Longterm relationship

[P155wet 52]

How important is it to you that your longterm partner shares your interest in all things golden?

[P155wet 52]

To me it would be the icing on the cake but Ive lived with out it before

[P155wet 52]

Interesting thinking - I couldnt agree more

[P155wet 52]

In a sense then I think you have the best of all worlds.

First you have a loving relationship, second is she is accepting of your interest which allows you to visit sites like this openly and lastly, your wife indulges you from time to time to still give you that thrill

[Radarp 2]

I've never had the courage to raise the subject

[P155wet 52]

I've never had the courage to raise the subject

As peeing is such an everyday thing its easy to incorporate into daily talking with out seeming "perverted" and once the subject is there in the open its surprising where it could lead

[ICPN 46]

Honestly it is not a deal breaker for me if they are not interested in "the golden". Honestly I have yet to meet a girl that is, or at least willing to admit to it. I have always said though that if I did find a girl that was I would probably marry her.

[steve25805 126,156]

I have severe difficulty getting off without pee. Vanilla sexual activity without it I always end up losing interest in, and can't really perform at all much of the time without thinking about pee. When I watch porn it is almost exclusively pee porn and such that I view. Blowjobs, anal, vaginal, cunnilingus - on their own without any pee - bore me totally as a viewing spectacle.

I have never had a very long term relationship because I lose interest in the sexual side of things, and have never had a partner interested in peeing. For any long term relationship to work for me, peeing would have to be an integral part of our sex life, and my partner would have to be into it too.

[ogblaah 45]

I had an ex, she kind of got me into peeing, she loved it, but she was bats#it crazy!!! Lol Definitely would be nice to have a partner enjoy it as much as I do...

[ShyOne88 36]

This is a subject I am trying to bring up with my bf. He's hinted at it a few times but kinda takes it back. I might end up just peeing on him in the shower one day. Oops :biggrin:

[Admin 14,791]

This is a subject I am trying to bring up with my bf. He's hinted at it a few times but kinda takes it back. I might end up just peeing on him in the shower one day. Oops :biggrin:

If he's hinted at it before then it definitely sounds like you should go for it - or at least make sure you do bring it up soon. Let us know how you get on, but I'm sure it'll work out well for you. :)

[kennny 6]

My wife made it.clear she had no interest at all when i broached the subject at 15yrs into our marriage.

 

No big deal to me.

[on the porch 718]

I hope Wayne will keep me for as long as possible , I have never been so happy in my life . We have talked about marriage,  Ruth 

[peequed 20]

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

[jorel2012 231]

38 minutes ago, peequed said:

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

You're not alone.
My wife also does not want to be peed on but shares her pee with me (fortunately).

After I told my wife about my fetish, I as well felt like a weirdo but she took it with a mixture between not caring and ignoring it.
She sometimes shook her head when I came home with wet jeans but that was it.
Now I have a well working relationship with lot of sex and peeing.
Couldn't be better.
 

[Quiet V 119]

On 3/19/2024 at 2:58 AM, peequed said:

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

I’m the same though I mostly naughty pee at home so living with someone would make it difficult.

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

I'm going to speculate a little here, but not wanting to put words into anybody's mouths.

From answers that have been given to similar questions in the past,  having a 'significant other' who's also into the same flavours of pee kink would be absolute heaven.   But how do you find out someone does have the same kink - especially when you've been hiding it and keeping it to yourself for an eternity?

There can be a huge and very real fear of being kink shamed, even by a loving partner - so making it very difficult to 'come out' and discuss the kink with a new partner.   Not everyone has the confidence to take the risk.

[Quiet V 119]

17 hours ago, pguy2981 said:

Why would naughty peeing be difficult around someone else if they enjoy it the same as you?

Because I won’t tell anyone about in real life so meeting some who also enjoys it would be impossible.

[pissmarkingdc 10]

6 hours ago, Quiet V said:

Because I won’t tell anyone about in real life so meeting some who also enjoys it would be impossible.

You should definitely tell any partners!  In my experience they are willing to involve piss.

[nenTyp 657]

6 hours ago, pissmarkingdc said:

You should definitely tell any partners!  In my experience they are willing to involve piss.

Yeah at least in some capacity. When they realise they can do you a favor or have it an instant turn on option. 

[Scot_Lover 1,878]

Sometimes, you can meet your life partner, by a total accident. It happened to me in 2005, in a tiny little hotel in the UK, in a quaint little village on the border of Scotland and England. I was jet lagged, tired, still trying to come to grips with the sun in the southern sky, when I said something to the local gentry.

They were laughing over some poor girl who had wet her jeans walking home, I just said she sounded like a fun girl, and got several blank looks and a stony silence so I left them to it. The same girl turned up at the fine establishment that night, and 'the good ole boys' told her what I said. I think they wanted to see an explosion of some kind when she confronted me, but it never happened. We hit it off that night, found our mutual limits (she did everything I dreamed of) and we were married 5 months later. We also 'corrupted' another giddy slip of a girl into our way of life, but she left after 12 years or so.

I've been in hog heaven for nearly 20 years, and while her health is failing, we are still good together. If I had ignored the conversation that was going down in the bar that night, none of this would have happened.

It can happen, just be at the right place right time? There are so many people on this planet, so many different ways that people think and react, you will never know if there is no interaction with them.

[Bacardi 10,135]

I've gone nine years without a partner who is into pee and I don't mind it. My all time favorite fantasy is naughty peeing, which is something I've been doing by myself since I was a child. It would be nice, yes, and I'd love a golden shower as well, but you guys know my history. I still feel the sting of being kink shamed by my toxic ex years later. My husband would never ever treat me as badly as the ex did but I still can't bring myself to tell him.

So for now until I can marry a peefans man I'm going to continue peeing around my home when my husband is at work, have fun in the peefans universe with my friends, and not stress about it lol. I'm very happy where I am and wouldn't change it for anything.

[Remi 1,034]

While it would be pretty awesome to have a partner with the same interest in it, its not a must for me. Similar kinks would be a really great addition but not everything, a true partnership has so much more to offer. You could still enjoy this kink by yourself somehow in one way or another.

58 minutes ago, Scot_Lover said:

If I had ignored the conversation that was going down in the bar that night, none of this would have happened.

Wow, what a lovely story. Amazing that it worked out so perfectly, stuff like that happens in daydreams or fairytales (at least in mine sometimes 😅). As you said, there are countless possibilities behind every corner and every sentence if you just don't stop believing. That story is a good source of hope for anyone out there looking for just that. 

It's not impossible!

[pee89uk 61]

I have been with my wife now for 9 years and only in the last 6 or 7 months has she started to do little bits to satisfy my pee fetish.

it all started about 7 months ago, I was playing with her clit and she has orgasmed a couple of times, then she told me to stop as she felt like she was going to pee, I told her just to let it go and enjoy the feeling, she was reluctant at first but I kept rubbing her until she couldn’t take it anymore and her bladder.just burst, letting out a full stream all over my hand and all over the bed, I came at the same time and it was the most intense orgasms we have ever had. We have done this a couple of times since, but the amount of pee just soaks through the towels.

since this she has started to pee in the shower for me, as she knows how much it turns me on. My biggest turn on is girls peeing outside so hoping we can move on to this next, now she has taken a wee bit of interest in pee