normal". There will always be SOME sexiness but not the way it was earlier in the relationship. And there are some situations where nudity would hardly be sexy at all, like if one person is going into or has just come out of surgery, or if someone is injured and bleeding, and likewise for peeing.

 

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When my wife and I are away in the caravan, she will pee in a bucket at night as we don’t have an ensuite in the van. Obviously I’m always quick to volunteer to empty it in the morning 😜

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21 hours ago, Carb0nBased said:

...In the former case, just peeing together in the bathroom is unlikely to be particularly sexy in any case.

...And just LIKE seeing someone naked, I imagine the main factor is how familiar and desensitized two people have become to each other.... if you're together for years, after a while you're likely so used to the other person's nudity--and similarly how he or she pees, that some pees are likely to just feel "normal". There will always be SOME sexiness but not the way it was earlier in the relationship...

Great points. Speaking only from my own experpences, even after being married for a long time, seeing my wife naked is still sexy to me. 

When she pees in the toilet in front of me, it does pretty much nothing for me. Probably because it's essentially a daily occurrence. But on the rare occasions when she pees somewhere other than the toilet (e.g. outside), it's still sexy AF for me. Probably because it doesn't occur much. But if it was an everyday thing, yes, the novelty would probably wear off before long.

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My other half and I pee in front of each other regularly. It’s always a bit exciting for me and I will stop to listen when she pees with the door open.An ex and me once peed in the toilet at the same time. This was very exciting for me but just a need to go for my ex.

I have also had female friends openly pee in front of me on a few occasions. Again, this was not exciting for them I am guessing but I enjoyed the experiences.

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K and I wee in front of each other in the bathroom all the time. Open door bathroom policy at home, unless we have visitors 🙂 It's only very rarely sexy. Anywhere other than the bathroom though is a different matter, because it's so rare. I think there is something in the 'desensitizing' argument.

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You may have played down the sexual nature of your wee there @Sophie with all that subterfuge about paint...

But the thought of either of you releasing the wet stuff is - in a number of our opinions - infinitely more exciting than any amount of paint drying.

Thanks for sharing a lovely moment.

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31 minutes ago, Sophie said:

lowered the seat for me (❤️)

Truly a gentleman of the highest quality. (But I think you knew that!)

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We often pee in the toilet with the door open or with the other person in the bathroom. Completely normal for us. Sometimes my girlfriend comments on how loud or long I pee, lol.

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On 7/4/2024 at 3:57 PM, hornygoat24 said:

My husband and I will pee while facing each other so we can talk. He sits on the toilet and I sit on the edge of the tub. It's very nonchalant.

This is hot! Thanks for sharing!

I'm finding, through sites like Reddit and similar, that women peeing over the edge of the tub is actually pretty common? I find it hot... maybe because it's slightly "naughty"?

After you're done peeing in the tub, I assume you wipe? Where do you put the paper? Do you rinse the pee away when you're done?

One time, in college my roommates and I hosted a house party. Toward the end of the night the girls were going in the bathroom to pee in groups of 3-4. One would pee in the toilet, and the other 2-3 would pee in the tub. Hot.

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35 years of marriage and not once have either one of us seen the other pee.  

   That was my request when we first moved in together.   I believe somethings should be private.

   Peeing as a function turns me off but peeing in sexual situations I find hot.

 

 

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