Question: Partners / SOs Peeing Together in Non-Sexual Situations

[Kirby23 954]

We often talk about peeing as part of sexual acts. But I am curious what others' experiences have been with regard to peeing together with your partner or significant other in a non-sexual situation. 

For example, my wife and I pee in front of each other at home with no second thoughts. We've peed together outdoors when camping, hiking, and similar.

She pees regularly in the shower, and back when we used to shower together, she would still pee in the shower, even if I was in there with her.

My ex was similar, we would pee together anytime the need arose. 

So for those of you with any relationship experience, past or present - have you peed / do you pee together with your partner?

What are common situations where it occurs?

Was it casual / nonchalant?

Was it still arousing, even thought the peeing itself was non-sexual in nature?

[Carb0nBased 647]

I don't have relationship experience, well not more than a month and a half or so. I do also have just a few experiences with friends I was close enough to to get naked and even pee together. So people with more experience can surely provide better answers.

However, it's likely that the answer depends on whether the fetish is specifically for naughty peeing or pee sex, or for peeing in general (watching, being watched, etc.). In the former case, just peeing together in the bathroom is unlikely to be particularly sexy in any case. For people who like peeing in general, peeing itself is inherently "sexual in nature" when done by a person of the sex they are attracted to. It's almost like seeing someone naked.

And just LIKE seeing someone naked, I imagine the main factor is how familiar and desensitized two people have become to each other. When dating or fresh in the relationship, every pee together is likely to be exciting. But if you're together for years, after a while you're likely so used to the other person's nudity--and similarly how he or she pees, that some pees are likely to just feel "normal". There will always be SOME sexiness but not the way it was earlier in the relationship. And there are some situations where nudity would hardly be sexy at all, like if one person is going into or has just come out of surgery, or if someone is injured and bleeding, and likewise for peeing.

 

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

My GF only pees in front of me when absolutely necessary. She just isn't into pee play and only does pees openly when no private what is availble.

[Stephen94 221]

When my wife and I are away in the caravan, she will pee in a bucket at night as we don’t have an ensuite in the van. Obviously I’m always quick to volunteer to empty it in the morning 😜

[Kirby23 954]

21 hours ago, Carb0nBased said:

...In the former case, just peeing together in the bathroom is unlikely to be particularly sexy in any case.

...And just LIKE seeing someone naked, I imagine the main factor is how familiar and desensitized two people have become to each other.... if you're together for years, after a while you're likely so used to the other person's nudity--and similarly how he or she pees, that some pees are likely to just feel "normal". There will always be SOME sexiness but not the way it was earlier in the relationship...

Great points. Speaking only from my own experpences, even after being married for a long time, seeing my wife naked is still sexy to me. 

When she pees in the toilet in front of me, it does pretty much nothing for me. Probably because it's essentially a daily occurrence. But on the rare occasions when she pees somewhere other than the toilet (e.g. outside), it's still sexy AF for me. Probably because it doesn't occur much. But if it was an everyday thing, yes, the novelty would probably wear off before long.

[MRJH22 220]

My other half and I pee in front of each other regularly. It’s always a bit exciting for me and I will stop to listen when she pees with the door open.An ex and me once peed in the toilet at the same time. This was very exciting for me but just a need to go for my ex.

I have also had female friends openly pee in front of me on a few occasions. Again, this was not exciting for them I am guessing but I enjoyed the experiences.

[Sophie 24,410]

I often have non-sexual wees with my husband! I’d say more often than not actually. I mean sure there are times where I will be really sexy and show off for him but a lot of the time it’s just spending time as a couple rather than doing something sexual. I often pee when walking through the woods and I will just squat next to him, or if he is in the bathroom at the time and the toilet is free I will let myself in.

Please, allow me to tell you about this morning as an example. It was about 9am and I had been up for a short while, drank two coffees and what goes in must come out! I went upstairs to the bathroom and saw the door was open slightly, and my husband, Mark, was stood at the sink. I let myself in and gave him a little squeeze from behind and kissed his cheek “Good morning” I smiled.

