Jayne78

I have never had great control even in my 20s I was prone to the odd accident. But for sure age and most certainly child birth make bladder control even more of an issue. personally I don't find being desperate fun at all as it could lead to an embarrassing accident and sometimes has. if however the readers find this fun and enjoy it then you should do so without feeling guilty

I am really not sure though I am sure they will figure it out for themselves

I would see the top specialist who would stop me having accidents. Don't worry I would continue to post pictures of me wetting but know I would be in total control of the scenario. You could still watch and I would still get the same buzz I get from reading your fantastic replies xx

Having a great holiday but now constantly quizzed by the kids having seen mums wet knickers on at least 2 occasions so far. When I went to the toilet yesterday my youngest asked if I had managed to use the toilet. I actually had to lie😕

Have you seen this first hand or has your wife wife not cleaned up?

I hope you are living up to your name and this is a joke. Whilst I fully appreciate peoples needs and turn ons some poor soul has got to clean up your mess. Why wait until in a hotel why not at home?

Women go together because one usually announces her need and the other feeling a slight urge decides to follow suit. When I was younger and went to more popular clubs we would often shared a cubicle but other than maybe discuss a boy it was just a pee. As we get older I have tended to use my own cubicle especially if I have wet my knickers or have to change my pad because I have peed in it. It's not something you want someone to know about. (She says telling everyone in the forum)

When I know the toilet is clean I always sit and I pee onto the front of the bowl when my stream at its strongest. When hovering i have wet the seat numerous times even myself if i haven't pulled my knickers down far enough

Yes I do when I have run out of pads. Not as effective but better than nothing it does offer some protection from leaks. Also used if I have started my period unexpectedly

Just hand washed some clothes and hung out on balcony. Been here 5 days I have just washed the following items as they had been peed on (by me not the kids). Not badly in some cases but clearly stained. Bikini Swimsuit 2 pairs of shorts Skirt 7 pairs of knickers

I am up at 7 each morning (I need the loo) and I sit in the sun on the balcony waiting for the family. I browse the internet news etc but not before checking this forum. I cant believe how much it has become a part of my normal day. Love it thanks all xx

Certainly haven't planed to but I can well believe it will happen out of necessity one day

OMG this has happened to me several times mainly when pregnant but it still happens even know. This is one reason I always carry spares. Did she have any other episodes? Did she have a weak bladder or was she just holding to long. She may have liked the feeling of needing to go. Thanks for letting us know.

Love to hear more of your experiences they sound something I would do that's happened to me on plenty of occasions. Good to know I'm not alone x

Flight was ok Dreamliner plenty of toilets my control is not that bad x

So halfway through our first trip abroad since having the 2 children. The main thing I have struggled with to date is the toilet facilities. At home we have 3 toilets and I can almost guarantee 1 will be free. Here we have the one which the kids seem to live in. It is also the shower. As you know I am very bad at controlling a pee urge this has led to a few desperate situations of me banging on the door, peeing in front of the kids in the bath and once peeing in a cup.

Are your wives underwear wet with pee or normal womens secretions?

Not that I'm aware of but he could well have covered his tracks after all he is good at hiding things from me

Having spoke to my hubby he admitted checking the laundry to see how wet my underwear was. He said he loved itwhen the gusset was soaked which it often is. I did tell him that with bigger accidents I rinse them and they go straight in the washer. Anyway does anyone else check there wifes / girlfriends underwear? If so how wet are they? Have you told them?

Bladder capacity is reduced as space taken up by your unborn. Also they can move and kick later in pregnancy which can cause leakage. I must have changed my pants at least twice a day with my 2nd

And my first pee after very painful as I had a couple of stitches but at least it was on the toilet

With all that squeezing and pushing its bound to happen. I peed onto towels with both my children the 2nd time at least once without ever realising it. I am sure most mid wifes have seen it 100s of times before. Believe me when trying to push a child out peeing yourself is one of the last things on your mind. In my experience its the many accidents in the next few months / years that are of more concern.

I'd say hello may I use your toilet

Don't be embarrassed accidents happen. It's hard at the time I feel down and beat myself up that as a grown woman I have wet myself but keep smiling or try too. I hope your husband was supportive i cannot stop the flow once it starts do you have the same issue

I'd tell them to get off my roof