Probably been asked a million times

[PunchJeans35 22]

What's your favourite pee kink?

[WillAndSarah 197]

We're all about peeing during sex - sometimes as its own act, sometimes incorporated into another act, for example she might start peeing while he's going down on her ,which is among his top 3 favorite things to do pretty much ever, and high on the list for her as well.

We also enjoy nonchalant peeing, either as a sort of second choice when the situation isn't appropriate for sex, and also sometimes just because it feels intimate to us. For him, a great morning is one where he gets a peek at her peeing casually while standing in front of the mirror getting ready. Doesn't happen a lot but it's a real treat when it does. We don't know exactly what it is, but something about being able to pee freely around each other just feels so intimate.

[Peesfully 237]

Peeing a full bladder under the table at restaurants. Also peeing a full bladder while talking to someone close by but they can't see what you're doing... such as at the order window at a restaurant or in front of a counter when the other person is behind it.

[PissDude 479]

Fantasies work great in your own mind where everybody has to play by your rules. Not so much in real life. I know what works in my mind, but I doubt I’d ever find a woman who would go for it. 

[WillAndSarah 197]

 

2 hours ago, PissDude said:

Fantasies work great in your own mind where everybody has to play by your rules. Not so much in real life. I know what works in my mind, but I doubt I’d ever find a woman who would go for it. 

 

Hey there! Mind if we ask what are these fantasies of yours, about which you believe you'll never find a woman who'd want to play them out?

I know that's a heck of a thing for a stranger like me to ask, but after all, we are here in this community full of people who love peeing, of all things, and besides, in all likelihood neither we nor anyone here on Peefans will ever know your real-life identity anyway (unless you choose to tell them), so really what have you got to lose? Besides, you might just find that it's a relief to put them out there, even if all that means is that you anonymously tell it to some strangers on the internet. Anyways, if you do choose to tell us, feel free to do so via PM rather than here on the public forum if you feel more comfortable that way.

The reason we ask is because what you said hits very close to home for us. Specifically, he spent the first decades of his life believing - as it sounds like you might be believing now - that there was no way he would ever be able to really open up to ANYONE about his desires and fantasies, let alone opening up to a romantic partner, let alone to a romantic partner who turns out to be perfectly able and willing to satisfy them! But that all turned out to be totally wrong, and we consider our life together to be one that stands as living proof that IT IS POSSIBLE. And please believe me when I say that we are nobody special, really; if we did it, then anyone can do it.

Obviously we don't know what sort of fantasies you might have, but whatever they are, we think it's a sure bet that there ARE other people out there who are either already into it themselves, or might just have a degree of interest or intrigue about exploring it, or, like our better half (Sarah), might never have thought about it before but are simply willing to give it a sincere try. Now, here we are, and she loves it just as much as he does (still blows his mind, but it's true)! Sure, it took some time to get from her having no interest in pee whatsoever to enjoying it really quite a lot, very often, as part of sex and in other ways as well. But we did it, and now, she loves it just as much as he does (still blows his mind, but it's a fact)! And you know what else? That journey was not difficult or complicated or tiresome or stressful; on the contrary, we would both describe that process as overall pleasant, peaceful, and liberating; one which ultimately led to a significant reduction in stress in our relationship, greater intimacy and enhanced appreciation for one another, and greater sense of well-being for all involved. Far from being anything to fear or avoid, we think that, if anything, this process could be one worth looking forward to. And why not?

We have a LOT of thoughts about this topic, and have even been working on a somewhat lengthy post about a very similar topic, but we also don't want to sound preachy or give unsolicited advice. Regardless of whether or not you choose to anonymously divulge your fantasies here, please do reach out to us if you'd like to talk, for whatever reason. Our heart goes out to you, and we hope you find some measure of encouragement in this post as well as in this community in general. We hope to hear from you; take care. And unless you have desires that are illegal or harmful to others, then please don't be ashamed of them, whatever they may be. You deserve better than to live with undeserved shame; we all do, and what's more, we suspect that, one day, you might just discover that these unusual or "bizarre" fantasies of yours - the ones you don't think anyone else would ever possibly share or want to partake in - they're actually pretty fucking cool to have after all, once you manage to sort things out in whatever way is right for you. Easier said than done, but still. It's okay to be have them (as long as we're not talking about anything illegal, or anything that violates consent, or anything that causes harm to nonconsenting others).