I reached underneath my dress and lowered my white thong to my knees before gathering the fabric around my waist and sitting down on the toilet. There was nothing sexual about it, I wasn’t sat with my legs parted giving him a show, I needed a wee and my husband just happened to be in the room at the time. After a couple of seconds a loud tinkle rang out as I started peeing, my usual gentle relaxed stream and I really enjoyed having his company. I was sat leaning forward slightly with my hands near my underwear, holding my dress out of the way. I peed for about 15-20 seconds and pulled off some toilet paper as the last few trickles left my body before reaching behind to wipe myself. I usually reach between my legs but behind was so much more convenient with the dress. I dropped it beneath me into the bowl and pulled up my thong as I stood, making sure not to twist the straps and then let my dress drop as I reached behind to flush. I gave Mark another squeeze as I stood next to him at the sink and he moved aside so I could wash my hands. “I’m going to do some breakfast soon, do you want any?” He said yes please and waited with me while I washed my hands before we went downstairs together.

There was nothing sexual about this but I still enjoyed it so much.

[Kupar 13,339]

K and I wee in front of each other in the bathroom all the time. Open door bathroom policy at home, unless we have visitors 🙂 It's only very rarely sexy. Anywhere other than the bathroom though is a different matter, because it's so rare. I think there is something in the 'desensitizing' argument.

[Sophie 24,410]

I had another non sexual wee today. We were going out and I always have a wee before leaving the house, its the last thing I do before putting on my shoes. I said to Mark “I’m just off for a wee” and he told me he was feeling pretty desperate so we went upstairs together. I let him go first, leaning back against the sink talking to him while he stood at the toilet. I didn’t even try to watch the stream! It was just two people having a wee together. The discussion wasn’t sexual either, we was talking about paint! Haha. He peed for quite a while, he was definitely desperate and as he shook himself I told him not to flush. He zipped up, lowered the seat for me (❤️) and we swapped places. I  unfastened my jeans and pulled them down to my knees with my blue thong as I sat down on the toilet. I looked up at him and we continued our conversation while I waited for my stream to start and after about 10 seconds I was blessed with a gentle trickle that tinkled softly into the water below. I peed for around 5 seconds and took some toilet paper, reaching between my legs to wipe myself. I stood up, pulled up my thong followed by my jeans and we washed our hands together before going back downstairs, putting on our shoes and carrying on with our day.

[gldenwetgoose 21,487]

You may have played down the sexual nature of your wee there @Sophie with all that subterfuge about paint...

But the thought of either of you releasing the wet stuff is - in a number of our opinions - infinitely more exciting than any amount of paint drying.

Thanks for sharing a lovely moment.

[Kupar 13,339]

31 minutes ago, Sophie said:

lowered the seat for me (❤️)

Truly a gentleman of the highest quality. (But I think you knew that!)

[Loller 399]

We often pee in the toilet with the door open or with the other person in the bathroom. Completely normal for us. Sometimes my girlfriend comments on how loud or long I pee, lol.

[hornygoat24 124]

My husband and I will pee while facing each other so we can talk. He sits on the toilet and I sit on the edge of the tub. It's very nonchalant.

[Kirby23 954]

On 7/4/2024 at 3:57 PM, hornygoat24 said:

My husband and I will pee while facing each other so we can talk. He sits on the toilet and I sit on the edge of the tub. It's very nonchalant.

This is hot! Thanks for sharing!

I'm finding, through sites like Reddit and similar, that women peeing over the edge of the tub is actually pretty common? I find it hot... maybe because it's slightly "naughty"?

After you're done peeing in the tub, I assume you wipe? Where do you put the paper? Do you rinse the pee away when you're done?

One time, in college my roommates and I hosted a house party. Toward the end of the night the girls were going in the bathroom to pee in groups of 3-4. One would pee in the toilet, and the other 2-3 would pee in the tub. Hot.

[hornygoat24 124]

22 hours ago, Kirby23 said:

Ater you're done peeing in the tub, I assume you wipe? Where do you put the paper? Do you rinse the pee away when you're done?

Haha no I usually just pull up my pants and turn on the faucet for a moment to rinse it down.

[chubbyjack 276]

35 years of marriage and not once have either one of us seen the other pee.  

   That was my request when we first moved in together.   I believe somethings should be private.

   Peeing as a function turns me off but peeing in sexual situations I find hot.