How did potty training go for you as a kid?

[SexyPeePeeHottie 84]

A friend of mine with whom I often have conversations about my peeing on the floor of public restrooms fetish and we psychoanalyze it, suggested I ask my mom how potty training went when I was little. What do people on here think of this?  Have people on here in their adult lives asked their parents this question? How did this go? What about people who have the naughty pee fetish that passes down through generations? If the naughty pee fetish has passed down generations in my family I don't know about it. 

[gryffindork 18]

Interesting topic. I'll share mine though I don't think it's held any influence over my pee fetish (see my first post)

My folks say I was pretty good until my brother was born, then I started having accidents for attention, though I don't really remember this at all.

I wet myself one time in grade 2 or 3 as I'd been holding all day because I was scared I was going to poo at the same time (which had happened at home and I never pooed at school if I could avoid it)

 

[Carb0nBased 652]

I have been told I was in diapers longer than is typical. However, when we were told that the school that I wanted to go to required all kids to be potty trained, I finally learned, and never had an accident after learning.

[Bacardi 10,140]

I was telling my mom how much of a breeze it was with my kids and didn't get why some people had a hard time. Everyone suggested I just let them tell me when they were ready after offering undies and the potty (ours looks like a mini toilet lol). That's exactly what I did and it was smooth sailing for my kiddos. My mom told me I was 2 when she started and took to it very well. Minimal accidents and she never used pull-ups on me because she was worried they would feel too much like diapers. She told me it took me 2.5 weeks to be accident free and so was so happy to not have to buy diapers anymore lol. Subsequently I never used pull-ups on my kids for the same reason, and my daughters were 2.5 and my son was right at 2 when they decided they wanted to try. I feel like my son had more accidents than my daughters but still. Minimal. 

Maybe ease of potty training is just genetic lol.

[wjimmy 1,082]

Although there was a chamber pot under the bed when I was growing up, I don't remember using it myself or receiving any training. However, I had a favourite sex fantasy when I was about five years old. (No really!) It had a title, 'Little girl on the potty', but not much content. It was essentially an image of a girl my age squatting on a pot, to which I fell asleep.

[weequeen 1,994]

I know my potty training experience played into my pee fetish for sure probably. I wasn’t fully trained until 4, and would pee in my pull-ups. This went on until my mom said i had to learn how to pee like a big girl or else i couldn’t go to school. Then apparently it was right away I started using a toilet… so I guess I knew all along and just wanted to pee my pants? makes total sense I like pissing myself now lol

[Carb0nBased 652]

13 hours ago, weequeen said:

I know my potty training experience played into my pee fetish for sure probably. I wasn’t fully trained until 4, and would pee in my pull-ups. This went on until my mom said i had to learn how to pee like a big girl or else i couldn’t go to school. Then apparently it was right away I started using a toilet… so I guess I knew all along and just wanted to pee my pants? makes total sense I like pissing myself now lol

I guess you're my pee sister lol! Because as I said above, I was the same way. Though I'd question the direct connection to the way in which your fetish manifests itself, as my fetish is mostly about watching women pee, and not at all with wetting myself (the remainder that is NOT about watching has to do with peeing outdoors or to a small degree in urinals in public bathrooms). It's possible that having an unusual experience with potty training plants a seed of associating strong feelings in some way with urine, but I suspect more of my fetish has to do with how privately I dealt with peeing for most of my childhood (never doing it in front of peers of either sex, virtually always in a bathroom stall).
 

16 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I was telling my mom how much of a breeze it was with my kids and didn't get why some people had a hard time. Everyone suggested I just let them tell me when they were ready after offering undies and the potty (ours looks like a mini toilet lol). That's exactly what I did and it was smooth sailing for my kiddos. My mom told me I was 2 when she started and took to it very well. Minimal accidents and she never used pull-ups on me because she was worried they would feel too much like diapers. She told me it took me 2.5 weeks to be accident free and so was so happy to not have to buy diapers anymore lol. Subsequently I never used pull-ups on my kids for the same reason, and my daughters were 2.5 and my son was right at 2 when they decided they wanted to try. I feel like my son had more accidents than my daughters but still. Minimal. 

Maybe ease of potty training is just genetic lol.

It seems there are two separate things--one being the timetable of being ready to learn/starting to learn, and the other being the time from then to "mastering" the skill and the degree of success or failure.

It seems that both weequeen and I were late getting started, in part because of a lack of motivation or awareness that it was even something worth doing, yet once we had a reason to do it, we quickly learned all the way, being able to pee like an adult on a regular toilet with little to no accidents. By contrast, there are kids who are ready to try early on but make the transition quite gradually, having a significant number of accidents, possibly wetting their beds for quite a while past when they can stay dry during the day.
 