Edited May 25, 2023 by WillAndSarah
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[ABBYPEEGODDESS 1,746]

My favorite pee kink is close tie between nonchalantly peeing and power pissing I partake in both kinks if I have to make a list here’s what it would look like.

10 being my least favorite to 1 being my favorite. 
 

10. Diaper 

9. wetting (Clothes)

8. Catheter 

7. Voyeurism 

6. Holding/ Desperation

5. Bed wetting

4. Golden showers

3. Public peeing 

2. Nonchalant pee 

1.  Power pissing

[WillAndSarah 197]

 

11 minutes ago, ABBYPEEGODDESS said:

My favorite pee kink is close tie between nonchalantly peeing and power pissing I partake in both kinks if I have to make a list here’s what it would look like.

10 being my least favorite to 1 being my favorite. 
 

10. Diaper 

9. wetting (Clothes)

8. Catheter 

7. Voyeurism 

6. Holding/ Desperation

5. Bed wetting

4. Golden showers

3. Public peeing 

2. Nonchalant pee 

1.  Power pissing

Can you tell us more about this idea of power pissing? This is not something we've really explored, but it sounds intriguing and we'd be interested to learn about it, such as what sort of activities fall under this category of "power pissing", how do you (and/or others) typically like to engage in it, etc. Happy peeing!

Incidentally, both nonchalant peeing and golden showers are things that we frequently enjoy doing together :)

Edited May 25, 2023 by WillAndSarah

[ABBYPEEGODDESS 1,746]

1 hour ago, WillAndSarah said:

 

Can you tell us more about this idea of power pissing? This is not something we've really explored, but it sounds intriguing and we'd be interested to learn about it, such as what sort of activities fall under this category of "power pissing", how do you (and/or others) typically like to engage in it, etc. Happy peeing!

Incidentally, both nonchalant peeing and golden showers are things that we frequently enjoy doing together 🙂

So the definition most commonly use is “The act of holding ones urine for an extended period of time and the forcing it out at a high speed and velocity”

I don’t really need to hold my pee as much since  I have strong pelvic muscles and a big bladder a shorter urethra and a small urethra opening I can shoot my pee like a race horse. My personal record is 15 ft forward and and 8 ft up. 
 

Power pissing can be used for measuring distance contest or cleaning walls and toilets. 

[Guest Wetling]

Nonchalant rewettings and pissing on the unprotected bed. It's so naughty. ☺️ But drinking it is also high on the list. 

Edited May 25, 2023 by Wetling

[Bacardi 10,134]

Naughty peeing on the carpet and golden showers are my top two, with naughty peeing being my number one. Also mildly into wetting and consuming it in small quantities as long as the person it's coming from/I'm wetting for is a close friend. It's not something I enjoy doing alone.

[WillAndSarah 197]

6 hours ago, ABBYPEEGODDESS said:

So the definition most commonly use is “The act of holding ones urine for an extended period of time and the forcing it out at a high speed and velocity"

(just Sarah here for this post)

Oh wow. Yeah that is definitely something we both would find very exciting. Will's not with me right now like he usually is for this stuff, but I'm practically certain he'll be interested in this when I show him. Glad you mentioned it!

I'm really wondering, how much of this activity is a skill that can be trained or learned, versus how much of it depends on one's genetics or other relatively unchangeable characteristics?

Also, I never knew that having a full bladder was related to achieving higher velocity or flow! That alone is a helpful tip for me. Oh and it also might explain why my first-of-the-day pees are almost always more powerful than the rest! It's fairly common for him to ask me for heavier streams sometimes, which I'm not always confident I'll be able to deliver. So it seems power pissing be just the right thing for us to start getting into next!

 

> I don’t really need to hold my pee as much

Okay so you don't really need to... but also, hey, why not do it anyway? Lol.

More pee, more fun, right? I think that's how it goes for us anyway.

> I have strong pelvic muscles and a big bladder a shorter urethra and a small urethra

If he were here he would for sure say that you sound hot. Lol, I'm kinda joking there (in reality he wouldn't say that to you to protect our relationship. But he might possibly say it to me in privacy). Kinda wish I knew how to talk about that stuff so I could learn how better to turn him on. He loves when I talk about that sort of stuff, which is almost never, because honestly I don't really know what most of that means other than "big bladder." (for context, I'm a newcomer to this fetish, only been into it for a couple years whereas he's been into it for as long as he can remember. So there's a significant knowledge gap.)

Pelvic MUSCLES... hmm, so I assume it's possible to work out those muscles, right? Is that what Kegels are? And is that the same as muscles you use to push pee out?