[Wolfpee 329]

I didn't ask nor remember the potty training. Only thing I remember that I did at lest wet my self 3 times under the age of 10. Twice in school and once at a theme park. But do remember I'm always peeing outside. And I had to go to the childminder place after school there were other kids there too and we sometimes share the toilet together both genders and we all watch each other, that was the best part. And I did witness other wetting too. 

 

 

[SexyPeePeeHottie 84]

I'll give a little more details about my scenario. I don't have kids. I have never been married. I have never been a daycare person. I am 36. I live 700 miles away from my parents. I'm visiting my family in about a month. My parents are old. I don't know if they know about my pee fetish. I don't know for what percent of people with the pee fetish it is genetic. If anyone in my family has a pee fetish I don't know about it. I want to ask my mom while we are talking on a park bench with no one around how potty training went when I was little. I want to bring that up casually in the middle of kindly asking questions politely trying to respectfully ask her perspective of what it was like raising me when I was little. I don't want to be full-on out to my family though about my pee fetish and addiction to it. I'm just curious from my mom's perspective how potty training went when I was too young to develop memory, and how that might have later shaped my pee fetish. If she says potty training was one of the hardest things to train you, what do you people on here recommend I respond by saying? If she responds by saying I'm sorry I was abusive when trying to potty train you, what do you people on here recommend I say in response? If she responds by saying I know about your pee fetish because you let it slip when you were in a weird state of mind, what do you recomend I say in response? I am curious what people on here recommend I say and how to go about getting more information from my mom on this topic without full-on giving the information that I have a huge naughty peeing fetish addiction that has had an impact on me and gotten stronger as I have gotten older. What ever honest advice and feedback people on here are willing to give I will be very grateful for!!

[Carb0nBased 652]

26 minutes ago, SexyPeePeeHottie said:

I'll give a little more details about my scenario. I don't have kids. I have never been married. I have never been a daycare person. I am 36. I live 700 miles away from my parents. I'm visiting my family in about a month. My parents are old. I don't know if they know about my pee fetish. I don't know for what percent of people with the pee fetish it is genetic. If anyone in my family has a pee fetish I don't know about it. I want to ask my mom while we are talking on a park bench with no one around how potty training went when I was little. I want to bring that up casually in the middle of kindly asking questions politely trying to respectfully ask her perspective of what it was like raising me when I was little. I don't want to be full-on out to my family though about my pee fetish and addiction to it. I'm just curious from my mom's perspective how potty training went when I was too young to develop memory, and how that might have later shaped my pee fetish. If she says potty training was one of the hardest things to train you, what do you people on here recommend I respond by saying? If she responds by saying I'm sorry I was abusive when trying to potty train you, what do you people on here recommend I say in response? If she responds by saying I know about your pee fetish because you let it slip when you were in a weird state of mind, what do you recomend I say in response? I am curious what people on here recommend I say and how to go about getting more information from my mom on this topic without full-on giving the information that I have a huge naughty peeing fetish addiction that has had an impact on me and gotten stronger as I have gotten older. What ever honest advice and feedback people on here are willing to give I will be very grateful for!!

It's easy to ask this without raising any fetishy suspicion. Just say that maybe someone at work was talking about potty training his or her kids and you wondered how it had been for you.

If she says it was difficult to train you, then you can maybe ask what age you were when you finally got trained, what method finally worked on you, and whether you had accidents after that.

I doubt she would say she was abusive when training you! Despite what some therapy-oriented TV shows might make it look like, most parents aren't abusive to their kids. And if yours had been in this instance, they would have almost certainly been abusive in other ways you would remember. And few abusive parents would actually admit that they are rather than attempting to justify their behavior somehow.

And I also doubt she knows about your fetish unless you told her. And even if they knew, I think most parents wouldn't say anything to not start a very awkward conversation.

[EmilyPissing69 94]

I know that when I was younger according to my mum I  struggled with potty training. As I spent most of my first school pissing myself. 

[Moore007 474]

My mom said I was easy and did as she told me to from early age. I think my kink comes from me playing with two older girls during my childhood. They introduced me to peeing everywhere and my mum told me it was a hazel having them at home since me and the girls played naked together. They peed in my parents bed and we all peed in my bed and on the carpets and in the garden. My mother said she had to clean every time the girls came over to play with me and she was sometimes really upset when she found pee puddles I my room or in my parents bedroom. 

[weequeen 1,994]

21 hours ago, SexyPeePeeHottie said:

I'll give a little more details about my scenario. I don't have kids. I have never been married. I have never been a daycare person. I am 36. I live 700 miles away from my parents. I'm visiting my family in about a month. My parents are old. I don't know if they know about my pee fetish. I don't know for what percent of people with the pee fetish it is genetic. If anyone in my family has a pee fetish I don't know about it. I want to ask my mom while we are talking on a park bench with no one around how potty training went when I was little. I want to bring that up casually in the middle of kindly asking questions politely trying to respectfully ask her perspective of what it was like raising me when I was little. I don't want to be full-on out to my family though about my pee fetish and addiction to it. I'm just curious from my mom's perspective how potty training went when I was too young to develop memory, and how that might have later shaped my pee fetish. If she says potty training was one of the hardest things to train you, what do you people on here recommend I respond by saying? If she responds by saying I'm sorry I was abusive when trying to potty train you, what do you people on here recommend I say in response? If she responds by saying I know about your pee fetish because you let it slip when you were in a weird state of mind, what do you recomend I say in response? I am curious what people on here recommend I say and how to go about getting more information from my mom on this topic without full-on giving the information that I have a huge naughty peeing fetish addiction that has had an impact on me and gotten stronger as I have gotten older. What ever honest advice and feedback people on here are willing to give I will be very grateful for!!

I think asking about potty training with a few other "what was I like as a kid" won't make it suspicious. first you could ask what age did i say my first word, when did I start walking, what was it like when I started sleep in my big kid bed, what was potty training like... it would not normal development questions when grouped together i feel like! as a parent it would just be another thing about their kid growing up and wouldn't be thought of as kinky to talk about potty training.

[SexyPeePeeHottie 84]

I'm also thinking when talking to my mom about how potty training went it will be helpful to tell her I'm working with my therapist about early childhood memories and knowing how some little details of my earliest days went will help me process things. 

[SnakeFace 378]

I already know how mine went. Getting me on to the potty wasn't too bad, but I did have accidents often, just from holding it in and not wanting to go. Getting me to go from that to the big toilet was the hardest though, the toilet we had at the time was old and made a lot of noise when filling with water, so it always scared me as a kid and then I was just scared to use it. That then led me to being afraid of public toilets from them being dirty, and even now I really hate using a public toilet if it is dirty.

[wettingman 574]

I never even thought of asking my parents about my potty training. Talking about body functions like that was strictly taboo. I don't remember my own potty training . However, I am the oldest of three ; my younger siblings are three and four years younger than me so I remember some bit and pieces.

 My parents as well as the nuns in Catholic school were very strict . Basic potty training aside, I clearly remember that we were expected to be able to control ourselves. Any sign of desperation  or much worse an accident was  strictly forbidden, leading to punishment. We were told we were weak and babyish. I do recall holding myself in front of them because, I had to go very badly and was reprimanded in front of everyone.  Asking to be excused in school was beyond embarrassing.  We were given the third degree, told to grow up and asked why it was so urgent, in front of the class. It was impossible to get past the principal's office on the way to the restroom from most classes, where students were subject to another blistering interrogation. So I never once asked to go. I did quietly hold myself and squirm under my desk sometimes, if I was really desperate. I never wet in school itself.

As a result I was afraid to admit I needed to pee to anyone, even if  outside of home or school my pee dancing, holding myself made it obvious. The ironic thing is occasionally I couldn't hold it any longer and I actually wet my pants, the very thing that was to be avoided. I got called on it by friends a couple times, even though it was mostly my briefs that got soaked, little was noticeable in my pants themselves. What was noticeable, I had been increasingly frantic and suddenly stopped struggling altogether. These accidents were through my early teens, except one bigger incident when I was 18. That time being able to hold more pee longer losing control meant my outer pants were noticeably wet. I was able to hide my wettings or my pants dried and my parents never found out.

A video I saw recently on Youtube  an expert said this type of childhood have lead to a pee fetish.

[MrTinkle 308]

My dad would often take me outside to practice my aim on trees and the side of the house. I was encouraged to pee outside while playing out there. 

[IdoPiddleSome2 10]

I'm in my 70s; training when I was *that* age was mostly corporal punishment. No one called the police or sent hordes of trauma-counselors in the early 1950s. It was just how it was done. I didn't actually need any 'motivation' to control my poo, because that stuff BURNED. I had all the reason I needed, right there, to discover how to govern it! With my Pee it was different. Nobody (parents) wanted to have the oldest child still wetting himself, it seemed. Somewhere between age 2 & 3 (maybe 3+) I processed the CONCEPT of governing my Pee, but I was never converted. I learned to avoid punishment; I didn't buy into it being wrong to wet myself. It was only important to avoid punishment (and I got fairly good at that).

At 52, I had a Prostate Infection that had me in the Hospital a few days--Doctors giving me only ~50/50 odds I'd make it. Back home, I realized I'd resumed wetting myself (just a wee bit) involuntarily. I only felt delighted; I had a bulletproof excuse to wet myself & loved every piddling Peeventure. (I see that red wavy line; Pee + adventure = Peeventure) So, in 2002, I began (happily) to educate myself about Disposable Adult-Diapers. I've never bought any except OTC in public view (which tickled my [admittedly] infantile Exhibitionism). Now & then I see a lady eyeing the front of my pants (or my shirt above that), as if she knows something. I love it!