 

> Opening I can shoot my pee like a race horse. My personal record is 15 ft forward and and 8 ft up.

Okay well now I can't let him read this at all because what you said just there falls under the category of what we as a couple like to call sexy pillow talk. That's MY job; you can't do that!

Kidding of course. I think it's interesting that you took the trouble to measure that - I wonder, was this something that you typically do alone, or with other people? If with others, is there like a community for this, or are this more of a thing that's done between lovers? Are you taking measurements because you have particular goals around this, or, if not, then what motivates you to take notice of such measurements? I know that's a lot of questions, hope it's not bothering you, it's just that this topic is really interesting and relevant to me, and yet I know so little about it.

Jesus 15 feet forward and 8 feet up? That is... wow, I would like to see that (and for the record Will is not allowed to see that lol). I would really  learn to do that myself, if that's possible. I think he probably showed me some porn where I saw some girls who might've been able to achieve something like that (damn it, what was her name, now I really want to go watch), but my own personal record is called, "From laying belly-up with my back flat against the bed, I can hit as high as the peephole on a door that is about 6ft away from the bed". Not an exact measurement but I'm pretty sure that amounts to nowhere near your stats.

I notice you measured distance, but you didn't mention anything about flow rate, which is a feature something that I think is fairly important to him (and also something that he says he finds really sexy about me; so I guess I just happen to have been born lucky in that way). It seems like flow rate might be associated with this idea of "power pissing," but then again I'm the chick that just learned about the existence of this concept today so what do I know? Nothing really. So I ask you, is that part of it? Is flow rate something that you, as somebody interested in power pissing, tend to think about?

I've never measured myself properly, but I can remember laying face-up on a bed and managing to hit the peephole on a door that must have been about 6ft away.... I thought that was pretty good but sounds like you really got me beat there. Teach me your ways!?

 

I know that's kind of a lot of questions, thank you so much for being patient with me! I'm really glad to have read this post, I think this could turn out to be very helpful for me, and in turn, for us as a couple. See ya around!

 

Edit: SINDEE JENNINGS! I had to call him and ask the name of the pornstar he showed me that got those kinds of impressive distances like you were talking about. It was driving me crazy and making me horny thinking about it, so now I'm gonna go see if I can find some of her videos to watch while I piss everywhere and probably get myself off haha.

Edited May 25, 2023 by WillAndSarah

[Kirby23 956]

I like the idea of ranking them. Here are my top five:

5. Female peeing outside, such as next to the hot tub, pool, etc., or during camping. 

4. Female peeing in the shower. My wife does this every day, and occasionally lets me watch.

3. Female nonchalant peeing. Especially "just go" moments.

2. Male peeing during sex (PIV). I do this fairly often with my wife (at least once/month).

1. Female peeing during sex (PIV). Did this a few times with my ex, 15+ years ago, but don't really remember too much about it, unfortunately.

[F0rester 165]

I greatly enjoy a woman that can both tanker a large volume and expel it forcefully, see the power pissing above.  More so if she is confident in doing so especially when standing and not concerned about being seen. Double this if she has a naughty streak too. 

 

[ABBYPEEGODDESS 1,746]

8 hours ago, WillAndSarah said:

Pelvic MUSCLES... hmm, so I assume it's possible to work out those muscles, right? Is that what Kegels are? And is that the same as muscles you use to push pee out?

Yes Pelvic and Kegels are under the same group of muscles that will help with peeing and the control and also way better sex or I heard.

8 hours ago, WillAndSarah said:

I wonder, was this something that you typically do alone, or with other people? If with others, is there like a community for this, or are this more of a thing that's done between lovers?

You can do it alone but measurements but they won’t be as accurate as if you had some one with you doing the measurements. I usually invite my best friend she has a thing for watching me me so helps me measure it.

 

8 hours ago, WillAndSarah said:

notice you measured distance, but you didn't mention anything about flow rate

My flow rate is 20 milliliters per second 

 

8 hours ago, WillAndSarah said:

I thought that was pretty good but sounds like you really got me beat there. Teach me your ways!?

Don’t worry practice makes perfect I been doing this since I was young 

[PissDude 479]

22 hours ago, WillAndSarah said:

 

 

Hey there! Mind if we ask what are these fantasies of yours, about which you believe you'll never find a woman who'd want to play them out?

I know that's a heck of a thing for a stranger like me to ask, but after all, we are here in this community full of people who love peeing, of all things, and besides, in all likelihood neither we nor anyone here on Peefans will ever know your real-life identity anyway (unless you choose to tell them), so really what have you got to lose? Besides, you might just find that it's a relief to put them out there, even if all that means is that you anonymously tell it to some strangers on the internet. Anyways, if you do choose to tell us, feel free to do so via PM rather than here on the public forum if you feel more comfortable that way.

The reason we ask is because what you said hits very close to home for us. Specifically, he spent the first decades of his life believing - as it sounds like you might be believing now - that there was no way he would ever be able to really open up to ANYONE about his desires and fantasies, let alone opening up to a romantic partner, let alone to a romantic partner who turns out to be perfectly able and willing to satisfy them! But that all turned out to be totally wrong, and we consider our life together to be one that stands as living proof that IT IS POSSIBLE. And please believe me when I say that we are nobody special, really; if we did it, then anyone can do it.

Obviously we don't know what sort of fantasies you might have, but whatever they are, we think it's a sure bet that there ARE other people out there who are either already into it themselves, or might just have a degree of interest or intrigue about exploring it, or, like our better half (Sarah), might never have thought about it before but are simply willing to give it a sincere try. Now, here we are, and she loves it just as much as he does (still blows his mind, but it's true)! Sure, it took some time to get from her having no interest in pee whatsoever to enjoying it really quite a lot, very often, as part of sex and in other ways as well. But we did it, and now, she loves it just as much as he does (still blows his mind, but it's a fact)! And you know what else? That journey was not difficult or complicated or tiresome or stressful; on the contrary, we would both describe that process as overall pleasant, peaceful, and liberating; one which ultimately led to a significant reduction in stress in our relationship, greater intimacy and enhanced appreciation for one another, and greater sense of well-being for all involved. Far from being anything to fear or avoid, we think that, if anything, this process could be one worth looking forward to. And why not?

We have a LOT of thoughts about this topic, and have even been working on a somewhat lengthy post about a very similar topic, but we also don't want to sound preachy or give unsolicited advice. Regardless of whether or not you choose to anonymously divulge your fantasies here, please do reach out to us if you'd like to talk, for whatever reason. Our heart goes out to you, and we hope you find some measure of encouragement in this post as well as in this community in general. We hope to hear from you; take care. And unless you have desires that are illegal or harmful to others, then please don't be ashamed of them, whatever they may be. You deserve better than to live with undeserved shame; we all do, and what's more, we suspect that, one day, you might just discover that these unusual or "bizarre" fantasies of yours - the ones you don't think anyone else would ever possibly share or want to partake in - they're actually pretty fucking cool to have after all, once you manage to sort things out in whatever way is right for you. Easier said than done, but still. It's okay to be have them (as long as we're not talking about anything illegal, or anything that violates consent, or anything that causes harm to nonconsenting others).

I’ve posted many times here that I enjoy stimulation when I have to take a leak and I’d love to spend time with a woman that does too. I won’t admit it to my wife since I told my ex-wife and she tried to use it against me. Long story, but I’ve posted about it here over the years. 

[dltq 121]

I've probably said this a million times already (nothing against you), but I'm a relatively simple person. I like to keep it realistic for the most part, so popping a squat or sitting on a toilet (in a clean or acceptably clean bathroom) is where it's at for me.

There are a few clips of Naomi Bennett putting on a show that are an exception, though. I can imagine some girl (preferably someone who can sing well) playing around and teasing another girl, then putting on a show in a similar fashion (albeit lying on a table instead of a bridge or whatever) like this story. Often times I can imagine the girl who puts on the show telling the other girl something like "you do not know how much power you have between your legs".

[durianfury 2,026]

On 5/25/2023 at 8:40 AM, WillAndSarah said:

I've never measured myself properly, but I can remember laying face-up on a bed and managing to hit the peephole on a door that must have been about 6ft away....

Jesus, that's fucking impressive! I can’t imagine what you’d do with some practice at power pissing!

[Spendapenny444 49]

I was brought up to see pee and peeing as a deeply personal and private thing, so anything involving public/communal peeing, the indignity of having my pee mixed with others' pee, seen by others or disposed of by others is kind of where my kinks lie. 

Love the feel and sensation of peeing, especially with a full bladder.

I'm a tidy person on the whole, so toilets/urinals are where it's at for me (although I guess that's pretty vanilla to many on here).

Edited May 31, 2023 by Spendapenny444